FutureLeader00:

Bro, its not my fault am just a gentle guy maybe I should give her some space or what do you think?

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

Dshocker:


And you call yourself a "future leader"

Daviewonder:
Baba, leave the girl for a while! you've done enough calling. When she's done with her normal girls forming, she will call you and then u should demand an explanation. i'm sure this is ur first relationship. Easy man!

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

Frankicent:
Chair nice guys don suffer... Chai you read the signs?? She don't have feelings for you no more. You now the mumu. YOU even went to buy her pad, pant and Bra. you should have given her the money so she go get it her self.

2: Why continue calling a gal who refuse picking your call Like me if i call a gal 3 times and she didn't pick. I believe she intentionally don't want to pick... Well might not be like that. I built my mind like that to avoid get my head disturbed gals plenty.

3: She's fucking another guy ooo... I know cause .. it's observe she talked back at you, gives you less attention, Doesn't apologize... Bro don't call her for 2/3 weeks or delete her number. You will get your perfect match some day..

forget her she's gone

You are very correct. You deserve a bottle of origin. She just compared the bday gift of the other guy with this dude's sanitary pad and concluded that the bigger gift wins. I think this dude should use the pad for himself cos He is more of a woman than his woman.


For God's sake, who buys sanitary pads as bday gifts.

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

SuperSuave:
I swear down, I can never be this soft for a lady. See this guy calling, texting, begging her as if his life and hers have been entwined. What do you stand to gain out of all this wahala wey you put yourself? pūssy or something else? or has her father promise you a secured future? I just don't understand why you can't move on with your life guy.

To imagine you are a fresher in school dey vex me sef, you have so many things ahead of you in life yet you're so worked up on girl issue, I weak for you I swear.

FutureLeader00:

I didn't do anything wrong, I kept asking myself what have I done wrong I couldn't get it..Thanks big bro

FutureLeader00:
Let me not bother you with too much stories, I will keep it short and concise.

My girlfriend has been acting strange lately and I couldn't find the reason why she's doing so. We started dating last year while I was still looking for admission, things has been going smoothly for us not until after ileya festival.

Before then, she celebrated her birthday on the 23rd of August this year had to sent a message to wish her, although I was around for ileya holiday as we both live in ibadan but am schooling in osun state.
She came to visit me on ileya festival(friday) which we talk extensively about her birthday, we both discuss on how to celebrate her birthday since I wasn't around then so we resorted to go to the cinema and have some few drinks.

Also, I promised to get her some women undies as a gifts before I left for school.

I ought to have been in school by now because the festive holiday has come and gone but have told her that I would love to spend some days with her before I leave. Before she left my house of friday I asked where she will be for the weekend, she told me she won't be around on saturday but sunday will be okay so I made up my mind to visit her on sunday and use the opportunity to see her mom and sibling.

I called on saturday to check on her but she inform me that she couldn't go out due to headache, the following day which was sunday I called her severally she didn't pick my call neither return all the messages I sent to her not until yesterday when she picked and told me that she intentionally not to pick my call because I wasn't caring enough for her. Asjed her what exactly have I done wrong, she said I didn't care for her meanwhile have been calling since sunday just to check on her but she didn't pick my call, mehn I was shocked!!.

As a gentle guy wey I be I asked for frogiveness and repeatedly told her "I'm very sorry" countless of time she cut off the line on three occassion, I was very furious by her action yet I keep cool had to call her once again she told me there's nothing she wants to discuss with me anymore except what she just did.

Till now, she hasn't pick all call neither reply my messages.

Now, have bought those things I promise to get her like pads, panties, bra, bum-short, and those girly things I even sent a text to inform her that have gotten her my promises she didn't reply me.

Pls I need your advice on how to go about this because it making me so sad.

below is the screenshot of my text messages I sent her
Help me to move it to the front page

kjhova:
7 pages gone but still I must add my comment.

@OP, your post is depressing. Firstly for the "gifts" you bought. How did you even ask "Kelechi" to give you pad there? "the green one oh, not the pink"!

Secondly, your written English is atrocious for someone in a higher institution of learning. You've got a load of commitment to put in to come out with good grades.

Thirdly, you are only still learning the ropes about relationship and you have forced many of us to recall our own sad days as starters in this game. Damn! You had to make me rem putting 3 crispy N50 notes in a sealed envelope to Deyanju (RIP)!

Fourth, you be calling, she be ignoring...it's not rocket science man, she gone with a bigger man. Work on being a bigger man too someday, man.

Lastly, that your academics will crash if you loose her is complete stupidity to me. And you may not realise this until later in life when your enemy is a security attendant at the firm where this same lady works as a marketing executive!

Get your shit together fella and put all your energy into "Making FutureLeader Great Again"!

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

FutureLeader00:

Yes bro, this is my first relationship and am scared of heartache, my stduies will suffer because am so engrossed with her

danla44:
Looking at how you saved her name in your phone (Dearest) shows that you are cheating on her, i hope you are not sending this message from the room of your "Dear" or "most dear"

SuperSuave:
I swear down, I can never be this soft for a lady. See this guy calling, texting, begging her as if his life and hers have been entwined. What do you stand to gain out of all this wahala wey you put yourself? pūssy or something else? or has her father promise you a secured future? I just don't understand why you can't move on with your life guy.

To imagine you are a fresher in school dey vex me sef, you have so many things ahead of you in life yet you're so worked up on girl issue, I weak for you I swear.