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A known lesbian who decided to leave her marriage to a man and come out the closet says she loves who she is. A lesbian and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender [LGBT] rights activist based in Calabar, Cross River State, Pamela Adie, says she is happy with her life after she decided to come out of the closet and disclose her sexual orientation.

The Obudu-born Adie who was seriously vilified when she announced that she is a lesbian after living with her secret for so many years, took to her Facebook page to share the two lessons she learned after she came out of the closet.

Adie explained that she realized she was on her own when she first came out because the people she expected to support her turned their backs on her including her family members.
According to her, many of those friends and family members who refused to support her decision have been silent till date while some do not even wish to be close or have anything to do with her.

Read what she wrote:
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“The first thing I learned is that I’m on my own. It took me a while to realize this because I kept expecting and waiting on family and friends to show support, give approval, and accept me.
Very few did. The others remained silent. And they’re still silent till today because neither has bothered to break the silence. Pamela Adie says coming out as a lesbian was the best decision che made
The second lesson is that nobody owes me anything. There’s a tendency to feel entitled to peoples love, acceptance, and financial resources based on their supposed role in our lives...
Mother, father, brother, sister, uncle, aunt, cousin, niece, bestie, friend, etc. Nothing could be more false. You’re not entitled to anything. You want something, work hard for it. Bear the consequences."

LionInBoxOffice:
we're who we're! We should learn to respect the decisions of people as far it doesn't hurt or attempt to hurt anyone.

FortifiedCity:
Lesbianism and gay affects everything around you, and by extension you.
We need to stop this 'I don't care' attitude . Evil is evil no matter what.

FortifiedCity:
Lesbianism and gay affects everything around you, and by extension you.
We need to stop this 'I don't care' attitude . Evil is evil no matter what.

yungEX:
What two adults consent to should never be your business, there are more serious things to consider in d world today and besides who made you a judge, if it's evil leave it for judgement

LionInBoxOffice:
How does it affect everything? By me coming out to express myself as "Straight"? So, we all have to be " Straight "?

Florblu:
Only a man can treat those boobs right babe
IDoMenAlone

FortifiedCity:
How will humans end up if everyone was gay or lesbian?

LionInBoxOffice:
Hello! I'm here telling you that we should all have freedom to be whatever we choose to be as far as he doesn't have direct or indirect threat on anyone's living. Don't go too far.

OrestesDante:


Na wa ooo

Dillusionist:
you don't know what you are missing;;dick is bae

LionInBoxOffice:
Hello! I'm here telling you that we should all have freedom to be whatever we choose to be as far as he doesn't have direct or indirect threat on anyone's living. Don't go too far.

Lalas247:
She looks like she needs a stiff

Lalas247:
She looks like she needs a stiff

FortifiedCity:
Lesbianism and gay affects everything around you, and by extension you.
We need to stop this 'I don't care' attitude . Evil is evil no matter what.