Screwface: I feel your pain but there's almost nothing anyone can do for you right now. Whatever has to be done, has to be done by you.
For a start, stop looking down on yourself. You are big, so what? Am not exactly sure being big is a criminal offence. And if it isn't, start enjoying being big!

Take a stand in the relationship. Tell him it's ALL or nothing. If he ain't serious, cut the chase and move on. You sounded like someone who's being 'managed', or like you are an option in a sea of many.
My dear, stop taking shitts and stop seeing yourself as being disadvantaged abeg.

Screwface: I feel your pain but there's almost nothing anyone can do for you right now. Whatever has to be done, has to be done by you.
For a start, stop looking down on yourself. You are big, so what? Am not exactly sure being big is a criminal offence. And if it isn't, start enjoying being big!

Take a stand in the relationship. Tell him it's ALL or nothing. If he ain't serious, cut the chase and move on. You sounded like someone who's being 'managed', or like you are an option in a sea of many.
My dear, stop taking shitts and stop seeing yourself as being disadvantaged abeg.

Idowuogbo: u? na so life bi? i see u o!

@op

wen u say big, how big? can i see a pic?

biggirloya2:



do big girls find love? is there someone out there who is big and has gotten real love or is this how we big girls are always treated?

biggirloya2:



do big girls find love? is there someone out there who is big and has gotten real love or is this how we big girls are always treated?

tellwisdom: I need to see you before i help you out

biggirloya2:


unfortunatley i always avoid photos. even if i am with a group of people and they are taking photos i always hide and run because i am scared of pictures. Well i am a size 48 / 24 and if i go shopping i always get the embarassing ''ehh no mam we do not have your size on this'' or ''ehh this will not fit you mam'' so i am always shopping where my mom shops ( things for people her age''. I can't even fit in to cheap clothes as they are generally for thin people. If ever i dress up and with my age mates people start thinking i am their Aunty or something and i always feel embarrased.

ayodeji752: are u for real? Are u bigger dan d wife of d president of Ethiopia or even Mauritania?

Idowuogbo:
ouccch! sugar! its time to shed a few pnds.

biggirloya2:


i wana. but how? please give me tips

Idowuogbo:
cut down on junk and hit the gym.

biggirloya2: I have always been a big girl...i am scared of ending things compeletly coz i am a coward and i cant stand to one day see him with a better girl coz i am just a fat worthless ugly girl who looks older than she is.Do you feel my pain?

fulli_16:

so wat do need an advice 4...if dats how u feel bout ursef?

NEXT!!!

biggirloya2:


well i am not big in a bad way, i am big in a way that makes me look like a mother instead of my age. My biggest pain is men who are always coming my way are soooo old and mostly married ( probarbly they think i am married too looking for a side thing but hell i am not and am looking for the main thing). People who are around the right age for me , run when they see me

biggirloya2:


WOW is it just that easy? please do not think i am asking a stup question but does not eating junk and going to gym help weightloss for real? coz i hvae hear other people saying ohh no i have tried bla bla sometimes they discarage me and say sometimes its just how pepple are born. Is there such a thing as a person born big naturally and your body would resist all sorts of attempts for weightloss?

chelseaguy: Op, all I see here is self-pity. So, sorry I don't feel your pain. This morning whilst going to work, I came across a BIG LADY and was stunned. She carried herself with grace and I thought of approaching her but for time. And this coming from a dude who prefers slim fit ladies. C[b]onfidence is all you need. Just nap out from this self-pity roller coaster you are on right, before it goes deeper and requires specialist to get cured.[/b]

Now to your relationship issue - I really think you being used. I suggest you leave him and start dating older men if that would make your self-esteem improve. Always think of what is best for as it is a selfish world out there. Good luck!

yuzedo: I feel your hurt, i can't even troll on this thread. I am sorry hun.. I think confidence in yourself and exuding a positive aura at all times might attract THE man (note: not A man)..

Can you lose weight through exercise? Easier said than done but if you can discipline yourself and put in effort, you might start to feel sexier and your new-found self-esteem will radiate and pull people towards you? Good luck, miss.

ayodeji752: inbox me ur Facebook id

Idowuogbo:
here we go again... please stay away from folks dat use genetic excuse for obesity.

Eat right and control ur body.

chelseaguy: Op, all I see here is self-pity. So, sorry I don't feel your pain. This morning whilst going to work, I came across a BIG LADY and was stunned. She carried herself with grace and I thought of approaching her but for time. And this coming from a dude who prefers slim fit ladies. Confidence is all you need. Just snap out from this self-pity roller coaster you are on right now, before it goes deeper and requires specialist to get cured.

Now to your relationship issue - I really think you being used. I suggest you leave him and start dating older men if that would make your self-esteem improve. Always think of what is best for you as it is a selfish world out there. Good luck!

tellwisdom:

ok, wld you be my gurl plus do you have big yansh??

yuzedo: I feel your hurt, i can't even troll on this thread. I am sorry hun.. I think confidence in yourself and exuding a positive aura at all times might attract THE man (note: not A man)..

Can you lose weight through exercise? Easier said than done but if you can discipline yourself and put in effort, you might start to feel sexier and your new-found self-esteem will radiate and pull people towards you? Good luck, miss.