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Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by TSOM(m): 8:20am On Nov 08, 2017
QueenSekxy:
you are known to be attacking and cursing women upandan,,you think it's funny but it's having a toll on you..you need rehabilitation.
don't quote me,I won't grace you with response.
Another attention-craving fool dwelling in Owerri. Another of such females who'd shame gullible guys who send her private messages. Another girl with digitally-altered pictures who always seeks attention on Nairaland. Another validation-seeking bimbo who gossips incessantly and throws herself at a price to men.

The day I make a play for your type, may all the ills in the world befall me. I'd rather die a thousand times and over than be caught dead with your type.

You should ask yourself why no man finds you worthy of dating more than three months while mine is waxing stronger three years on. You should ask yourself why the relationships you've been in with countless men never head in the right direction. You are a mere sex object!


If you were worth your weight in salt, you wouldn't be on Nairaland seeking attention and fighting to post simpleton-esque comments on every thread and being the 'First To Comment'.


Find something reasonable to do with your life instead of waiting for random men to give you money, take you out for lunch and pay for your needs.


I can attack the erring females like you 'cause I have a thriving romance life going off-Nairaland and in a thousand years, I'd never consider your type worth it.


Worthless leech!
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by makydebbie(f): 8:21am On Nov 08, 2017
conductor123:
No wonder, so na Micheal dey Bleep your pusssy? The guy no get taste.
A perfect example of the childish dummies on NL. Everything is about sex to them. Keep showing the world how mentally unstable you're. Abi op these are the dateable guys eh?
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Nobody: 8:22am On Nov 08, 2017
Bibi294:
Not after they accused you of being ugly and an olosho... Yet, they'll send u senseless pms
Don't mind them,most of them are not even handsome grin
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by conductor123(m): 8:23am On Nov 08, 2017
makydebbie:
A perfect example of the childish dummies on NL. Everything is about sex to them. Keep showing the world how mentally unstable you're. Abi op these are the dateable guys eh?
come to me baby, I've got more 6packs than Micheal. I've gat bigger banana too. wink
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Nobody: 8:24am On Nov 08, 2017
makydebbie:
And life is eazi. cool
At bold, that's highly impossible on NL.
courtesy of some guys who can't get over your ebony skin cool
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by conductor123(m): 8:24am On Nov 08, 2017
Diffident:
Don't mind them,most of them are not even handsome grin
you are exempted sweetie. Most Nairaland babes are ugly. Very very ugly angry
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Nobody: 8:25am On Nov 08, 2017
Blackhawk01:
Say no more! grin

But I trust my nairaland bobos sha tongue
yeah because you've got their balls in one corner of your hand bag. Thumbs up honey!
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Lalas247(f): 8:26am On Nov 08, 2017
TSOM:
We are all interconnected on Nairaland. Even the supposed loners who aren't always active and frequent the more remote, less-visited sections of Nairaland converse with at least two Nairalanders off the forum. Those two in turn converse with at least six other Nairalanders who'd in turn converse with the ones in certain cliques.

While a lot of the guys discuss politics, football, business and other world issues, even on-Nairaland issues like the incessant banning by moderators and the dearth of quality topics, a small minority kiss and tell.

The females? It's all about kissing and telling. Gossiping about guys who send them private messages, the ones who are hitting on them, the stubborn ones whose money they'd extort since he doesn't want to leave them alone. And even shaming other Nairaland females.


I'm a fan of online dating. I've admitted to it on more than three occasions on the pages of Nairaland. Facebook dating to be precise. It has worked for me and is still working for me. At least you can both see each other's pictures, check each other's timeline, comments and replies to others to gauge to a large extent the personality of the other. Of course, the private conversations would reveal more, then you both agree to meet.
If it doesn't work out for long, each goes their separate way without scandals. You wouldn't want to start a scandal that'd consume you both 'cause Facebook doesn't offer you any anonymity like Nairaland does.

What's worse? Most of the Nairaland females acting up and denigrating the menfolk here aren't even worth half the weight of the weavons on their heads. Not in looks or character or financial independence.


Some of you have two or three thousand 'friends' on Facebook. Of this number, there should be at least two hundred who are 'dateable'. Why not make your play for them? If you're really as valuable as you lots always project on Nairaland; if you're really as good-looking, cultured and intelligent, why haven't you made a play for these people and why haven't they found you worthy of dating? smiley


Until you folks learn Nairaland doesn't provide the requisites to foster the connection and considerable trust for dating, you'd keep getting yourselves hurt in the process.
The thing is both genders do it ....
It’s inevitable women talk some guys talk too which can cause issues here on the forum and also this is why most females wont reply pms and guys don’t really send for the females either few have been burnt too...
it’s never going to change ... never ....
But
There are some people that you can kiss and tell and it stays there ..... infact we still have some really sane people left in Romanceland some active some not so active ... just have to distance your self from the dregs that’s it and date who you want to date .
at the end of the day people date from this forum get married so the stats say it’s just romanceland that has this issue all other sections thrive when it comes to dating ...
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by makydebbie(f): 8:28am On Nov 08, 2017
AnthonioAlsaid:
courtesy of some guys who can't get over your ebony skin cool
Thank you. cool
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Blackhawk01: 8:31am On Nov 08, 2017
AnthonioAlsaid:
yeah because you've got their balls in one corner of your hand bag. Thumbs up honey!
You go, dudey! kiss
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by TSOM(m): 8:46am On Nov 08, 2017
Lalas247:
The thing is both genders do it ....
It’s inevitable women talk some guys talk too which can cause issues here on the forum and also this is why most females wont reply pms and guys don’t really send for the females either few have been burnt too...
it’s never going to change ... never ....
But
There are some people that you can kiss and tell and it stays there ..... infact we still have some really sane people left in Romanceland some active some not so active ... just have to distance your self from the dregs that’s it and date who you want to date .
at the end of the day people date from this forum get married so the stats say it’s just romanceland that has this issue all other sections thrive when it comes to dating ...
In the Romance Section, it's mostly controversies; in other sections, there are full-blown scandals.

The Coogar-Babe3 scandal started in the Family Section and sucked half of Nairaland into it.


The scandalous accusations of philandering married women with Nairaland males are topical scandals in the Family Section.

The love scams scandals are rife in the Business and Family Sections.


LadyMercedez against Siena and his wife started from the Autos and Family Sections.

The defrauding braggarts who are shamed frequent the Business and Investment Sections.


It's a forum-wide thing, not a Romanceland issue.

Of course, there are exceptions to the doom and gloom I have been highlighting. Still, such comparative fairytale stories are rare.


For every friendship/relationship which has thrived with the tendrils sprouting for the planted seeds of contact on Nairaland, there are thirty other stories which are cringe-worthy.


A lot of persons seem to be scared of addressing this particular issue but I have and will continue to take it on.

Most Nairalanders are immature snitches!
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Nobody: 8:48am On Nov 08, 2017
conductor123:
you are exempted sweetie. Most Nairaland babes are ugly. Very very ugly angry
you can't just conclude like till you meet like 50 of us grin
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by dollytino4real(f): 8:48am On Nov 08, 2017
TSOM:
Any man who makes the mistake of marrying you should rather have himself thrown into a beehive on every alternate day. The pain, the excruciating pain he'd feel from the stinging would pale in comparison to the regret of having a sprawling liability like you under his roof.

It's November; that time of the year when cruel ritualists are on the hunt for opportunistic greedy leeches like you who are looking for men to fleece and, using your own phrase, "pay for your kpekus maintenance". May you get what such females deserve and end up like them.

Again, a thousand curses on you for giving good women a bad name and making more men think all women sell their bodies for money.

Worthless, lazy prôstituting humanoid!
poor boy go work and get cash to fork to-to dont vest ur poverty family on me
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Donaldduke2019(m): 8:50am On Nov 08, 2017
Lalas247:
U and football

See how Liverpool sacked west ham manager the other day ....
lolzzzz......Una wicked sha....westham sacked bilic to sign that dummy called Moyes cheesy cheesy

When I watched his presentation on skysports yesterday ehn....The fans were upset....someone even came with the Moyesout banner cheesy cheesy
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by tosyne2much(m): 8:50am On Nov 08, 2017
I don't know why I'm forced to comment on this thread

Well, I think people are known to be deceptive on Nairaland as some carry malicious intent. You have to keep your guard up and follow safe rules before getting entangled with the opposite sex because some are childish, trolls and untrustworthy, so too much trusting is not advisable.

Despite the level of blackmail, shaming and other evil perpetuated here, Nairaland is still a great place to meet good people and it is quite possible to create meaningful relationships here and gain a sense of
who they are in person, just that you have to be safe, cautious and keep it on a low key otherwise it can be potentially dangerous as well.

There are so many assholes here and it's not a gender specific thing here. There are people you need to try as much as possible to keep distance away from.

As for the ladies

Avoid accepting inappropriate or unsolicited friend requests from guys here because guys online can easily pretend to be people they aren't. Sadly, there are thousands of sketchy people here posing to be nice unassuming people looking for friendships or relationships. Some of them only will want you to open up, divulge secrets about your personal life and guess what? They will be used against you when a quarrel ensues.

We have recorded cases when intimate pictures were leaked just to shame the other person, so ladies need to very careful and mindful of the type of guys will either want to date or be friends with.

As for the guys

Avoid getting close or divulging private informing to most of these girls who form cliques here as it can pose a great danger. Please know that these ladies have nothing spectacular going in their lives, so all they do is open a whatsapp group where they table discuss people's matters. When they have your personal information, it becomes a group discussion in the absence of nothing to discuss.

Also, when you have interest in a lady, kindly notice and observe well if she has cliques or she's the type that is always fond of quoting some specific people here. If she's guilty of any, it will do you a lot of good to back off in order not to soil your self esteem

People need to be wise.

TSOM, KreativGenius, Lefulefu and Donaldduke2019.. Nice one jawe cool
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Donaldduke2019(m): 8:51am On Nov 08, 2017
BluntBoy:
Wetin Ronaldo do you this guyhuh cheesy
Baba Penaldo aka Tapnaldo is a scam oo....He's taking oluwa Benzene shine....Fagnaldo needs to play like Messi
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by BluntBoy(m): 8:53am On Nov 08, 2017
Donaldduke2019:
Baba Penaldo aka Tapnaldo is a scam oo....He's taking oluwa Benzene shine....Fagnaldo needs to play like Messi

Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Donaldduke2019(m): 8:56am On Nov 08, 2017
FTrebirth:
he has the right to make decisions for both club and national teams IMHO. and i don't blame his hesitation to renew his contract. we might lose that guy if the right players are not bought to assist him in january.

with the likes of puyol and xavi gone and iniesta gradually aging and contributing less, barca has downsized terribly in terms of quality. the midfield, our birthright, is no as formidable as it used to be and the defense is still a write-off save for umtiti (pique still sees himself as a striker and mascherano is always getting injured).

suarez right now is worse than benzema. dude doesn't have any use for his legs except running.

deulofeu x2 can't replace neymar. dembele should be better but he's still on injury break.

so, the only people left in the team are messi, rakitic and busquet and their efforts would not enough to overlap madrid for a long time on the table, not now that we have lapses in both defense and attack formations. we're yet to meet valencia, sociedad and madrid.
Lolzzzz.....Make Barca fans no see dis hogwash about Suarez wey u type oo....Suarez can never be like Benzene....benzene is finished.....Tapnaldo no longer support him....He now supports Tapnaldo...Heard we wanna overhaul the entire squad next summer....Dembelechukwu is fit for the elclasico according to our surgeons
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Donaldduke2019(m): 8:58am On Nov 08, 2017
FTrebirth:
he has to start playing with the junior team first while his progress to recovery is monitored. i'm guessing before end of january.
nah he's back 2 face Madrid
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Nobody: 8:59am On Nov 08, 2017
makydebbie:
Hey!
Are you trying to pick on me or you truly didn't understand my post?
I never mentioned pms until someone brought it up. Bibi said they send senseless pms. This was my reply.


I've never been bothered about PMs since day one. Used to reply, but now it's only for business purposes if I do reply.

ChiefPiko mentioned that I haven't replied his pms, and that was the second time I mentioned pms in this thread because he brought my notice to something.


So you cannot just quote me with false accusations that I go around mentioning pms. You'll not see me on threads gloating about PMs, be guided.

Ladies also send pms, that I know, I've sent a PM to SirMiichael1 for reasons best known to the bothrofuz.
Whom you sent a PM should be private and not public. Alright now.
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Donaldduke2019(m): 9:01am On Nov 08, 2017
tosyne2much:
I don't know why I'm forced to comment on this thread

Well, I think people are known to be deceptive on Nairaland as some carry malicious intent. You have to keep your guard up and follow safe rules before getting entangled with the opposite sex because some are childish, trolls and untrustworthy, so too much trusting is not advisable.

Despite the level of blackmail, shaming and other evil perpetuated here, Nairaland is still a great place to meet good people and it is quite possible to create meaningful relationships here and gain a sense of
who they are in person, just that you have to be safe, cautious and keep it on a low key otherwise it can be potentially dangerous as well.

There are so many assholes here and it's not a gender specific thing here. There are people you need to try as much as possible to keep distance away from.

As for the ladies

Avoid accepting inappropriate or unsolicited friend requests from guys here because guys online can easily pretend to be people they aren't. Sadly, there are thousands of sketchy people here posing to be nice unassuming people looking for friendships or relationships. Some of them only will want you to open up, divulge secrets about your personal life and guess what? They will be used against you when a quarrel ensues.

We have recorded cases when intimate pictures were leaked just to shame the other person, so ladies need to very careful and mindful of the type of guys will either want to date or he friends with.

As for the guys

Avoid getting close or divulging private informing to most of these girls who form cliques here as it can pose a great danger. Please know that these ladies have nothing spectacular going in their lives, so all they do is open a whatsapp group where they table discuss people's matters. When they have your personal information, it becomes a group discussion in the absence of nothing to discuss.

Also, when you have interest in a lady, kindly notice and observe well in the has cliques or she's the type that is always fond of quoting some specific people here. If she's guilty of any, it will do you a lot of good to back off

People need to be wise.

TSOM, KreativGenius, Lefulefu and Donaldduke2019.. Nice one jawe cool
I remain loyal baba
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by FTrebirth(m): 9:01am On Nov 08, 2017
Donaldduke2019:
Lolzzzz.....Make Barca fans no see dis hogwash about Suarez wey u type oo....Suarez can never be like Benzene....benzene is finished.....Tapnaldo no longer support him....He now supports Tapnaldo...Heard we wanna overhaul the entire squad next summer....Dembelechukwu is fit for the elclasico according to our surgeons
which barca fans? maybe they've not been seeing suarez's performance recently. someone who calls himself a striker but keeps missing one-on-one chances. he's as bad as, if not worse than, benzema.

good news on dembele. would be glad to see him back. he hasn't really done anything for barca, though.
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Donaldduke2019(m): 9:05am On Nov 08, 2017
Before I set out for the hot seat wey I wan enter today

lemme drop this for the madridiots

Perez is planning on swooping mata from manu cheesy cheesy

Meanwhile Tapnaldo aka penaldo don't want the purchase of Kane.....It seems fagnaldo is afraid of Kane

Another reason Messi is the best.....Neymar came thinking he would overrun Messi but never.....if you doubt this I get link oo

http://m.goal.com/x/en-ng/news/4102/transfer-zone/2017/11/08/36743752/transfer-news-the-latest-rumours-from-man-utd-chelsea

Have a nice day fellas
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Donaldduke2019(m): 9:07am On Nov 08, 2017
FTrebirth:
which barca fans? maybe they've not been seeing suarez's performance recently. someone who calls himself a striker but keeps missing one-on-one chances. he's as bad as, if not worse than, benzema.

good news on dembele. would be glad to see him back. he hasn't really done anything for barca, though.
Suarez surely needs rest.....I think he doesn't even derive passion playing football again....baba don score goals taya but trust me he would get back to his feet soonest
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by FTrebirth(m): 9:19am On Nov 08, 2017
Donaldduke2019:
Suarez surely needs rest.....I think he doesn't even derive passion playing football again....baba don score goals taya but trust me he would get back to his feet soonest
he performed better at liverpool. his status is taking a fast downward slide and i don't think he's getting back again. if you watched our match against olympiacos you'd know the dude is done. could''t make an accurate pass, couldn't dribble, not to mention score. abeg, make dem sell am sharp sharp. we want tello back.
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by conductor123(m): 9:41am On Nov 08, 2017
dollytino4real:
poor boy go work and get cash to fork to-to dont vest ur poverty family on me
look at the person calling somebody poor.. Gerrara hia slut grin

Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by dollytino4real(f): 9:52am On Nov 08, 2017
conductor123:
look at the person calling somebody poor.. Gerrara hia slut grin
see goat
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Maradona98: 10:10am On Nov 08, 2017
IAMSASHY:
undecided really, hv u approached al of dem b4 arriving at dat conclusion? Few ar actually dating NL guys and I dope cap 4 dem, I always pray sumone am serious wit dnt become a NLander , very risky. After reading lies /one sided story of sumones relationship, dey go offline and apply it in dia relationship and end up crashing it
Nice dp
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Luckygurl(f): 10:13am On Nov 08, 2017
TSOM:
We are all interconnected on Nairaland. Even the supposed loners who aren't always active and frequent the more remote, less-visited sections of Nairaland converse with at least two Nairalanders off the forum. Those two in turn converse with at least six other Nairalanders who'd in turn converse with the ones in certain cliques.

While a lot of the guys discuss politics, football, business and other world issues, even on-Nairaland issues like the incessant banning by moderators and the dearth of quality topics, a small minority kiss and tell.

The females? It's all about kissing and telling. Gossiping about guys who send them private messages, the ones who are hitting on them, the stubborn ones whose money they'd extort since he doesn't want to leave them alone. And even shaming other Nairaland females.


I'm a fan of online dating. I've admitted to it on more than three occasions on the pages of Nairaland. Facebook dating to be precise. It has worked for me and is still working for me. At least you can both see each other's pictures, check each other's timeline, comments and replies to others to gauge to a large extent the personality of the other. Of course, the private conversations would reveal more, then you both agree to meet.
If it doesn't work out for long, each goes their separate way without scandals. You wouldn't want to start a scandal that'd consume you both 'cause Facebook doesn't offer you any anonymity like Nairaland does.

What's worse? Most of the Nairaland females acting up and denigrating the menfolk here aren't even worth half the weight of the weavons on their heads. Not in looks or character or financial independence.


Some of you have two or three thousand 'friends' on Facebook. Of this number, there should be at least two hundred who are 'dateable'. Why not make your play for them? If you're really as valuable as you lots always project on Nairaland; if you're really as good-looking, cultured and intelligent, why haven't you made a play for these people and why haven't they found you worthy of dating? smiley


Until you folks learn Nairaland doesn't provide the requisites to foster the connection and considerable trust for dating, you'd keep getting yourselves hurt in the process.
You seem so fixated on degrading the female folks and it makes you come off as a misogynist.

Alot goes on behind this forum, the gossips, the ass licking, the kiss and tells and all, no one's disputing that fact. But what I can't get a full grasp of is why you attribute it to mainly to the females whilst exonerating the males.

Look how you went on ahead to say majority of the males discuss football, politics, and other seemingly important issues and excluded just a few that fall into the kiss and tell category.
But for the females, you practically assigned the kiss and tell/gossip tags to virtually all.

Now if you're gonna judge and point out faults, be at least fair in your dealings and say it as it is without any form of padding.

I've dealt long enough with humans to know that in as much as the gossip tag is more often than not attached to the female gender, such traits are not limited to gender factor. It's actually more about your personality and the type of people you mingle with.
During my undergraduate days in a male populated department, we the girls were learners compared to the guys once it comes to the pretence and fake acts. Infact all of the scandals that rocked my department then were from the male folks.
Heck!! I was actually a victim in my final year.

What am I trying to say? It's no gender thing.. It's more of ones personality.
You listed some scandals that rocked NL where the ladies were the brains behind that. Are you trying to tell me you don't as much as have a matching record where the males were the brains behind the fall outs?
I could help you out with ones I witnessed but no I won't do that.
I put it up to you that for every female name you mentioned then, you have a corresponding male name that did same if not worse but somehow you prefer padding and stuffing the truth.


Nairaland has afforded us much anonymity that some fellows can't help but display their stupidity and foolishness. Someone who can't walk up to you on a normal day to spew thrash would suddenly have the effrontery to insult you to your face and spread rumors about you just because they have that privilege to sit behind the screen and type away.

I frequent diaries and believe me at some point there were so much stories going around behind the screen and guess the brains behind it..
I was once active on an edition of the miss NL contest where a WhatsApp campaign group was created. The hate there towards NL members that weren't in the group is something I can't describe. Right there in that group you'll find one or two persons that are actually loyal to those been slandered. You do have an idea what will eventually go down if those loyalists leave the group and get back to their friends.

I repeat!! It's no gender thing. Same way we have the sane male folks, there are as much as sane female folks all around.

I've made cool few male friends on NL that I wouldn't even hesitate saying a yes to if things were to go down in that direction. I've had a good number ask me out and looking at it critically, they'll be worth it.
Have I sauntered online to yap about it or maybe carry their stories around? Do I even have the time for such?
Well!! Sorry to say, none of them are active romancelanders smiley
Infact I've not had an offline encounter with any of romance section Lords. I don't think I ever will with the scandals been raised up, down, left, right and center.

At the end everything boils down to been wary of the person you let into your inner circle. Let everything that happens online stay online. Everyone is a suspect until proven otherwise.
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by RoyalBlak007: 10:19am On Nov 08, 2017
♤That last paragraph

[color=#F5A215]♤ made so much sense @ luckygurl cool [/color]
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by Asbaba(m):
ok
Re: Are Nairaland Ladies Undateable? by izaray(f): 10:21am On Nov 08, 2017
MhizzAJ:
What is this one saying cheesy

Most of these nairaland guys are so weird

Their attitude is always a big turn off

They can't even hold meaningful discussion yet they expect someone to drop her number
cheesy cheesy They start with, your face look familiar, are you on watsapp, can i have your number huh Haba!! Majorityof them lack how to start a meaningful conversation jare undecided sad
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