spreado:

What! That na u sha.
You can ask a girl 'whats your view on religion' and she will reply 'why you asking'
How do you continue with that question?

You say " lol, what's bad if I ask? Or are you serving in a shrine? ,anyway, everybody has encountered the word religion. Just felt like hearing your personal views on it."

kimbraa:
I don't need a gazillion of male friends. All I need is one who doesn't think with his dick.

Thank you for this, all you need is one.
All you can really get is one, just one.
Advertising male friends is not a good idea, trust me... Having male friends is good but only one of em is truly honest, the others will just have u around until they know they can't get into your pants and bounce

Ginaz:


You say " lol, what's bad if I ask? Or are you serving in a shrine? ,anyway, everybody has encountered the word religion. Just felt like hearing your personal views on it."

U are good, that i cant argue

kimbraa:
You didn't get the point I made as I wasn't disputing the op's point of view.

na lie, you dispute am!!! Be careful with me, I won't suck your ass like the others

spreado:

Thank you for this, all you need is one.
All you can really get is one, just one.
Advertising male friends is not a good idea, trust me... Having male friends is good but only one of em is truly honest, the others will just have u around until they know they can't get into your pants and bounce

And you think women are insensitive not to know a guy whose soul reason for approaching them is to have sex and bounce?. There's something called defining one's relationship with someone, and I make sure I choose my friends, not the other way round.

benega:
na lie, you dispute am!!! Be careful with me, I won't suck your ass like the others

Do you have a problem with me?. I said I didn't dispute the op's statement, and you're saying I did. Is English that difficult for you?. Please, go back to who I quote and my initial statement or fùck off. I don't have the time for petty squabble.

kimbraa:
And you think women are insensitive not to know a guy whose soul reason for approaching them is to have sex and bounce?. There's something called defining one's relationship with someone, and I make sure I choose my friends, not the other way round.

I know that but the way women advertise it is scary, there was this girl in my neighborhood whose friends with almost all the guys some few years back, now the story is different. All of dem don bounce.

And even that one male friend at a time wanted sex or relationship but he got too deep in friendzone and decided to make peace with it. If u argue this fact, ask your male friend

Communication is a two way thing -make sense..
But I think many girls are well intentioned and sincerely mistaken. They mayn't understand all this due to maybe poor orientation and training. And this kind of beefing approach to the mater mayn't be the best!
Moreso going by most part of the OPs.words....do I sense a bitter flavour of male chauvinism from a possible misogynist.. Be easy oh!

kimbraa:
Do you have a problem with me?. I said I didn't dispute the op's statement, and you're saying I did. Is English that difficult for you?. Please, go back to who I quote and my initial statement or fùck off. I don't have the time for petty squabble.

OK so I don't know what far from the embolden means again. Continue lying to urself. But know this: your antics will never work on me or any reasonable dude with half a brain for that matter. Bye.

Amarabae:
In african society, romance is a bit stiffed due to our conservative nature.
Thats why some date gets boring, even conversation is a bored cycle,
free yourself around anyone you love,
its shocking that some married folks dont know how to initiate sex, thats the stiffness.

whatsoever you want to tell him/her(crush or date), say it with a smile or whisper it into his/her ears,
when conversating, be lively, crck jokes and tell intersting stories,
on social media chat up, if you hate chatting, then be calling each other,

love grows when we are free with each other,
stop being snubby, even if you dont fancy the person for dating, then see him/her as just a dear friend,
dont snub their hello,
ok?

You're the type of females I like. Either as a girlfriend or platonic friend.
Just as you pointed out, relationships & dates ain't meant to follow a particular pattern. Flexibility sweetens it but here in Africa, most folks want to be conservative.
Here's my no 08032060962, let's chat via WhatsApp

Ginaz:
For me I can put up a very good conversation and hold it as well. The PURE truth is some guys can be pretty boring. Heaven knows I hate boring chats!!!

Most platonic male friends I had the chance of chatting with were so boring via chats. Nigga, I don't have the patience to wait for you to make the chat lively. I do my part you do yours. If it ain't it, then we gon say Hi-Hi till one of us grow old.


One friend I have, at the beginning it was smooth. Great chats, lively. Then he started replying with word, while I write episodes. I was like, what's the attitude for? Don't feel too important jare. I ignored him completely, his last chat I didn't bother to reply.

I've had the chance of chatting with some cool guys though. The chats were so lively, fun. Intelligent.

My verdict! guys need to be broad in areas of communication so it doesn't tire out to end in a boring chat. Chat with things that are meaningful, deep, intelligent and versatile. It doesn't have to be** "HI, have you eaten? What are you doing? What you had for dinner". **

You can say something like, "what do you think about religion? Are you spiritual or religious? Have you gotten where you want to be in life? What are your future plans? Your goals? Ideals? "


*Chat deep* there won't be boring moment.

babe its either just you or some of the ladies i chat with are dumb fvcks

when i keep the convo a little open and a little explicit (note the little there ) they go all giddy on me like they like me and enjoy chatting but when i run out of words and try to ask the questions you wrote up there i get replies like

me: hey what's ur view on religion?

Dunbfvck: i'm a christain and my view is same as that of all christains............anyways hows the lady you said you crushing on (she changes the topic back to love/explicit talk)

me: what are your planss in life

bitchass: why you asking

me: well lets just say i'm curious to know......like i really wanna know

bitchass: well i can only tell my plans to my boyfriend / husband.............

Me: ok then how 'bout we assume i'm ur bf for now

bitchass: wait richie are you interested in me (she fvcking chages the topic and i just flow with her)

etc..............................

What i'm tryna say is most ladies dont like being asked such questions perharps cos they feel its gives out signs that you're either interested romantically in her or you planning to maake her urs or they feel its boring to talk that

most times they just give plain answers to such questions...........

pcguru1:
I hate chatting, a phone call is much easier , chatting takes more effort from your hand than masturbation lol

This is same method I am trying to replicate. I think chatting is more of a stress to the guys than the ladies cuz most are boring and expect you to be the one to keep the conversation going which supposed not to be. And majority are fond of replying with k k k k who does that?

What I do when a girl reply me with K, I make sure I reply with L. They will normally ask what's that? I will then reply I thought we were reciting the alphabet.

Naija gals are too boring.

Mcslize:


This is same method I am trying to replicate. I think chatting is more of a stress to the guys than the ladies cuz most are boring and expect you to be the one to keep the conversation going which supposed not to be. And majority are fond of replying with k k k k who does that?

What I do when a girl reply me with K, I make sure I reply with L. They will normally ask what's that? I will then reply I thought we were reciting the alphabet.

Naija gals are too boring.

When I notice a boring conversation I'd say "brb" and after that it might be till next time you buzz me I have messages I haven't responded in years, some months. I don't do monosyllables , at 31 can't be cracking my head trying to entertain someone when bills dey ground lol

chiraqDemon:

Lol we are polar opposites then, I hate calls with my life, answering calls just makes me want to put a rope around my neck and hang. Makes me want to shoot myself in the face. I prefer chatting all day to making a 3 minute call

same here,I geh only 10 contacts

Cos I hate fone calls !!
I no de save people number, male or female ;S

LadyGoddiva:
I liked and I shared this post! As much as I always try to support and speak for women, I have to agree with this poster.
It's the same set of confused bunch that'll come out and scream feminism and gender equality but they expect to get special treatment. Bull fuccing shyte!!!
Anyone that keeps on waiting on you to start and keep up a convo should end up in the dustbin because obviously they're just in your life for decoration. Mtschew.

Would have loved To send you airtime for this post,if not for recession.

Damn !!!
First time I don see female for NL way geh sense

kimbraa:
And you think women are insensitive not to know a guy whose soul reason for approaching them is to have sex and bounce?. There's something called defining one's relationship with someone, and I make sure I choose my friends, not the other way round.

lol.


this post is really funny.....

Talkwell:


same here,I geh only 10 contacts

Cos I hate fone calls !!
I no de save people number, male or female ;S

Lol. Got 500+ contacts. Only WhatsApp about 10. Really WhatsApp 2 regularly, 1 of them everyday. Not really social u see

That's very true I hate the way some ladies talk

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Some girls night get ot kan kan....

There are special kinds of guys girls do not try such with.

Yahoo guys, rich guys, guys they have crushes on, guys way above their level and got his shit together etc.

Not to justify the silly attitudes of ladies, but their actions just show that success in anything you do will attract women. That same girl that is showing dirty attitudes, another guy is ignoring her, tired of her incessant chats and done fuckin her.

Instead of focusing on how they treat you, go and make it happen. Ignore them and be the best of yourself, and please, make money. That's the point.

Sorry to burstt the bubble. Success is the best revenge.

well for me this is an eye opener . i Will correct it

Ebuka just hit the head on the nail. I salute him, it's not easy standing out of the crowd..

Venica:
well for me this is an eye opener . i Will correct it

Wow... quite rare to see this kinda post. I greet you sis!

Got 81 folks as contacts on whatsapp, minus family members and contacts i saved for some business purpose, you'll have like 62 left.
Outta that 62, i get Input-Output data from an average value of 8 per day(groups included)

Time no dey o...

Just remembered one other girl I liked n so I started chatting with her, I'll just be trying to force the chat n get to know her, I'll be writing 4 lines n she'll just reply with half line. She'll be using ok in places that a sane person should be using something like "ha, that was bad o, what later happened", in like a situation where I was telling a story. God I got pissed n got the vibes that I was not welcome. Months later this girl is now telling me that I did not try, that she liked me but I just stopped talking to her. I just stopped talking to her from then. Thing vexed me sef.

chiraqDemon:
Just remembered one other girl I liked n so I started chatting with her, I'll just be trying to force the chat n get to know her, I'll be writing 4 lines n she'll just reply with half line. She'll be using ok in places that a sane person should be using something like "ha, that was bad o, what later happened", in like a situation where I was telling a story. God I got pissed n got the vibes that I was not welcome. Months later this girl is now telling me that I did not try, that she liked me but I just stopped talking to her. I just stopped talking to her from then. Thing vexed me sef.

The thing just weak me. .Your experience is not peculiar. I don't know why most girls are wired that wayoo.

Hahahaha! My type of guy. It's high time these pretenders wake up. Even the good for nothing ones dey do the rubbish too. I weak for Naija girls

pcguru1:


When I notice a boring conversation I'd say "brb" and after that it might be till next time you buzz me I have messages I haven't responded in years, some months. I don't do monosyllables , at 31 can't be cracking my head trying to entertain someone when bills dey ground lol

That's it bro. I really don't know why some ladies are like that. You can image someone will take his time to type a whole 25 words expression only for him to get the surprise of his life of a reply of K. That automatically seems like an insult to me and such a girl doesn't stand a chance of knowing me.

How many naija girls a guy will strike a conversation with and act inquisitive? Not many. In fact , I have lost hope in all our ladies. It is hard to see an intelligent girl that will engage a guy in a thought provoking discussion these days. All they do is to snap pictures, open up boobs and yansh everywhere. Nothing else.

RobinHez:

Wow... quite rare to see this kinda post. I greet you sis!

thanks bro