elantraceey:
. Guilty as charged

chiraqDemon:

Lol we are polar opposites then, I hate calls with my life, answering calls just makes me want to put a rope around my neck and hang. Makes me want to shoot myself in the face. I prefer chatting all day to making a 3 minute call

kimbraa:
Far from the embolden. Guys are actually better friends than girls when it comes to objectivity and sharing personal information. Have you seen a platonic male friend that dragged his best female friend on social media with her personal information? Whereas, girls do that on daily basis to themselves. It has nothing to do with getting all the attention and not reciprocating.

dingbang:
Tell me I don't call again and I will delete you from my life..

biacan:


So you want to delete me

dingbang:
distance...

Amarabae:
In african society, romance is a bit stiffed due to our conservative nature.
Thats why some date gets boring, even conversation is a bored cycle,
free yourself around anyone you love,
its shocking that some married folks dont know how to initiate sex, thats the stiffness.

whatsoever you want to tell him/her(crush or date), say it with a smile or whisper it into his/her ears,
when conversating, be lively, crck jokes and tell intersting stories,
on social media chat up, if you hate chatting, then be calling each other,

love grows when we are free with each other,
stop being snubby, even if you dont fancy the person for dating, then see him/her as just a dear friend,
dont snub their hello,
ok?

pocohantas:
He is right. Lots of girls claiming they only do male friends, do so because they want to get all the good loving a brother can give.

They get all this loving and attention without giving up the nunu or reciprocating in equal measure.

kimbraa:
Far from the embolden. Guys are actually better friends than girls when it comes to objectivity and sharing personal information. Have you seen a platonic male friend that dragged his best female friend on social media with her personal information? Whereas, girls do that on daily basis to themselves. It has nothing to do with getting all the attention and not reciprocating.

lenghtinny:

You better be careful....
Social media is breeding lots of fvckboys nowadays... Kiss and tell dudes are on the increase..

Neymar1095:
You see those girls that are always online here but wont post anything are busy asking guys for recharge card.

kimbraa:
What's my business with fùckboys?. I'm talking of platonic friendship with guys, and it's a rule of thumb that they're more logical than ladies.

biacan:


You becoming rude to me on a daily basis why is that

lenghtinny:

True but what I mean is that don't judge them based on their gender only

kimbraa:
I understand what you're trying to say but based on sample opinion, the minority figure isn't taken into consideration. For example, we have both good and bad friends but if you'd have to compare a male friend to a female friend, there's 99.9% possibility that your female friend talks about you behind your back while there's a 99.9% possibility that your male friend doesn't talk about you behind your back.

If a guy sees you as a sister, he'd protect you but if a girl sees you as a sister, what's keeping her from spilling the beans is ample opportunity.

kimbraa:
Far from the embolden. Guys are actually better friends than girls when it comes to objectivity and sharing personal information. Have you seen a platonic male friend that dragged his best female friend on social media with her personal information? Whereas, girls do that on daily basis to themselves. It has nothing to do with getting all the attention and not reciprocating.

benega:
my sister it is not far from any embolden anything, the boy hit it spot on, you love the attention and pampering, just say the truth, Ha.

Ginaz:
For me I can put up a very good conversation and hold it as well. The PURE truth is some guys can be pretty boring. Heaven knows I hate boring chats!!!

Most platonic male friends I had the chance of chatting with were so boring via chats. Nigga, I don't have the patience to wait for you to make the chat lively. I do my part you do yours. If it ain't it, then we gon say Hi-Hi till one of us grow old.


One friend I have, at the beginning it was smooth. Great chats, lively. Then he started replying with word, while I write episodes. I was like, what's the attitude for? Don't feel too important jare. I ignored him completely, his last chat I didn't bother to reply.

I've had the chance of chatting with some cool guys though. The chats were so lively, fun. Intelligent.

My verdict! guys need to be broad in areas of communication so it doesn't tire out to end in a boring chat. Chat with things that are meaningful, deep, intelligent and versatile. It doesn't have to be** "HI, have you eaten? What are you doing? What you had for dinner". **

You can say something like, "what do you think about religion? Are you spiritual or religious? Have you gotten where you want to be in life? What are your future plans? Your goals? Ideals? "


*Chat deep* there won't be boring moment.

kimbraa:
I understand what you're trying to say but based on sample opinion, the minority figure isn't taken into consideration. For example, we have both good and bad friends but if you'd have to compare a male friend to a female friend, there's 99.9% possibility that your female friend talks about you behind your back while there's a 99.9% possibility that your male friend doesn't talk about you behind your back.

If a guy sees you as a sister, he'd protect you but if a girl sees you as a sister, what's keeping her from spilling the beans is ample opportunity.

Neymar1095:
Girls always want to be treated special Like its there birthright....... Mtcheew

Neymar1095:
But some guys nor dey try. How you go turn chat to interview.

spreado:

Ya, but y guys always advice against it, if you think you can have a wide circle of male friends, my dear think again.. How many guys do you think can take you as a sister?.