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IamKashyBaby:



Chaaaai!

Is Buhari not a Nigerian citizen juz bcoz he is ur President?

Nawa for u ooo..

then after that all d unborn children will take turns 2b president right?

MultiCEO1:
The bible also says, "All things, (I.e., everything both bad and good) work together for good. Just as Job's wealth was sanctioned from above, his trials was also sanctioned from above. God said He made everything and nothing that was made was ever made without his sanction.
It was also in the Bible that our God instructed a prophet to marry a harlot. Harlot! That child is innocent and as pure every other child. The sin and consequences of it are solely the parents'.

did he commit fornication before he married her? he God told him to marry a harlot but he didn't told him to fvck the harlot then marry her

get the different! under this case the child will be pure and grace will befall to the harlot under the prophet's anointing.

the op case is just a case of stupidity! don't expect any blessing from God under this case!

B!tch, keep you prenancy and let the nigga go fvck himself...

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Ur seeking counsel or opinions from ur juniors in this forum,u better know that this forum constitutes more of teenagers.

Iyajelili:
We have a big river in my village please you and your bf should comman wash your heads. On a serious note OP, i'm 27 but if any man mistakenly impregnate me i won't even entertain his opinion of whether to keep it or terminate it. That is i'm so keeping the precious creature so borrow yourself brain if you don't have one.

In as much as I don't support pre-marital sex, I think i'll support this opinion for real.

lexy2014:
what is d wrong way & what is d right way?

the wrong way: fornication!

adulterous act!


the Right way: waiting for your time to get married!

goingape4:
the wrong way: fornication!

adulterous act!


the Right way: waiting for your time to get married!

so u saying any child born outside wedlock isn't from God?

omosefeeguaibor:
In as much as I don't support pre-marital sex, I think i'll support this opinion for real.

Thank you jaree but dear try sex it is very good for your body

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Please do not blame him if he is not financially OK, but blame him if he has a house and a manageable and sustainable source of income. Maybe he just thought it was a fling since you guys had broken up before. Why did you break up the first time? However, WHATEVER YOU DO, PLEASE, DO NOT ABORT THAT PREGNANCY. It will be your salvation even if you will have to endure for a while.

lexy2014:
so u saying any child born outside wedlock isn't from God?

will God encourage fornication?

My dear, all you need is prayers because what is following you is a great multitude of witches from your village.
How can you even come online at that age to talk about confusion at old age? Kindly visit Synagogue of all nations for deliverance

GrabHisBalls:
Permit me to say that @39, *** Were you planning to trap him with the pregnancy that you refused to use any contraceptive measure after sex in which the guy failed to use condom since you've made up your mind you won't get a child out of wedlock?.

You can't force someone to marry you, he said he isn't ready so you have a choice to be a babymama, and considering your health, you better keep it 'cause it's not easy for women with fibroid to take in.

abeg help me suggest some contraceptives

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Keep that pregnancy. At 39 you can't afford to terminate a pregnancy. God will make a way where there seems to be no way. He may change his mind

cochtrane:
Is something wrong with your brain? The lady requested for advice, not for scolding. If she wanted that, I'm sure she knows very well where to get it. If you are not going to provide advice devoid of reckless and senseless biting, why don't you just calmly move on and not open your stinking mouth!

You need rehabilitation
Gerrara here men

Teespice:
take corrections and stop acting like a crass human being.

Oh shut up

Oya na....

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Bet9ja
Nairabet
Winners Golden bet etc

Coman give us the odds so that we can help a sister

Since she has decided to ask the audience!

monex:
can you simply advise without judging? you do not know why she is still unmarried but you will lace your advice with your primary prejudice.

Believe me thats what happened

goingape3:
it was fine dear!

didn't say God will not look at her but there are somethings that are not the will of God due to sinful act.

Blessing follow those who obey the will of God. there are somethings will need to understand spiritually especially child birth and sex.

But then we should also undesrstand God's ways are different from ours. Why did God have to plant a baby in her womb knowing she's got no husband while there are women with husbands who have been having sex with their husbands for years but no child came out of the sex.
I just wish she doesn't waste the child's life just because she has sinned.

bullabong:
So what is the message in all these ranting ?

the message is that she should keep the child. That child might be her only companion in years to come

goingape3:
shut up with this God god things

didn't the bible said not to commit fornication

why will God bless this kind of sinful act?

this baby is not God sent but rather from the sinful act of it.

all this self-righteous hypocrite who know nothing about God will be giving advises.

useless.

But same God allowed her to turn 39wirhout husband nor a child?life is misery.....not all will get married.

my advice to you is keep the baby and let the he goat keep bleeping, your child will fill the void his unbelievable dad leaves behind

Keep the child.

But at 39 you are old enough to clearly understand the power of choices...so you made the choice. Live it!

Hi dear,i advise you keep the baby because its a blessing from GOD and considering your age and the fact that menopause is close..this should be about your happiness.. despite the fact that your boyfriend does not want to accept responsibility,it shouldnt discourage you from keeping the pregnancy, there are single mothers out there doing well for themselves...again do not look down on yourself, it may not seem easy at this stage but some day you would look back and be happy about your desicion making...PLS KEEP THE CHILD...you can call us on counselme 092749494 or chat us counselme.ng

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Una never ready but you go spread ya legs for am without any form of protection ? Babe...carry ya cross as you don buy market o !

Why seek advise when you are up to something. At 39, you know about protective sex, so allowing this and telling us your age to draw sympathy is not acceptable. Looks like setting the man up and at the end accuse him of impregnating you. Get ready to be a single parent and this is not good for the child but that is how you choose your life so brace up.

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

collins07:
But same God allowed her to turn 39wirhout husband nor a child?life is misery.....not all will get married.

you need to see it this way!

during her youthful exuberant she maybe doing runz kind of thing or be jumping from one dicck to another while neglecting her future husband.

and now she want to settle down thinking that God will not look her past life!

God will always punish you for your sinful act and she will reap what she sow

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

since you had a myomectomy, i dont think an abortion is in your future. Mostly because of your age, you might approaach menopause soon. So just have the child and make plans for it in your future.
I usually dont think this way, no one wishes to give birth to a child out of wedlock, but 39 is far gone, fertility drops by 35, by age 40 the ovaries are preparing to pack up. Also the older a woman is, the higher her chances of giving birth to children with chromosomal abnormalities especially down's syndrome.
If you dont ever want a child till your old age you can opt to remove the fetus but if you want kids in your future. Pls keep the pregnancy. It wont be convienient when when has life worked out the way we want it to.
If your boyfriend is not ready, prepare your mind for the worst. This may be your last chance

Tecno66:
Why seek advise when you are up to something. At 39, you know about protective sex, so allowing this and telling us your age to draw sympathy is not acceptable. Looks like setting the man up and at the end accuse him of impregnating you. Get ready to be a single parent and this is not good for the child but that is how you choose your life so brace up.

shut up

MISSCONGENIALITY:
But then we should also undesrstand God's ways are different from ours. Why did God have to plant a baby in her womb knowing she's got no husband while there are women with husbands who have been having sex with their husbands for years but no child came out of the sex.
I just wish she doesn't waste the child's life just because she has sinned.

Mind you! God didn't plant that baby in her womb. she got pregnant the wrong and she should get ready for the outcome the wrong way!

and those people who have married and don't have a child for year maybe due to the implication of there past life...


you dont do rubbish in your past life and expect good in return...

goingape4:
Mind you! God didn't plant that baby in her womb. she got pregnant the wrong and she should get ready for the outcome the wrong way!

and those people who have married and don't have a child for year maybe due to the implication of there past life...


you dont do rubbish in your past life and expect good in return...

So what about those who didn't do rubbish in the past and yet have no children.
I thought they usually say children are gifts from God.
The implication of your state is that children are not gifts from God after all. So we should stop praising God for things he is not responsible for, like giving children. It also mean the people should stop asking God for the fruit of the wold because he's not the one who gives children.

Give me his address let me go and shoot his John Thomas because that guy is a mother fucker and an irresponsible fool... where meet this guy's anyways,i mean I'm a guy and there are certain things that I wouldn't do.

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

You are 39?
How old is your boyfriend?
Is like both of u want to be grand parents at 60 and use your pension to train your kids in primary school.
Better Keep d child, you are old and matured enough.