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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by goingape3: 1:24pm On Oct 03, 2017
femi4:
You are wrong, Even if the baby is a product of rape. He's still a good gift from God.

The product of the act committed no offence
there are at times that your child may not be a gift from God and God won't want a child to be born at that particular moment or incident due to some sinful act!

that child in the future maybe become an arm robbers or something else.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by talk2percy(m): 1:24pm On Oct 03, 2017
Keep the child, plus u are not getting any younger. And trust me when I tell u the dude will come for you and the child-we always do.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by BornnAgainChild(f): 1:24pm On Oct 03, 2017
MhizzAJ:
.....
He's ready to fvck but he's not ready for a child



Dont mind the isi ewu
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by ShaheedBinAliyu(m): 1:25pm On Oct 03, 2017
ASK FOR FORGIVNESS. . . KEEP THE BABY.. u w0nt regret it
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by nuradeen011(m): 1:25pm On Oct 03, 2017
daikmona:
lol.. See question
she really sound like sugar mummy
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:26pm On Oct 03, 2017
bullabong:
Bros forget holy holy wey u dey do. She wanted to trap d guy or she got carried away by good sex
yes, and she got trapped. Do you want her to kill herself?
Op don't allow anyone make you feel like your situation is worst. Some married men don't even have time for their kids let alone single Randy men who will bang a woman hard but forget that babies comes from their dicks.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by apalemighty01(m): 1:27pm On Oct 03, 2017
erico2k2:

have your baby jeje, when he is ready to get married make E marry you simple!

Seems I have to spell out what the by meant for u. "HIM NO WON MARRY" she should have her baby and forget about him cos all his "not ready" na passive way of saying abort it.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by lilmax(m): 1:27pm On Oct 03, 2017
Teespice:


take corrections and stop acting like a crass human being.
just like people also advised op to take correction in the past, but she didn't....
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by ShaheedBinAliyu(m): 1:28pm On Oct 03, 2017
goingape3:
there are at times that your child may not be a gift from God and God won't want a child to be born at that particular moment or incident due to some sinful act!

that child in the future maybe become an arm robbers or something else.
FOOL

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 1:28pm On Oct 03, 2017
Ma'am, I am not even 30 yet but if I got pregnant for my man right now, I'm keeping it, whether he's in or not. I can emotionally and financially handle being a parent.

You're 39, bloody 39. Keep the baby if you can take care of it, OR NOT!

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by BornnAgainChild(f): 1:28pm On Oct 03, 2017
princesscool:
At 39 u are still going out with in responsible man, shame on u


What shame are you wishing her...do they write it irresponsible on the face dont worry sebi you too na woman...karma is a bitch

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by goingape3: 1:29pm On Oct 03, 2017
MISSCONGENIALITY:
what I'm trying to say is that you should not make it look as if God can never look at her again. As if her sin is beyond pardon. Then you disqualify God as a loving father. Weballbhave our own sins. If those who brought Tue woman to Jesus were righteous, they would have stoned her to death.
Ibhavent gotten pregnant and have not aborted but I see myself as the most sinful person. Her son isn't greater than mine simply because I'm not in her shoes or because im younger than her. Thwyvare not greater than yours simply because you are a guy.
However you have your oppinion and I have mine.
Hope your day is going fine?
it was fine dear!

didn't say God will not look at her but there are somethings that are not the will of God due to sinful act.

Blessing follow those who obey the will of God. there are somethings will need to understand spiritually especially child birth and sex.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by mrphysics(m): 1:30pm On Oct 03, 2017
tosyne2much:
Aside the unprotected sex, it beats my imagination why a 39 old lady will get entangled with a man who will impregnate her and will reject the pregnancy
She might want to be a sugar mummy. Who knows the condition surrounding the fvc.king in the first place. Most of this ladies aren't truthful in front end issues like this.

I am trying to understand the phrase I am not yet ready for a pregnancy . At age 39. tosyn, please do you understand?
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by goingape3: 1:31pm On Oct 03, 2017
Rita30:

Is this person mentally okay
yes!
the person you quote is mentally OK and sounded.
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by jaychubi: 1:31pm On Oct 03, 2017
lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Pls keep dt baby u will be sooo glad u did

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by lilmax(m): 1:32pm On Oct 03, 2017
at 39 you call yourself girlfriend grin

the most reasonable people on earth are the ones that learn from people's mistake and not from their experience

this is what happens when you choose not to use common sense, you are dating a guy that's not ready for marriage @39 and calls him your boyfriend? grin

seriously there's nothing more to say, keep the baby and make sure the baby is in the right direction
Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Funkybabee(f): 1:32pm On Oct 03, 2017
Does he have a family you knew....even if you don't go and meet his mother or any elders in his family that can handle him,no man will bear a woman like you at ur age and still expect you to born out of wedlock or be single




If you are a yoruba involve ur parents in it jare



Moro pe ori re fe daru!!!!

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by hAlexandro(m): 1:32pm On Oct 03, 2017
Keep your baby

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Oyindidi(f): 1:33pm On Oct 03, 2017
infinitypro:


People like you are what Nigeria need to move forward.

...and kind I need 2 marry as well...

#goldenheart
It is well my brother

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Teespice(f): 1:33pm On Oct 03, 2017
lilmax:
just like people also advised op to take correction in the past, but she didn't....

Where was it written in her post and she did not heed to it?

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Sunny042(m): 1:34pm On Oct 03, 2017
You should be lucky u made it after 39 years. Take heart and nurture the pregnancy. A bird in hand is worth than two in the bush.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by YoungBrain: 1:34pm On Oct 03, 2017
keep the baby! keep the baby!! keep the baby!!

This opportunity may be hard to come by next time.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by kingabue(m): 1:34pm On Oct 03, 2017
If you have the means to take care of the baby,please keep the baby.Even if you dont have the means,just keep the baby

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 1:35pm On Oct 03, 2017
Keep the baby. Tell him your intentions but allow him to decide willingly if he would be part of the baby's life when it's born. You will be surprised that he will come around when you put to bed and if he doesn't, there will always be a way for you to take care of yourself and your baby. You just have to make plans now and save up till you put to bed. You will get support from places you least expect. Please for your age and previous medical history, don't opt for an abortion.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by goshen26: 1:35pm On Oct 03, 2017
lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Op, u should get a talking drum and start jubilating....



If he's not ready then raise the child alone. Dear Sis, abortion not an option.....

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Nobody: 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2017
tosyne2much:
I wonder what ladies of these days do that make them stay unmarried for so long, or I guess you were once "marriage is not for everyone" crew?

When my mom was 39 years, I was 19 years by then.

I just hope God will help you carry your cross ooo

I could tell you 10 ways to stop being a simpleton but your simple-mind wouldn't grasp it.

Here's one you might understand, go ask your mum why she got married at 20.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by Eazie351(m): 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2017
Mathematically, u‘ll be having ur first child at 40, given u‘re 39 now and had myecto... whatever whatever (rolls eyes) and ur still thinking of abortion.... Sister, gba‘ iwosan!, gba itusile l‘oruko jesu! ...aye reeh nau :-/

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by AskProf: 1:36pm On Oct 03, 2017
daikmona:
lol.. See question

Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by UCBIGGY: 1:37pm On Oct 03, 2017
Waoo, what a miracle child!!! It is written, none shall be barren in d land. God has given u your own child.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by simaustine: 1:38pm On Oct 03, 2017
akinade28:
Babe, u r 39yrs and pregnant Already
Forget about wedlock, keep d baby .
Apart from risking abortion, menopause is at ur door.
Blood of Elija!what av u been waiting for all this while,u ar a fraction from monopause,keep the baby,forget the father and seek expert medical advice from a gymnacologist since U had an operation just 2 years ago.

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Re: 39 And Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready. by DonBobes(m): 1:39pm On Oct 03, 2017
akinade28:
Babe, u r 39yrs and pregnant Already
Forget about wedlock, keep d baby .
Apart from risking abortion, menopause is at ur door.

Damn i love you for this ma'am. wink

U ryt she's aging n should not go into abortion at dis her age.

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