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Ït all started since i learnt about b. d. $.m and actually began reading books and watching p0rn movies on b. d. $.m featuring dominant ladies and their submissive m'en. As time went on, ï found out that i began developing attraction for ladies Who are dominant. The attraction gréw steadily until now that it has gotten to extremism. Now it is not just the desire for domination by a lady, but it has gotten to masochism ï. e i fantasize about being beaten up by a lady before being fvckked by her and used for her sexual pleasure. But unfortunately Nigerian society is not open minded enough for people to understand the various sexual dynamics. I'm not even sure if we have ladies Who are open to such lifestyle.

Before anybody thinks that i am gay, i am totally straight and cam never submit to a fellow guy. I am also not weak. Infact, i am physically very strong. My issue is just psychological and the feeling is so strong that i fear if i would be able to live cope in this closed minded society.

Please i need advice. Tanks !

Gay!

Na wa o !

Everybody with im own kink.



Pele o

Cool...

But make them no beat you to death.

Mariinee:
Cool...

But make them no beat you to death.

Lol

Guy u mean slap & beating for love making? chai chai..... hope u dey Lag, Yabaleft no far.. them go treat u gaskiya wahlai.

Addiction. A part of the brain recalls and reminds you of your daily routine every minutes. you really need to undergo counselling on your issue. i feel medical practitioners can also prescribe drugs and other solution to help you. thanks.

Teaveapoet:
Addiction. A part of the brain recalls and reminds you of your daily routine every minutes. you really need to undergo counselling on your issue. i feel medical practitioners can also prescribe drugs and other solution to help you. thanks.

You wouldn't understand how serious it is. I fear i may not enjoy marriage with a submissive kind of lady because i may cheat on her any day i meet a Domme.

pussyphilia:
You wouldn't understand how serious it is. I fear i may not enjoy marriage with a submissive kind of lady because i may cheat on her any day i meet a Domme.

I might not really understand what you are passing through psychologically but i understood you perfectly. don't keep it to your self. you need to undergo a therapy session where u would be drill to. be able to control and cub your present state. You won't be the first facing this kind of dilemma and many had resolve theirs. dear poster, be positive okay. you would feel better and normal again.

Teaveapoet:
I might not really understand what you are passing through psychologically but i understood you perfectly. don't keep it to your self. you need to undergo a therapy session where u would be drill to. be able to control and cub your present state. You won't be the first facing this kind of dilemma and many had resolve theirs. dear poster, be positive okay. you would feel better and normal again.

Thanks

I see you brother...




Bdsm too bad for my liking....
Dont do it anymore!

Modelqwen:






Guy u mean slap & beating for love making?
chai chai.....
hope u dey Lag, Yabaleft no far..
them go treat u gaskiya wahlai.

That's my crazy fantasy !
You need to see how hard my d1ck stands for mere thinking about a dominant lady.

You guys are sick, i think am going to vomit �

Well, the thing is, people respond to sex in a different way which is what you are doing.

As a sexual fatancy and method of arousal, it might interest you at the beginning stage but as time goes on, you go deeper and deeper in it; which explain the deeper urge for 'masochism or sexual sadism' and this is where it all becomes bad and unhealthy.

Is not as if you wont find a giver if you look for any cos unlike what you might think, there are ladies in Nigeria who might be paid to do this things in Nigeria but thing is, you are hurting yourself.

Trying to satisfy ever gratification of this urge is like creating a bigger space for it in your life. Have you ever thought of the bruises, scars and skin damages that leads to It? as a result of the whips, lady's shoe heels, burtal intimacy gadgets etc. You are having a sexual disorder because any sexual actions that brings pains to the receiver or giver is abnormal.

You are not alone with this problem and through therapies like behavioral or cognitive therapies or rehabilitations, you can survive it. You just need to visit a psychologist and soon it will be over.

Peace...

the damage porn does is more than the good if offers. pls stop watching porn; u would get psychologically addicted.
u just need to stop fantasizing abt d graphic images u've seen.
am sure u'ld understand as u strive 2 break this

Porn can be so cruel. Someone can be crazy to this extent? chai

if I give you dirty slap your psychologyo go reset

Ibenny:
Well, the thing is, people respond to sex in a different way which is what you are doing.

As a sexual fatancy and method of arousal, it might interest you at the beginning stage but as time goes on, you go deeper and deeper in it; which explain the deeper urge for 'masochism or sexual sadism' and this is where it all becomes bad and unhealthy.

Is not as if you wont find a giver if you look for any cos unlike what you might think, there are ladies in Nigeria who might be paid to do this things in Nigeria but thing is, you are hurting yourself.

Trying to satisfy ever gratification of this urge is like creating a bigger space for it in your life. Have you ever thought of the bruises, scars and skin damages that leads to It? as a result of the whips, lady's shoe heels, burtal intimacy gadgets etc. You are having a sexual disorder because any sexual actions that brings pains to the receiver or giver is abnormal.

You are not alone with this problem and through therapies like behavioral or cognitive therapies or rehabilitations, you can survive it. You just need to visit a psychologist and soon it will be over.

Peace...
G

Great response !
Op take note.

Jman06:
Great response !
Op take note.

Thanks

Ibenny:
Well, the thing is, people respond to sex in a different way which is what you are doing.

As a sexual fatancy and method of arousal, it might interest you at the beginning stage but as time goes on, you go deeper and deeper in it; which explain the deeper urge for 'masochism or sexual sadism' and this is where it all becomes bad and unhealthy.

Is not as if you wont find a giver if you look for any cos unlike what you might think, there are ladies in Nigeria who might be paid to do this things in Nigeria but thing is, you are hurting yourself.

Trying to satisfy ever gratification of this urge is like creating a bigger space for it in your life. Have you ever thought of the bruises, scars and skin damages that leads to It? as a result of the whips, lady's shoe heels, burtal intimacy gadgets etc. You are having a sexual disorder because any sexual actions that brings pains to the receiver or giver is abnormal.

You are not alone with this problem and through therapies like behavioral or cognitive therapies or rehabilitations, you can survive it. You just need to visit a psychologist and soon it will be over.

Peace...

Thanks for the advice

Jman06:
Na wa o !

Everybody with im own kink.



Pele o

Thank you sir.

Later when you get married, your wife will start controlling you... That time it will be too late because you yourself won't see it as a problem, then everyone you know, your friends and family will start running away from you.

IAmFreeman:
Later when you get married, your wife will start controlling you... That time it will be too late because you yourself won't see it as a problem, then everyone you know, your friends and family will start running away from you.

That's my fear. But if i can find a lady Who would be Domme in our closet but atleast pretend to be sub in public maybe i Will consider such for marriage. If not, then i can only play with a professional dominatrix.

iamJ:
[color=#59576F] I like ladies dominating me too, but i will break u first then allow u to do ur thing

A girl that is not rude and proud can neva understand me

Guy ur problem is not a problem, its a good problem


[b]Nothing gets me hard like wen a girl slaps my face [/color][/b]


#No Filter Attitude

Damn

pussyphilia:
Ït all started since i learnt about b. d. $.m and actually began reading books and watching p0rn movies on b. d. $.m featuring dominant ladies and their submissive m'en. As time went on, ï found out that i began developing attraction for ladies Who are dominant. The attraction gréw steadily until now that it has gotten to extremism. Now it is not just the desire for domination by a lady, but it has gotten to masochism ï. e i fantasize about being beaten up by a lady before being fvckked by her and used for her sexual pleasure. But unfortunately Nigerian society is not open minded enough for people to understand the various sexual dynamics. I'm not even sure if we have ladies Who are open to such lifestyle.

Before anybody thinks that i am gay, i am totally straight and cam never submit to a fellow guy. I am also not weak. Infact, i am physically very strong. My issue is just psychological and the feeling is so strong that i fear if i would be able to live cope in this closed minded society.

Please i need advice. Tanks !

You are very normal bro.. Every mallam to his kettle.

pussyphilia:
That's my fear. But if i can find a lady Who would be Domme in our closet but atleast pretend to be sub in public maybe i Will consider such for marriage. If not, then i can only play with a professional dominatrix.

Your chances of finding such lady in this country is slim... Your best bet is to go outside the country

iamJ:
[color=#59576F] I like ladies dominating me too, but i will break u first then allow u to do ur thing

A girl that is not rude and proud can neva understand me

Guy ur problem is not a problem, its a good problem


Nothing gets me hard like wen a girl slaps my face [/color]


#No Filter Attitude

My ex broke up with me for no reason. He didn't give me any reason so we went our separate ways. After a year, we met again and i asked him why he decided to let go our relationship. He told me that i was too good and calm for him. He wanted a rude girl. Someone who will confront him in a fight. Someone who would at times slap him. I was just like .
Some guys (even some girls) are just like that. So I'm not even surprise

you are watching too much porn, stop and you go well

Teaveapoet:
Addiction. A part of the brain recalls and reminds you of your daily routine every minutes. you really need to undergo counselling on your issue. i feel medical practitioners can also prescribe drugs and other solution to help you. thanks.

i love your mind and the way it works!

SEE WHAT MOVIES HAVE CAUSED TO YOUR LIFE NOW...

op nothing do you if you've got a girl tell her about your fetish séx is meant to be an adventure not a boring continual overrated one style thing most Nigerians are known for