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AlexCk:
After 10 solid years(comprising of 2 leap years) & an abortion (that almost ended her), & pretty sure she's into u(probably), u now decided u won't marry her, because u feel the relationship can't work?!!!!. After 10 freaking years??!!!,
Not like she cheated or, she's a manaic. But because u feel it won't work??
After 10years??!!

Haba!!,

Seriously mehn, that's just terribly wrong. Dunno what to even type/say

Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek
people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed
beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as
coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of
necessity to let everyone know the full details of
what prompted me to seek for people's advice.
As I stated in the first thread, the abortion
brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion
I did everything I could to stay away from her
due to so much friction that the issue has caused
between our parents and most especially the
strict opposition from her mother, but she will
never leave me.
We even came to know that we are closely
related.
I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village.
I was happy thinking it will give me the
opportunity to cut off all my contacts with
her,which I did. But after some years she got my
phone number through a friend,and we have been
calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each
other once in 2011 when she came to village, and
we could not even talk because her mother was
around that day. Since 2011 we have only been
talking on phone up to this time.
I actually appreciate her love for me and I was
already having a rethink towards her,but
through one of our recent conversation I
discovered that her mother was still strongly
against our relationship likewise my parents,
though I understand the reason my parents gave
to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a
relationship that none of our parents ascent to.
But she's still insisting we must marry.

GodBlessMe4Life:
You are a bastard! You wasted her past and future and now you want to run to ruin another life? If age is not on her side what about you oldest cargo? You are a very wicked person and should be begging for insults not advice on how to eat your cake and have it like a pig. No be everybody dey support evil people like you. #ShamelessnessOfTheDay #WorstThanABabyDaddy #YourDaughterGoSufferWorstIfYouNoChange

Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek
people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed
beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as
coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of
necessity to let everyone know the full details of
what prompted me to seek for people's advice.
As I stated in the first thread, the abortion
brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion
I did everything I could to stay away from her
due to so much friction that the issue has caused
between our parents and most especially the
strict opposition from her mother, but she will
never leave me.
We even came to know that we are closely
related.
I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village.
I was happy thinking it will give me the
opportunity to cut off all my contacts with
her,which I did. But after some years she got my
phone number through a friend,and we have been
calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each
other once in 2011 when she came to village, and
we could not even talk because her mother was
around that day. Since 2011 we have only been
talking on phone up to this time.
I actually appreciate her love for me and I was
already having a rethink towards her,but
through one of our recent conversation I
discovered that her mother was still strongly
against our relationship likewise my parents,
though I understand the reason my parents gave
to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a
relationship that none of our parents ascent to.
But she's still insisting we must marry.

MissRaine69:
You are a very cruel and callous man. You don't deserve happines. She is good enough to deflower, get pregnant continue to keep sticking your key in her ignition for years and now you mention age and it won't work? Are you serious? It took you 10 years to work that out?

Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek
people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed
beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as
coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of
necessity to let everyone know the full details of
what prompted me to seek for people's advice.
As I stated in the first thread, the abortion
brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion
I did everything I could to stay away from her
due to so much friction that the issue has caused
between our parents and most especially the
strict opposition from her mother, but she will
never leave me.
We even came to know that we are closely
related.
I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village.
I was happy thinking it will give me the
opportunity to cut off all my contacts with
her,which I did. But after some years she got my
phone number through a friend,and we have been
calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each
other once in 2011 when she came to village, and
we could not even talk because her mother was
around that day. Since 2011 we have only been
talking on phone up to this time.
I actually appreciate her love for me and I was
already having a rethink towards her,but
through one of our recent conversation I
discovered that her mother was still strongly
against our relationship likewise my parents,
though I understand the reason my parents gave
to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a
relationship that none of our parents ascent to.
But she's still insisting we must marry.

Eastatlantaniqqa:
after using her u now want to dump her because ur parent(s) are not in good terms. my guy if u truly love her no matter what just get ur parents to accept the fact that both of u are meant 4 each other and marry her ASAP

Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek
people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed
beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as
coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of
necessity to let everyone know the full details of
what prompted me to seek for people's advice.
As I stated in the first thread, the abortion
brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion
I did everything I could to stay away from her
due to so much friction that the issue has caused
between our parents and most especially the
strict opposition from her mother, but she will
never leave me.
We even came to know that we are closely
related.
I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village.
I was happy thinking it will give me the
opportunity to cut off all my contacts with
her,which I did. But after some years she got my
phone number through a friend,and we have been
calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each
other once in 2011 when she came to village, and
we could not even talk because her mother was
around that day. Since 2011 we have only been
talking on phone up to this time.
I actually appreciate her love for me and I was
already having a rethink towards her,but
through one of our recent conversation I
discovered that her mother was still strongly
against our relationship likewise my parents,
though I understand the reason my parents gave
to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a
relationship that none of our parents ascent to.
But she's still insisting we must marry.

Daeylar:
Op you didn't give any details in your story, you haven't said the reason you can't marry her so we can judge. What happened? And I am assuming this must have happened recently because she was good enough to date for over 9 years so what's the problem now? (Or is it an ongoing issue?)

We can't give you any help on what to do until you say why you can't marry her. Why are you taking this decision?


There is no reason for the girl to marry someone who doesn't want to marry her neither is there any reason for you to marry someone you don't really want to be with anymore. It's a disaster to marry someone you don't want to or who doesn't want to marry you. So if you feel so strongly about this then walk away. In the long run both of you will be better for it

However If she hasn't done anything wrong and there is no issue at all but you just want to leave for selfish reasons then tell her that you are selfish and in all honesty She would be better off without you.

Modified:
Na wa for all the people shouting marry the girl up and down, How can you guys support someone marrying a person he obviously doesn't want to marry? How can you support the girl marrying some one who obviously doesn't want to marry her.

That is not how marriage works, what kind of marriage will they have when the beginning is already a disaster, na wa o.

if he doesn't want to marry then he shouldn't. Simple

Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek
people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed
beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as
coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of
necessity to let everyone know the full details of
what prompted me to seek for people's advice.
As I stated in the first thread, the abortion
brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion
I did everything I could to stay away from her
due to so much friction that the issue has caused
between our parents and most especially the
strict opposition from her mother, but she will
never leave me.
We even came to know that we are closely
related.
I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village.
I was happy thinking it will give me the
opportunity to cut off all my contacts with
her,which I did. But after some years she got my
phone number through a friend,and we have been
calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each
other once in 2011 when she came to village, and
we could not even talk because her mother was
around that day. Since 2011 we have only been
talking on phone up to this time.
I actually appreciate her love for me and I was
already having a rethink towards her,but
through one of our recent conversation I
discovered that her mother was still strongly
against our relationship likewise my parents,
though I understand the reason my parents gave
to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a
relationship that none of our parents ascent to.
But she's still insisting we must marry.

isaacsegun:
Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek
people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed
beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as
coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of
necessity to let everyone know the full details of
what prompted me to seek for people's advice.
As I stated in the first thread, the abortion
brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion
I did everything I could to stay away from her
due to so much friction that the issue has caused
between our parents and most especially the
strict opposition from her mother, but she will
never leave me.
We even came to know that we are closely
related.
I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village.
I was happy thinking it will give me the
opportunity to cut off all my contacts with
her,which I did. But after some years she got my
phone number through a friend,and we have been
calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each
other once in 2011 when she came to village, and
we could not even talk because her mother was
around that day. Since 2011 we have only been
talking on phone up to this time.
I actually appreciate her love for me and I was
already having a rethink towards her,but
through one of our recent conversation I
discovered that her mother was still strongly
against our relationship likewise my parents,
though I understand the reason my parents gave
to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a
relationship that none of our parents ascent to.
But she's still insisting we must marry.

I apologize on their behalf.