OrdercityWeb:

Can you answer this question do ladies mean YES when they say NO?
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@the bolded you've still not proven the statement false, why give him your number why not just tell him you're not interested since you claim "from the moment he says HI you've put him in zonal region already"?
By giving him your number aren't you contradicting yourself? And you still go ahead to call him?
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Ps: I'll appreciate it if you answer the questions directly thanks.
Lalas247

I can't speak for every lady but dear
My NO is a NO
N my Yes is a YES

Who said I wasn't interested ... The interest instantly left as soon as he played kindergarten games
Money to be made no time for confused dudes ...
look getting the number in the first place na green light .. depending on how the situationship is

Look I can give number but any sign of a single foolery instant friend zone or no zone

OrdercityWeb:

I tell you bro. I once told a lady we should hangout. Then she told me she'll tell me "when she's free".
She actually meant NO, which took me some time to figure, but i mean why not just say NO and save you and I the stress of calling, chatting, hoping and all.
Why not just say NO, I'm not interested so that i can carry my kaya to another lady's life.

O su'n mi oo

Try to fall in love, there are ladies that make sense sha...just put your hustle on, have an open mind, and you can find love when you least expect...

supersystemsng:


Okay oh.. by the way, those hips are not genuine... post a pic of you standing up

Lol u must be new here ....

If it's not genuine them Kim k and amber Rose are virgins

Lalas247:


I can't speak for every lady but dear
My NO is a NO
N my Yes is a YES

Who said I wasn't interested ... The interest instantly left as soon as he played kindergarten games
Money to be made no time for confused dudes ...
look getting the number in the first place na green light .. depending on how the situationship is

Look I can give number but any sign of a single foolery instant friend zone or no zone

ibu strict bae, check this out Look I can give number but any sign of a single foolery instant friend zone or no zone


You'll be strict oh... what about giving people second chances they well deserve?

supersystemsng:



I feel for you, i'm sorry on her behalf, if she did this, it's not because she's confused...but wants to save you the heart break from hearing an outright NO, for this i hail the lady, she didn't feel you as relationship material..

But still why not just say I'm not interested. Besides its not because of the bolded because she had told me know an outright NO before when i asked her out. We were on friends level now. She's quite older than myself.

So she could have saved my time, money, thoughts by simply telling me IT WOULDN'T BE POSSIBLE OR SHE'S NOT INTERESTED. SIMPLE!

supersystemsng:


Okay oh.. by the way, those hips are not genuine... post a pic of you standing up

Hmm if it's not genuine them Kim k and Amber Rose are Virgins and born again christians

U don dey confuse urself don't derail

Lalas247:

Lol u must be new here ....

If it's not genuine them Kim k and amber Rose are virgins

Trust me, been around NL since NL, your hips are not my primary objectives nau...post a pic standing up and stop trying to deflect.. are you a tennis player? you wan swerve abi?

supersystemsng:


I was the best in Maths and soared high in Further Mathematics back in the days, The best in Chemistry and ranked one of the best in Physics...We're hanging out here...

What did you score in maths too, because " the typical "

It's just not okay to be the best in maths, but to know how fallacious some statistics could be. Especially when speaking for such number of women.

So, I ask again..you mean every 8 out of 10 women [comprising billions of women] do not know what they want in a partner?

Or are you men ignorant of the fact that you could like a man but certain circumstances won't make it favourable in the long run.
...as a lady grows older, it's also normal she desires less superficial trait in a man. She seeks more of stability and commitment, not good looks.

supersystemsng:


ibu strict bae, check this out Look I can give number but any sign of a single foolery instant friend zone or no zone


You'll be strict oh... what about giving people second chances they well deserve?

Depends ...If God speaks to me or if he suddenly becomes a stallion

Either way kolewerk gotta go nice chatting will be back later

supersystemsng:


Trust me, been around NL since NL, your hips are not my primary objectives nau...post a pic standing up and stop trying to deflect.. are you a tennis player? you wan swerve abi?

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OrdercityWeb:

Hi Pocohantas, kindly address the claims in post. Let's not derail with statistics here.
Thanks

What the hell is this one saying.
Someone says more than 80% of ladies don't know what they want. You agree and I ask for clarification...then you say I am derailing...how is that derailing? Isn't it on the topic...

Please!! I am addressing that claim. I want to know how he came about it. It's not derailing!!!!

OrdercityWeb:

But still why not just say I'm not interested. Besides its not because of the bolded because she had told me know an outright NO before when i asked her out. We were on friends level now. She's quite older than myself.

So she could have saved my time, money, thoughts by simply telling me IT WOULDN'T BE POSSIBLE OR SHE'S NOT INTERESTED. SIMPLE!

I'm sorry bro.. The moment a later shrugs off, it's a NO, even if they don't say it o...


She's not at fault here...a lady many times will after a while show you the direction of the relationship..It's your job to either accept or try to change her mind...you should be asking how to change her mind and not why she didn't say NO...she said NO obviously because of some obvious reasons i think i can speculate about which can be fixed, and if you want her, you can go back for her...


Also she didn't say NO, because she was opening the door of possibility that if you changed she'll say yes, if she said an outright NO, and you measure up later she would lose, so she's been practical here...She's an investor that doesn't want to lose out on what could be a deal breaker in the future but isn't ripe for the moment..You dig?

Lalas247:


I can't speak for every lady but dear
My NO is a NO
N my Yes is a YES

Who said I wasn't interested ... The interest instantly left as soon as he played kindergarten games
Money to be made no time for confused dudes ...
look getting the number in the first place na green light .. depending on how the situationship is

Look I can give number but any sign of a single foolery instant friend zone or no zone

Then you just successfully contradicted yourself. If your NO means NO why give him "green light". You just said from the moment a guy says "Hi" you have known whether its yes or no.
So what you're trying to say is you're in between yes or no. Isnt that confusion?

Lalas247:

Depends ...If God speaks to me or if he suddenly becomes a stallion

Either way kolewerk gotta go nice chatting will be back later

What audacity, i love audacious people...we need meet oh... No worries

Lalas247:

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Follow you ke, and your guy will send arabian terrorist after me...Just upload the real pic on ya profile babe

OrdercityWeb:

Then you just successfully contradicted yourself. If your NO means NO why give him "green light". You just said from the moment a guy says "Hi" you have known whether its yes or no.
So what you're trying to say is you're in between yes or no. Isnt that confusion?

She meant NO, but it isn't an absolute NO, she wants to see some things and may say YES later....after prophets na woman. She's not seeing something you need to show....bro, work on it...

OrdercityWeb:

Then you just successfully contradicted yourself. If your NO means NO why give him "green light". You just said from the moment a guy says "Hi" you have known whether its yes or no.
So what you're trying to say is you're in between yes or no. Isnt that confusion?

She meant NO, but it isn't an absolute NO, she wants to see some things and may say YES later....after prophets na woman. She's not seeing something you need to show....bro, work on it......

pocohantas:


It's just not okay to be the best in maths, but to know how fallacious some statistics could be. Especially when speaking for such number of women.

So, I ask again..you mean every 8 out of 10 women [comprising billions of women] do not know what they want in a partner?

Or are you men ignorant of the fact that you could like a man but certain circumstances won't make it favourable in the long run.
...as a lady grows older, it's also normal she desires less superficial trait in a man. She seeks more of stability and commitment, not good looks.

Well... i'm still drunk, maybe it's affecting me....

supersystemsng:


I'm sorry bro.. The moment a later shrugs off, it's a NO, even if they don't say it o...


She's not at fault here...a lady many times will after a while show you the direction of the relationship..It's your job to either accept or try to change her mind...you should be asking how to change her mind and not why she didn't say NO...she said NO obviously because of some obvious reasons i think i can speculate about which can be fixed, and if you want her, you can go back for her...


Also she didn't say NO, because she was opening the door of possibility that if you changed she'll say yes, if she said an outright NO, and you measure up later she would lose, so she's been practical here...She's an investor that doesn't want to lose out on what could be a deal breaker in the future but isn't ripe for the moment..You dig?

Bro SHE IS CONFUSED
You too read what you wrote na shey you didn't have headache ni?
Bro this wasn't a relationship she had said NO already. So what "investing" was she investing?

And i still asked again i kept on reminding her "if you're not interested LET ME KNOW. SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING"..
See bro leave matter. I admit most of them are "investors" (confused people).

OrdercityWeb:

Then you just successfully contradicted yourself. If your NO means NO why give him "green light". You just said from the moment a guy says "Hi" you have known whether its yes or no.
So what you're trying to say is you're in between yes or no. Isnt that confusion?

Lol what are u typing seff

So you like a girl u give her your number
But maybe u find out she got a dude living with her .. so u will still be trying ur luck Are you not confused

I said any sign of foolery!!! If there is no foolery we ride on
So what is contradicting about that .. look look if u the type to meet a girl and when she starts cheating or demanding money or whatever foolery u guys don't like .. will u stay there ?? The and to that and your comment



. it's like saying getting a divorce is a contradiction of marriage

OrdercityWeb:

Bro SHE IS CONFUSED
You too read what you wrote na shey you didn't have headache ni?
Bro this wasn't a relationship she had said NO already. So what "investing" was she investing?

And i still asked again i kept on reminding her "if you're not interested LET ME KNOW. SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING"..
See bro leave matter. I admit most of them are "investors" (confused people).

No, read what i commented about earlier on..She doesn't want to say an outright NO because it will close the doors permanently, which is best left ajar...Okay, let me make a guesstimate why i feel she said NO...

Its simply because, (from my own bias o ) she doesn't see you as someone that can offer her stability on the long run, i.e. financial stability... to be able to get a YES from ladies as they tend to mature, even if the cash isn't there, you can do it with your attributes, your work-dexterity and your skills, flash a bit here and there and you'll see the difference...I hope others can shed more light on this...

supersystemsng:




She meant NO, but it isn't an absolute NO, she wants to see some things and may say YES later....after prophets na woman. She's not seeing something you need to show....bro, work on it......

Bro its still confusion. You can simply say i don't like you bla bla. Not " she means NO but not absolute NO" What kind of confusion is that?
You put the guy in confusion you yourself you don't even know what you want.
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Can you answer this, wouldn't there be always someone better than any guy she says YES to?
So if you can't really identify what you want by simply saying an ABSOLUTE YES OR NO. Then she's confused?

OrdercityWeb:

Bro its still confusion. You can simply say i don't like you bla bla. Not " she means NO but not absolute NO" What kind of confusion is that?
You put the guy in confusion you yourself you don't even know what you want.
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Can you answer this, wouldn't there be always someone better than any guy she says YES to?
So if you can't really identify what you want by simply saying an ABSOLUTE YES OR NO. Then she's confused?

If she says NO and you become a megastar tomorrow, you think she won't be pained? So partial NO means i can change my mind...that's why i said its an investor's mindset

supersystemsng:



No, read what i commented about earlier on..She doesn't want to say an outright NO because it will close the doors permanently, which is best left ajar...Okay, let me make a guesstimate why i feel she said NO...

Its simply because, (from my own bias o ) she doesn't see you as someone that can offer her stability on the long run, i.e. financial stability... to be able to get a YES from ladies as they tend to mature, even if the cash isn't there, you can do it with your attributes, your work-dexterity and your skills, flash a bit here and there and you'll see the difference...I hope others can shed more light on this...

Lol bro don't derail. Stop making the post about me.
You yourself have admitted they are confused but you're just using semantics to play around.
I only used that scenario as an example.
I gave other examples in the thread. Even at that a simple NO would have sufficed.
Have a good day

supersystemsng:


Well... i'm still drunk, maybe it's affecting me....

Don't get me started... respect 'us'.

OrdercityWeb:

Lol bro don't derail. Stop making the post about me.
You yourself have admitted they are confused but you're just using semantics to play around.
I only used that scenario as an example.
I gave other examples in the thread. Even at that a simple NO would have sufficed.
Have a good day

Okay Okay..Well, below 25, 80% of ladies act confused, there's a crisis of not knowing what they want...allow me quote the stats again, 80% of ladies below 25, from 24, maturity begins to build up, the case is worsen when they're 23, chai at 23, the confusion in their heads is huge...

supersystemsng:


If she says NO and you become a megastar tomorrow, you think she won't be pained? So partial NO means i can change my mind...that's why i said its an investor's mindset

All these words you're using; "investor mindset".
Is just toying with semanics, what you're avoiding is the word CONFUSED.
Anyone whk doesn't stand either with YES OR NO is a confused and unstable person. Thanks for your contribution though.

OrdercityWeb:

All these words you're using; "investor mindset".
Is just toying with semanics, what you're avoiding is the word CONFUSED.
Anyone whk doesn't stand either with YES OR NO is a confused and unstable person. Thanks for your contribution though.

No, for the sake of the future they can't say NO outrightly

supersystemsng:


Okay Okay..Well, below 25, 80% of ladies act confused, there's a crisis of not knowing what they want...allow me quote the stats again, 80% of ladies below 25, from 24, maturity begins to build up, the case is worsen when they're 23, chai at 23, the confusion in their heads is huge...

EOD. But still its not all ladies older than 25 that are "matured" though. The lady in my example is 30 and I'm in my 20's.
My point is they should be honest and direct and stop 'merrygorounding' about. Know what you want and say it and stop confusing yourself and everyone around.

OrdercityWeb:

EOD. But still its not all ladies older than 25 that are "matured" though. The lady in my example is 30 and I'm in my 20's.
My point is they should be honest and direct and stop 'merrygorounding' about. Know what you want and say it and stop confusing yourself and everyone around.

k..EOD

supersystemsng:


No, for the sake of the future they can't say NO outrightly

Then that's Confusion. Which future?
So if it's you a lady but in a confused and uncertain state, that's the person you'd accept in the future?
That's very unwise bro.

supersystemsng:



k..EOD

Thanks. Appreciate.
Forgive the tone. I'm just a pasionate person.
Gracias much.