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Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by whitebeard(m): 6:34pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
dessz:lol u have been playing the game for long oo, what is the max castle level of the game and what was ur own |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by JeffreyJamez(m): 6:35pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
If we check am,Op will be from the South South . |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by dessz(m): 6:35pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
whitebeard:no dis one u have to be online constantly during beginning of server to get gud headstart. During first 15 days u have to play 12hours a day at least. After that 4-6 hrs a day is gud. So u have to be jobless to play well |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Daeylar(f): 6:37pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Iwaycee: Thanks that's rare to see on NL I understand your point, but lol if they push me away first than yes I will enjoy it. I wanted him to try and settle but threatening him that he shouldn't marry before he settles them and if he doesn't they won't come to the wedding was too dramatic for me. What does settling them even entail op? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by dessz(m): 6:38pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
whitebeard:no dis one is about prestige and power, u attack npc and other players for resources(wood, iron, stone, food and silver) the highest city wall is lvl10. But 100k archers with a good hero e.g poseidon would destroy it in one volley. Only troops matter |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by whitebeard(m): 6:38pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
dessz:u are so on point I could not play any other game as soon as I start playing those games..the beginning stage u have to be online cause the upgrade time is short, but as u progress the upgrade the become more big.. u u are online less |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Nobody: 6:39pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
How come you have been helping them for the past 10 years and none is established You were taking care of their basic needs without focusing on a permanent fix. Show a man how to fish, don't give him fish. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by dessz(m): 6:40pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
whitebeard:best troops is trebuchet but it takes too long to build. Next is battering ram then ballista then armored calvary then light cav then archers legionaries, pikemen, auxiliaries (infantry) |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by sylve11: 6:41pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
holyboii: |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Antoeni(m): 6:43pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Bro Dem no dey telli person |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Sebastine1606(m): 6:44pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
madridguy:You have a point, but that's if he has the capacity to do that. @OP,try your best to teach your immediate two how to catch fish and give yourself some respite |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by whitebeard(m): 6:45pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
dessz:wow interesting |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by whitebeard(m): 6:46pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
dessz:nice u already know the pros and cons of the game. |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Nobody: 6:50pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
holyboii: How did you move from the topic to PMs? Help me navigate 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by meccuno: 6:53pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
madridguy:strangely,i would have to agree with u... |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Nobody: 6:57pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
hdeeman:You've already answered your own question and provided solution to your problem, so what other advice do you still need? Your family is obviously made up of scroungers, moochers, parasites and vampires who will drain you of your blood and share it among themselves in spanish glass cups, consume your flesh in an horrifying act of cannibalism, and then finalize their obliteration of your destiny by feasting on your very soul itself. "Settle them" before you can get married? This must be one of the most ridiculous batshit I've had the misfortune of reading this year. You're surrounded by evil kin. Tozara 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by abike12(f): 7:00pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
smh. please I beg u dont marry. with a family like yours i cant see how your wife can have peace |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Daeylar(f): 7:01pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
ToZaraWithaZ: 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Nobody: 7:08pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Bro if they supponsor your travelling bills with family property or the family gives you help financially, you must settle them 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by arrestdarrester: 7:08pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
You did not say the whole story here. Did they sacrifice going to school for you alone to he educated? Some families do it with an agreement that you will in turn train someone. If you are abroad, did they sell a family land to send you there? Ask yourself these and other honest questions so you don't bring an innocent lady into a prearranged storm. By the way hope you are spiritually strong? I mean really prayerful? 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Nobody: 7:10pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Daeylar:Lol....... I was merely telling him the truth. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by LordKO(m): 7:10pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Small-minded people are fond of throwing around words they hear, know but don't understand. This "teach one or two of your brothers how to fish by either taking them abroad or establishing them financially back home" crew failed to understand that he possibly doesn't have what it may necessarily take to get someone to a reasonable abroad legally. Or maybe that he gave some of them money to establish themselves back home but they failed in their pursuits - in some cases some of them may have decided to be leech-like and predaceous even when they are literally doing better than him. According to the guy, he has given them the best of him in the last 10 years. If you send someone to school up to higher education level literally you've taught such a person how to fish. Also when you extend a financial support to someone to support her business or started a new one for her you've literally taught the person how to fish. But small-minded people never understand all these. To them one must carry them like handbags - even in their conceited and disingenuous attitudes - before they will understand that you've taught them how to fish. In their conceitedness they forgot that you obviously didn't just wake up one day and know all you have known or attain your height, thus, ought to create their own life paths and encrypt them. Envious people everywhere. A conceited person never makes a good follower because to him he knows everything, so once you have one around you, even as a boss, you can never command his genuine loyalty unless you're ready to allow him to lead you to doom in his ignorant state - they know everything but understand nothing. As for a disingenuous person, you already have an outright frienemy who's ready to betray you at will and still expects you to keep him around and trust him. @OP, all you need to do henceforth should be to adopt a principle of conscientiousness. Avoid using servility in sustaining your relationship with them. Just be of goodness to them. You've a family of small-minded people. They're always opportunistic, insatiable, ungrateful, narcissistic, selfish, self-centered, greedy and covetous. Yet they're quick to play victim. 12 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by SirLakes: 7:10pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
madridguy: God bless you |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Sebastine1606(m): 7:17pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
LordKO:You have made real facts my brother, bitter truth, the guy has done his best 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by victor8269: 7:19pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
MhizzAJ:But Na true him talk only say him too harsh |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Daeylar(f): 7:20pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
ToZaraWithaZ: The guy has to sit down before reading this your truth, if not he may collapse 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Sebastine1606(m): 7:21pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
arrestdarrester:This is another fact, but he has given 10 years of his life, so what else do they want, they want him to be a slave to them all his life or sell his life to their service Hell No, they are also matured @OP, do you Widows myth and go ahead, with your life. But take the bolded seriously 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Daeylar:Hehehe. |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by victor8269: 7:22pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
kimbraa:My dear, I can't be you. His school fees was paid Na, he sucked someone's breast @ child birth. He should have helped one or 2 of his brothers up @ least small fund to start a business, then leave them for good |
Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by SamgoldBaba: 7:27pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Noted! Ok?? we will try nd consider ur case in dis court of nairaland case full ground 4 now
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Re: I Want To Get Married But My Family Is Insisting I Must Settle Everybody First by Yemea1: 7:28pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
madridguy: I salute your idea. Gr8 one |
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