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This may help alot of ladies here correct their mistakes. Is it right as a Wifey, girlfriend, e.t.c To walk-out of ur man's

presence whenever you noticed his angry, or quarreling using some hurtful words aggressively at you Then as the

lady, you decided to just walk-out of there, inorder to avoid talking back at him which may lead to violence. Since you

may not be able to withstand it why you keep mute With our sharp tongue, yet no power


Can such attitude tagged as been disrespectful

No!

That's the highest form of respect

Florblu:
No!

That's the highest form of respect

Thanks dear, hope our men will understand that way too, cos it pissed some of them off, lets hear from them too

IamKashyBaby:


I don't get what ur thread is all about

Pls am not good at writing, just have a second look at it, tnks

izaray:
This may help alot of ladies here correct their mistakes. Is it right as a Wifey, girlfriend, e.t.c To work-out of ur man's

presence whenever you noticed his angry, or quarreling using some hurtful words aggressively at you Then as the

lady, you decided to just work-out of there, inorder to avoid talking back at him which may lead to violence. Since you

may not be able to withstand it why you keep mute With our sharp tongue, yet no power


Can such attitude tagged as been disrespectful

Nope, that's the best way to handle the situation. Your absence would give the both of you time to cool-off and reflect on your actions.

izaray:
Thanks dearie

You're welcome. But just so you know, staying around while he's talking has a 100% possibility that he'll say something you might be moved to reply, which would result in physical abuse. For this reason, I endorse walking out.

Some men/women may see it as disrespectful while others may see it as wisdom... Different strokes for different folks... Every marriage is unique, what works in one may not necessarily work in the other...

kimbraa:
Nope, that's the best way to handle the situation. Your absence will give the both of you time to cool off and reflect on your actions.

Thanks dearie

Seems logical,
Be it male or female, allowing the person to cool off, then later apologising.

SmellingAnus:
Some men/women may see it as disrespectful while others may see it as wisdom... Different strokes for different folks... Every marriage is unique, what works in one may not necessarily work in the other...

Exactly, i remember my ex then will say, dnt try walking out of me..Haba!! And i will be wondering, if he expect me to stay and talk back at him, so he can get my face disfigure . Different strokes for different folks. Tnks.

Doesn't work for me... If you walk out from me,.. You've just drawn the battle line

You are asking if it's disrespectful to walk out on my boyfriend when he is angry or speaking hateful stuffs?
He is angry and I'm angry too. I dont have energy for exchange of words and so if the best thing is to walk away, then walking away it is. Whether he finds it respectful or not, I need peace.

AlexCk:
Seems logical,
Be it male or female, allowing the person to cool off, then later apologising.

Thanks dear!

Spicylate:
You are asking if it's disrespectful to walk out on my boyfriend when he is angry or speaking hateful stuffs?
He is angry and I'm angry too. I dont have energy for exchange of words and so if the best thing is to walk away, then walking away it is. Whether he finds it respectful or not, I need peace.

Tnks huh, you 've said ur mind jare..

ifex370:
Doesn't work for me... If you walk out from me,.. You've just drawn the battle line

Lol... Different strolkes for different folks, thanks.

If his angry & shouting & you keep mute, then he'll be like "i'm talking and ur not saying anything, dat means i'm barking right" and when you talk back he'll say ur nagging.. Abeg guys wahala no be for here jare

walking away is so cool,,,,but I still can't talk back in his presence

phintohlar:
If his angry & shouting & you keep mute, then he'll be like "i'm talking and ur not saying anything, dat means i'm barking right" and when you talk back he'll say ur nagging.. Abeg guys wahala no be for here jare

Swty so which is working for you

phintohlar:
If his angry & shouting & you keep mute, then he'll be like "i'm talking and ur not saying anything, dat means i'm barking right" and when you talk back he'll say ur nagging.. Abeg guys wahala no be for here jare

and when you walk away.he will be like 'im talking and you are walking out on me? ?

Dillusionist:
walking away is so cool,,,,but I still can't talk back in his presence

Thanks darling, my thought too

An aunt taught me never to talk back when a man is angry. So if he's vibrating na to lock up and try not to laugh. A Guy's anger amuses me... Hope I'm normal

Adaumunocha:
An aunt taught me never to talk back when a man is angry. So if he's vibrating na to lock up and try not to laugh. A Guy's anger amuses me... Hope I'm normal

Sure you are dear. But laughing at that point in time, could lead to another wahala

izaray:
Sure you are dear. But laughing at that point in time, could lead to another wahala

A slap that could send my tooth flying ryt

Adaumunocha:
A slap that could send my tooth flying ryt

Like seriously, its better we always do everything possible to avoid such incident.

izaray:
Like seriously, its better we always do everything possible to avoid such incident.

Lolzz... OK. Take care

izaray:
Exactly, i remember my ex then will say, dnt try working out of me..Haba!! And i will be wondering, if he expect me to stay and talk back at him, so he can get my face disfigure . Different strokes for different folks. Tnks.

SmellingAnus:

Which is ur turn off even , the walking out stuff, or would you prefer she stay put, while you pour ur madness on her

Dillusionist:
and when you walk away.he will be like 'im talking and you are walking out on me? ?

exactly

izaray:
Which is ur turn off even , the working out stuff, or would you prefer she stay put, while you pour ur madness on her

the only way to find out is if you are my woman .. Anyway, I do the working out most of the times in my previous relationships because women get mouth too much...

izaray:
Swty so which is working for you

i noticed he keep's quiet when i fire back, just that i won't raise my voice too high

phintohlar:
exactly

their wahala too much joor God save us

phintohlar:
exactly

their wahala too much joor God save us