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Halo Nairalanders I really shouldn't bring this here on NL but Its disturbing, I met this girl who is God fearing, beautiful,intelligent and well shaped, but the major issue is that she is not a home maker,she doesn't arrange the house,she doesn't like cooking, and even to watch clothes na wahala,some of you might say I should teach her,yes of course I have taught her,but to no avail,she always gives a thousand reasons why she shouldn't do things,and wants to live a foreign lifestyle. She attends one of this new generation church,that their ladies her highly knowledgeable about the Bible, so dear Nairaland people, what should I do about changing her?

You can't change her.

Obviously you are dating an immature lady or a slay queen in the making.
She is religious and her own version of the Bible does not teach her good norms and character?

Towncrier007:
Halo Nairalanders I really shouldn't bring this here on NL but Its disturbing, I met this girl who is God fearing, beautiful,intelligent and well shaped, but the major issue is that she is not a home maker,she doesn't arrange the house,she doesn't like cooking, and even to watch clothes na wahala,some of you might say I should teach her,yes of course I have taught her,but to no avail,she always gives a thousand reasons why she shouldn't do things,and wants to live a foreign lifestyle. She attends one of this new generation church,that their ladies her highly knowledgeable about the Bible, so dear Nairaland people, what should I do about changing her?

na her pastor match her n u are not

Learnstuffs:
Obviously you are dating an immature lady or a slay queen in the making.
She is religious and her own version of the Bible does not teach her good norms and character?

She's 24years old and very moderate in dressing, also very hardworking in terms of career

You can’t fit someone into what you perceive to be the total package so you either accept that this is what it will be like should you decide to settle or work on a compromise there is no set rules that dictate that as a woman you have to like housework and be homely it’s not everyone’s strength. So what’s important to you here? Think about it!

u can only change her if n when she wants to change

Towncrier007:
Halo Nairalanders I really shouldn't bring this here on NL but Its disturbing, I met this girl who is God fearing, beautiful,intelligent and well shaped, but the major issue is that she is not a home maker,she doesn't arrange the house,she doesn't like cooking, and even to watch clothes na wahala,some of you might say I should teach her,yes of course I have taught her,but to no avail,she always gives a thousand reasons why she shouldn't do things,and wants to live a foreign lifestyle. She attends one of this new generation church,that their ladies her highly knowledgeable about the Bible, so dear Nairaland people, what should I do about changing her?

Leave her n find a girl that will listen and accept ideas you adore. That same girl that is forming posh for you
will scrub a public toilet WC sparkling white to have a go at the dead Tinubu's son just to sustain an affair. Feeble hearted guys like yourself should stop adoring girls that are not worth your adoration. Pls adore n respect girl who are deserving of such adoration and have shown extreme respect for you not those putting up with you because they do not have what they desire.

Towncrier007:
She's 24years old and very moderate in dressing, also very hardworking in terms of career

She has good traits. You people can work out things. Nobody is perfect so she can learn

Shawnnn01:
Leave her n find a girl that will listen and accept ideas you adore. That same girl that is forming posh for you
will scrub a public toilet WC sparkling white to have a go at the dead Tinubu's son just to sustain an affair. Feeble hearted guys like yourself should stop adoring girls that are not worth your adoration. Pls adore n respect girl who are deserving of such adoration and have shown extreme respect for you not those putting up with you because they do not have what they desire.

You got a point...
but the fact is that, I have someone else in queue, i don't date without having a plan B.