amar3664:
] am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household ..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other marrying for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that,can she be trusted.what are chances she might Bleep him,i already had more than 5-6 trips after I keep my servant 11 months ago..

DarkJeddi:
Has your wife ever given you a reason not to trust her?

Surely her making a flippant remark to you about the servant is not enough reason for you to start suspecting her?

You know your wife more than anyone else and you are in the best position to know what she can or cannot do..

But basing your suspicion on an off hand remark,without prior grounds sounds Paranoid to me..

amar3664:

But surely they will get close to each other

DarkJeddi:


Women,unlike men don't just up and have a fling with anything that's available..

If she is to have a relationship,

She would have given it a good thought before indulging in such..

That's why I asked whether there was a prior areason for you not to trust her?

DarkJeddi:


Women,unlike men don't just up and have a fling with anything that's available..

If she is to have a relationship,

She would have given it a good thought before indulging in such..

That's why I asked whether there was a prior areason for you not to trust her?

amar3664:

I agree with you still, she should not have used those words

mployer:
I like your wife reply

Why would you suggest that the company of your house boy can be a solution to her loneliness? You indirectly meant your house boy is a good substitute for you.

She is just being sarcastic, but at the same time you should be watchful and try to bring another person to the house. Things happen. I have seen it happen.

DarkJeddi:


Women,unlike men don't just up and have a fling with anything that's available..

If she is to have a relationship,

She would have given it a good thought before indulging in such..

That's why I asked whether there was a prior areason for you not to trust her?

Damdammy:
How come you employed a male servant/help while you can get a female. Pls do the needful. Also, you know your wife more than us.

Newguyhere:
You are a loser
Which high quality man in this age marries a single mom?

amar3664:

Can she cheat on me

are you seriously asking me that now!! Jesus christ!! The woman see say you mumu ooh!
No be only cheat, she go soon born another illegitimate pikin for your sorry ass to raise.
Better divorce her now and marry one pretty young thing... Like a real f**king man!!!

Newguyhere:


are you seriously asking me that now!! Jesus christ!! The woman see say you mumu ooh!
No be only cheat, she go soon born another illegitimate pikin for your sorry ass to raise.
Better divorce her now and marry one pretty young thing... Like a real f**king man!!!