Goodday my fellow nairalanders...
Am not sure anyone have found his or herself in an unwanted relationship just as mine.. Despite the sleepless night,headache and pain you are passing through,you still find it difficult to quit....


The last i have a serious relationship was far back in 2012. The girl cheat alot and i do forgive her of her unrightousness...
She was impregnated while am away for my Nysc,thats how the story end.


Ever since i only date without loving. Countless of ladies have come my way and gone without having a regret for lossing any.
Not that am treating them badly bcoz of my experience,bt i dont just have the zeal to love.


I meet these young lady through a friend on this blessed evening(though,i do see her occassionally bt we dont talk,only exchange greetings). Things started well and perfect. I love her whole heartedly from the onset she told me YES. Within myself,i thought av meet the Mrs RIGHT.


As times goes on,i get to know her better. She was into multiple relationship. She played her game so smart that i doubt am judging her wrongly.

I was chanced to go through her phone one day. I went through the inbox,i found nothing(even all the love msgs i sent to her wasnt there).

Decide to go through her sent item,there i found alot of msgs she sent out to people....

I comfronted her with the msgs and she got angry,saying she didnt want to hurt me by saying she was into multiple relationship before she met me and that she has been trying to quit them all.



I keep observing her behaviour since then. I observe when any of them called her,she either tell them to call back or she just talk to them like a normal friend,hang up on them without them concluding their converstion,give wrong response to their question or pretend the ntwk is bad.


This days she has been acting such way to me which make me think she is seeing them behind me. She missed my calls often this days especially weekends and late in the evening on weekly basis.


I complained but she act too smart and use the word ARE YOU DOUBTING ME which weak me most time.



I wish i could quit but the love i have for her is holding me down. I knw she wasnt the right person for me but i dont know why am still staying with her.


I lost the zeal to date any other lady since i met her.each time i tried to force my way,she will act straight and i will drop the ambition...

I place her high on my heart and its affecting me negatively.
I know the best i should do is to quit,but whats holding me down,i really dont know..



As anyone found him or herself in this situation? How did you overcome the problem?

Pls help a save a soul...
Thanks

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Who was she impregnating?

If you were able to read the long epistle please summarise.

sunkanmihassan1:
If you were able to read the long epistle please summarise.

He thinks his girlfriend is cheating on him...

lytech1:
I know the best i should do is to quit,but whats holding me down,i really dont know..

You knw the best thing to do already so it's your problem if you do have the balls to do it.

pasqal09:


He thinks his girlfriend is cheating on him...

That's quite disheartening.

You are going to need a strong detox from this one. She will not change unless she wants to. Maybe if it was one guy..but there seem to be many.

Creep squad massive
So you decided to go through her phone
Ding ding
No trust in the first place .....

How can you still place her high on your heart
The signs are there she even told u after you confronted her she is TRYING ... TRYING
Oga she no love u

Move on.. and get the zeal to date others till u find Mrs right
Or stay single till you are ready

You have been fried zoned.. Wise up and move on

Lalas247:

No trust in the first place .....

You ladies should stop blackmailing guys with this line, it is boring as Bleep.

This could be the power of pussy.. Her kpekus must have blindfolded u to the point of not letting her go.

You just wanna give urself hypertension

Just leave her alone
You need to stay single for a while before going into a relationship again

As far as am concerned u ve been friendzoned
At least she said she has multiple partners..she try self for opening up

babyfaceafrica:
You have been fried zoned.. Wise up and move on

she HAS convinced me am not friendzoneD with every benefit of a relationship(you shld know what i mean).
She always caution my spending each time i tried to entice her with that... Pointing 2 or 3 of my needs that the reckless spending can meet.

The only thing am not sure of IS THE POSITION I AM IN HER LIFE

If you want to know if your woman is a coded runs girl, just type her numbers on Google search and sew for yourself ...

sunkanmihassan1:
If you were able to read the long epistle please summarise.

Hahaha.

dingbang:
If you want to know if your woman is a coded runs girl, just type her numbers on Google search and sew for yourself ...

That's creative.

lytech1:


As anyone found him or herself in this situation? How did you overcome the problem?

i don't think you should be bothered about this question as you have serious issue you need to deal with first. I once said in a post that if you are deceived more than once you are the fool. It is so obvious to the blind she is seriously cheating, why will you keep such relationship. If you don't end it now i just pray it wouldn't end you. She is not ready to change and she is using your weakness against you, till you fight for yourself you will keep on being cheated on. At times you need to control your relationship as a man, it is not an easy task to keep a woman, they are flexible and needs to be cautioned most times.

Rorachy:
Hahaha.

where do you reside

dingbang:
where do you reside

Owerri, why?

Rorachy:
Owerri, why?

was kinda curious with respect to your pic... Seems familiar

lytech1:
Goodday my fellow nairalanders...
Am not sure anyone have found his or herself in an unwanted relationship just as mine.. Despite the sleepless night,headache and pain you are passing through,you still find it difficult to quit....


The last i have a serious relationship was far back in 2012. The girl cheat alot and i do forgive her of her unrightousness...
She was impregnated while am away for my Nysc,thats how the story end.


Ever since i only date without loving. Countless of ladies have come my way and gone without having a regret for lossing any.
Not that am treating them badly bcoz of my experience,bt i dont just have the zeal to love.


I meet these young lady through a friend on this blessed evening(though,i do see her occassionally bt we dont talk,only exchange greetings). Things started well and perfect. I love her whole heartedly from the onset she told me YES. Within myself,i thought av meet the Mrs RIGHT.


As times goes on,i get to know her better. She was into multiple relationship. She played her game so smart that i doubt am judging her wrongly.

I was chanced to go through her phone one day. I went through the inbox,i found nothing(even all the love msgs i sent to her wasnt there).

Decide to go through her sent item,there i found alot of msgs she sent out to people....

I comfronted her with the msgs and she got angry,saying she didnt want to hurt me by saying she was into multiple relationship before she met me and that she has been trying to quit them all.



I keep observing her behaviour since then. I observe when any of them called her,she either tell them to call back or she just talk to them like a normal friend,hang up on them without them concluding their converstion,give wrong response to their question or pretend the ntwk is bad.


This days she has been acting such way to me which make me think she is seeing them behind me. She missed my calls often this days especially weekends and late in the evening on weekly basis.


I complained but she act too smart and use the word ARE YOU DOUBTING ME which weak me most time.



I wish i could quit but the love i have for her is holding me down. I knw she wasnt the right person for me but i dont know why am still staying with her.


I lost the zeal to date any other lady since i met her.each time i tried to force my way,she will act straight and i will drop the ambition...

I place her high on my heart and its affecting me negatively.
I know the best i should do is to quit,but whats holding me down,i really dont know..



As anyone found him or herself in this situation? How did you overcome the problem?

Pls help a save a soul...
Thanks

Your composition and language structure is really poor for a graduate

Apina:

Your composition and language structure is really poor for a graduate

i stand to be corrected sir.
Thanx for your observation

lytech1:

she HAS convinced me am not friendzoneD with every benefit of a relationship(you shld know what i mean).
She always caution my spending each time i tried to entice her with that... Pointing 2 or 3 of my needs that the reckless spending can meet.

The only thing am not sure of IS THE POSITION I AM IN HER LIFE

chain..you are deep.in the zone

OP . You may not decide to end the relationship at once just stop taking her serious since she can't change and see the relationship ending on it's own.
make her less in your priorities .