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| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by pedrilo: 9:12pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
As a young n successful 30 years old man wit house n a gud job, this is one of the reasons I dread marriage! Mk one witch nor come use her reggae spoil my cool blues |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Oselu28(f): 9:57pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
newyorks:let be friends,u r smart...going by ur last sentence |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Oselu28(f): 9:58pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
just be prayerful... |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by newyorks(m): 10:15pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Oselu28:ur wish is my command ur majesty. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 10:20pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
allenroundabout:young man come to lord chosen charismatic revival ministry and i promise you that your situation will change.young man i am very certain your wife is either from the marine kingdom or married to a spiritual husband.my dear is obvious,if all you said is true. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by djon78(m): 10:39pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Brother you married wrongly. Your wife has very strong foundational issue. You need serious deliverance. I laugh at some people that say this is superstitious. Black Africa has so many dark forces we are battling here. Things are very much deeper than people think. If you are powerless, you will be Pepper soup for all these dark forces. In addition there is this Igbo adage that says nwoke nua nwanyi amalu akala akia. Meaning until a man marries a wife you will know his destiny. I know men that married who were reached but marriage brought blessings to them. That is why people must pray very well before marriage |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Tega9999: 10:48pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Bro,go to SCOAN and your problem will be solved. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Tega9999: 10:52pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
allenroundabout: |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by davidif: 10:58pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
allenroundabout:
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| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by davidif: 11:05pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
allenroundabout:Bros, this is not time to come to nairaland and talk to flesh and blood. Go and separate yourself with God and ask him what you should do. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by TinaAnita(f): 11:06pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Another marriage is on the verge of crumbling due to blame-shifting.. I feel sorry for the poor woman for being demonized by her own husband. That's what happens when a woman marries a man who never takes responsibility for his failure.. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 11:19pm On Sep 24, 2017*. Modified: 11:48pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Sabrina18:Take a good LOOK and REFLECT thoroughly on what Sabrina18 has said.Check ALSO your own BACKGROUND thoroughly AKA your Village |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by XKZ(m): 11:40pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
allenroundabout:Next time insure your trucks. That's the only advice you need. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by ithink7: 11:58pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
I have't even finish reading the story before I knew this might be an issue of spirit husband. Those evil spirits are usually very nasty things. They prefer to kill their victim than to let go. Spiritual issues are often difficult to grasp because you cannot monitor spirit activities with scientific instruments nor the normal five senses. You'll often find spirit husband/wife living in the bowels or anus or some other part of their victim's body. You might need to do some research to have a better grip at the situation. Checkout this video and other video from this guy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJEmy7fWkI0 You might also want to try out deliverance as others have suggested. Bro, it's time to go spiritual. I'm speaking from experience. allenroundabout: |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:09am On Sep 25, 2017 |
KingTom:Science get where e power reach na. There are many things science can't explain but Spirituality can. E.g The Bermuda Triangle. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by jnrbayano(m): 12:35am On Sep 25, 2017 |
cococandy:I don't like saying this and from how you sounded its dead on arrival. lol Spiritual husbands are very real and Op's problems in its entirety are the misfortune they cause. I don't blame his wife. She's only being manipulated. Like I said before, my submission is most likely to be dead on arrival. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Truesapiosexual(f): 2:32am On Sep 25, 2017 |
God bless you too Chascop: |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Coldfeets: 3:27am On Sep 25, 2017 |
So many superstitious people here. I'm out of here! WTF! ![]() If every little one or two problems a man has is of spiritual nature, then we might as well invite the whole MFM to bind and cast for Nigeria as a whole because progresswise, the country has failed to move forward! Damn it! Wake up, people! Wake up, all ye dumb Africans! Your inability to wake up, to ask the right questions, and to look at things the way they really are, is pribably the only stumbling block standing between you and your success. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Ebbychosen: 3:52am On Sep 25, 2017 |
My dear,your solution is d supernatural power,ps62:11,is obvious ur problem is dt spiritual husband claiming ownership of ur wife,goto a powerful deliverance ministry like,the lords chosen church or mfm,n get delivered n ur wife,n while praying pray against any spirit man claiming ownership of ur wife n declared to him boldly dt spirit being can't be a husband to physical being n read Amos3vs 3.ur help will come from above cose is a great deliverer . |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:33am On Sep 25, 2017 |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by drnoel: 7:00am On Sep 25, 2017 |
freshvine:I keep saying it, Africans especially Nigerians are cursed. Imagine what ur imagination has worth? |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by calcal: 7:17am On Sep 25, 2017 |
Mr. man, you are running a transport business without insurance, and you know the road conditions in nigeria, in fast you are not seriuos. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by starstunna1313(m): 7:28am On Sep 25, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:Madam chill.. Before I would not say this but having a first hand experience with this I believe in spiritual issues at times.. My eldest sis was married for over 10 years without having an issue before eventually having 2 with her new husband. Medically both her and the husband are fit to hv babies. So the thing there was that her husband loves her so much and showers her with so much love and gifts bc d money de but still no issues. She started looking for answers through prayers but before then most of my aunts having been telling her that the husband belongs to a deity which his dad initiated him into and he took an oath then to give up having kids. She refused to believe it even when she also saw it in her dreams especially because she is all those type of luvin wives that believes you must stay in ur marriage no matter wat. But eventually she left the marriage, remarried 6 yrs with 2 kids and her ex-husband too remarried still with no issue. Note: One day she received a call from the ex-husband's wife describing the same particular dreams she used to hv wen she was married to him.... But am not saying any martial issue is spiritual ![]() |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Oselu28(f): 7:33am On Sep 25, 2017 |
newyorks:lol,how r u |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by dopemama(f): 8:14am On Sep 25, 2017 |
Op ur problem is 200%spiritual, and honestly ur wife may not know she has a spiritual oga... Call this no08055078953 he's a man Of God... God ll have mercy on u! Let me know if u need my own no too |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 8:36am On Sep 25, 2017 |
It is funny how people cannot be foolish alone they MUST insist on recruiting others to fall victim to the same scam as them. Instead of using the greatest miracle on earth( the Human Brain) to solve problems they resort to superstition dresssed up as religion. It is spiritual , go to MFM ,go to SCOAN go to this go to that. Reading through this thread would explain why our nation is so backward and going nowhere soon It is true that people perish for lack of lnowledge Search in Google for percentage of businesses that fail . In many advanced countries only 4 out of 10 make it to 5 years . I wonder what the figure is in Nigeria. Please pause and reflect on that. 60% of new businesses consistently fold up by their 5th birthday in advanced countries Surely there can't be that many spirit spouses around?? Now if I said to the OP instead of going to MFM and SCOAN . let me introduce you to my accountant bring the accounts of your business from day one so you can analyse them together.. I can bet a million naira. There will be no accounts produced and yet you claim to be in business. But that is business 101 and is the same for most so called Nigerian businessmen.They lack a fundamental understanding of business and so when they appear to be doing well in reality they are just lucky but as time goes on this lack of knowledge and understanding will tell just like Arsenal which leads the table at the start and crashes at the end of the season. A business can be taken to a doctor if it is sick just like a person. That means records and accounts. When you use your business to pay your personal expenses you are looking for trouble and often get it. I know many will continue in their Mountain of Fire and Brimstone mode because that is how they are programmed and this message is not for them but for the few who still have a chance of putting their brains in gear and using for what it was meant for. This internet and computer technology is the output of that brainpower and it is a living miracle let us stop acting like children and behave like real adults by TAKING PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR LIVES |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by KINGEDEVOR(m): 8:55am On Sep 25, 2017 |
She has a very strong spiritual husband,she need to be deliver. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 8:58am On Sep 25, 2017 |
Someone would say I have 10 trucks and I would say you have depreciating assets.Trucks are not Cows goats or pigs that have children but they die like cows goats and pigs. They also fall"sick" like those animals requiring often costly treatment .They have a lifespan and therefore accountants call them a depreciating asset. That means that as they generate income you must regularly set aside money to purchase another one in due course.Did you do that. If a truck is generating money and you treat that money as your Salary are you not looking for trouble. So the income from your truck should go into Mauntenance Running expenses Insurance ( comprehensive with a reputable company) even Zenith bank offers insurance these days. If your truck is stolen or crashes you will receive compensation. It may be costly but is a rational way of risk management Provision for Depreciation/purchase of new truck (in my opinion 50 %) in an untouchable account Then you can start thinking of a salary for yourself. If this discipline is not there and you pay your salary first then you have decided not to replace the truck. You start living the life of a man with 10 trucks and very soon you will become a man with 5. Discipline is key to business. Do not treat your business as your ATM but as another person with its own life .Do not do anything to kill your business and then start blaming your wife and her imaginary spirit husbands |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by learoce(m): 9:07am On Sep 25, 2017 |
allenroundabout:Oga go to MFM and pray your deliverance, carry your wife along if she is cooperative. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by newyorks(m): 9:31am On Sep 25, 2017 |
Oselu28:am just grt nd u? |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Emasel(m): 9:44am On Sep 25, 2017 |
Whether we like it or not, life is not only physical but spiritual, for people disbelieving the OP's claims. God be with you sir. |
| Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by KingTom(m): 10:08am On Sep 25, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:Exactly. |
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