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Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by lytech1(m): 6:57pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Goodday my fellow nairalanders... Am not sure anyone have found his or herself in an unwanted relationship just as mine.. Despite the sleepless night,headache and pain you are passing through,you still find it difficult to quit.... The last i have a serious relationship was far back in 2012. The girl cheat alot and i do forgive her of her unrightousness... She was impregnated while am away for my Nysc,thats how the story end. Ever since i only date without loving. Countless of ladies have come my way and gone without having a regret for lossing any. Not that am treating them badly bcoz of my experience,bt i dont just have the zeal to love. I meet these young lady through a friend on this blessed evening(though,i do see her occassionally bt we dont talk,only exchange greetings). Things started well and perfect. I love her whole heartedly from the onset she told me YES. Within myself,i thought av meet the Mrs RIGHT. As times goes on,i get to know her better. She was into multiple relationship. She played her game so smart that i doubt am judging her wrongly. I was chanced to go through her phone one day. I went through the inbox,i found nothing(even all the love msgs i sent to her wasnt there). Decide to go through her sent item,there i found alot of msgs she sent out to people.... I comfronted her with the msgs and she got angry,saying she didnt want to hurt me by saying she was into multiple relationship before she met me and that she has been trying to quit them all. I keep observing her behaviour since then. I observe when any of them called her,she either tell them to call back or she just talk to them like a normal friend,hang up on them without them concluding their converstion,give wrong response to their question or pretend the ntwk is bad. This days she has been acting such way to me which make me think she is seeing them behind me. She missed my calls often this days especially weekends and late in the evening on weekly basis. I complained but she act too smart and use the word ARE YOU DOUBTING ME which weak me most time. I wish i could quit but the love i have for her is holding me down. I knw she wasnt the right person for me but i dont know why am still staying with her. I lost the zeal to date any other lady since i met her.each time i tried to force my way,she will act straight and i will drop the ambition... I place her high on my heart and its affecting me negatively. I know the best i should do is to quit,but whats holding me down,i really dont know.. As anyone found him or herself in this situation? How did you overcome the problem? Pls help a save a soul... Thanks |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
.... Who was she impregnating? |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by sunkanmihassan1(m): 7:00pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
If you were able to read the long epistle please summarise. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by pasqal09: 7:09pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
sunkanmihassan1: He thinks his girlfriend is cheating on him... 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by pasqal09: 7:15pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
lytech1: You knw the best thing to do already so it's your problem if you do have the balls to do it. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by sunkanmihassan1(m): 7:16pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
pasqal09:That's quite disheartening. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by Lewaluv(f): 7:18pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
You are going to need a strong detox from this one. She will not change unless she wants to. Maybe if it was one guy..but there seem to be many. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by Lalas247(f): 7:19pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Creep squad massive So you decided to go through her phone Ding ding No trust in the first place ..... How can you still place her high on your heart The signs are there she even told u after you confronted her she is TRYING ... TRYING Oga she no love u Move on.. and get the zeal to date others till u find Mrs right Or stay single till you are ready |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by babyfaceafrica: 7:19pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
You have been fried zoned.. Wise up and move on |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by Tenkobos(m): 7:21pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Lalas247:You ladies should stop blackmailing guys with this line, it is boring as Bleep. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by anthony533(m): 7:24pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
This could be the power of pussy.. Her kpekus must have blindfolded u to the point of not letting her go. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by MhizzAJ(f): 7:25pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
You just wanna give urself hypertension Just leave her alone You need to stay single for a while before going into a relationship again As far as am concerned u ve been friendzoned At least she said she has multiple partners..she try self for opening up |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by lytech1(m): 7:31pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:she HAS convinced me am not friendzoneD with every benefit of a relationship(you shld know what i mean). She always caution my spending each time i tried to entice her with that... Pointing 2 or 3 of my needs that the reckless spending can meet. The only thing am not sure of IS THE POSITION I AM IN HER LIFE |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by dingbang(m): 7:32pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
If you want to know if your woman is a coded runs girl, just type her numbers on Google search and sew for yourself ... |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
sunkanmihassan1:Hahaha. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
dingbang:That's creative. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by bamisepeters(m): 7:35pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
lytech1:i don't think you should be bothered about this question as you have serious issue you need to deal with first. I once said in a post that if you are deceived more than once you are the fool. It is so obvious to the blind she is seriously cheating, why will you keep such relationship. If you don't end it now i just pray it wouldn't end you. She is not ready to change and she is using your weakness against you, till you fight for yourself you will keep on being cheated on. At times you need to control your relationship as a man, it is not an easy task to keep a woman, they are flexible and needs to be cautioned most times. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by dingbang(m): 7:42pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Rorachy:where do you reside |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by Nobody: 7:46pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
dingbang:Owerri, why? |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by dingbang(m): 7:54pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Rorachy:was kinda curious with respect to your pic... Seems familiar |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by Apina(m): 8:11pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
lytech1:Your composition and language structure is really poor for a graduate |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by lytech1(m): 8:24pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Apina:i stand to be corrected sir. Thanx for your observation |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by babyfaceafrica: 9:49pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
lytech1:chain..you are deep.in the zone |
Re: Have You Ever Been Into An Unwanted Relationship? by mamakay533(m): 11:15am On Sep 04, 2017 |
OP . You may not decide to end the relationship at once just stop taking her serious since she can't change and see the relationship ending on it's own. make her less in your priorities . 1 Like |
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