Afam4eva:
The topic is really funny...

People who fail to do their due diligence are bound to have problems in the long run. This is a lady you hadn't met physically but fell in love with her on facebook. I'm beginning to agree with Pastor Adeboye when he said that "If you meet your wife on facebook, it will crash on youtube" or something along those lines. Meeting someone on social media still requires that you meet them physically before making any kind of commitment with them.

As far as her having saggy breasts, i think it's not so much of a big deal but if you think it is, i don't think asking her about her past will make the b00bs to grow back. Whatever may have happened in the past that contributed to the downward trajectory of her b00bs is a thing of the past. Make your decision as it relates to her present reality. If it's too big a deal for yout= then leave her alone and go find someone with a mor e healthy mammary gland.

pastor Adeboye lie for that one

Afam4eva:
The topic is really funny...

People who fail to do their due diligence are bound to have problems in the long run. This is a lady you hadn't met physically but fell in love with her on facebook. I'm beginning to agree with Pastor Adeboye when he said that "If you meet your wife on facebook, it will crash on youtube" or something along those lines. Meeting someone on social media still requires that you meet them physically before making any kind of commitment with them.

As far as her having saggy breasts, i think it's not so much of a big deal but if you think it is, i don't think asking her about her past will make the b00bs to grow back. Whatever may have happened in the past that contributed to the downward trajectory of her b00bs is a thing of the past. Make your decision as it relates to her present reality. If it's too big a deal for yout= then leave her alone and go find someone with a mor e healthy mammary gland.

What he said.

akankemi1:
my brother, Sagging breast is not a function of promiscuity. Also I know there are pills and cream for breast enlargement, but don't be deceived it's only breast lift surgery that can correct sagging breast. Yes ,only surgery.
Either you try and look past the breast or let her know so she can always be on bra anytime u want to spend time together.
another Solution though, is for her to add weight. if she does, fat will stored in the breasts and it would be fuller. but she must try to maintain the size cos frequent weight loss and gain is the primary cause of breast sagging.

My dear, I'm just confused. Each time the thought of her surfaces on my mind the breasts issue comes up and I'll be in a state of indecision. I didnt ask for such from God and I'm beginning to think otherwise. Alot of secrecy are shrouded around her past life 'cos there are certain things about her that she refuses to open up to me. She has this look of a goddess, a fair pretty lady for that matter. I don't want to be deceived by all those outer physical beauty but Gosh!, I'm just perplexed. Me wey like bweasts like another thing. Would love to play with those even if we aint making love but these one tire me. Shey na now wey I wan to settle down I got a sagged breasted lady for a 'wifey-to-be?'. I'm considering other options jare...

Thanks for the advice

femalehealth:


for how long dear, what if they decide to get married tomorrow, will he always want her to be on bra?

what about bathroom sex ?

and other sexual dealings?

Abeg help me ask am o! How I wish I can help get her boobs back to shape. Can't imagine lovemaking without a boob to handle or play with. It's a gory imagination... The folks here knows what Im talkin about

DonBobes:


Forever urs Wetin u neva jam kaduna girl Deborah.
If dey tell u to define beauty. Just say Deborah (tho now oluwacypris1 is) . Not too tall.
Ugly part b she get PLENTY OVERLAPPING TEETH. Naso i pay one dentist for guards brigade 2 do dat for her. After every every wey i leave d girl (coz i gave her N220k)due to her wastefulness. She culd not boast of N5 .
Left her & because my spare key was still with her she went to my house later n EMPTIED MY HOUSE.

Empty your house for barracks?,

Adaumunocha:
I don't need it.

U don't really meed it

dilini:

I met a lady after she stumbled on my FB and sent me a dm. We got chatting and later it transcended into calling even on whatsapp (both day and night). Her pic on her whatsapp profile was what got me attracted to her (although I haven't met her in person by that time). I fell for her straight up and she too professed her feelings for me. She referred to me as her Super Hero. This lady is okay both facially and otherwise and a graduate of one of Nigeria's University in the SE. She's a corper now and workin. Now my issue is: when we met the first time she opened up about a child she had with a guy but decided to keep it. That's by the way and I accepted that but to my chagrin and uttermost surprise I was disturbed when I saw her breasts all sagged... I mean flat as a slate like that of an old woman. This lady in question is abt 25-26yrs old o! This is what worries me too much. I hadnt ask her about this and I am greatly disturbed by it. Even after breastfeeding just one baby her breasts shudnt have sagged as flat as it is. From the way I have been reasoning it might seems she got herself involved with different men/guys while in school or otherwise or must have been a runz girl haven her breasts fondled so hard (forgive me for this) and might have accidently taken in. This is a lady I fell in love before meeting her and we had plans of settling down together but the thought of those sagged breasts makes me draw away from her bit by bit. Havin a child out of wedlock...that I can deal but those sagged breasts are my big worry. When I try playing with them there's nothing to hold just the fleshy/skin of the breasts. Im considering calling her so we can talk and ask her to tell me the whole truth that surrounded her time in school and wat really led to havin a child out of wedlock. Not getting enough answers will lead to calling off the relationship.

My big question here is: WHAT MUST HAVE CAUSED THOSE BREASTS TO HAVE SAGGED TO THE POINT OF BEING FLAT AS SLIPPERS?

Please over to you professionals what might be the cause of this? Any help on this?

It's a genetic. When I was in the girl's hostel I saw breasts that made me realise the firmness of a woman's mammary organs is dependent on breast size, genetics and shape. The myth that saggy boobs are caused by excessive handling is propagated by ignorant people who have no idea how a woman's body works. My late aunt, before she died had 7 children and her breasts were still perky. (that's what my mum says. I no see am o)

To the matter at hand; your girl's flat breasts is as a result of her genetics. Get over it!

My brother, this issue of love taya person.
Upon All the qualities one wants in a woman, you'll still end up with someone different from what you want. Life is very funny.
But bros, a fallen breast can never be resurrected.
If you can overlook it, fine but if you can't, quit the relationship and find another babe.
A broken relationship is always better than a broken marriage.

Ishilove:

It's a genetic. When I was in the girl's hostel I saw breasts that made me realise the firmness of a woman's mammary organs is dependent on breast size, genetics and shape. The myth that saggy boobs are caused by excessive handling is propagated by ignorant people who have no idea how a woman's body works. My late aunt, before she died had 7 children and her breasts were still perky. (that's what my mum says. I no see am o)

To the matter at hand; your girl's flat breasts is as a result of her genetics. Get over it!

For Ishilove to have commented on my post it feels like winning an olympic medal. Thanks dear... Anywayz I'm tryin to get over it. It aint easy though...

dilini:


For Ishilove to have commented on my post it feels like winning an olympic medal. Thanks dear... Anywayz I'm tryin to get over it. It aint easy though...

Lol. So I be local champion, enh? Thanks anyhu

If you can just look past the undesirable physical qualities she possesses and focus on the intangible, that is the things that will still remain even after physical beauty fades away, then you will be just fine.

I hope you know you yourself won't be handsome and flat tummied forever?

I have this friend who some years back was so sexy and hunky that girls flocked around him. When I saw him last, he has grown a potbelly (even though he is slim) and now has man boobs

But do you know what? I am still attracted to him because of his kind nature, wit and humour. THOSE are the qualities that have remained with him even after he lost his trim physical form.

Focus on the things that matter, the things that attract you to her, because physical looks are temporary. When making love to her, imagine her boobs are as full as watermelons and your mind will communicate this to your body, and then, overtime it will cease to matter one bit.

Wet in da happen self I saw a post of a girl saying her boyfriend was complaining about her firm breast u now da complain say ur babe breast da saggy

peterphd:


Empty your house for barracks?,

I say ehn
U know pple c her as my babe na,
She sed i asked her to do my laundry

greatnaija01:
If you truly LOVE HER, then help her boobs RISE AGAIN..... there are food suplements, pills, creams that will do this and remove stretch marks.... YOU NEED TO WORK IT AND OWN IT... so she sees that you are committed and responsible..... DONT QUIT... I was in the same shoes and I had to have a HARD TALK and did lots of breast augumentative procedures and today my Lady's boobs stands like National Anthem.... but it took a total of 4 months to achieve... If you love her put in the work... SHE WILL FOREVER REMAIN YOURS.

Na Wash...if e no be small stout, e no fit be small stout.

dilini:


Thanks for your advice. I do love this girl and would love to help her thereby looking away from her past. Can you please recommend the names of food supplements, creams and pills you talked in your post so we can start applying them?
Thanks

Guy... Don't be deceived, Nothing can lift a completely sagged breast except surgery. Forget about those things he mentioned.

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Day11:
Picture pls

ItI is a ghen ghen something

dilini:
Please I need sincere answers from the experienced (married) folks on here.

Thanks
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I met a lady after she stumbled on my FB and sent me a dm. We got chatting and later it transcended into calling even on whatsapp (both day and night). Her pic on her whatsapp profile was what got me attracted to her (although I haven't met her in person by that time). I fell for her straight up and she too professed her feelings for me. She referred to me as her Super Hero. This lady is okay both facially and otherwise and a graduate of one of Nigeria's University in the SE. She's a corper now and workin. Now my issue is: when we met the first time she opened up about a child she had with a guy but decided to keep it. That's by the way and I accepted that but to my chagrin and uttermost surprise I was disturbed when I saw her breasts all sagged... I mean flat as a slate like that of an old woman. This lady in question is abt 25-26yrs old o! This is what worries me too much. I hadnt ask her about this and I am greatly disturbed by it. Even after breastfeeding just one baby her breasts shudnt have sagged as flat as it is. From the way I have been reasoning it might seems she got herself involved with different men/guys while in school or otherwise or must have been a runz girl haven her breasts fondled so hard (forgive me for this) and might have accidently taken in. This is a lady I fell in love before meeting her and we had plans of settling down together but the thought of those sagged breasts makes me draw away from her bit by bit. Havin a child out of wedlock...that I can deal but those sagged breasts are my big worry. When I try playing with them there's nothing to hold just the fleshy/skin of the breasts. Im considering calling her so we can talk and ask her to tell me the whole truth that surrounded her time in school and wat really led to havin a child out of wedlock. Not getting enough answers will lead to calling off the relationship.

My big question here is: WHAT MUST HAVE CAUSED THOSE BREASTS TO HAVE SAGGED TO THE POINT OF BEING FLAT AS SLIPPERS?

Please over to you professionals what might be the cause of this? Any help on this?

I think for some people that's the way it is.... it doesn't really have anything to do with the guys pressing her..... some runs babes their boob's are standing like olumo rock
if u love her give her a chance any woman u eventually marry will have sagged breasts at some point in her life so imnt understanding

Flexye:
[color=#000099][/color]ItI is a ghen ghen something

No time

Well Brother i understand how you feel,but if you ask me na who i go ask? The best thing to do is take her out probably a pammy joint and get her pepper soup and pammy one glass.then bring up the topic.
Thank me later

dilini:


Abeg help me ask am o! How I wish I can help get her boobs back to shape. Can't imagine lovemaking without a boob to handle or play with. It's a gory imagination... The folks here knows what Im talkin about

Sure I do understand, the solution can be found in my signature.

[color=#770077][/color]All these creams and pills don't work shit and also v side effect when taken.The mere fact that she has giving birth and also breastfeed is enough to sagg her breast although some v natural saggy breast.........Forgot all those fake marketers trying to sell their products,the only way to make it firm is through surgery....once sagged always sagged.if u truly luv her dat shouldn't be an issue.

Lawlahdey:

I don't even know what to say.

lol..

Day11:
Picture pls

y na?

Op u funny o... flat like slippers..



#Myadvice


Let her use fresh alo vera gel everyday.... morning & night... it contains firming agent.. I mean
the fresh one o (plant).


Creams can have side effects on her.

Dat girl must hv given birth 3x or had multiple abortions

A lot of things can cause saggy breast. It might be genetic not necessarily child birth or breastfeeding.

dilini:


Thanks for your advice. I do love this girl and would love to help her thereby looking away from her past. Can you please recommend the names of food supplements, creams and pills you talked in your post so we can start applying them?
Thanks

Na now my G don decide to invest for her matter. When you are done investing so much money, time and emotions, if she leaves you for a better man. You fit commit suicide.
Better stay with her for long before you do this.
YOU NEVER MARRY AM BROS.
LOVE DEY SOUR, BROS
GIRLS ARE TRICKY. (INFIDELITY IS THEIR WATCHWORD)
HUMANs ARE MENDACIOUS AND MAVERICKS

No More Beef? Peter & Paul Okoye Spotted Partying Together In Lagos Club (Video)
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If you ever thought singing brothers, Peter and Paul Okoye were only playing a game with their recent brouhaha on social media, well you just might be right about that. After a successful mini tour in the United States of America, Peter Okoye aka Mr P returned to Nigeria over the weekend to make a special appearance at Club Crave’s opening night in Lagos. Surprisingly, Paul aka Rudeboy was also present at the event. According to a video circulating online, all seems to be well and good as the brothers were seen in arms turning up at the venue together. The short video suggests that the P-Square rift might have been a publicity stunt.
Watch the video and share your thoughts below.
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mistel:
Dat girl must hv given birth 3x or had multiple abortions

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
You be man wey sabi.You and i know whats up with the lady.Its too bad many Nigerian men dont want to wise up to our ladies schemes.Too many "loverboys'' talking about "love" all the time.Una eyes never tear.If this had been me,the moment i heard "single mother" i for pick race because they all come with a lot of excess baggage

Succk it up

The issue is if she is somebody that is not busty,i mean someone who has a small breast.It will surely sag since she has given birth. That's one of the ways you will know those who have given,but if you are willing to marry her,sex,pregnancy and breast feeding will bring it back. Gaskia