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Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Lisaflex(f): 4:27pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Immatex: Its funny hw d tune changes once its d man cheating....I jes dey look u |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by heendrix(m): 4:28pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Mindfulness: senseless the last minutes I checked she'd needed advice not your infidelity backed opinion |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Daeylar(f): 4:29pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
supersystemsng: Story, Did I say anything about the man not loving his wife? , I just asked a question Just small question you say it's too technical Anyways enjoy your beans 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by FemiEddy(m): 4:30pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Lisaflex:I understand you , but everything is wisdom, If a guy has three gfs, they will call him big boy, if a lady has two bfs, they will call her prostitute Truth is, God should just have mercy on us 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 4:32pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
I am a married woman if i were in your shoes i would send the evidence to her fiance she needs to feel the pain she caused another woman for my husband i would give him serious wahala that if the marriage doesn't crash when ever cheating crosses his mind and he remembers what i put him true he will ask himself if it's worth it...Men cheat because they believe they can get away with it 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Lisaflex(f): 4:33pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Guitarlife: @ last paragraph....2 slap u jes dey hungry me |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Gerrard59(m): 4:37pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Marriage and its wahala. Is this how it will be? Persons are saying she should pray, well praying does not stop cheating. That said, it sucks to be a Nigerian woman oh. She's blamed for the man cheating. Ah!!! One thing I learnt today: It's proper for a man to cheat, but wrong for a woman to cheat. Hopefully, no one comes complaining of women cheating. That will be hypocritical. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Lisaflex(f): 4:37pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
generationz: Blackmail is a vry dangerous game...U mk urslf a target, n der's no way of knwing d length a persn wld go 2 protect his/her secrets. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Gerrard59(m): 4:41pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
fmorrah: Lol. She should fight for her marriage, but the man should not? Lol. She married herself? Hehehehehehe Devil don suffer no be small. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by abimic(m): 4:50pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Just leave the other lady out of this, focus on your marriage and don't ever Contemplate leaving your home except a threat to your life was involved. Your hubby bears much of the brunt for being a skirt chaser and a disloyal partner. But you surely let it degraded this much without taking charge of your marriage. With three kids, you should have a guidance family pastor, or someone in his family close to your home he holds dear in case your approaches fail. Always be wary of cheating partners, they can go extra miles to satisfy their interest pushing off blockades even if their wives or husbands except urgent steps are taken. Remind your hubby of the kids, confront him maturely, let him tell you what you're doing wrong, remind him of how the love started, his words, his promises, good or bad, rich or poor, where you got it wrong and where he needs to help you as it's expected of him if he ever loved you, remind him of how you can't afford to share him with another lady, how you supported him, loved him through his errors, how you adored him, cherished him, and why he wants this to die. You could be emotional to the point of tears if it would save your home, but never lay too much emphasis on his most recent errors but hammer on it once and well, and threaten him with losing you and his home if he won't help you in building a home he always dreamt of for his family. In your mind, have plan B if he won't stop, because it's not easy for a cheat to stop, especially a married one, the other lady has nothing to lose and might not stop until your home is in tatters, pray, be spiritual, keep your family pastor informed, let him speak to you both, I hope you're not the type that restricts family members like mother in law, meet with your MIL if you ever held her in high esteem, she can speak senses into him, that's if the girl isn't close to her than you sef, and if plan B eventually fails, maybe the family never supported your union or the family is getting back at you for something, because you hardly see a responsible married man who would disrespect his family pastor and also disrespect his mother, if alive or no one he respects in the family, it only shows that woman herself was never responsible either. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by YelloweWest: 4:58pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
FemiEddy:Easier said than done. I won't kill cos I not stupid but the 'cook food and sit quietly" with a person who just put a dagger in your heart (that's what cheating feels like) is not feasible! By the way why advice a woman to pound yam and a man to do DNA test? 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by generationz(f): 5:04pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Lisaflex:I know but it depends on how she plays it. If she is good at psychological manipulations she will come out clean. The only danger I see is greed on her part. She might not be satisfied with her pact with the lady and ask for more judging by the fact that that she has an upper hand. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 5:10pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Lisaflex:Yes its harsh. But its still a fact. Even muslim men are still allowed 4 wives . The logic is so simple. There is a reason men father children through out their lives but women only have till 50years. This might not seat well with feminists but nature itself has spoken. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by talk2percy(m): 5:15pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Haha...as for my husband, he will meet me at home...God save that dude... That one weak me...u already have kids for this man...please forgive him, sit him down and conscientize him. Know from him what pushed him into the hands of another woman. Buh divorce should not b an option. Nothing has spoiled yet. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Mskrisx(f): 5:20pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Just be wise. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Ekoishome: 5:25pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Madam poster when you catch hiv, hpv that causes cervical cancer NL people will not be there! Marital fidelity must be adhered by both man/woman the moment one party fails on that then you have no moral grounds to expect loyalty from your significant other! The holy book admits adultery as a ground for divorce ie if that is what you want! Your husband must be held accountable for his misdeed "you alone knows better how you want to handle that" and also the fiance of the other woman must know and the earlier the better! |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Stallione(m): 5:26pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
honestwife:That is a perfect arrangement,do it straight away,she doesnt deserve the guy atall.U tought like a matured woman with this ur perfect plan. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by auhanson(m): 5:27pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
honestwife: Don't exposeyour husband to danger of a jealous guy/girl. If you mess her up and ruin her life(if that marriage meant all for her), don't expect her to sit and watch you enjoy life with your husband if she is the mean type. Kukuma worn her in whatever wise way you can and call you husband to order, find out what is his problem for such irresponsible act, and find solution to it. Be wise. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 5:31pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
FemiEddy: The most stupid advice ever with lot of likes,suddenly she should become nice because her husband was caught cheating,if she was the one caught cheating,we all know what would have happened to her. Imagine that husband coming home after cheating to have sex with his wife then passing an STD to her. i hate cheaters and i do not beleive in Karma,please expose the lady to her fiance and if you believe in divorce ,please do,Any marriage without loyalty is scam. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by davillian(m): 5:33pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
STARGREEN:In this case the man dint make a mistake. He started a sexual relationship with another woman. It's really heartbreaking to find out your wife or your husband is cheating on you. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by kullozone(m): 5:35pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Madam don't listen to anyone that says you should not expose that bitch oh! Apart from purnishing her, you'll also be saving a good man from marrying a witch... And you don't have to live with an unrepentant cheat for the rest of your life. A single parent can raise good kids as well. No suffer in silence, moreover shiits like this most of the time leads to domestic abuse/violence. Treat their fvckup jare, don't listen to that karma bvllshit ma'am. Good you're also working/earning. Be strong ma. Let's not be hypocrites... If it was a man who caught his wife cheating, no guy here would advise him not to throw her away like trash. Naso some Nairalanders go dey behave like goats dey talk nonsense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Stallione(m): 5:39pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Mindfulness:U made a point here,if i happen 2be in her shoes,i will take my time,keep monitoring her until she finally weds her own perfect man.Afterwards i will now leak the whole thing to her husband which will definitely destroy the marriage,like she attempted on hers.. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Stallione(m): 5:43pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Evaberry:So ua advising her to leave her marriage.U see ur life,bad advice/friend... |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 5:48pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Stallione: lets be honest cheating marriage doesnt work ,do you think you will comfortable with your spouse if you found he/her cheating if she wants to leave,she should,if she stays,the cheating will continue and it will lead to her depression and maybe death 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Sunshyne200(m): 5:51pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
kennygee: From your signature, what if we send mentions? Would we still hear the gospel or another gospel? |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Sunshyne200(m): 5:53pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
FemiEddy:My brother, I read her post and realized she is probably still very young or just in her early 20s, See blunt and inappropriate advice, Smh 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by darlenese(f): 6:00pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
kennypedia: the only problem I have with ur post is when u created a picture of petting a cheating spouse, it is all shades of wrong, it will become a norm, did u even put the woman in your shoes? have considered how heartbroken she would be? I am sentimental Yes, bcoz I have lost a loved one who was once married to a bloody cheat. his unrepentant cheating habit led to her death. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by holluphemydavid(m): 6:01pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Married ones ur advice are needed here |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by uss25dec: 6:06pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
kennygee: |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Nobody: 6:08pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
my decision is that am planning to call this guy through facebook call and send him all the recording and whatappbchat between her fiance and my husband i just want to know if am making the right decision as for my husband , he will meet me at home [/quote] Whatever step you intend to take, assume you don't know everything about your husband. If he can cheat as against your expectation of him, maybe he has some other qualities u do not know You can finish the intruder as you have planned, but it will not stop your hubby from seen another...he will be more clever Relax your mind and try to be less possessive. Settled or not, the harm is already done and it will linger for a while... Remember you can only possess a dead body, the living are full of surprises _ Think it, swallow it, feel the pain and be happy and more loving. Never allow the incident to induce your actions. life is short you know |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Realali(f): 6:11pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
FemiEddy: Leave what alone ? If the guy ware to be your own blood what are you going to do? |
Re: I Caught My Husband Red Handed by Realali(f): 6:13pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
honestwife: Please tell the guy by saving the poor guy life oo |
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