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If you don't believe in the spiritual I wonder why you believe in Jesus Christ...they are something's you just don't argue at all. Okay you don't believe in the spiritual oya go and slap an herbalist or oloriigbe and see the science that will befall you

Sorry for your predicament bro...i really feel for you but i wouldnt want you to think your wife is the problem or any spiritual husband...why not look at it this way...if our roads are so okay your truck might not get involved in accident and that you lost everything like within 3years after your marriage means the profits and all were going to feeding,paying school fee and rent etc..why you couldnt expand on ur biz ...i mean getting more trucks after marriage
.Marriage is not a child play because of the expenses that come with it....Just sit down plan and make sure you dont make many babies .this also contribute to our problem overthere poor people many many babies while rich people make maximium 2 or 3 they can comfortably take care of...God will make away for you Amen

majekdom2:
obviously, you haven't seen the program before. Again, don't make assertions with little or no information. Yes, they do! Lols, now the American and German use firewood , karosin.... and they are talking going green. Oga you are clearly a silly person

So according to you some Americans and Germans come to TB Joshua for relief from spirit husbands ,is that right?

do you know who is a silly person Your mother at home. She is very silly

baby124:
Yea. Kind of how you also believe in spiritual husband and wife. Hahahahaha. You are a joke. Very funny.

how did you come to conclude I believe in spiritual spouse. I only alleged there is a problem somewhere going by how they even got married. Check through my posts on spouse issues, you will find I tell clearly.. address issues without sentiments, that's what you have failed at. You believe one part and leave out some other. To sound intelligent, is it not better you don't believe it at all

0m0nnakoda:
So according to you some Americans and Germans come to TB Joshua for relief from spirit husbands ,is that right?

do you know who is a silly person Your mother at home. She is very silly

again, go and see the program. Yes they do. Thought you allege them using karosin. Again, you have shown your stapidity

JeffreyJamez:
..and most of the time these women are ignorant of the spiritual burden they carry. I used to see all these "Spiritual husband and wife" shii as bullshit until I witnessed the "Spiritual divorce". The voice I heard that day ehn!...that was the day I knew that indeed there is a spiritual world!.

Shed more light bro.

op has told us how he lost all his wealth but I want to ask him this question, because according to him he left his salary job and started with three trucks, was it your salary that you saved that you used to acquire the three trucks? if you are sure that your hands are clean on how you came about your sudden wealth then there's need for you to start praying but if you know that you acquired this your wealth through some mischievous ways that affects someone knowingly or unknowingly then go back to God seek first for forgiveness, if possible you should meet the person you did that too. please I am not insinuating that you got your wealth through some dubious means but in case I am right about my suspicion, that way you will find your solutions easily but if it involves someone to forgive first then even if you go to anywhere you won't find a solution to your problems . sometimes we acquire wealth in a mischievous way and when karma catches up with us we seem to forget about our past, because karma may take it time to catch up with us and when it started you attribute it to someone being the cause.

Ishilove:
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That's why I shake my head at people when they say the phenomenon of spirit spouses is not real.

Especially the ones that keep sleeping around.

majekdom2:
again, go and see the program. Yes they do. Thought you allege them using karosin. Again, you have shown your stapidity

Have you got evidence please? One name of German and Americam cured by TB Joshua of this affliction with Spirit husband If they do make such claims then they would be shills that he uses to dupe gullible people like you. It proves nothing but your gullibility. Is it today that they have been bringing foreign pastors like Bonnke to dupe foolish people?

chronique:
Who nor go, nor know. Sometimes, I'm tempted to call up some of all these lekki runz girls for a few rounds but when I think about the different kind of clients they might have slept with and I remember my past experience, I just behave myself and look elsewhere... Some of us are damaging our lives but we don't know yet cos we haven't started eating from hand to mouth. We still think it's normal and we attribute it to general economy being bad. Na when water done pass garri, we go come open eyes.

Ehn kuku marry and leave all these side runs

Omoluabi16:
Shed more light bro.

Bro it's a long story. The person in particular is my mum. Bro the voice I heard coming from her that night was the voice of something not of this world. And the things I heard that night from that voice ehn. Bro no be everybody wey dey waka for road be human being o. Especially females. And no be every begger be human being. That night changed my life and perspective about a lot of things.

chronique:
Most of us have experienced things like this in varying degrees but it sometimes, isn't totally the faults of the women in the sense that, some of them are not aware of the problems. In my case, I was already noticing certain things after she took my name to go and pray but I couldn't talk, and wasn't totally sure until a younger person who was with me then pointed it out that since I started dating this girl, things has been some how. Na she come start to dey feed me. I would struggle to get things done and a day to the thing to manifest, one dream would manifest. Either I'm seeing my money from the biz gathered and burnt to ashes in dream, or someone is throwing me in a well and preventing me from coming out, or someone is barbing my hair in the dream, or someone else is wearing my shirt in my dream, etc. At the end, all efforts end in futility. Before I had the experience of these things, I used to mock people who talk about it. When it got to my turn, na my legs I take run go church go find solution. I thank God I experienced those things early enough in life. At least I'm better informed now. People who haven't seen such, would not understand it. I don't know how a man would succeed when he is sleeping with a lady whose brothers are sucking her breast at home, a lady who keeps not less than 4 boyfriends per time, etc. Men, I done waka yeye waka sha.

wow,this is deep!!!!issues like this that is way beyond human comprehension sends chills down ones spine,it ain't even restricted to a particular group alone,cuz anyone could fall victim tomao,well I think walking away from individuals that comes with bad vibes immediately its noticed should be another way out,prayers being the first.....m glad you pulled out of the storm stronger,you one of the lucky few.

Some nigerians when the get small exposure, the thing the know everything. Because u probably leaving in USA u thing u know it all.


That how people like u go about insulting people the can't speak or write English that is a borrowed language, oversabi nigerians.

People like you answer Jennifer Anderson no African heritage. Come to SA today is heritage day u will see how d value their culture. What's your history and heritage.

Miss borrowed life.

Mind you mourihno and so many are best coaches in the world but can't speak English properly.


Civilized lady with no root.

Fake ass.

cococandy:
Superstitious mor0ns every where

Ishilove:
Ehn kuku marry and leave all these side runs

I don't even know which one to do. Whether to marry(which is actually scaring the shit out of me with the many stories I read here), or have a baby mama and be seen as someone not responsible...lol. Getting married would entail falling in love and love these days na scam/fraud. Just a minute percentage are real.

majekdom2:
how did you come to conclude I believe in spiritual spouse. I only alleged there is a problem somewhere going by how they even got married. Check through my posts on spouse issues, you will find I tell clearly.. address issues without sentiments, that's what you have failed at. You believe one part and leave out some other. To sound intelligent, is it not better you don't believe it at all

You believe in spiritual husband especially. Re-read your previous posts. You obviously don't have a stand anywhere because if you did, you will not be changing your mouth to prove your point right now. I don't have time to quote you very well today so you are lucky. Today is Sunday and it's a day to spend with a family that is sane. Not come online and be discussing spiritual husband and how you are not progressing because of someone else. Abroad, you will be taken to a psychiatric ward. Lol.

chronique:
I don't even know which one to do. Whether to marry(which is actually scaring the shit out of me with the many stories I read here), or have a baby mama and be seen as someone not responsible...lol. Getting married would entail falling in love and love these days na scam/fraud. Just a minute percentage are real.

Haha. You never ready. When you're ready it will fall into place

0m0nnakoda:
Have you got evidence please? One name of German and Americam cured by TB Joshua of this affliction with Spirit husband If they do make such claims then they would be shills that he uses to dupe gullible people like you. It proves nothing but your gullibility. Is it today that they have been bringing foreign pastors like Bonnke to dupe foolish people?

again, foolish man. You were talking about the pedigree of those who believed in what you put upthere and then I mentioned the foreigners. Now you said it's a bein gullible. I told you clearly, I am not his follower and only have seen programs. My point is simply, people's background should not be used to insult their beliefs.. respect that. You keep shouting, mentioning dangote. I am sure if Dangote wants to engage me on this forum and talk his pedigree he will introduce himself as Dangote and not anonymous to buttress his assertions. On the contrary, I am forced to believe your are one jobless goat somwehere in a hut in Nigeria

streetzdreamz:
wow,this is deep!!!!issues like this that is way beyond human comprehension sends chills down ones spine,it ain't even restricted to a particular group alone,cuz anyone could fall victim tomao,well I think walking away from individuals that comes with bad vibes immediately its noticed should be another way out,prayers being the first.....m glad you pulled out of the storm stronger,you one of the lucky few.

I thank God but it wasn't easy. The day I ran into her several years later, I almost fainted. Had to give her a fake number. If I mistakenly sight that girl from far, the way I would run ehn, someone would think I've stolen something. Some other people have worse tales.

I heard a dude picked up a fling, had sex with her as usual and dropped her off at home at night. Next day, he went to visit her and when he asked after her, the family members were surprised cos he told them he dropped her off that night. After a while, they told him the girl had died several years ago, and the girl he was asking for, couldn't possibly be their daughter. Dude almost ran mad. People who don't believe these things will tell you it's just a folk tale.

From most comments here specially from some ladies, you will realize that some people have little or no knowledge about the spirit world. Even people who are under such bondage.

Your case is clearly spirit husband. Even if you try to separate before telling your wife, it might still backfire. I have a neighbor who lost his wife after so much suffering and pain. Thr moment she died, several companies started offering him job.

Pick your things and run for your wife. If you had disappeared from nigeria to Holland without her knowledge, you would have saved your destiny. Satan can mostly use what you say....dont ever forget this.

Again pick your things and run for your life. Dont discuss it sir. Dont discuss it ooooo with her. She and her company will fight your every move and even make your life more bitter. Its not every lady they stop from having kids. They can just focus on emptying you and killing you afterwards. They end up single and rich or somehow comfortable. They empty the destiny of everyone they come across.

Pick few clothes and disappear. You will be surprised at the revolution of your life. And when you disappear, run to God. If you want to save her, please save yourself first. You cant save her right now. You will require money and supernatural power of God, and an annointed man of God to get her out of the pit.

Oga first run for your life.....

allenroundabout:
Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

awaken yourself from your slumber... God can give you total victory if you hold on to him...

Were your trucks and business not insured?

allenroundabout:
Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

JeffreyJamez:
Bro it's a long story. The person in particular is my mum. Bro the voice I heard coming from her that night was the voice of something not of this world. And the things I heard that night from that voice ehn. Bro no be everybody wey dey waka for road be human being o. Especially females. And no be every begger be human being. That night changed my life and perspective about a lot of things.

These things can be staged. I am not saying yours was but they can be ,I know from my own personal experience.There was not far from where I live once a place that I can pnly call a 419 school where they would do rehearsals like theatre arts troipe on every format I know. Rehearsing pickpocketing ,switching of goods, removal of lizard from your stomach ,hypnosis and so on.The one that remains with me till today one of the Baba's children was maybe 8 or 9 he was so good at producing lizards from my pocket lol!! anytime he saw me . He said he would teach me for 500 naira and insisted there was no juju involved but I was fearful.So many other things I saw there but they were just tricks they mastered by training with the dame discipline as soldiers .That same boy could throw his voice so it would be coming from your back or from your bag if you had one.This was before mobile phones. I wonder whwre they are now. All those exercises have one end you release money or you submit to another person's authority.

There is nothing that has no explanation only we may not know it

majekdom2:
again, foolish man. You were talking about the pedigree of those who believed in what you put upthere and then I mentioned the foreigners. Now you said it's a bein gullible. I told you clearly, I am not his follower and only have seen programs. My point is simply, people's background should not be used to insult their beliefs.. respect that. You keep shouting, mentioning dangote. I am sure if Dangote wants to engage me on this forum and talk his pedigree he will introduce himself as Dangote and not anonymous to buttress his assertions. On the contrary, I am forced to believe your are one jobless goat somwehere in a hut in Nigeria

Your mother is the stupid woman. I xan see her epilepsy is frustrating you.
Wht not take her to TB Joshua.

I know say the karosin thin pain you but you are what you are

baby124:
You believe in spiritual husband especially. Re-read your previous posts. You obviously don't have a stand anywhere because if you did, you will not be changing your mouth to prove your point right now. I don't have time to quote you very well today so you are lucky. Today is Sunday and it's a day to spend with a family that is sane. Not come online and be discussing spiritual husband and how you are not progressing because of someone else. Abroad, you will be taken to a psychiatric ward. Lol.

hello, pls show me the post. I mentioned an inlaw that got delivered from some forces, I didn't say it was a spiritual husband. All along all I have said is there are spiritual forces/adversaries and I never attributed that to one party. I am not denying that. It is you who chose to give the name spirit husband/ wife. Read again an understand. We need to hear from your family to know if they are sane. We need to hear from the other party.. like you do say. Hello @ bolded, this is nairaland.. Nigeria land not abroad. We have been there and back. Why would I be jailed for what offence? Believing in a force? Are you sure you are sane or you have eaten some shit tonight?

Your problem is spiritual.Deal with it the earlier the better .Otherwise nothing for you.

0m0nnakoda:
Your mother is the stupid woman. I xan see her epilepsy is frustrating you.
Wht not take her to TB Joshua.

I know say the karosin thin pain you but you are what you are

lmao, this is how we got them!!! I see clearly you are a woman. Oya sorry, biko, Pele, mabinu

neonly:
Can u mail pls need to talk to u privately ekanem75@Gmail.com

I sent a PM already.. Seen?

OP Please take this advice,given by freshvine,spirit husbands and spirit wives are very real,they are destructive and very stubborn, take a very drastic step to address this issue,take your wife for deliverance at MFM,you yourself need to indergo same deliverance,from there begin to build up yourself spiritually,this is the only way out of this kind of problem,you may be able to recover and regain all your lost fortune with time but you need to fight off these evil forces with aggression.

freshvine:
Sorry about your predicaments but the truth is your marriage is the cause of your affliction. It's time to confront your wife but in a lovely manner both of you can find closure. What the spirit husband is doing is to render you useless and finally destroy the marriage so that your wife will be free of you and betrothed to him alone. But before the conversation with your wife, try stay awake most nights to watch over her and the way she sleeps.

Spirit husbands will send different afflictions to you including witches and wizards. Wherever you turn and whatever you do, you'll only attract hatred and jealousy from people and the evil amongst this poll will want to hurt you indirectly or directly.

Most ladies are aware that they're having these challenges hence they tend to be more religious than being spiritual. You'll notice whenever you make love to your wife, something terrible or insignificant as it may be happens thereafter. My bro, you've purchased the goods of the spirits.

How do women attract spirit husband?

Background : Our background says a lot of our individual personalities. If her parents had worshipped some useless gods and did sacrifices to protect her, definitely she'll be possessed with demonic powers warding off eligible men. The demon will come as a spirit being to be having canal knowledge of her from time to time. Majority of our parents did unspeakable things for family protection in the past.

Sex : our young ladies due to material things run after occultic men and money ritualist. Believe me, women are highly needed to make their sacrifices potent. Some requirements are to sleep with unsuspecting women and mostly women are not the targets but a vehicle to their target chain, the other successful men who will ignorantly sleep with them. When once this occultic men have had their time with any female, automatically, a demon is assigned to her to be a talent and destiny collector from her unsuspecting men in her life. Marrying such lady simply means you'll be contributing to the food chain of the original occultic man. Whenever you become too useless, your wife leaves you to another successful man and the cycle continues. Their prey is always beautiful ladies.

You need deliverance for your wife.

If you become stubborn, they'll render you impotent, attack your health.

majekdom2:
lmao, this is how we got them!!! I see clearly you are a woman. Oya sorry, biko, Pele, mabinu

Karosin boy na you and who dey laff? Who is your coeval? Dirty low life scum. gerrout of my face. Nebbish!!

0m0nnakoda:
Karosin boy na you and who dey laff? Who is your coeval? Dirty low life scum. gerrout of my face. Nebbish!!

why are you pained... Truth hurts... eishhhhh . FYI, if you can read through my post on here, you should be able to tell what class I belong to but that does not mean I have to insult others that are below to butress my point. Again, mention yourself and not dangote when next you want to cite an example. In the interim, you are not different from what you put up there, even worse. A pepper seller or your father a keke rider obviously... eishhhh

majekdom2:
lmao, this is how we got them!!! I see clearly you are a woman. Oya sorry, biko, Pele, mabinu

We come from completely different social classes in Nigeria and those classes are ossified.The superstitious social climbing, karosin users who think that some miracle breakthrough will somehow elevate them.You are deluded. You cannot wash off the smell of katrosin.You are programmed to believe weapons are being fashioned against you.That is how your kind think. Tough words but true.
As for me the only enemy I can ever have is myself and that is the fundamental difference between gas and karo

majekdom2:
why are you pained... Truth hurts... eishhhhh . FYI, if you can read through my post on here, you should be able to tell what class I belong to but that does not mean I have to insult others that are below to butress my point. Again, mention yourself and not dangote when next you want to cite an example. In the interim, you are not different from what you put up there, even worse. A pepper seller or your father a keke rider obviously... eishhhh

Of course your class shines through like a karosin Atupa. You cannot shake that off. That is where all those stupid beliefs come from so please spare me the drivel.Haven't you got some demons to bind tonight?