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Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Ultimate300(m): 7:24pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
If he cant come to your home, then you should report yourself to their home! yeah its freeworld, what a man can do a woman can do, go and pay his groom price. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by tayo4ng(m): 7:24pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
you can as well take your parents to his house. and introduce them to him. play boy everywhere you goooo 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
yasmina85: ur lucky ur not my sister, I would have given u a very dirty slap for this. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
deepwater: True but 6 years haba the guy should have freed her if he had no plan. anything relationship more than 3 years is a waste of time, by then you should be able to tell whether you're marrying or not, My brother too is in one like that, both AS, deep down am just like they are wasting each other's time but wetin concern me, I can't warn someone 3 times 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
You expect him to go and see your parents when you are already living like married folks.. hian! Sorry he won't, he will keep posting you till he find someone better Than you and then kick you out. So it's better you do the first kicking so that his brain can function well if he truly loves you. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by rossyc(f): 7:29pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
yasmina85:Since u said finance isn't the problem then get to know what his fears are, if he is still dragging you back then give him some space and act like you don't care, try to meet other people and give him the notion that if he isn't interested anymore some people are. You can't wait for him forever and don't make the mistake of moving in with him cos if you do so forget the wedding u longed for... |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by bigpicture001: 7:30pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
the earlier you start a nu relationship, the better for you..if aftr six years he is still thinking about it...then it's not worth waiting 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Hedonistically: 7:31pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
What is the feminist opinion about this? |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Obaf1(m): 7:31pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Let me go str8 to d 'solution' whenever he vist u or u visit him, after some discussion, enjoyment and funny stuff together, tell him boldly THAT DADDY AM NOT GETTING YOUNGER AGAIN AND ANY BREAK-UP FROM NOW WILL BE THE END, JUST PLEASE COME AND SEE MY PARENT, OR AM I JUST UR DULL, OR MAYBE UR DONT LOVE ME AS U CLAIM, then observe his mood, if he is ready u will no(real love wont hesitate to reply positely) if his reply positive, make him more happy but if it negative then ask him boldly WHY? If the reason is reasonable, both of should decide, if is not(excuse like financial aspect, the fear of marriage problem, children isue, or how to mentain and put the family in order) then kindly advice him that man cant have everything in the world to build a home, and promise him that u will be submissive and help him in ur own little way(everything nobe fight and quarrel, litle explain and advice will do) 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
6yrs! You bera move |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Hedonistically: 7:34pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
makydebbie: Oh, so women NEED marriage more than men? Why can't women wait indefinitely until whenever the 'spirit' or 'circumstances' tell them to marry? Yet they want to force men to be faithful, or threaten men that they too can be unfaithful too in marriage (imagine the konkonbility!). You people are ridiculous. If you don't understand why men (especially financially capable men who know how to enjoy their hard earned money) hesitate to get married to you "modern' over-entitled things, then you need deliverance. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by jadyclem(m): 7:35pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
being together for 6+ Years is not d issue here, one thing that you should have figured out all these years from him is "if u're d kind of woman dat he dreamt of spending his life with" A guy may spend several years dating u and feel comfortable all around you but he may not consider u to be d ideal wife material for him. dat is why pple date. we date to find out things about our partner and to discover if they see us as d ideal one for dem. whenever a guy or a lady refuses to commit to d one he/she claims to love and has been dating for a long time without any cogent reason, then he/she may not be seeing such partner as his/her ideal marriage mate. u wasted over six Years of ur life with him without having an idea of who his ideal woman is. don't pressure him to give u what he doesn't want to give u willingly because he may use such pressure from u as an excuse to make ur life a living hell should things no work out the way he expects. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by ceejay80s(m): 7:35pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
op ,u opened a new nairaland account for this, people like u go to opera winfery show wearing mask, when will Nairaland start using their original moniker to open a new thread and post? |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by AuroraB(f): 7:35pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
ScotFree: Ama'm |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Efecbn(m): 7:36pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
My dear please seek the face of the Lord |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:36pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
OP, after 6 years of dating you should've gone past the boyfriend/girlfriend stage. You shouldn't have to be begging a man to see your parents. Even with all your efforts to get him to go, he's not yielding. Actions or lack thereof, speaks louder than words. He might have another woman somewhere that he wants to marry. Please don't listen to anyone who says you should get pregnant for him to manipulate him into marrying you. Billyonaire:This is terrible advice. Having a baby for a man doesn't mean he will stay. It's people like you who advice women to get pregnant for men who're obviously not ready to take on the responsibility and end up leaving them to be single mothers. If he's not ready for marriage, what makes you think he's ready for a baby? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by shedy03(m): 7:37pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
KingRex1:hummm...quite unafrican na. lol. professional: lets work for you, engage us for your M&E designs |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by GeneralOjukwu: 7:38pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Yasmina85 = 1985 = 32 = not getting younger . Guy is just having free sex and deceiving you Move on 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
yasmina85: You're a silly naive girl for a 30+ year old. Never ever ask a man for marriage. Never. You've sold yourself cheap in the first place. No remedy for you. Your boo is only looking for someone better while using you to pass time. Better move on. Smh. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by ojun50(m): 7:39pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Jst tell him that a guy with his family came to see yr parent about u that thy want to marry u nd yr parent called u in there midst nd u told them to give 3 month, frm there u can get his reaction then u decide wht next to do with yr life 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by makydebbie(f): 7:39pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Hedonistically:Bro, you're confused. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Not0fThis: It is my opinion, and should be respected. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by SUPOL(m): 7:40pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
thesicilian:i bet u, he will let her go. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
ceejay80s: That is not your business. What an unintelligent way to address the issue on ground! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Hedonistically: 7:41pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
makydebbie:Lol. I rather be confused than be a "modern" Nigerian girl. God forbid. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Girl use yr head, u r above 30, better get pregnant for him n let him know after5 /6 months then he will know option. If he ask of yr period pretend as though u r seeing . after much tell him u mixed yr period. Then go for test n get him d result. Inform yr people immediately too. Then go n give testimony. Make no girl do am to me though I go soon marry |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Pesuzok(m): 7:42pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
I think the guy might want you to take in before marriage. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by macphilip: 7:42pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
so you have been giving him free kpomo all these 6 years without him booking your flight? |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by makydebbie(f): 7:43pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Hedonistically:Good. At least I'm not a nigerian girl. So you can transfer your aggression to someone else. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by makydebbie(f): 7:44pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
macphilip:Honestly. Most brains stop working when they fall in love. |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by ochuciano(m): 7:46pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
yasmina85: Forget any advise, just get pregnant for him |
Re: How Can I Get My Man To Do The "Door Knocking"? by Ijoni: 7:46pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
The chances are that if you stand your ground of making him commit himself or letting go of you, he'll take a stand which will clearly show you his motives and intention towards you. As it stands, you dont know his mind. AND i think it is better for you to know where you are going, so that you can avoid a situation where you are neither going forward nor backward. |
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