Woow...ur really cute...

akinade28:
Babe, u r 39yrs and pregnant Already
Forget about wedlock, keep d baby .
Apart from risking abortion, menopause is at ur door.

princesscool:
At 39 u are still going out with in responsible man, shame on u

Your grammar tho

goingape3:
since you knew who is a jambite or in sec school on this forum then I think you are the biggest compound fool

is a jambite a form of society or socially accepted norm

"since you knew "...it's really obvious..u need help cos a normal person won't go about laying curses on an innocent child....

You have heard from many, the pregnancy is a miracle you have to keep.

At 39, your clock is ticking down and chances of getting pregnant normally without divine intervention are slowly closing and divine interventions in cases like these are not common place, the whole Bible only have one recorded case of such intervention.

Plus, if at 39 you are not ready; there it is no guarantee that you will be ready within the next 5-6 years. Remember that Buhari is still the President and he has like two more years and might even win reelection or the person he anoints can win, so things will not change much for the foreseeable future.

As for the dude, forget about him...but don't despise him, remember that he was the vessel God used to bless you and his blood runs in your child's to be veins. However, try to put some distant between both of you, though use some wisdom. Some guys, if they don't want a pregnancy can result to self-help after consulting others without you knowing (especially if they know you want to keep it) and can slip something into your drink or food unknowingly to you...and your next bathroom break could be bloodly, ending your anticipated joy.

If you are thinking, how you are going to cope, you are thinking way too much and way too much into the future, none of us here today know if we will even be here tomorrow; so calm down and take it one day at a time.

Happy pregnancy, make sure to take lots of baby tommy pictures, who knows you might decide to share them with us, once you have come around the current dilemma and wishing you safe delivery.

I beg shift make I faint at 39 u never married, go to osun state nd wash ur head in that osun river

Ninethmare:
39yrs still not married?
what have you been waiting for all these years?
I guess you must have been too selective
He must be rich, tall handsome, and Educated(take mud go create am)
Now you are desperate to marry

Why didnt you take contraceptives when you had the unprotected sex?
Trying to trap him i guess

Please keep the baby
Menopause is close

Slay queens keep slaying while your mate get married every saturday

you are not God.

if you cannot give reasonable solutions to her problem, do not kick her down when she's at a all time low.

Your type is the reason I cannot bring my problems to nl. keep shut if you cannot give reasonable solutions or advice.

tueh.

O baby, life don ad weh weh pass henything wey you go face if you keep the pikin, Api keep the pikin.

mrphysics:
Large nippled ladies are senseless.

Where did you get this "fact" from ?

I don't know what to say but you did this out desperation. You just have to keep it.
No matter how people are warned about certains, they won't listen to admonishments.

A lot of people have negative things to say to you but the best you can do is raise your child to be the difference

What Are U Doing With Boyfriend At That Age 39? Iyen Le Die O

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

My dear to be frank and sincere with U.... don't let stupidity lead to commit another crime against an innocent soul... take your courage and be mother for d DESTINEY baby. Think abt ur age, think abt ur health, think abt ur womb or chance of any more pregnancy...and if I may ask...when would u be ready to be a woman @ age of 39?? God will guide U. Pls just don't make any foolish attempt to abort that pregnancy.

richiepolymer:


Honestly, without judging you. You have nothing to loose ow worry for. At this age, is it a must to be married? It is his loss. Brace up, have your child for it is a blessing. He must surely come around when he knows a part of him is missing. Be the matured one and muster strong. I won't sugar coat it, it won't be easy fending alone especially through the weaning. You will need a lot of assistance. After that phase is over, try to make ends meet. In few years you will be happier for it.[b] Marriage in itself is overrated these days. [/b]Its not like before. So don't be fooled into thinking that marriage is an achievement as of now. If you don't have life goals that are outside marriage, then start creating one. I wish you well and wish you courage.

Now thats an advise worth taking.

neoapocalypse:



Where did you get this "fact" from ?

In science, you don't proof a theory right, you only prove it wrong.

Kindly do so.

tosyne2much:
I wonder what ladies of these days do that make them stay unmarried for so long, or I guess you were once "marriage is not for everyone" crew?

When my mom was 39 years, I was 19 years by then.

I just hope God will help you carry your cross ooo

If she is not ready for a child, she should have wore a female condom is the guy refused to wear. She was expecting to eat the cucumber and forgot that freedom after an unprotected sex is not guaranteed

Keep the baby dear. U won't regret that decision. The man is irresponsible and u don't deserve such as a hubby. Move on with ur life. Some 1 better will come sooner or later. Best wishes to you.

Teespice:


you are not God.

if you cannot give reasonable solutions to her problem, do not kick her down when she's at a all time low.

Your type is the reason I cannot bring my problems to nl. keep shut if you cannot give reasonable solutions or advice.

tueh.

We don't need your problems here
shove it up your ass

If at 39 you can't take care of yourself financially without a guy... hmmm getting married out of wedlock at what age? Even tho you plan to start afresh consider getting married in like 2yrs cuz guy don wise not jumping into anyhow relationship ...the guy is not man enough to face is challenges... challenges make you strong .. keep the baby you'll be glad you did ...

goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!


modified: I can see the baboons are coming out of there cave to quote me! HYPOCRITE.

Is this person mentally okay

akinade28:
Babe, u r 39yrs and pregnant Already Forget about wedlock, keep d baby . Apart from risking abortion, menopause is at ur door.

True talk.

goingape3:
since you knew who is a jambite or in sec school on this forum then I think you are the biggest compound fool

is a jambite a form of society or socially accepted norm

SEEMS YOU ARE BORN OUT OF WEDLOCK.. that should be the reason for your insanity and dumbness mediocre misfit ranting attitude of expressing your studity and lack of reas0ning

Oyindidi:
I'm happy for you.. God will grant you safe delivery. I believe you can take care of yourself financially.

People like you are what Nigeria need to move forward.

...and kind I need 2 marry as well...

#goldenheart

I see a clear case of two irresponsible people digging it out together so i have no advice for u go carry ur cross.

which kind wahala be dis again ...so you aint married yet and you were knacking skin to skin

Ninethmare:
We don't need your problems here shove it up your ass

take corrections and stop acting like a crass human being.

I just laugh at some people
The way they advised this lady sha
Can they take it
Don't come here to be counselling people anyhow
The ball is in her court....
she already knows what to do with it

If na joke make him stop am, if e no ready den u ready to carry d burden alone. No try am remove am o, see ur age

mrphysics:

If she is not ready for a child, she should have wore a female condom is the guy refused to wear. She was expecting to eat the cucumber and forgot that freedom after an unprotected sex is not guaranteed

Aside the unprotected sex, it beats my imagination why a 39 old lady will get entangled with a man who will impregnate her and will reject the pregnancy

At the age of 39 bikonu you're still on boyfriend matter.
Not just that, you still came to nairaland to ask questions, like you don't have it all figured out yet?

Ma'am please! You're way past this stage of life
I can't even shout

goingape3:
guess what?

I'm not Jesus!


did the bible told you that the man she was caught with walk free and sleep with another sown knowing that they will stone the woman?

don't modify the bible to suits your interest!

only hypocrite do that.!

what I'm trying to say is that you should not make it look as if God can never look at her again. As if her sin is beyond pardon. Then you disqualify God as a loving father. Weballbhave our own sins. If those who brought Tue woman to Jesus were righteous, they would have stoned her to death.
Ibhavent gotten pregnant and have not aborted but I see myself as the most sinful person. Her son isn't greater than mine simply because I'm not in her shoes or because im younger than her. Thwyvare not greater than yours simply because you are a guy.
However you have your oppinion and I have mine.
Hope your day is going fine?