DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.

Maduawuchukwu:


You don't grab why they have those positions. In Nigeria the average woman is looking for a rich man even if they are mainly broke. They do this without regard for the fact that the country is still economically down and even though you hustle well you will likely end up broke. The Nigerian standard is too high for the nation's economy.

u know I'm foreign Cuz why u talk ta me like that?

U know. I think that makes them all the harder the worker.
The Nigerian women I've know of are industrious. They are the 1s owning shops and selling on the roadside,going to school to better themselves or even just working a low wage job at shop rite.

An even if in their life station they aren't wealthy, I think its OK they long for 1 who is.
They work hard an though its not produced them wealth,they aren't lazy as she said

sunshineR:


lmao

yes na..........na woman OP be.............


Like airforce own abi .................howfa ikp120 sef...............
Havent seen him nor his comments for a while now

RuthDaniels:
Preach bro Preach!! Lol


I won't catch grenades for you though, because I see some pouring on you soon.

thesicilian:
Sounds harsh. Sounds true.

SweetPuffPuff:
u know I'm foreign Cuz why u talk ta me like that?

U know. I think that makes them all the harder the worker.
The Nigerian women I've know of are industrious. They are the 1s owning shops and selling on the roadside.
An even if in their life station they aren't wealthy I think its OK they long for 1 who is. They work hard an though its not produced them wealth. They aren't lazy as she said

TGoddess:
A woman who desires a rich husband shouldn't be poor and lazy herself.

Maduawuchukwu:

Many Nigerian men call our Women lazy not because they don't work but because we don't see the effects. In Nigeria most women including wives and gilrfriends don't contribute financially in relationships so what do we benefit from their work?

an who is taking care of babies and cooking. Keeping house and washing is the contribution only to be financial?

And u forget single mothers who do it all

But my point u missed. They are not necessarily lazy but wanting .

sunshineG:
Bro millionaire
Anything for the boys

I can see you really hate broke guys like my self

SweetPuffPuff:
an who is taking care of babies and cooking. Keeping house and washing is the contribution only to be financial?

And u forget single mothers who do it all

ikp120:
Ghost mode! People are hustling bro. I repeat, ghost mode bro. Witches all over the forum. I repeat, ghost mode bro

Lemme be going

itsmeurLady:
Nairaland guys/men, just one question for y'all... do u have a problem with getting money? Cs if u don't , when someone posts something like this, u won't even get mad or try to throw indirect insults to the poster... I'm trying to get it, most of the guys here are always defensive when it comes to such posts... y are u angry If what the poster is saying is not true No honestly, ladies are becoming more hardworking than guys these days honestly with the way our future men / to-be fathers are going... no one wants to take responsibilities anymore , no one wants to be challenged... u are blaming it on the economy, no u are the one that is actually lazy. If 9ja no give u job u no go create one for urself? Even me as a lady, apart from Nairaland that I visit daily for positive info happening around the world, I don't try to stay long on social media these days Cs really there is no gain in it, I rather make clothes and get money instead.

I have always known this, When u get money, every other thing u have been searching for will come. So Men Focus on Making Money and stop gossiping and creating funny memes online, Women stop leaning on men and looking for rich men, If you are hardworking, Godfearing and Focused, u'll definitely attract the man of ur dreams. I'm waiting for negative quotes, reply nor dey finish for my mouth but to be on the safe side, stay away in order not to attempt suicide this nyt

Maduawuchukwu:


We make use of househelps in Nigeria so most women don't do heavy housechores. Moreover they go to work like the men do so men do not expect much "home service" from them like before.

exactly. Those set of women contribute both ways, financially and domestically. So stop cryin

DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.

pcguru1:


Hustling mode 24/7 though social media has it opportunities , I read a report about using social media to promote business and events and promotion. social media makes money just need to see the angle.

DouglasH92:
I've noticed that a lot of Nigerian men, especially on social media always make excuses for their financial inadequacies. Instead of them to keep quiet and focus on becoming financially well off, they will reveal their financial insecurities by demonizing and lambasting any woman who says she would rather date a guy who has money. Most times you will see them making comments like "Women are hoes" Women are gold diggers." "Women should focus on love and not on the financial state of the man"
You will even see them saying that women should try to manage with a man who is earning low and should stop aiming too high in terms of the financial capacities of the man they want because money isn't all that matters.

I have also noticed that these kind of men are usually lazy. Most of their time is spent on social media arguing, insulting women and complaining about how women love money so much. And these men are usually frustrated, broke and low achievers. It's not surprising that they are in the financial state they are in. Real men who have money don't complain like they do. They know how the world works and they work hard to be financially successful and they let their financial success speak for them and attract whatever kind of women they want. They don't spend all day on social media casting aspersions on women who prefer a certain kind of lifestyle and men who understand and can provide such lifestyle.

Seriously, if you are such a man I feel really sorry for you. No amount of whining and complaining will change your condition. Leave social media and go and hustle. If you have money you won't have time to worry about what women want.

itsmeurLady:


Yh as long as it's fetching you cash, u don't have a problem but some Men will stay ooo, morning till night they are on Facebook, instablog on Instagram, Nairaland looking for latest gist and looking for unnecessary gossips, taking pictures like ladies, and the list goes on. Misplaced priorities is the order of the day for some

islandmoon:
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Op! what do you do for a living?

SweetPuffPuff:
exactly. Those set of women contribute both ways, financially and domestically. So stop cryin

itsmeurLady:


Yh as long as it's fetching you cash, u don't have a problem but some Men will stay ooo, morning till night they are on Facebook, instablog on Instagram, Nairaland looking for latest gist and looking for unnecessary gossips, taking pictures like ladies, and the list goes on. Misplaced priorities is the order of the day for some

Maduawuchukwu:



They make money but they dont contribute the what they earned in many instances.

u just like arguing I don't want to again. Its 9 in Nigerian. Goodnight

wizzyrich:
Besides is anything wrong if a woman is financially buoyant and spend it on men?

SweetPuffPuff:
u just like arguing I don't want to again. Its 9 in Nigerian. Goodnight

DouglasH92:


You belong to the category of men I'm referring to.

Stop blaming the government. Stop complaining about women. Go and hustle. Stop whining.