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| Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by AdeizaPrime(op): 6:48am On Nov 01, 2017 |
This has to be one of the most underrated topics ever. Doesn't a man have the right to know if a girl is pregnant for him? Many a time people have sex and they no longer stay together be it a one night stand or breakup. In the eventuality the lady gets pregnant and is sure about who the father is, she then solely decides to keep the pregnancy (and not abort) but refuses to tell the father. What is your say about this? Shouldn't the supposed father know he has a kid somewhere, even if he's no going to take care of the kid at least the knowledge that he has someone outside should do right? 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by SmellingAnus(m): 6:51am On Nov 01, 2017 |
It's proper for the father to know he has a kid somewhere although some women may have different reasons of not telling their baby daddy that they are pregnant for him.... Such reasons could be that, she doesn't want the man to persuade her to go into an abortion... Other reasons could be selfish, she feels he is from a wealthy home and she can get something (continous cash) from the family like compensation for being the mother of their child... Other reasons could also be that, all she wanted was a baby she could call her own since her biological clock is almost far spent... |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by psalmson001: 6:52am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Hell no..... Even if he is irresponsible, still let him know . 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by AdeizaPrime(op): 6:53am On Nov 01, 2017*. Modified: 8:07am On Nov 01, 2017 |
agongajoseph:Woah....my blood went cold, so assuming you were white only she would have known. What are your plans for your kid? |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Nobody: 6:55am On Nov 01, 2017 |
AdeizaPrime:I guess she has her reasons for not telling the man and those reasons supersedes his right to know. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Samsimple(m): 6:57am On Nov 01, 2017 |
I have experience with this issue and the father always find out eventually |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by AdeizaPrime(op): 6:58am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Benita27:What if she holds a grudge against the guy for no reason, people can be crazy, she can do that to hurt him 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by AdeizaPrime(op): 6:59am On Nov 01, 2017 |
psalmson001:I concur |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by AdeizaPrime(op): 6:59am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Samsimple:Unfortunately some never do....or till after decades |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Nobody: 7:08am On Nov 01, 2017 |
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| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Nobody: 7:24am On Nov 01, 2017*. Modified: 8:08am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Nah If the guy is irrespobsible, then he doesn't deserve the title"father" Some guys are just a sperm donor 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by samtinx(m): 7:50am On Nov 01, 2017 |
Pls the man should knw he has a child,be that he is responsible or not,he deserves to know he has a seed in this world,most times a baby's welfare is poor,because of d lack of bonding u both have before bringing the baby to earth 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Nobody: 7:50am On Nov 01, 2017 |
It happened to me, two weeks before I left Russia on completion of my Masters degree I slept wit a girl for d first time , we had sex just once, I came back to Nigera, she went on to marry her boyfriend, putting d pregnancy on him (a white guy), when she gave birth, with time d baby stated looking like an halfcaste. Inshort to cut the long story short, her friend chatted me up a year later on facebook n broke d news to me, I wrote her n asked her, I never knew it was her husband that was online on her page...that was how he cleared his doubt dat d baby isn't his. They divorced. |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Nobody: 8:46am On Nov 01, 2017 |
AdeizaPrime:yes only she wud av known, I contacted her but she blocked me on Facebook after many months she unblocked me and started telling me abt the baby n stuff...I promised to b sending her money for upkeep, after sometime she chatted me up saying "Hi" I cudnt answer cos I was busy, planned to chat her up at my convenient time....she got offended n blocked me again, up till now...I'll just wait till d baby gets to 18 years. That's our baby. 2 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Blackhawk01: 8:53am On Nov 01, 2017 |
CEEcey:And why would a responsible girl allow an irresponsible man to impregnate her? The man deserves to know except in the case of rape. |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by samtinx(m): 9:19am On Nov 01, 2017 |
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| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by joyndidi: 9:55am On Nov 01, 2017 |
agongajoseph:awnnnnn she's very pretty 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Blackhawk01: 10:06am On Nov 01, 2017 |
agongajoseph:Your baby is so so cute 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by Rukkydelta(f): 10:42am On Nov 01, 2017 |
A child belongs to a mother only the man is just a sperm donor so if a woman don't want a man to know his sperm fertilizes her it's cool Except in marriage that's when the man must know he is having a baby Let the bashing begins 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by periphetes: 10:45am On Nov 01, 2017 |
agongajoseph:Your a good man and a father. Irresponsible men would have simply ignored such info. Go visit your cute princess 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by izaray(f): 10:55am On Nov 01, 2017 |
agongajoseph:And you ended up coming home with two certificates. Congrat man, your baby is damn cute. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by AdeizaPrime(op): 7:47pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
agongajoseph:She's soooo cute, we may never decipher how women think but dont let that deter you, try to be involved in your daughter's life as much as you can. May God help us all 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Keep A Pregnancy Unknown To The Father? by AdeizaPrime(op): 7:48pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Rukkydelta:Hehe dont be bothered, the attention you're seeking would some bountifully soon enough, have a Lil patience  |
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