chatinent:
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Dear respected ladies, there exist some rules of engagement that many ladies fail . You are engaged now, really, what next?
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Yes, it is marriage fever next! But did I mention you are only engaged but not married, yet?

Some reasons why most ladies feel used and dumped is when they get intoxicated by the ring afixed to their finger by some guy and the guy does not show up thereafter, maybe, after having her countless times!

My gay lady , don't you think you are worth more than sb's bed material?

Let's cite some areas that get ladies intoxicated while wearing the ring:
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1. You are only engaged not married.   I understand you must feel like a wife already but the fat truth is, you are not his wife yet but a name in his wife-list. Do you know? I bet you do not. Do not be overjoyed by the ring, rather be overjoyed by the wedding night. Chatinent Richie really advise ladies to keep their body untouched while hanging around the person you are engaged to.

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Yes, you may say 'I'm his wife to be so it does not matter if I give him my body.' Another piece of truth there is, notwithstanding that the body is yours,  you really are not his wife to be until you become his wife! During that period, men may propose to ladies who they think are outstanding, special and better than any other ladies in the world. Have you imagined; what if he thinks you so cheap and sees a more outstanding a lady who has your clone qualities but deprives him sex which you give him in plenty buckets?  Oh dear, he has slept with you so, that 'special you' bar is decreasing and will continue to decrease any female pride you may have shown, even peradventure, you get married. He may even end up dumping you politely and going for someone better(that part that you feel you have been over-used).
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What is my point?
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Don't you have sex with the person you are engaged to. Keep your pride. Tell them simply should they try to deceive you saying 'you are my wife to be already, so you shouldn't deprive me sex.'  Dear, stand for your right and what will help you afterwards, tell him, also logically that 'yes, I maybe your wife to be, so, if I am your so wife to be, why can't you wait till the wedding night? '
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Tips: Ladies who don't indulge in sex before marriage earn more respect, longer marriage than others. Reason is, their husbands seem to keep that first respect she has shown. Failure to observe the rule of engagements may lead to regrets.
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2. Most men giving engagement rings are not ready for marriage. Don't get ensnared by this. This is a cup-filled reason you have to always study your partner in the course of dating them. They will only hover around you longing for the juicy hannah montanna. Yes, they are humans, they know most girls will get lured wearing their deceptive rings.

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3. When you find someone good, stop looking for someone better. It explains itself. Use your instinctual calculating brainbook to harness the equation.
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4. Stop longing to wear guys' ring, you are NOT the lord of their rings. Yes, I understand that age doesn't favour women when not married but even at that, don't be desperate to wear a guy's ring. Guys, normally do notice desperate ladies when it comes to marriages and the wolf-like may come to hang their 'ring' on your finger to have you then disappear., then, this chase for marriage may end in suffeRING.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?act=Post&CODE=08&f=12&t=158&p=224&st=0

and this is how them will remain engage for life.....

I love reading people's comments I just can't help myself. It's like an addiction. So in honor of those comments that I have read, I have decided to write my own comment. And it's all for you. I hope you enjoy reading my comment as much as I have enjoyed writing it. It's not an interesting comment, but I'm pretty certain you have read the comment up to this point, so you may as well just keep reading right down to the end. And also thank me for wasting your time cause this is very useless

After all the do's and don't, I just weak.

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chatinent:

If I may ask, what's the fever in having the sex before marriage? What does it prove?

to know if you have aborted a whole generation and to check if your womb is still intact

chatinent:

If I may ask, what's the fever in having the sex before marriage? What does it prove?

For testing purpose because The p**sy of most ladies out there is so wide and deep...like johny depp

somebody1:
'wedon sir'...so if she doesn't meet ur standard of sexual compatibility, u'll dump her abi. 4 who if I may ask? So ladies are now ur lab rats that u must test b4 marriage...do u think marriage is all about sex? Ladies, please let us 'shine' our eyes...we should not be used as specimens for sampling... STAND YOUR GROUND PRAYERFULLY.

STAND YOUR GROUND PRAYER FULLY WHILE FVCKING OTHERS AT NIGHT....

hypocritical kind of people

kennygee:


God's plan for her is not a man like you to start with. So go for a woman of your kind.

So ......do you now know God's plans for him as well....



I guess you did that by misinterpreted the lads comment .........and if some could cancel a wedding on genotype incompatibility, religious incompatibility even on some horrible background check so sex should be an exception according to ......you ma'am forgotten that all must be ballance

We all have our look out /check list for selecting spouses. ...and since no one is crucifying you for yours why do you want to ask for his head on his personal opinion for that matter


God's P A, HOLY ELEMENT



cheers

braine:


I was expecting something like this too

See? It's a very misleading heading, I must say.

domopps:



So ......do you now know God's plans for him as well....



I guess you did that by misinterpreted the lads comment .........and if some could cancel a wedding on genotype incompatibility, religious incompatibility even on some horrible background check so sex should be an exception according to ......you ma'am forgotten that all must be ballance

We all have our look out /check list for selecting spouses. ...and since no one is crucifying you for yours why do you want to ask for his head on his personal opinion for that matter


God's P A, HOLY ELEMENT



cheers

So God is okay with Fornication?

op, ur first point is just okay, u spoilt the article with the last three points.

chatinent:

If I may ask, what's the fever in having the sex before marriage? What does it prove?

Sexual compatibility. There are many married couples currently in turmoil when they found out, after marriage, that they are sexually incompatible and/or barren/impotent. The overriding goal of being with a partner is for procreation, this goal is defeated if incompatibility exists in the process of procreation. Personally, I don't understand why in this day and age, people still consider having sex prior to marriage as being abnormal and/or a sin. I think it's really due to the religious hypocrisy that has plagued Nigeria and prevented it from any meaningful development.

The bottom line remains that people should do whatever they like, so long as they are ready for the consequences of their actions/inactions. A lady who believes in withholding sex as a tool to force a man to marriage will soon realize (in her 30's) that it is better she kept herself for the second coming of Jesus, we mere mortals wouldn't be interested.

chatinent:

If I may ask, what's the fever in having the sex before marriage? What does it prove?

It is a sin.

Rubbish, I can't marry a girl without testing it cos sexual compatibility is very important in marriage

fatymore:
Well said... But in some parts of Naija when you are engaged.. It doesn't take long before you get married.. And it somehow proper if you can do all what is supposed to do as a lady.....why do engagement this year and postpone wedding till the following year... It absurd to me sha...

It could be the money factor, you know.

Your 3rd point is the one I agree on.

jargo89:
It could be the money factor, you know.

yes,mostly is always the money factor but if you plan well and do it according to your pocket.. It shouldn't take long.. It possible to have an engagement this month and have your wedding few months after..My friend did her engagement March and we did the wedding in May.. It depends on how you plan..

jargo89:
It could be the money factor, you know.

how far..

Generalyemi:


mighty sister ,,assuming she hold her ground prayerfully, and on d wedding night she found out that the brother is impotent or have a one inch dick..what will she do..divorce him? or keep holding her ground....is both ways ,good for the man and the woman

You underestimate the power of prayer.

Marriage is for matured people that have learnt self-control. Not for some sex starved people.

Having said, that everything should be discussed and agreed before Christians delve into marriage. Where one is in doubt ,premarital medical examination is advised.

kennygee:


So God is okay with Fornication?

Respect people's opinion all am saying ma'am as everyone has right to their personal opinion


And ...........



You are not in position to speak for God !


Enjoy your weekend



Cheers

somebody1:
'wedon sir'...so if she doesn't meet ur standard of sexual compatibility, u'll dump her abi. 4 who if I may ask? So ladies are now ur lab rats that u must test b4 marriage...do u think marriage is all about sex? Ladies, please let us 'shine' our eyes...we should not be used as specimens for sampling... STAND YOUR GROUND PRAYERFULLY.

see i understand what you mean but due to past experience and gist from friends it maybe a bit difficult to wait till wedding night especially if the lady in question is above 28 years old (no longer a virgin)and well exposed cos it is believed that some matured girls finds is difficult to abstain from sex for more than 6weeks so are you saying if the engagement will take like 6months b4 the wedding proper. That no one will shine the congo within that period?. Our mumu done do oooo but if she is younger and a virgin the guy should be able to wait till jesus comes because its worth it

domopps:



Respect people's opinion all am saying ma'am as everyone has right to their personal opinion


And ...........



You are not in position to speak for God !


Enjoy your weekend



Cheers

I am not speaking for God. Only saying the truth. Which I am entitled to like everybody else.

Have a pleasant weekend.

Really

zed7:


She would be left for someone else whom she is compatible with. If people can dump one another for genotype incompatibility, religious incompatibility etc, why not for sexual incompatibility. Let's stop being hypocritical, sexual compatibility is very important in marriage.

Undisputed and incontrovertible facts

Evaberry:
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I couldn't even finish reading this post because it reeked of hypocrisy and bad advise.

I really pity any lady who follows the op advise.


Women keep on acting as if they are doing a man favours by having sex with him before marriage when in actual sense you are doing it because of yourself.

saying no to premarital sex does not guarantee a happy marriage, having sex before marriage however helps you understand your partner better and pick out things to work on, know their sexual fetish and decide if you can live with them. its not advised to start teaching anyone how to have sex or please their partner when they get married, I mean who has that time when there are bills to be paid.

A woman enjoys sex as much as a man if not more so why do people make women feel ashamed for having a sexual life.

is this coming from a girl wow that really good u said it all my friend pls note in only in Nigeria u see this kind of tin happening if u don't gave ur husband to be sex he it going to leave u but here in Nigeria everything is sin sin sin so sex before marriage is better and it good

braine:
Honestly, this post fell short of my expectations and doesn't really make any sense to me.

Exactly my thoughts!

Evaberry:
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I couldn't even finish reading this post because it reeked of hypocrisy and bad advise.

I really pity any lady who follows the op advise.


Women keep on acting as if they are doing a man favours by having sex with him before marriage when in actual sense you are doing it because of yourself.

saying no to premarital sex does not guarantee a happy marriage, having sex before marriage however helps you understand your partner better and pick out things to work on, know their sexual fetish and decide if you can live with them. its not advised to start teaching anyone how to have sex or please their partner when they get married, I mean who has that time when there are bills to be paid.

A woman enjoys sex as much as a man if not more so why do people make women feel ashamed for having a sexual life.

are you really a LAdy

or should I say, are you a Christian

oh pls! Bleep da shit... have seen so many write ups about guys telling ladies to respect their dignity, not getting involve in sexual act only by marriage. But av never come across such guys. I keep wondering if they really exist.
Now op what do u take loosed girls for, that they are worst wives than those that are reserved? pls! this is the reason must guys make mistakes because they feel loosed girls are bad but not all, that's one thing they don't get. Same with those reserved,not all of them are good

fatymore:
how far..

I am doing good. You?

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chatinent:
Copyright: No part of this should be transmitted to an unknown source without prior consent and allowance by the author or acknowledgement. This was written by Richie of Chatinent.
.

Dear respected ladies, there exist some rules of engagement that many ladies fail . You are engaged now, really, what next?
.
Yes, it is marriage fever next! But did I mention you are only engaged but not married, yet?

Some reasons why most ladies feel used and dumped is when they get intoxicated by the ring afixed to their finger by some guy and the guy does not show up thereafter, maybe, after having her countless times!

My gay lady , don't you think you are worth more than sb's bed material?

Let's cite some areas that get ladies intoxicated while wearing the ring:
.
1. You are only engaged not married.   I understand you must feel like a wife already but the fat truth is, you are not his wife yet but a name in his wife-list. Do you know? I bet you do not. Do not be overjoyed by the ring, rather be overjoyed by the wedding night. Chatinent Richie really advise ladies to keep their body untouched while hanging around the person you are engaged to.

.

Yes, you may say 'I'm his wife to be so it does not matter if I give him my body.' Another piece of truth there is, notwithstanding that the body is yours,  you really are not his wife to be until you become his wife! During that period, men may propose to ladies who they think are outstanding, special and better than any other ladies in the world. Have you imagined; what if he thinks you so cheap and sees a more outstanding a lady who has your clone qualities but deprives him sex which you give him in plenty buckets?  Oh dear, he has slept with you so, that 'special you' bar is decreasing and will continue to decrease any female pride you may have shown, even peradventure, you get married. He may even end up dumping you politely and going for someone better(that part that you feel you have been over-used).
.
What is my point?
.
Don't you have sex with the person you are engaged to. Keep your pride. Tell them simply should they try to deceive you saying 'you are my wife to be already, so you shouldn't deprive me sex.'  Dear, stand for your right and what will help you afterwards, tell him, also logically that 'yes, I maybe your wife to be, so, if I am your so wife to be, why can't you wait till the wedding night? '
.
Tips: Ladies who don't indulge in sex before marriage earn more respect, longer marriage than others. Reason is, their husbands seem to keep that first respect she has shown. Failure to observe the rule of engagements may lead to regrets.
.
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2. Most men giving engagement rings are not ready for marriage. Don't get ensnared by this. This is a cup-filled reason you have to always study your partner in the course of dating them. They will only hover around you longing for the juicy hannah montanna. Yes, they are humans, they know most girls will get lured wearing their deceptive rings.

.
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3. When you find someone good, stop looking for someone better. It explains itself. Use your instinctual calculating brainbook to harness the equation.
.
.
4. Stop longing to wear guys' ring, you are NOT the lord of their rings. Yes, I understand that age doesn't favour women when not married but even at that, don't be desperate to wear a guy's ring. Guys, normally do notice desperate ladies when it comes to marriages and the wolf-like may come to hang their 'ring' on your finger to have you then disappear., then, this chase for marriage may end in suffeRING.
.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?act=Post&CODE=08&f=12&t=158&p=224&st=0

Well said op.
A word they say, is enough for the wise.

My Advise:
1. Have sex before marriage
2. Have sex before marriage
3. Have sex before marriage

Don't come and complain later that guys are wicked.
Nymphomaniacs on rampage.