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the guy na f*ck boy

MISSCONGENIALITY:
So what about those who didn't do rubbish in the past and yet have no children.
I thought they usually say children are gifts from God.
The implication of your state is that children are not giblets from God after all. So we should stop praising God for this he is not responsible for, like giving children. It also mean the people should stop asking God for the fruit of the wold because he's not the one who gives children.

I'm in this school of thought "your sins will be forgiven in heaven but here on earth you will pay dearly for your sins you committed"

God won't want some child to come on earth at a particular time because he knows what that child will become in the future...

this is not the right time for that child to come into this world in the op's womb because he know what that child would be in future especially when the op is an irresponsible woman!

goingape4:
why didn't Jesus came through someone who is committing fornication


see my dear we are talking the same things.


this her act she did may lead to her born a disable child and ya will said it is an act of god

...and abortion equates murder so it is not an option

Ninethmare:
Oh shut up

take your advice and push it down your throat.

OP beta keep dat baby o, i dated a girl for 2 n half years raw sex no baby, broke up in July by oct 1st my new bae said she is pregnant, am above 30 n am so keeping d baby even though i dont want to be a father or get married now, i may change my mind sooner or later but have her abort my baby omo i fit shoot her. infact all my friends said i must not allow abortion

i take coke like three bottles a day, wit many other sweet things like biscuit so wit my ex i felt i was useless but wit dis pregnancy omo infact am seeing marriage o. infact i don tell my friends am now a father.

Op u senior no let devil play with ur future o.

Op see ursef as a mother o cos me am now a father.

goingape4:
I'm in this school of thought "your sins will be forgiven in heaven but here on earth you will pay dearly for your sins you committed"

God won't want some child to come on earth at a particular time because he knows what that child will become in the future...

this is not the right time for that child to come into this world in the op's womb because he know what that child would be in future especially when the op is an irresponsible woman!

that means if God is the giver of children, he should also share the blame for allowing the child to come to this world before the appropriate time.
Some people live a sinful life and die without pay for their sins in Tue world. According to the bible, once you turn from your evil ways and seek for God's forgiveness, he will forgive you and accept you like the prodigal son.
Are you saying that there's no need turning back from your evil ways since you will still be punished even as you now live a good life? It means that we should continue in our sins since there's no forgiveness in this world.

goingape4:
will God encourage fornication?

u didn't answer d question. Even if God doesn't encourage formication, does that mean that a child born from fornication or adultery isn't from God?

39, and you want to abort.. That's Wickedness. 39+21 = 60. imagine at 60 when you will already have Grey hairs you will just be having a child of 21years and that's if you keep this baby. So use your common sense.

Stupid man ,can dig well but not looking for water..now that water has come it is good for drinking..my Sister,thank God for the foetus and keep it for life ..it may be a future president or Governor tomorrow.. Never regret your action God is working behind the scene despite your messing up..he will show you the big pic in the nearest future .

Iyajelili:
Yes, i'm home

Where's your home

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

u are 39..thats means he is either 39yrs too or more..when will he b ready for christ sake? if am in ur shoes..am gonna have my baby..pray for a better life and forge ahead.

Seriously, Are you asking such a dumbass question on what you should do about it? Wait let me ask you, Single mother and slay queen without a child which do you prefer? Madam keep the miracle pregnancy and pray for Gods protection for safe delivery.....@39 you dey ask mumu questions.

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

princesscool:
At 39 u are still going out with in responsible man, shame on u

Its spelt irresponsible not in responsible

Its okay.. we learn everyday

mrphysics:
She might want to be a sugar mummy. Who knows the condition surrounding the fvc.king in the first place. Most of this ladies aren't truthful in front end issues like this.

I am trying to understand the phrase I am not yet ready for a pregnancy . At age 39. tosyn, please do you understand?

It doesn't sound well my brother. There's something missing in this story which the OP has refused to tell us

funmisticqueen:
shut up

say anything you like. Kids will soon begin to mess u up. When you make comment on nairaland you insult everyone that has contrary view to the one you have,.

Adeoba10:
Name of the university? And what sex position lead to the pregnancy?

Jamb question

GrabHisBalls:
Permit me to say that @39, *** Were you planning to trap him with the pregnancy that you refused to use any contraceptive measure after sex in which the guy failed to use condom since you've made up your mind you won't get a child out of wedlock?.

You can't force someone to marry you, he said he isn't ready so you have a choice to be a babymama, and considering your health, you better keep it 'cause it's not easy for women with fibroid to take in.

Gbam! And so says the "BallGrabber"; the "Ayes-Have-It"!

@OP
I bet you were really trying to grab the sharp-guy's balls. What were you waiting for all these while? I won't assume but I'd you must've met enough "broke-but-sincere" guys on your path to this juncture. I bet you must've raised your bar higher the dollar exchange rate in Naija's worst recession year. And you knew you didn't wanna be a Rev'd Sister, huh? That bet was even off since phuyking wasn't ever off the table.


Pls, just don't kill that baby. Have her/him. Cherish, love and keep him and let him/her be a reminder to you that the Maker still loves you. All hope is far from lost.

Guys don wise pass all that trapping level since 1809BC. See, all of us incl. me, we're shielding our balls like...

Is either she was charmed or that she is very stupid. How can at age 39 she is still dating someone without defining it. No wonder the guy refused to marry her because I guess he must have found out that she lacks focus. Pregnancy does not equate marriage by force, keep the baby and give him/her the best.

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Don't abort that baby. It might be ur last chance of getting a child. If he is not ready now he might be in future. Age is not on ur side

I pray God will make the delivery easy for you. Start preparing to be a mother. I wish you best

OYO is your case if you dare abort!

@ 39, you should be able to support yourself and a child. Don't be so dulll biko!

The rate at which people have unprotected sex, is alarming... I also wonder how you can be 39 and dating an unserious man at your age. I'm not a fan of abortion and if I mistakenly impregnate a lady, I'd just marry her like that(whether or not she is my type) and to avoid such, I'm very picky with who I have sex with(especially unprotected). I'd just advice you keep the child and forget about abortion.

Iyajelili:
We have a big river in my village please you and your bf should comman wash your heads. On a serious note OP, i'm 27 but if any man mistakenly impregnate me i won't even entertain his opinion of whether to keep it or terminate it. That is i'm so keeping the precious creature so borrow yourself brain if you don't have one.

Marry me

dingbang:
Are you dating a sugar boy?

No, She is Dating G. WorldWide

39 years and you are still thinking whether to abort.?
Dem swear for you?

Shit happens!
Be strong and be ready to be a single mum for now. He will still come back to you.

Ninethmare:
39yrs still not married?
what have you been waiting for all these years?
I guess you must have been too selective
He must be rich, tall handsome, and Educated(take mud go create am)
Now you are desperate to marry

Why didnt you take contraceptives when you had the unprotected sex?
Trying to trap him i guess

Please keep the baby
Menopause is close

Slay queens keep slaying while your mate get married every saturday

Too selective lol. It's clear that you are not a woman and don't know that there are few husband material. Men are hardly ready to settle down. I know of up to 10 men that married in their 40's.

Don't know why people are full of hatred. Yes she made some mistake. So what? Yes she is 39 , so what ? Will she be the fast to have gone astray,? Let show love and stop complicating things.
She asked for the way forward and not condemnation.

You guys should fear God oh. Please show some manner of home training. Haba, wetin?

Please ma, I will suggest you keep that little angel and accept your faith. All you need to be praying about is safe delivery. Pls join the pregnancy thread on health section , you will get all the love you need over there.

[quote author=thorpido post=61065267]Seriously? At 39 years old you don't know the consequences of unprotected sex and you don't know what plans a guy has for you at this stage to determine if he's worth it?
As it is now,he may or may not marry you.I will advise you keep the baby.You are advanced in age and the fact that you have had a myomectomy.Future pregnancies may not easily come and if they do,you are going to be classed as a high risk pregnancy(I speak only from a medical perspective).

You could end up a single mother but life goes on.I don't think you will regret having the baby in the future.[/quote

Please don't touch that child in your own interest.

yu dont even know its risky to ve late pregnancy