You lost her the moment you started acting all clingy. Giver her space and don't call her. I repeat don't call her again. She will come around.
Starve her off your attention . My boss Harddon needs to shoe you how Ladies mind are wired. Free her and move on unto important things .

Don't go read your books....be busy buying pads, panties, bum short etc with the pocket money your parents gave you (hard earned money)....issorite

see as people plenty for here!!!!!! !!!!!!

D op is jst learning wht life is all about

bro go and sell those things u bought and buy books on relationship nairaland is filled with fuckbois and slaymamas tho there are still nice ones.......

Ashley86400:
Guy, your mates are using Samsung and IPhones. . .you still dey use Blackberry . . .


Your mates are buying girls new phones and Ipads. . .you dey buy girls underwear and pads. . .

. . .and you want her to take you seriously?

Easy on d guy na, him be student na. where u want am to see money buy all u mention, abi u want am to join yahoo. if dem catch am now, na u go first shout na dem "Afonja"

Go get busy with your studies young man forget woman for now they're of no use for now hustle for money first

Proudlyblack:

Good evening
Do you know me that you are now loving?

he is in love with ur menstrual blood

All this for the puzzay??



How old re u

Alhaji ti takeover mehn! forget her.


Guys it seems when babes of nowadays form headache or sickness and beg a lil distance that's suspi, become jack Bauer pls.

Ok

dingbang:
You are a sissy

a very big and giant 1..

SuperSuave:
I swear down, I can never be this soft for a lady. See this guy calling, texting, begging her as if his life and hers have been entwined. What do you stand to gain out of all this wahala wey you put yourself? pūssy or something else? or has her father promise you a secured future? I just don't understand why you can't move on with your life guy.

To imagine you are a fresher in school dey vex me sef, you have so many things ahead of you in life yet you're so worked up on girl issue, I weak for you I swear.

Ranting...rant rant rant. Easily said than done. I dont believe you keyboard warrior. Yourself might have gone through this but pretends as if a man can easily get over it.

FutureLeader00:
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What i can suggest is either the lady is playing games, have someone else and wants to use this guy to spend on her. It is not uncommon for ladies to act this way especially if they talk about "you arent doing enough for me" . That sounds like a player to me. I would advice op to slow down and stop calling her for now. I wanted to say she might be going through hard time but her reply sounds like a player. Dont call her anymore. Focus on yourself guy. If she eventually calls, dont answer. Allow few days to pass before calling back. You might eventually need to move on if she's playing games.


Remember This. ....

In local parlance.. We have a song for such...

" when a woman do tire
Anything you give am go be jara
Cost she don see anoda Messiah
When dey set am on fire"

Sorry brov just move on!
Banana fall on her[color=#006600][/color]

Op your grammar is poor
Op you are even using an outdated BlackBerry phone
Op you can't afford an android smart phone that even beggars on the street of lagos use, yet you are buying girlish things
Op what will she do with panties, bra's bum-short and all
Op go down on your kneel lemme pray for you
Op may brain bigger than bossman fall on you
Goodnight...

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

This is why u shouldn't be dating in the first place.
Focus on ur books!

Bro it shows that you are dating a baby, if you have wronged her in one way or the other she should be matured enough to tell you instead of keeping you in suspense. Just let her be for now.

FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.

Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
Help me to move it to the front page

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What makes you think that she is your girlfriend?

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op you be hand bag o i swear. you are in 100 level and you dey carry gf matter for head like sporting waves, that biitch gona derail you.

FutureLeader00:

I didn't do anything wrong, I kept asking myself what have I done wrong I couldn't get it..Thanks big bro

A mumu jambite like you dey write long, grammatical blunders like this because of girl.

If you focus on your studies the way you focus on that girl, your writing skills would have been lot better than the pratfall you typed here.

When does a mugu like you ever realise that at your age, much older guys are fücking your girls and they see them as the future?

The girl knows your life hasn't yet begun and you want to deep her into the murky waters of your uncertain future.

I wish I can bitxhslap you and the mod for bringing this worthless piece to front page.

U just they waste your time

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

I pity you, as soon as I saw the part you said you just gained admission I didn't even continue with your story.

If you let anybody be a source of distraction to your studies you will regret it later.

This is a girl you both can break up at any time but your certificate is for a lifetime.

If you concentrate on in school and you are doing well you'll see how prettier girls will flock around.

You better go read your books

at your age and situation with education, I dnt. knw anygirl..the girl is acting normal by forcing to leave her alone and start a live around your education....your just a kid..nd there are other relevant things to do with your time other than bother about girls...

its well

just chill out, relax and focus on your school work. Distract yourself if you are too attached in order to move on. Learn from this experience, life is too short to be unhappy.

fatymore:
Mumu.. Lover boy.. Face your book joor and leave the underage gal alone

Mrs know all, who told you she is under aged?

I dnt chill with sissies

FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.
Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
Help me to move it to the front page

Stop acting too needy to women, they see it as weakness and women are turned off by weak men but adores confidence. Oga confident men don't go around begging woman up and down. Step up your confidence game, act like you don't need her too much she will come running to you. Women always talk in the opposite direction. That statement she made that you are not caring enough simply mean in women's language that you are suffocating with too much niceness if there is any English like that and care. Act like a man because from everything you wrote here you are still acting like a little Lad around women and that makes then loose attraction in you

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

Am Highly disappointed,Nd u call yourself futureleader....common shatapp..

dingbang:
You are a sissy

Honestly.

Daviewonder:
Baba, leave the girl for a while! you've done enough calling. When she's done with her normal girls forming, she will call you and then u should demand an explanation. i'm sure this is ur first relationship. Easy man!

For a while boo??, abi forever and evermore. Foolish girl wey she be.