dessz:
that second day was the u luckiest day of this 3 past months. My power bank got stolen for bet9ja shop wey I go charge. I forget am when I dey carry me phone and charger put for pocket. My charger broke and transformer spoil all on the same day

lol u have been playing the game for long oo, what is the max castle level of the game and what was ur own

If we check am,Op will be from the South South .

whitebeard:
another thing bout the game is u have to be upgrading constantly..!

no dis one u have to be online constantly during beginning of server to get gud headstart. During first 15 days u have to play 12hours a day at least. After that 4-6 hrs a day is gud. So u have to be jobless to play well

Iwaycee:

I respect ur opinion, but dats not d best option in dis case. Can u visualize ur wedding day without any family member from ur side, although they ar still alive, truly speaking U won't enjoy dat, so I believe d man should try and sort tinz out with d help of elderly ones in the family

Thanks that's rare to see on NL

I understand your point, but lol if they push me away first than yes I will enjoy it.


I wanted him to try and settle but threatening him that he shouldn't marry before he settles them and if he doesn't they won't come to the wedding was too dramatic for me.

What does settling them even entail op?

whitebeard:
lol u have been playing the game for long oo, what is the max castle level of the game and what was ur own

no dis one is about prestige and power, u attack npc and other players for resources(wood, iron, stone, food and silver) the highest city wall is lvl10. But 100k archers with a good hero e.g poseidon would destroy it in one volley. Only troops matter

dessz:
no dis one u have to be online constantly during beginning of server to get gud headstart. During first 15 days u have to play 12hours a day at least. After that 4-6 hrs a day is gud. So u have to be jobless to play well

u are so on point I could not play any other game as soon as I start playing those games..the beginning stage u have to be online cause the upgrade time is short, but as u progress the upgrade the become more big.. u u are online less

How come you have been helping them for the past 10 years and none is established

You were taking care of their basic needs without focusing on a permanent fix.

Show a man how to fish, don't give him fish.

whitebeard:
lol u have been playing the game for long oo, what is the max castle level of the game and what was ur own

best troops is trebuchet but it takes too long to build. Next is battering ram then ballista then armored calvary then light cav then archers legionaries, pikemen, auxiliaries (infantry)

holyboii:


its only a stupid man that will PM any gal on Nairaland

Bro Dem no dey telli person

madridguy:
Funny you bro well, from your write up seem you're the type that only give fish without teaching your siblings how to fish

Teach two of them how to fish and the rest will stop calling you alone.

You have a point, but that's if he has the capacity to do that.
@OP,try your best to teach your immediate two how to catch fish and give yourself some respite

dessz:
best troops is trebuchet but it takes too long to build. Next is battering ram then ballista then armored calvary then light cav then archers legionaries, pikemen, auxiliaries (infantry)

wow interesting

dessz:
best troops is trebuchet but it takes too long to build. Next is battering ram then ballista then armored calvary then light cav then archers legionaries, pikemen, auxiliaries (infantry)

nice u already know the pros and cons of the game.

holyboii:



but you approve of lazy Nigerian hoe.s


mtcheeew all this "F" Moniker claiming to be cool and upright. its only a stupid man that will PM any gal on Nairaland

Witchcraft is ripe.

How did you move from the topic to PMs? Help me navigate

madridguy:
Funny you bro well, from your write up seem you're the type that only give fish without teaching your siblings how to fish

Teach two of them how to fish and the rest will stop calling you alone.

strangely,i would have to agree with u...

hdeeman:
i have always have a very close relationship with my siblings while growing up, which i have tried much to see that everyone is comfortable. i don,t based in Nigeria, but my family has always been my first priority. but everything changed immediately i want to get married. that i have to settle everyone first before getting married. they automatically ganged against me, that if i don,t settle that no one will come for my marriage. this really pissed me off cos this is the same people i have been struggling for over 10 years now. am no longer a kid if i start to settle i will never get married. this is really disturbing me, they only call you on phone when they need something. it really hurt when people you love dearly treat you like this. how do i go about this cos i have decided what ever will happen let it happen, let me look for my own life. i owe no one a dime, every struggle is me and me alone,

You've already answered your own question and provided solution to your problem, so what other advice do you still need?

Your family is obviously made up of scroungers, moochers, parasites and vampires who will drain you of your blood and share it among themselves in spanish glass cups, consume your flesh in an horrifying act of cannibalism, and then finalize their obliteration of your destiny by feasting on your very soul itself.

"Settle them" before you can get married? This must be one of the most ridiculous batshit I've had the misfortune of reading this year. You're surrounded by evil kin.

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Tozara

smh. please I beg u dont marry. with a family like yours i cant see how your wife can have peace

ToZaraWithaZ:
You've already answered your own question and provided solution to your problem, so what other advice do you still need?

Your family is obviously made up of scroungers, moochers, parasites and vampires who will drain you of your blood and share it among themselves in spanish glass cups, consume your flesh in an horrifying act of cannibalism, and then finalize their obliteration of your destiny by feasting on your very soul itself.


"Settle them" before you can get married? This must be one of the most ridiculous batshit I've had the misfortune of reading this year. You're surrounded by evil kin.

Bro if they supponsor your travelling bills with family property or the family gives you help financially, you must settle them

You did not say the whole story here.

Did they sacrifice going to school for you alone to he educated? Some families do it with an agreement that you will in turn train someone.

If you are abroad, did they sell a family land to send you there?

Ask yourself these and other honest questions so you don't bring an innocent lady into a prearranged storm.

By the way hope you are spiritually strong? I mean really prayerful?

Daeylar:

Lol....... I was merely telling him the truth.

Small-minded people are fond of throwing around words they hear, know but don't understand. This "teach one or two of your brothers how to fish by either taking them abroad or establishing them financially back home" crew failed to understand that he possibly doesn't have what it may necessarily take to get someone to a reasonable abroad legally. Or maybe that he gave some of them money to establish themselves back home but they failed in their pursuits - in some cases some of them may have decided to be leech-like and predaceous even when they are literally doing better than him. According to the guy, he has given them the best of him in the last 10 years.

If you send someone to school up to higher education level literally you've taught such a person how to fish. Also when you extend a financial support to someone to support her business or started a new one for her you've literally taught the person how to fish. But small-minded people never understand all these. To them one must carry them like handbags - even in their conceited and disingenuous attitudes - before they will understand that you've taught them how to fish. In their conceitedness they forgot that you obviously didn't just wake up one day and know all you have known or attain your height, thus, ought to create their own life paths and encrypt them. Envious people everywhere.

A conceited person never makes a good follower because to him he knows everything, so once you have one around you, even as a boss, you can never command his genuine loyalty unless you're ready to allow him to lead you to doom in his ignorant state - they know everything but understand nothing. As for a disingenuous person, you already have an outright frienemy who's ready to betray you at will and still expects you to keep him around and trust him.

@OP, all you need to do henceforth should be to adopt a principle of conscientiousness. Avoid using servility in sustaining your relationship with them. Just be of goodness to them. You've a family of small-minded people. They're always opportunistic, insatiable, ungrateful, narcissistic, selfish, self-centered, greedy and covetous. Yet they're quick to play victim.

madridguy:
Funny you bro well, from your write up seem you're the type that only give fish without teaching your siblings how to fish

Teach two of them how to fish and the rest will stop calling you alone.

God bless you

LordKO:
Small-minded people are fond of throwing around words they hear, know but don't understand. This "teach one or two of your brother's how to fish by either taking them abroad or establishing them financially back home" crew failed to understand that he possibly doesn't have what it may necessarily take to get someone to a reasonable abroad legally. Or, maybe that he had tried giving some of them money to established themselves back home but the failed in their pursuits. According to the guy, he has given them the best of him in the last 10 years.

If you send someone to school up to higher education level literally you've taught such a person how to teach - but small-minded people doesn't seem to understand this. Also when you extend a financial support to someone to support her business or started a new one for her you've literally taught the person how to fish. But small-minded people never understand all these. To them one must carry them like handbags - even in their conceiteded and disingenuous attitudes - before they will understand that you've taught them how to finish. . . But the forget that you obviously didn't just wake up one day and know all you know or attain your height, thus, ought to create their own lifestyles and encrypt it. Envious people everywhere.

@OP, all you need to do henceforth should be to adopt a principle of conscientiousness. Avoid using servility in sustaining your relationship with them. Just be of goodnight to them.

You have made real facts my brother, bitter truth, the guy has done his best

MhizzAJ:

I wee not answer u

But Na true him talk only say him too harsh

ToZaraWithaZ:
Lol....... I was merely telling him the truth.

The guy has to sit down before reading this your truth, if not he may collapse

arrestdarrester:
You did not say the whole story here.

Did they sacrifice going to school for you alone to he educated? Some families do it with an agreement that you will in turn train someone.

If you are abroad, did they sell a family land to send you there?

Ask yourself these and other honest questions so you don't bring an innocent lady into a prearranged storm.

By the way hope you are spiritually strong? I mean really prayerful?

This is another fact, but he has given 10 years of his life, so what else do they want, they want him to be a slave to them all his life or sell his life to their service
Hell No, they are also matured

@OP, do you Widows myth and go ahead, with your life.
But take the bolded seriously

Daeylar:


The guy has to sit down before reading this your turth, if not he may collapse

Hehehe.

kimbraa:
These your siblings think you owe them. One thing I've come to realize in this life is that, for the fact you were born alone into the world through a family: your destiny isn't in anyone's hands. It's between you and your God. The moment you fail, you have yourself to blame and not your mother/father/siblings/friends. These people are so backward that they feel they're entitled to what you have. If I were you, I'd ignore them and if this condition they gave you came as a product of their thought process then you shouldn't have any business with them. They're the kind you'll help and tomorrow when the chips are down, they won't remember you got them where they are.

My dear, I can't be you. His school fees was paid Na, he sucked someone's breast @ child birth. He should have helped one or 2 of his brothers up @ least small fund to start a business, then leave them for good

Noted!
Ok??
we will try nd consider ur case in dis court of nairaland

case full ground 4 now

madridguy:
Funny you bro well, from your write up seem you're the type that only give fish without teaching your siblings how to fish

Teach two of them how to fish and the rest will stop calling you alone.

I salute your idea.

Gr8 one