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damesilver:
Nothing wrong with being close to any human being unless they themselves do not want it. We are not meant to be selective in those whom we should share our love and benevolence with. The law says love thy neighbour; love all mankind even thy enemy, as long as the motivations are really pure.

However, do not be flattered by the profession of admiration towards you or by the prospect of an harmless pleasure. As regards with the story above, I perceive that the motives behind this imminent closeness may not be absolutely pure, the cloud surrounding it is ominous; it is suggestive of sexual intrigues. I suggest that such closeness be not allowed else somebody will get hurt. It may sound interesting at the beginning but the end will be sad. This is always the end result of any endeavour that is not in accord with the laws of nature; laws of morality.

The motive behind an action is the basis for judgement. As a guiding principle, I want to start to assess every of my doings as to how secretive it is. If my motives are really clean and free of blame, I should not be afraid to make it open. You may use this as a guild. Will you feel confident to allow people know everything you do both in open and in secret?

graphiti:
Taa.....
Na him wan use devil (cover up)!!!
By d time gbege burss, na devil he go blame.

AmoryBlacq:
Friendship should have boundaries!

from what I read this is a promising sexual relationship in its latent!

You got to understand that women are very deceptive and cunning, better flee now before you find yourself in an entanglement of problems laced with disaster!

She wants to come cook for you - what sort of B.S is that?

verdict: tell her you need her husband's permission especially with her coming to your place ( never bring her to your house man) and watch her disappear!

jc4real:
I'm moved by this comment.
Respect!

thonyokun:
See as ladies avoid this thread like plague. Birds of a feather...

Papiikush:
She'bout to cum on that dick.

Jumping around your bed going crazy for that dick.

Nigga if you moving, she out of state too for that dick

She will cry for that dick... Cuz you've got her thinking "God I am alive for that dick"

AmoryBlacq:
Friendship should have boundaries!

from what I read this is a promising sexual relationship in its latent!

You got to understand that women are very deceptive and cunning, better flee now before you find yourself in an entanglement of problems laced with disaster!

She wants to come cook for you - what sort of B.S is that?

verdict: tell her you need her husband's permission especially with her coming to your place ( never bring her to your house man) and watch her disappear!

FortifiedCity:
There is this very young and beautiful married woman. She told me she is 28 years. She's been pregnant once. I assisted her brother get a small job lately. Before then, anytime i see her on the road, we greet. If she wanted to buy something, I'll pay with a clean heart and walk away. Ever since then, she's shown me her appreciation in words. Somehow we started talking on whatsapp lately. She gave me her number.

But now, she's telling me that she prefers keeping guys as friends. In fact she has offered to come and cook for me today but I told her I am not around. I was very open to her that her being so close might tempt me to touch her that it's better she stays far from me or we talk whenever we see on the road. I told her this to scare her away from coming close but it's not working.

She says that me telling her that will not make her be free but she still insists that she'd come to my house. She said she'd like to be free with me, jumping on my bed and playing around but she just likes me as a friend.

Is it wrong to be a close friend with a married woman?
Please guys what do you think?

Sebastine1606:
She's on a mission to defile your bed and throw her honor and pride wholly into your mercy, if you don't flea from her now that you have the time, it will shock you that it's when you are already making love to "Another man's wife" your eyes will be clean and open
So flea from this temptation as fast as your legs can carry you and avoid short call to death and hell
God will help you.....

FortifiedCity:
Thank you so much. You spoke adviced without condemning me. I really appreciate. God continue blessing. I want to slowly start withdrawing from her

FortifiedCity:
Thank you so much. You spoke adviced without condemning me. I really appreciate. God continue blessing. I want to slowly start withdrawing from her

FortifiedCity:
There is this very young and beautiful married woman. She told me she is 28 years. She's been pregnant once. I assisted her brother get a small job lately. Before then, anytime i see her on the road, we greet. If she wanted to buy something, I'll pay with a clean heart and walk away. Ever since then, she's shown me her appreciation in words. Somehow we started talking on whatsapp lately. She gave me her number.

But now, she's telling me that she prefers keeping guys as friends. In fact she has offered to come and cook for me today but I told her I am not around. I was very open to her that her being so close might tempt me to touch her that it's better she stays far from me or we talk whenever we see on the road. I told her this to scare her away from coming close but it's not working.

She says that me telling her that will not make her be free but she still insists that she'd come to my house. She said she'd like to be free with me, jumping on my bed and playing around but she just likes me as a friend.

Is it wrong to be a close friend with a married woman?
Please guys what do you think?

cococandy:
For what? Does he rape them?

newdawn2017:
u must surely share in d curse I placed on him since u see no harm in his wickedness.

newdawn2017:
u must surely share in d curse I placed on him since u see no harm in his wickedness.

FortifiedCity:
Ah Ah now. This is too much for crying out loud.

What that guy did was very wrong. But on a second thought, those women are also guilty for letting it happen.

That's what cococandy was trying to say. There is no point you being this aggressive. She is also a woman like you. Haba

Ndinweobodo:
It baffles me how people refused themselves from the truth. For what reason should a married man and single girl be friends not to talk of close pal. Honestly is cery wrong and not encouraging at all.
Avoiding the mind battle and other chemistry attached.
Let your wife ir husband be the figure that you desired.

cococandy:
Drink a cokse and calm down

FortifiedCity:
Ah Ah now. This is too much for crying out loud.

What that guy did was very wrong. But on a second thought, those women are also guilty for letting it happen.

That's what cococandy was trying to say. There is no point you being this aggressive. She is also a woman like you. Haba

Ndinweobodo:
It baffles me how people refused themselves from the truth. For what reason should a married man and single girl be friends not to talk of close pal. Honestly is cery wrong and not encouraging at all.
Avoiding the mind battle and other chemistry attached.
Let your wife ir husband be the figure that you desired.

Guy keep avoiding her..

fear women..Even the devil is afraid of them