Lalas247:

Oya Tell me about yourself

Oh my, I'm Lalas, I;m in my twenties. I love movies, like cool music too, not into raps, i do hip hopand vibes, you know, like back in the 90s. I really hate horror movies, want me to be scared, then play an horror movie, i like mexican soap operas, you know the ones they show on Telemundo, well, i hate to bore you, but these are the basics, so what movies do you like or don't tell me you're not a movie person...


And then the conversation keeps stretching...abeg i.. i've done this shit with all colours it never fails...By the time the other party breaks the flow to talk about his/her interests conversation flows and it keeps flowing, if both parties are skilled, there's no end to the rate of flow

supersystemsnig:


Oh my, I'm Lalas, I;m in my twenties. I love movies, like cool music too, not into raps, i do hip hopand vibes, you know, like back in the 90s. I really hate horror movies, want me to be scared, then play an horror movie, i like mexican soap operas, you know the ones they show on Telemundo, well, i hate to bore you, but these are the basics, so what movies do you like or don't tell me you're not a movie person...


And then the conversation keeps stretching...abeg i.. i've done this shit with all colours it never fails...

Kai we ain’t compatible sha ... warashame

Lalas247:

Kai we ain’t compatible sha ... warashame

How cute. Then you must be from mars. So, what interests you ?

kimbraa:
Now I know why they keep saying Nigerian girls are dumb. No offence intended, but that question shouldn't irk a sane human being.

It's a simply question that requires an answer. You'd pick offence if you don't even know yourself.

Jezz!, I can't believe what I'm reading on this thread.

OMG!!

I feel i can empty my bank account on you.

I mean i went through the thread shaking my head in shame. So much mentally lazy 20-24 yes old shawties everywhere. I mean that's a very good question except most of them are very shallow and can't really think of anything to say.
This is the very reason i like relating with very much older ladies. They are more rational.

All these small girls feel they are doing you the priviledge of chatting with them.

Imagine?

supersystemsnig:



How cute. Then you must be from mars. So, what interests you ?

Here is too public Biko too many eyes

supersystemsnig:



The question will lead the path to discovery, you only need to trust the path...in the moment of discussion, both parties will let guards down to some extent, and then the real self is revealed and conversation flows, heart to heart...I've used it at least 100 times, with asian chicks, american chicks, it never fails..its universal....

alright

OrdercityWeb:

OMG!!

I feel i can empty my bank account on you.

I mean i went through the thread shaking my head in shame. So much mentally lazy 20-24 yes old shawties everywhere. I mean that's a very good question except most of them are very shallow and can't really think of anything yo say.
This is the very reason i like relating with very much older ladies. They are more rational.

All these small girls feel they are doing you the priviledge of chatting with them.

Imagine?

Very true bro. Older ladies never fall hand. Abeg two shots for the older ladies in da house. They never fail..Older ladies 28 and up. Say hi

Lalas247:


Here is too public Biko too many eyes

Did you really think those were my interests? Just a demo my lady

funmisticqueen:
we could just email you our cv then

Then I'll say you've got it all wrong then....

supersystemsnig:



Did you really think those were my interests? Just a demo my lady

So u telling lies on day one

It's a stupid question for dose who can't express themselves

Lalas247:

So u telling lies on day one

Not lies. I meant to ...errgh.. never mind. So do you watch movies? Men Lord of the Rings were a bummer, you know the moment Frodo did this and did that... Did you watch Harry Potter too? I mean Hemaine must be a sucker for not ending with Harry


So...What are your thoughts?

Intrepid01:


Then I'll say you've got it all wrong then....

personally i think there is nothing wrong with the question, just that it is too vague, i usually blank out when ask, like where do you want me to start from

Any girl who gets irked by that friendly question is sick. They don't wait to hear that in the case of job interview but when it comes to date you see them with hugely annoying misdemeanours. Rubbish!

supersystemsnig:



Not lies. I meant to ...errgh.. never mind. So do you watch movies? Men Lord of the Rings were a bummer, you know the moment Frodo did this and did that... Did you watch Harry Potter too? I mean Hemaine must be a sucker for not ending with Harry


So...What are your thoughts?

U are draining my energy

Lalas247:
So u telling lies on day one

make Your Fiance catch You

Lalas247:

U are draining my energy

Damn, aii

DeadRat:
make Your Fiance catch You

He just gave me warning seff

The question is really annoying.

IamKashyBaby:


I hate this type of question to be honest..A lot men don't realize this type of question sounds stupid..

So, if he ask me this question, I will simply reply him IM NOT INTERESTED FOR THE JOB INTERVIEW right now... I got a job already.

Men shud find other ways to have a better conversation especially when its ur first time to talk to that person..There are so many interesting topics where u can exchange ideas rather than asking this BS type of question..

It's apparent you went to school but not educated. Expunge your ignorance!

funmisticqueen:
personally i think there is nothing wrong with the question, just that it is too vague, i usually blank out when ask, like where do you want me to start from

I think I kinda understand now, the reason why you ladies aren't cool about the Q...but the point is to know simple tins like your profession, education, fantasies n personality...just to provide the basis for interaction...do you get?

PrimadonnaO:
It's all too cliché. I'd rather a guy asked more specific relevant questions, then subsequently, he'd naturally find out the rest.

But just coming out to say "tell me about yourself" is quite upsetting. Usually for me, that's the point I stop chatting. What does he want, an essay? What's the point, anyway? There's a higher tendency he'll forget all that has been said.

Naturally?

Now i see why they say Nigerian ladies have issues. Y'all behave confused tbfh.

I don't see anything wrong with the question but I'd rather ask specific questions, that way we can branch out as we talk about each question

Eg tell me about urself

And: im chiraqdemon im 2000 years old im from....

Vs

Ur from Lagos right, which part?
Ans: surulere
Ur mom or dad cos my dad is from there too the...

And u can just branch and go and topics will just be flowing

But if u use the tell me about urself pattern, u end up breaking the chain to fit side convos in the middle and then you'll now have to go back and bring up the question u interrupted and maybe the vibe for that particular gist might have died.

Sha idk so don't ask me, im not the king of convos.

frenzyduchess:
My reply to this question is usually
"Name, age, tribe ,educational qualification, relationship status, local government ,height and skin colour ,but if you have anything you will like to know, ask"

I hope all the mentally lazy ladies on this thread can read this comment up here.

Because if you're not mentally lazy that question shldnt even be a problem.

Laveda:


1 and 3

YOURE JUST A FOOL

I really don't like it.
my response is always, "ask What you want to know about me"

supersystemsnig:


It's easy, treat it like a massage

Well, like you know, i'm super... I love to " the moment you mention movies or anything ", the conversation ends. Its basically not a question that wants the real answers No. It wants to pick an area of interest that resonates the speaker, so a conversation can branch out, simple. And the more that;s revealed, the more the conversation can be stretched. and just this question alone if both parties are good with communication can stretch into weeks before it is exhausted, because new areas of interests opens up for discussion.

THAT QUESTION IS STUPID AND BORING

supersystemsnig:


It's easy, treat it like a massage

Well, like you know, i'm super... I love to " the moment you mention movies or anything ", the conversation ends. Its basically not a question that wants the real answers No. It wants to pick an area of interest that resonates the speaker, so a conversation can branch out, simple. And the more that;s revealed, the more the conversation can be stretched. and just this question alone if both parties are good with communication can stretch into weeks before it is exhausted, because new areas of interests opens up for discussion.

Exactly bro!

So much mentally lazy ladies everwhere. They feel they're doing dudes a favour by chatting with them. I'm weak mehn

MEN WILL NEVER LEARN, THAT QUESTION IS BORING AND JUST AN INTERVIEW MODE QUESTION. IT'S JUST STUPID. MEN WITHOUT GAME OR EXPERIENCE EVERYWHERE.

OrdercityWeb:

Exactly bro!

So much mentally lazy ladies everwhere. They feel they're doing dudes a favour by chatting with them. I'm weak mehn

Lol...They arsed their way thru school prolly... I mean checkout some folks can't run three lines typo without errors...


It feels like they feel they do guys/men a favor by chatting. So i think i'll put a lid on this..Abeg, i can do without lazy minds...If one can not know whom they are, then what would they know? I'm sure when you ask about how do you see life, the processor would almost crash....

OrdercityWeb:

Exactly bro!

So much mentally lazy ladies everwhere. They feel they're doing dudes a favour by chatting with them. I'm weak mehn

IT'S NOT MENTAL LAZINESS BRO. YOU'RE MEETING A LADY FOR THE FIRST TIME AND THAT'S YOUR QUESTION? IT SCREAMS BOREDOM AND FOOLISHNESS