@op pay her back, don't let her suspect anything, have vengeful s*x regularly, still promise her marriage and then dump her.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

If you forgive her she will do it again. I assure you that now.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

If you commit suicide because of a girl, 1000 girls will walk over your grave

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Chief, investing in a girl is one of the most silliest thing man does to himself when he thinks he is in love.
Don't beat yourself up.

Get up. Break up with her. Move on. Find other priorities. As a man, there are many; work with them.
Believe me, unless she is your wife, most ladies are not really worth the wahala.

nairanaira12:


Your son's fiancee too will sleep around even till wedding night. I'm certain you will love that when you hear it.

did your fiancee sleep around too...lol....why are u so bitter Dude,,go lick sugar mehn,,u will be fine

WalexProp:
Forgive her! You also said you are not perfect so don't expect her to be. If she repents marry her. If she continues end the courtship.

From d story, its obvious she talks about d op with d guy. I think the op should sit her down and discuss, 6 years is too long to just throw away.

My brother, I swear ur own better if na just one ... mine had sex with 9 guys while in school and she told me with tears in her eyes, this happened yesterday ... The funny thing is I still want her back but am very scared.

Na me need help no be that guy.

dotunbekro06:
Bros don't tell me you want to break up because of this.. Then you don't love her





Oga stay with your package...



Like my nigga do say "Drag Mr/mz Left and Drag to the Right...



No time biko

What kind of useless advice is this? Mtchewww

Wise saying there!

pocohantas:


After the call she gave you back the phone? The girl never bad finish be that. The guy knows you sef, meaning he is the assistant boyfriend. Your own better, I wasn't this lucky

So...you invested in her? Is she treasury bills?

Rule 1: Love your partner, do your best to keep peace in the relationship, but don't overdo. Don't make anyone feel like the very essence of your living.

Na your choice o. I won't say you should forgive...but na your choice.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I never confront the guy and also, I never say I'm gonna kill anyone. Have you not been in a situation where negative thoughts will be running through your mind? Does that mean you will do it?

Self righteous people... Don't mind dem.. in such situation, having such thoughts are normal... Don't just do it..

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Boss, I feel your pain. Not every girl is worth investing but you actually got earning warning signs but didn't act on it cos of emotion. It was better you found out before getting married to her. You had over 1000 reasons why wait for another till she kill you?
My ex cheated countlessly on me I made my mind and dump her sorry ass after a two year rship.
Today I am married to a good lady God has blessed me with. October will make it two years BTW I am 31.
Pick your life and move on. She doesnt deserves you.

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

1). only gullible idiots date one girls for over 6 years.

2). it seems she's ur first girlfriend.

3). I strongly believe that u beat her.

4). An eternal life rule, stop going thru ur gf, fiancé or wife's phone, it only creates problem n solves nothing,take this or rule for the future, especially with a girl u intend to marry or a girl u have married. It's a NO NO.

My dear, a lady you have not married yet and you expect her to put all her eggs in one basket? Is isn't only men that cheat. If you still love her(since she opened up to you), go ahead and marry her. But Pls don't put all ur trust on any woman/man, except u have a good shock absorbers. Nobody is perfect and it's that imperfection that makes us human.

HarunaWest:

did your fiancee sleep around too...lol....why are u so bitter Dude,,go lick sugar mehn,,u will be fine

Your son's fiancee will sleep around till night before wedding and you will know about it. Then we'll see how you will take it.

if u having girl problem, I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but d b**ch aint one.

My brother. Kindly move on with your life and forget the lady. The moment you still have her in your life. You can never forget. Same thing happened to me. I eventually left the girl after 2 years the incidence occurred. I never caught her, she told me. I could not bear the memory any longer. Though she never repeated it, but I could not forget. I will be getting married with my new catch soon.

If you know you can't forget. Just let her go. You will only be hurting yourself the period you still have her Un your life.

If I slap u that love portion she gave u will clear from your system. How can you say, you cant believe a Nigerian vibrant young girl cheated on you? You are still saving to meet up with her bride price , and your life is already in misery. THINK what will happen when you marry this very girl.my advice for you is to go and make more money, at 30 you are still very young for all headache.

I have a fiance i want to settle down with, but i still dey back girls steady so that if she ever cheats on me,i can find it easy to forgive her

Man... you know I see in most lady, when ever you take them too serious, then you have a heart break, you should take them serious but not too serious.... I feel you bro, but you just have to let her go, we have a lot of them, I guess you have not met the right one for you... keep searching, I wish you a happy life in the feature.

HarunaWest:

And may your sleep with your sibling..say amen to that

Your prayer is stupid. You are the one that said abnormality is a welcome development in your family, not me.

TonyeBarcanista:
Wow!!!
I see no reason for you not to discontinue with the affair

Hope you will fill the vacuum?

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

Boy are u stupid or wat?? Thinking negative thoughts of killing the guy and suicide. Yhis only shows u lack maturity or composure to even be dAting anybody serious. She cheated on u and so WAT?? Yes its terrible i know bt u only hv 2 choices to make dumb her and move on or forgive her and try to help her be a better person. Negative thoughts, killing, fighting or suicide is for kids!!!! Grow up and deal with it pls.

Secondly never build ur life arrnd anybody u ain't married to yet. Bulid it arrnd u cos when stuff like this happens it breaks u down. Im sorry bt be a man and deal with it. No1 is perfect and we are all learning.

Story

GudPpleG8Nation:
I'm typing this with heavy burden in heart. I'm getting crazy and weeping.

I met this lady over 6 years ago during my higher institution days, she was a fresher while I'm in my semi final year in school. Things were going well, we had sex after two years of the relationship(I'm the one that disvirgin her).

I have been very caring, stood by her and also,I let go of any ladies that comes my way. I didn't want anything that will stain the relationship. That doesn't mean I'm perfect however I have been trying my best to make her feel comfortable, loved and happy.

I started feeling comfortable and worried about my future with her because I discovered that anytime we had a misunderstanding, before you know it she has find a guy she will be dirty chatting with. She always say she's doing that to hurt my feelings.

I proposed last year, met her mum and one of her uncle and introduced her to my parents officially. Presently, waiting for her extended family to send the list for the traditional marriage.

I traveled to Ibadan on Friday to spend the weekend with her, on Sunday I just took her phone to watch movie when a Whatsapp message, I checked it and I replied the message. The guy called her, she was reluctant to pick the phone, she picked and spoke with the guy. After which the guy messaged her on Whatsapp that he called to confirm she's the one chatting with him and not her bf. I play along and started chatting with the guy. The guy was telling her to come visit him, I started twisting the guy and he was splitting out how he won't touch her when she comes. I confronted my girl, it took her over 8 hours to confessed that they had sex.

Jesus! This is a lady I invested a lot on, build my world around, every other ladies are shit in my presence. Even when I had 1000 of reasons to let go, I still stay with her but right now my world is shattered, I'm going crazy.
I need help because I'm dying, where will I start from (I'm 30 years old). Every negative thought of this world is running through my mind (from committing suicide to killing the guy to making the girl useless to herself for the rest of her life)

GudPpleG8Nation a question I ask while giving relationship advice is "What is the worst thing your partner can ever do that you would find unforgivable? Assume they've done it, do you see yourself moving above it and letting go and you guys still being together?" If you can't let go, then you have no business in any relationship at all as it sorts of seems that people we love tend to do that which we fear the most.

There are no full guarantees. Relationships like all businesses have various forms of happy moments and non so palatable ones and we have to take it all together and sometimes upon considering the pros and cons you can either continue on investing in your business or let it go for more fruitful ventures.

Your girl kept doing what would hurt you at first but one of those periods and maybe weakness she moved on to second base. No one will live your life for you and the results are what only you would have to bear either you stay or call it quits. Do a SWOT analysis of your relationship with your woman and see if it is worth staying in or leaving. Also, we expect our businesses to provide a level of self gratification or satisfaction and so we need to put in place safeguards that would ensure the achievement of this. I hope you get my point.

Only you right now know best. I hope you make the best choice in maturity and a cool head and not in desperation.

Wishing you well - Teemy

favourmic:
Guy you better cool down, you die them go still Bleep am, you kill her you go to jail them go still Bleep am then who loose? Move on with your life and be thankful for saving your life from divorcee

Girls of now adays are trash...

Just negodu. Na u go Bleep am afta d girl don die. They need to keep you from going close to a mortuary b4 u bleep person mama.

kajsa08:
@op pay her back, don't let her suspect anything, have vengeful s*x regularly, still promise her marriage and then dump her.

Not cool dear, they say two wrongs don't make a right (in Wyclef's voice)

Heyahhhhhhhhhhh








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Chiamaka1:
Forgive and forget..I believe she must have learnt from her mistakes,u can't just tro away a relationship of 6years lyk dat...How re u sure that the next gal u will date wil b faithful..FORGIVE BRO!!

Forgive & forget indeed. pls can u forgive?

Just reading the comments with the most like that's all.

Maxvasia:
Smh. Lover boy.

When we tell u guys to forget about these ladies, and focus on more important things like being very successful, u ppl always think u r smarter. U fall into a trap and the first thing u think of is suicide. Issokay. It just means the only thing u know abt marriage is its spelling. U think its a joke. U obviously dnt know what these ladies are.

Guy forget them, make money and dey will auto-fall in place. If u like dnt listen. This is what happens to ppl who allow the society tell dem "just get a girl and settle down, u r already 30". U r lucky u r not married yet, ur suicide would have been surer

Error in processing... Hope u read the op's story well?

Odilafta1:
Well,people never know the value of what they have until it's gone.

Leave her for now,you are not too old to start anew because from the look of things,she's been playing outside and you won't forget that in a hurry.

Take a chill pill,laugh over it,a broken about-to-be married relationship is better than a flatmate relationship marriage.

Is not as easy as you think

Oyindidi:
Still let go! She owe you nothing as you two are not married yet. Move on

. Na wa for NL O ! So she as a right to Bleep around because they are not married ?

GudPpleG8Nation:

My guy I won't encourage you to leave the girl just like that instead I will advice that you study her countenance henceforth. Some girls after being caught grow bold and turn gangster Olosho while some are genuinely sorry it happened and take it as a learning curve never to let it happen again.

Now the reason I'll advice you not to let go is because of what is out there. My EX cheated during orientation camp I broke up the relationship thinking I will get another and indeed I have had tons of other girls but my ex is married to the older man she cheated with and they have two lovely kids. Now every single girl I have met after her live a life dedicated to deceit & cheating those I met in NL inclusive. There is none that does not have strings of bf labelled toasters waiting or servicing their honeypot till the mugu to put a ring on it comes around.

Here is a beta appreciation of the situation the guy she cheated with understand the quality your girl posses and he's seeking to covet her, if you slip up which happened to me bro they might be married in 6 month just like my situation. Now I have no idea how out going you are, how knowledgeable you are about finding "good marriageable girls" in Nigeria but trust me you'd NEVER find a beta girl than her so long you can vouch today she is a good girl but you need to figure out if her apology is genuine or not so you don't end up with a gangster Olosho or keep her in the wings faking forgiveness & search for a new girl. If a new good girl comes along well n good if not make do with her. What is out there is more dangerous.