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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Lovethaa: 10:46am On Dec 24, 2020
Earlier thread https://www.nairaland.com/6326669/think-boyfriend-fetish

Dear Valenciabaddie

We met at House on the rock lekki which is a petecostal church and after we got closer I revealed to you that my parents are celestial and I do go to thier church once in a while to which you answered "No problem "..

You even offered to follow me to the church whenever they have special programs and im invited.

Everyone knows that white garment churches makes use of white candles which I have explained to you that it has nothing to do with being fetish

Now the issue of this black soap ,you know very well that my sister is a cosmetologist, and she has been the one you go to for your cream, soap e.t.c since you met me

I took a friend to her shop so she can help her with a job and before I left she suggested I take Allafia black soap with me (Google that )
Recommending it for great skin glow
She gave me the soap and urged me to use it every night before I sleep for the first 7 days for effective results.


Last week Friday u were around and I forgot about the soap totally , by the time I remembered it was too late at night but I still rushed to the bath to make use of it ...

Then the next morning around 4am you're telling me you have to go home 'mmediately?.. I asked you why the sudden change of mind when you already told me you will be spending the week but u never answered, I was forced to drive u back home so early in the morning and I kept asking u if there was anything and u said no problem..


And since then u hardly reply my text or return my calls,I didn't pay attention to it cos I thought u are going through something and you'l let me know when you're better .

Only for me to read your post on Nairaland 3 days after... saying I'm too spiritual and I'm using black soap to bath at a specific time.

The fact that you couldn't talk about this with me was what annoyed me ,so u need public opinion to dictate your private life ??
I came to your house almost immediately only to find that you've told your sister and friend everything that was suppose to be between me and you

So its now you know that a jobless person should not be sending 100k to a woman ,but when I sent it u did not question me the source or try to return the money ,instead u showered me with thanks .

If u ask for money and I couldn't give you'll start complaining You asked I gave still problem. ...
It's your life anyways but pls stop bringing my name/story up on your post or with your friends and family

Because it's obvious you don't understand who you claim to be dating.., at 25 you're still clueless about life ..

you gave your friends who are obviously jealous of your relationship an avenue to decieve you ...


Now strange people coming to my mentions to say I'm a ritualist ..wow !!..
Yes I smashed your phone because Its from my ritual money ..very annoying ..



Anyways

I apologise for Everything...

This will be the first / last time I talk about this again...
:.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Kriss216: 10:48am On Dec 24, 2020
Interesting.

Exactly what I said on that thread. That girl is just confused. You said you're uncomfortable with him, yet you dey follow bobo dey go em Church.

I use Dudu Osun and it's a black soap, I always have my bathe every 1am before I sleep, does that makes me a Ritualist

I'm tempted to call her foolish and ashawo, but, I'll let that slide, tomorrow is Christmas.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by fati2001(m): 10:49am On Dec 24, 2020

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by fati2001(m): 10:50am On Dec 24, 2020
Lovethaa:

Dear Valenciabaddie

We met at House on the rock lekki which is a petecostal church and after we got closer I revealed to you that my parents are celestial and I do go to thier church once in a while to which you answered "No problem "..

You even offered to follow me to the church whenever they have special programs and im invited.

Everyone knows that white garment churches makes use of white candles which I have explained to you that it has nothing to do with being fetish

Now the issue of this black soap ,you know very well that my sister is a cosmetologist, and she has been the one you go to for your cream, soap e.t.c since you met me

I took a friend to her shop so she can help her with a job and before I left she suggested I take Allafia black soap with me (Google that )
Recommending it for great skin glow
She gave me the soap and urged me to use it every night before I sleep for the first 7 days for effective results.


Last week Friday u were around and I forgot about the soap totally , by the time I remembered it was too late at night but I still rushed to the bath to make use of it ...

Then the next morning around 4am you're telling me you have to go home 'mmediately?.. I asked you why the sudden change of mind when you already told me you will be spending the week but u never answered, I was forced to drive u back home so early in the morning and I kept asking u if there was anything and u said no problem..


And since then u hardly reply my text or return my calls,I didn't pay attention to it cos I thought u are going through something and you'l let me know when you're better .

Only for me to read your post on Nairaland 3 days after... saying I'm too spiritual and I'm using black soap to bath at a specific time.

The fact that you couldn't talk about this with me was what annoyed me ,so u need public opinion to dictate your private life ??
I came to your house almost immediately only to find that you've told your sister and friend everything that was suppose to be between me and you

So its now you know that a jobless person should not be sending 100k to a woman ,but when I sent it u did not question me the source or try to return the money ,instead u showered me with thanks .

If u ask for money and I couldn't give you'll start complaining You asked I gave still problem. ...
It's your life anyways but pls stop bringing my name/story up on your post or with your friends and family

Because it's obvious you don't understand who you claim to be dating.., at 25 you're still clueless about life ..

you gave your friends who are obviously jealous of your relationship an avenue to decieve you ...


Now strange people coming to my mentions to say I'm a ritualist ..wow !!..
Yes I smashed your phone because Its from my ritual money ..very annoying ..



Anyways

I apologise for Everything...

This will be the first / last time I talk about this again...
:.








SO SORRY ABOUT THAT....





YOU HAVE TO WATCH YOUR STEPS CAREFULLY NOW......



AND KEEP UR PRIVATE LIFE SAVE....

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by ILoveeyouall(f): 10:50am On Dec 24, 2020
Hmmm.

Relationship wahala

Abeg make two of una no vex, u guys should settle this privately no need of bringing all this shit online.

We have more issue in nigeria to settle, than all this relationship palava.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by SpeedyHitman: 10:50am On Dec 24, 2020
#Roll the credits!
#There's two sides to every story & now I know yours!...
#If I were you I'd kick her to the curve....
#I hate women

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by ThreeEyedRaven: 10:52am On Dec 24, 2020
Ignorance everywhere. But I don't blame him, there are real bad people and everyone is apprehensive

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by RealGboy: 10:52am On Dec 24, 2020
Very stupid girls in Nigeria ... Na so one babe scam me yesterday .. God purnish Nigerian babes

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by JOACHINpedro: 10:55am On Dec 24, 2020
I thought you've been arrested Bro shocked

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Kriss216: 10:55am On Dec 24, 2020
RealGboy:
Very stupid girls in Nigeria ... Na so one babe scam me yesterday .. God purnish Nigerian babes
Why did you allow the devil to use you by allowing a Nigerian girl to scam you

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 10:56am On Dec 24, 2020
These vagina ppl eh, them dey always disgrace their generation!

Fish brain with make-up and expensive wigs and cloth.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by JAOS(m): 10:59am On Dec 24, 2020
it is now I know how small a woman's brain is

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 10:59am On Dec 24, 2020
RealGboy:
Very stupid girls in Nigeria ... Na so one babe scam me yesterday .. God purnish Nigerian babes

You weren't scammed. She exploited your gullibility, stop acting with your DICK!

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by baralatie(m): 11:00am On Dec 24, 2020

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by RealGboy: 11:02am On Dec 24, 2020
ThreadOwner:


You weren't scammed. She exploited your gullibility, stop acting with your DICK!

Exploited kill you there ... So it's now a crime to trust people especially women??

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by BaddieFreak(f): 11:03am On Dec 24, 2020
Wahala Sha plenty for this world

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by baralatie(m): 11:03am On Dec 24, 2020
Lovethaa:

Dear Valenciabaddie

We met at House on the rock lekki which is a petecostal church and after we got closer I revealed to you that my parents are celestial and I do go to thier church once in a while to which you answered "No problem "..

You even offered to follow me to the church whenever they have special programs and im invited.

Everyone knows that white garment churches makes use of white candles which I have explained to you that it has nothing to do with being fetish

Now the issue of this black soap ,you know very well that my sister is a cosmetologist, and she has been the one you go to for your cream, soap e.t.c since you met me

I took a friend to her shop so she can help her with a job and before I left she suggested I take Allafia black soap with me (Google that )
Recommending it for great skin glow
She gave me the soap and urged me to use it every night before I sleep for the first 7 days for effective results.


Last week Friday u were around and I forgot about the soap totally , by the time I remembered it was too late at night but I still rushed to the bath to make use of it ...

Then the next morning around 4am you're telling me you have to go home 'mmediately?.. I asked you why the sudden change of mind when you already told me you will be spending the week but u never answered, I was forced to drive u back home so early in the morning and I kept asking u if there was anything and u said no problem..


And since then u hardly reply my text or return my calls,I didn't pay attention to it cos I thought u are going through something and you'l let me know when you're better .

Only for me to read your post on Nairaland 3 days after... saying I'm too spiritual and I'm using black soap to bath at a specific time.

The fact that you couldn't talk about this with me was what annoyed me ,so u need public opinion to dictate your private life ??
I came to your house almost immediately only to find that you've told your sister and friend everything that was suppose to be between me and you

So its now you know that a jobless person should not be sending 100k to a woman ,but when I sent it u did not question me the source or try to return the money ,instead u showered me with thanks .

If u ask for money and I couldn't give you'll start complaining You asked I gave still problem. ...
It's your life anyways but pls stop bringing my name/story up on your post or with your friends and family

Because it's obvious you don't understand who you claim to be dating.., at 25 you're still clueless about life ..

you gave your friends who are obviously jealous of your relationship an avenue to decieve you ...


Now strange people coming to my mentions to say I'm a ritualist ..wow !!..
Yes I smashed your phone because Its from my ritual money ..very annoying ..



Anyways

I apologise for Everything...

This will be the first / last time I talk about this again...
:.



so you smashed person phone?

wonderful

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Easybela(f): 11:03am On Dec 24, 2020
undecided All I see here is immaturity, there is no understanding between you 2,you smashing her phone is shows how immature you are and she rushing out to strangers for opinion is equally trash. You both should grow up.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 11:05am On Dec 24, 2020
RealGboy:


Exploited kill you there ... So it's now a crime to trust people especially women??

You fit give your fellow nigga that money? na suck-away t0to go kee you!

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 11:07am On Dec 24, 2020
baralatie:


so you smashed person phone?

wonderful

Na only that part you read undecided this gender wey dey bend down piss eh Fish brain everywhere sad

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by RealGboy: 11:08am On Dec 24, 2020
ThreadOwner:


You fit give your fellow nigga that money? na suck-away t0to go kee you!

Who fellow nigga help ?... Which day u don help your fellow nigga too ? .... GTFO of my mentions

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by baralatie(m): 11:11am On Dec 24, 2020
this una love story na wa

you both met in pentecostal church

you told her your parents are celestial

the girl said she will join you to attend cele church service(hian)

your sister na cosmetologist

she gave you soap

you send money
you did not send money

ehn you don't have job

Yoruba Yoruba

ngbongbo ngbongbo


menene menene


the two of una wey meet for church don knack star trek coming to Lagos finish o

make una continue

grin

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 11:12am On Dec 24, 2020
RealGboy:


Who fellow nigga help ?... Which day u don help your fellow nigga too ? .... GTFO of my mentions
RealGboy:
Very stupid girls in Nigeria ... Na so one babe scam me yesterday .. God purnish Nigerian babes

No wonder vagina ppl scam ur dumb brain.....change ur cycle and quit being the king of SIMPs.

you never lament finish......ntor!

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by baralatie(m): 11:14am On Dec 24, 2020
ThreadOwner:


Na only that part you read undecided this gender wey dey bend down piss eh Fish brain everywhere sad
you set no know wether you be male or female or hermaphrodite.
dey smash person phone because of black soap.
your brain power need factory reset
grin

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 11:17am On Dec 24, 2020
You both (Valenciabaddie & Lovethaa) are immature and weak.

You both need to grow up and have sense.

When both of you started dating, you make it a private affairs now you have small issue the general public need to settle or advise you both. YOU NEED HELP.

Aunt Valenciabaddie, Your boyfriend is jobless and he his spending lavishly on you. If you have sense or use your brain very well, are you not supposed to ask question? Are you evening suppose to collect money from a jobless man. You collect mobile phone and cash as gift from him and you didn't question the source. YOU NEED HELP and need to go make something out of your life.

Brother Lovethaa, Chief SIMP, woman beater, bad temperamental somebody. You need to be ashamed of yourself "Yes I smashed your phone because Its from my ritual money ..very annoying" What kind of a wimp are you? if it was your sister a guy beat like that will you be happy or be praising him for beating your sister. Why will you even beat a woman you are dating, you are not even married yet and you are already a woman beater. What type of a man are you? Why are you so weak and clueless. Why will you loss your temperament and beat a woman you once claimed you loved. MEN, you need help and learn how to control your anger problem.

Instead of using the little you had to better your life, you are busy looking for a liability. How do a liability want to manage another liability without becoming a calamity. Even, as your ex-liability claimed, your parent are rich, if your parent are lazy like you will you be enjoying the benefits you have today. If they didn't build the legacy, will you be living happily today.

Oga please go make something of yourself and make your parent proud instead of been a burden to them.

Please also stop chasing or dating jobless immature women who can't afford a lifestyle but want to live it and seriously speaking, you need to work on your anger Man.

NEVER EVER BEAT A WOMAN. WHETHER YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR YOUR WIFE. DON'T EVER DO THAT AGAIN. IT MAKES YOU A WEAK MAN.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nazgul: 11:18am On Dec 24, 2020
Relationships are just like marriages, it's filled with ups and downs, it's never perfect. However you choose to understand and settle your dispuits determines how long it will last.

She was wrong to have gone public without confronting you with her claims, and you on the other hand was wrong to slap her and smash her phone. Decisions we take as a result of anger are most likely going to be regretted.

What you guys need is to do is to sit down and talk things out...Just sort out yourselves, I believe everything would fine

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 11:21am On Dec 24, 2020
BestAccessories:
You both are immature and weak.

You both need to grow up and have sense.

When both of you started dating, you make it a private affairs now you have small issue the general public need to settle or advise you both. YOU NEED HELP.

Aunt Valenciabaddie, Your boyfriend is jobless and he his spending lavishly on you. If you have sense or use your brain very well, are you not supposed to ask question? Are you evening suppose to collect money from a jobless man. You collect mobile phone and cash as gift from him and you didn't question the source. YOU NEED HELP and need to go make something out of your life.

Brother Lovethaa, Chief SIMP, woman beater, bad temperamental somebody. You need to be ashamed of yourself "Yes I smashed your phone because Its from my ritual money ..very annoying" What kind of a wimp are you? if it was your sister a guy beat like that will you be happy or be praising him for beating your sister
Damn, You're the SIMP bruv!

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by thebosstrevor1: 11:21am On Dec 24, 2020
Valenciabaddie and lovethaa are the same person.

Don't fall for any rubbish.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Offpoint1: 11:23am On Dec 24, 2020
All I see is here is one grown idiot with 2 different moniker to create a thread for the gullible ones to believe it.


Net clout chasing is a psychological problem that needs urgent attention.


If truly there are 2 grown up adults behind the 2 monickers.... Then it's pitiable.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Brandonx(m): 11:29am On Dec 24, 2020
The Op and his girlfriend's head is not correct. You saw something and you couldn't ask the boy about it, you quickly came to create a thread.

And Op why didn't you tell her about your beliefs instead of telling her your parents attends cele bla bla bla.

I attend a pentecostal Church and also attends a 'C and S 'Church if I don't tell you I attend a C$S you wouldn't know so I tell anybody I meet my beliefs.

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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 11:30am On Dec 24, 2020
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Re: Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist by Nobody: 11:30am On Dec 24, 2020
ThreadOwner:
Damn, You're the SIMP bruv!

Damn Nigga, you are right.

I don't date liabilities, I earn my own money legitimately, I don't depend on my father's work/wealth to live my life and I don't beat women, I guess that makes me good SIMP bruv. grin grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin grin

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