thesuave10:
study her carefully and you'll know. Older women are after marriage most times tth

Can you please specify the age range that fall into this class (@ bolded)?

lenghtinny:

Trust me in the picture you just painted, the girl who wants marriage is more dangerous than the one who wants you because she has ulterior motive behind her actions...
What happens after she achieves her aim? What is the guarantee that she will continue to take all your excesses after marriage.
Marrying a desperate woman is not good for your health.

#Word!!!

jezuzboi:

This is my primary issue with some Naija girls. So "PUNNA" (whatever that means) is now equivalent to MARRIAGE? Couldn't you have reversed the question and present it as WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS MARRIAGE AND NOT THE GIRL? Why does it have to be "PUNNA?"

Mind you, PUNNA is just a 2-minute affair (in worst case scenario). And even in the best case scenario, it can't take 24 Hours. But MARRIAGE? Whether best or worst case scenario, MARRIAGE IS FOR LIFE!!! And by the way, WHY WOULD A GIRL WANT TO MARRY A GUY SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT? Gosh!!!

You only want the "MRS" title so you can measure up with your married friends and form CLASS for the unmarried ones? What then happens after the MARRIAGE? So puzzling!!! I wish you would really take thought to the main topic and help me out with some tips here. I want to believe you have that info.

Because you attacked what women want most and s/he attacked what men want most. I am a man let's try and be reasonable sometimes. The word is not for men alone. Its for every one

thesuave10:


Think smartly

Indeed.

Sabrina18:
It makes no sense. If I want you, I as well want marriage, I can't want marriage and not want you cos I can't marry a person I don't want, you will repulse me and I get easily irritated.

Under present circumstances with age by your side, yea I would agree with you, but with you being in the aunty Linda age category, pressure piling from all sides, then is when the bolded wouldnt matter anymore

jezuzboi:

What about a girls who's
CLINGY,
JEALOUS,
SPEAKS WELL OF YOU BUT SPEAKS ILL OF OTHERS,
DOESN'T SEEM TO MIND YOUR MISBEHAVIOR, EVEN WHEN SHE'S NOT THE KINDA GIRL WHO LETS THING SLIDE EASILY

yet,

Doesn't share in ur passion,
Can't bring herself to do the things u primarily yearn for,
Lacks understanding of who u are and doesn't seem to bother finding out, yet gives u her own difinition and works with that difinition

Only seems to center on things that concern u both but scarcely puts interest in what seems to be more of ur thing than hers. I don't even know how to analyze again sef.

But ultimately, she envisions a future with u and her idea of actualizing that future is giving u the impression that she loves and cares, but is unable to give u what u want and unable to receive what u have to offer being that both of u are like a square peck in a round whole.

She has noticed this, just like the guy. But unlike the guy, she still pushes on. The big question now is WHY?

Concocted excuses to dish a lover who you can readily verify is totally in love with you. There will always be a reason to love another, it could be charisma class intelligence big yansh physique etc. Love does not fall on anyone. You bring yourself to love someone and when you start complaining about someone, twisting narratives you are simply seeking validation for a way out. It does not work that way, quit relationship you do not want, bear the consequence whether positive or not.

It's too early for a stupid thread to hit front page nah!

A girl who want to marry u does not want u

What idiot comes up with this sort of shìt??

Danielmoore:


Don't women enjoy sex

we do

GloriaNinja:
WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS THE PUNNA?

Punna s made for the man

So easy.......for naija girls ooooooo... A girl that's 25 or more wants marriage....below 25 only wants u.. Simple

GloriaNinja:
WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS THE PUNNA?

kimbraa:
Typical of NL guys. Twisting what she said in your favour. Are there not men who marry just to be sexually satisfied?.

Wow! Say God

jezuzboi:
Guys!!! Someone posted this on Facebook and it got to me. Now I’m looking for tips on HOW TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN A WOMAN WHO WANTS YOU AND A WOMAN WHO WANTS MARRIAGE. Any ideas

Thought the op wanted to tell us how to different ni?

jezuzboi:

This is my primary issue with some Naija girls. So "PUNNA" (whatever that means) is now equivalent to MARRIAGE? Couldn't you have reversed the question and present it as WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS MARRIAGE AND NOT THE GIRL? Why does it have to be "PUNNA?"

Mind you, PUNNA is just a 2-minute affair (in worst case scenario). And even in the best case scenario, it can't take 24 Hours. But MARRIAGE? Whether best or worst case scenario, MARRIAGE IS FOR LIFE!!! And by the way, WHY WOULD A GIRL WANT TO MARRY A GUY SHE DOESN'T REALLY WANT? Gosh!!!

You only want the "MRS" title so you can measure up with your married friends and form CLASS for the unmarried ones? What then happens after the MARRIAGE? So puzzling!!! I wish you would really take thought to the main topic and help me out with some tips here. I want to believe you have that info.

That's the only thing they think about ( PUNNA and D*ck) looking for a man to satisfy your sexual urge. Sex is not food, if he can't, go get yourself vibrator
That's why greater % of them feel insulted once asked "what are you bringing to the table in relationship and marriage." It's a pity though

Indomie girl Adverts Voice***

"Age Is The Difference"

Well, going by comments I'm seeing on this thread, I think, partially, I go wt Princ007

GloriaNinja:
WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS THE PUNNA?

What about a gurl who just want the Mulla?



Mulla n Puna r inversly proportional.

Mula suffers a thousand deaths b4 puna even smells one.

even mr ten-ten has nothing to say on this

tosyne2much:
Hmmmm. Sighs!


May God help us

Sabrina18:
It makes no sense. If I want you, I as well want marriage, I can't want marriage and not want you cos I can't marry a person I don't want, you will repulse me and I get easily irritated.

I agree wit u.
it makes no sense loving somebody u can't marry.

jezuzboi:

You just made my day!!! Actually, what u said about GIRLS WHO WANT MARRIAGE is arguably true. As a matter of fact, that happens to be my current situation right now. This girl just gives into all I do like she's got no principles, even when I made it obvious that I'm not into her.

I could only come up with the conclusion that she's trying to secure her marital future, not minding if I share in her vision.

However, what seems to puzzle me is that part that says a GIRL WHO WANTZ A GUY won't be committed and will have reasons to misbehave. Can u pls write more on that?

but this seems to be the opposite on my end, a lady who has her own pricinples and stands her ground is seen as stubborn and rebellious, my relationship of few months hit the rock cos according to him, I don't do what he says. Even if I have an opinion about something, I should bottle it up and agree with him. So me I don't even understand what men want,you care too much, they say you are clingy, you are emotionally independent, they say you don't care and call you mean, you don't trouble them for marriage, they say you are unserious, you trouble them, they call you a desperado, you give in to all they say, they say you are a push over, you stand your ground, they say you are not submissive and stubborn, I just tire
Back to the topic, I don't think there is any way a woman will want to marry a man more then she wants him, it just depends on where marriage is on her scale of preference

It's quite easy to tell them apart. It doesn't take hard work to identify a girl who's so much into you just for the title.

One way or another, you'll find that they love to hear where they feature in your future plans. Such ladies often need reassurance every once in a while.

Those who run their mouths faster than they think would say something disrespectful or act it altogether and then get all apologetic immediately you give them the "no more marriage" look.

Contrary to what some guy say above, such ladies won't put up with your every shit. They'll tell it to your face how your behaviour is unbecoming for a guy your age. So they are likely to want to mould you into the ideal guy.

Girls who put up with your every shit are just that - nice and tolerant. It's not always a pretense. Girls who act all wife material usually reveal their true colors at some point in the relationship.

She may tell you about how an ex wasted her time. Or how he he married a lady that's a lesser wife material than she is.

She'd want you to get to meet her family ASAP. And if you are close with them, there's always that sister of hers who's likely to remind you that the sister isn't getting any younger, albeit jokingly, whenever her birthday comes around.

She fantasizes about the number of kids and their gender. Make no mistake, such girls usually picture themselves being married to all of their exes.

Parental pressure. If you notice that the parents are the kind that lay too much emphasis on marriage, then that's a red flag.

If you started dating her from your uni days or have been knowing her since then, look back to when you were in school. Was she the kind that's the first to resume school and the last to return home during the holidays? If yes, then she just wants the marriage. So, because she wants to escape her parents. Such girls would cling onto just anyone to get them out of what they consider a "cell." You know how some parents can make life tough for their wards.

There are many ways you can know this.

Let me say 18 to 24 want you, 25 and above want you for marriage. Because at the ages of 25 and above, most girls are extremely desperate for marriage some are even willing to marry any man they see even if they don't like him. Which is why guys should be very careful not to fall on their trap. If you are not ready for marriage date girls between the ages of 20 to 24 these set of girls are not too desperate to get married therefore they will not disturb you with marriage stuff. If you are ready for marriage you can date girls from 25 and above those are the girls that will sing marriage to your ear from morning to night.

I'd prefer a girl who NEEDS me.

'WANT' seems selfish/self-centered

A girl who wants marriage might not necessarily love you. All she sees in you is the man that will make her MRS, she will do anything to achieve this aim. She will even tolerate all your nonsense. She doesn't care about your negative sides, she will put up with them as long as you marry her.

A woman who wants you loves you for you and will do all she can to make you better, she will not put up with your bullshit, she will tell you when you're not doing things right, she won't tolerate you being mediocre, you will fight a lot with this type of woman cause all she wants is you and a better you.

If you fail to commit to the last woman I talked about, it will be your loss.

I think this explains the reason why men usually avoid wooing ladies above 27yrs...this thread is the answer; they suffocate the man with marriage topics and talks directly or indirectly and this scare every man; no man wants to marry a lady that just want him because she is desperate to marry!

Ladies wise up....stop carrying marriage on your head like Agege bread...sometimes forget about the marriage and enjoy the companionship or intimacy with the man and let him genuinely desire to spend the rest of his life with you to avoid later regrets after u directly or indirectly coerce him into marrying u

frenzyduchess:
but this seems to be the opposite on my end, a lady who has her own pricinples and stands her ground is seen as stubborn and rebellious, my relationship of few months hit the rock cos according to him, I don't do what he says. Even if I have an opinion about something, I should bottle it up and agree with him. So me I don't even understand what men want,you care too much, they say you are clingy, you are emotionally independent, they say you don't care and call you mean, you don't trouble them for marriage, they say you are unserious, you trouble them, they call you a desperado, you give in to all they say, they say you are a push over, you stand your ground, they say you are not submissive and stubborn, I just tire
Back to the topic, I don't think there is any way a woman will want to marry a man more then she wants him, it just depends on where marriage is on her scale of preference

My dear sister, if your principles are morally right, stick to them. Your man will come. Just be yourself, don't try to change to suit a man's needs, you should only do that in marriage, not for a boy who hasn't even become a man.

Badonasty:


Thought the op wanted to tell us how to different ni?

That was what I thought too ooo

girls who want marriage wil buy you pot and stoves on your birthday.while the one thats wants you.wil buy you phone and clothings wristwatch etc.as birthday gift.kikiki

kennygee:


My dear sister, if your principles are morally right, stick to them. Your man will come. Just be yourself, don't try to change to suit a man's needs, you should only do that in marriage, not for a boy who hasn't even become a man.

thanks, this why most women pretend cos some men just can't handle the real you,i am just not the type to say yes sir to everything especially when I know it is right and for my own good

Some girls tink marriage is one sought of padlock..... That cnt be broken...... See if i marry u, and u start misbehaving thinking that (its marriage, its for life) SORRY..... I will dissolve it.... Let heavens fall....... U want to disgrace urself thinking u want to trap me...

GloriaNinja:
WHAT ABOUT A MAN WHO JUST WANTS THE PUNNA?

What is punna?

henrygold100:
Some girls tink marriage is one sought of padlock..... That cnt be broken...... See if i marry u, and u start misbehaving thinking that (its marriage, its for life) SORRY..... I will dissolve it.... Let heavens fall....... U want to disgrace urself thinking u want to trap me...

Exactly