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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by wright4christ(m): 6:49am On Nov 15, 2017
That girl is not a virgin, she doesn't want to loose when you get there and discover that is not what she claimed and you send her away without getting anything.

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by AvsGot007(m): 6:52am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
she is really a virgin.. thanks tho, this was exactly what i had in mind, and thats what i will do.
sorry bro! made up your mind already?.... oh well this sh*t happened to me once but unlike you I didn't notice but the girl gave me the money when she was about to leave and told me the Same thing your virgin told you..


girls play too childish sometimes! think about this again and prolly give her second chance with eyes on her!

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by granely(f): 6:59am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
she is really a virgin.. thanks tho, this was exactly what i had in mind, and thats what i will do.
Pls don't disvirgin her if you don't want to date her

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by netflicks(m): 6:59am On Nov 15, 2017
Love is blind....bros this na your babe lockup on the 5k and mind u dat bae no b V...check am well.

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by yohanpaul: 7:00am On Nov 15, 2017
This your name"SHIMMER "e be like say you done watch cartoon well well.�
shimmer1:
So because she is fine, you really think she might not be a thief. What of if she is a klepto! Huh! Okay. I feel you should do away with that girl. Look before you leap. She may not even be a virgin sef. What kind of stupid test is that? undecided undecided
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by rosalieene(f): 7:02am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
she is really a virgin.. thanks tho, this was exactly what i had in mind, and thats what i will do.


if that's what you had in mind, then you are evil.

Someone that obviously loves you and is willing to give up her virginity to you.



if you don't trust her anymore, let her go... if you take advantage of her just to sleep with her and end it, you might be the reason why there is another runsgirl on the street and nature won't forgive you.

this is how it all begins

let her go,

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by taurustm(m): 7:08am On Nov 15, 2017
Bro you requested a matured advice and I think I have it. It doesn't worth it. If a girl should do at the early stage of a relationship what do you expect her to do when it reaches some extent. Saying she used that to test you is a typical Nigerian way of giving reason to a fraudulent act. Be careful
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by iluvpomo(m): 7:09am On Nov 15, 2017
This OP need to shine his eye, like 20 guys have already knacked that runs girl finish!
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Chpstcks(m): 7:09am On Nov 15, 2017
I have two questions.
1.) The last two times she came did you give her money?
2.) Has she asked you for money before?

There in lies your answer.

But please pay her 5k for the virginity and "keep it"

Thank me later.
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Northkendal(f): 7:09am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
she is really a virgin.. thanks tho, this was exactly what i had in mind, and thats what i will do.
don't Bleep her if u knw u gon dump her, just let her go.

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by osayuwamwen(m): 7:09am On Nov 15, 2017
But shall me aren't believing, how can u see a beautiful Virgin at 20, she's not a virgin bro
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by curvilicious: 7:13am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
no.. she is virgin, she has never had joywood bfore, her reaction to touches and sucks will tell easily
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by grunerite: 7:14am On Nov 15, 2017
QueenSekxy:
she forgot to tell you that her name is Test tube undecided
Madam, u funny die!
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by phatnpretty(f): 7:17am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
she is really a virgin.. thanks tho, this was exactly what i had in mind, and thats what i will do.
you want to sleep with her and dump her, men and childishness. if that girl is a virgin, just let her honey pot be, biko. don't be wicked, don't screw her, I believe you have a sister. how will you feel if a guy screw and dump her?

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Offpoint: 7:18am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED as am going crazy now, i met this very pretty girl 2 weeks ago and the relationship is growing very fast, she really loves me and i do too, within the space of this 2 weeks, she has visited me 3 times, no sex yet as she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us.

To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed, my instinct told me to check the money i kept close to the wardrobe draw, i scatter money a lot actually, but no matter how scattered i keep my money, i know howmuch i keep everywhere in the house, the money was supposed to be 32k, on getting thier i discovered 5k was missing.

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice
Dude I seriously hate when adults seek opinion online. I believe you're man enough to make your decision, whatever opinion you'll get online here will either make you or break you. the best decision and choice to make is the one you'll make yourself. it's left for you forgive or to let her ago. nobody enjoy stealing, but sometimes as humans we often find ourselves doing what we hate and we have no control over it. stealing COULD be her weakness, believe you me: she's not proud of it, just like drunkers, smokers etc. if you love her enough convert her weakness to her strength and she'll never forget in life. remember no man is perfect and every man have a weakness.

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Chpstcks(m): 7:18am On Nov 15, 2017
granely:
Pls don't disvirgin her if you don't want to date her

Aunty, please who are you?

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by stevups(m): 7:20am On Nov 15, 2017
She is not 20 verify pls, if a beautiful lady could keep her virginity till 20, I doubt if she could steal. Or she could be a mouth virgin sha!

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Chukazu: 7:21am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
she is really a virgin.. thanks tho, this was exactly what i had in mind, and thats what i will do.

You gain nothing by doing that

If you want to leave her then leave her in peace not in pieces


If you still fancy her ,then embrace and mentor her ,none of us is a saint.

She is a Virgin and she is probably not working,that means she has got some financial challenges and pressure

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Chukazu: 7:26am On Nov 15, 2017
rosalieene:



if that's what you had in mind, then you are evil.

Someone that obviously loves you and is willing to give up her virginity to you



if you don't trust her anymore, let her go... if you take advantage of her just to sleep with her and end it, you might be the reason why there is another runsgirl on the street and nature won't forgive you.

this is how it all begins

let her go,

Is that " the price tag" ? undecided

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by rosalieene(f): 7:30am On Nov 15, 2017
Chukazu:

Is that " the price tag" ? undecided
whatever!

isn't that a gold medal to the OP?

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by rosalieene(f): 7:31am On Nov 15, 2017
phatnpretty:
you want to sleep with her and dump her, men and childishness. if that girl is a virgin, just let her honey pot be, biko. don't be wicked, don't screw her, I believe you have a sister. how will you feel if a guy screw and dump her?

my sister, I tire!!


OP needs a brain resetting slap

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Itzurboi(m): 7:36am On Nov 15, 2017
Baba oooo, you be real AreaFada, You know all the format
AreaFada2:

Tor!

Both go hand in hand.

A thief who cannot lie is not a thief.

That virginity story sef get k-leg. She's just using the virgin story to claim innocence and press the guy's mumu button. cheesy grin

We don hear all that virgin story before. Na 10-lane expressway he go find there. cheesy

She will just tighten her pelvic floor muscle when the guy first begins poking her and feign pain/agony. And relax it like two minutes later. shocked shocked

Na today?

Only that OP's story sounds made up.
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by lloydmuna2(m): 7:44am On Nov 15, 2017
grin you scatter your money,then because the money is too much she had to help you keep some by taking₦5000 out of it ,,,then immediately offer you what she's afraid of giving,so you will be happy
Not knowing you are a criminals too, your mind had to go to where your money is ,,,,, for me to be frank it was not a test , rather a sharp girl but ₦5000 is a small money because after having sex you would have given her more than that as transportation fee so bro forgive her and teach her to be plain or if you wish breakup (2by2)

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Nobody: 7:50am On Nov 15, 2017
yohanpaul:
This your name"SHIMMER "e be like say you done watch cartoon well well.�

So
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Nobody: 7:58am On Nov 15, 2017
leaders of tomorrow indeed..nairaland + nigeria is fvcked
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by TimeMod1: 8:01am On Nov 15, 2017
chieni:

what about the guy who brainwashes her. you make it seem like she just stood up and decided to do it. it takes two to come to an agreement on this
It appears you've got the unwritten side of the story. You may want to tell us how he brainwashes the 20 yr old girl.
Don't come here & feed us with your own tale, the OP sounds stupid enough already.

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by hotdealz(m): 8:04am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
in my mind i have ended the relationship, but i really feel pity for her, she keeps weeping and swearing she never meant it, thats what am confused about
Have you ever stolen before? If yes, forgive her but if she does it again in future, let her go. It's in her blood.

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by ojonugwap(m): 8:09am On Nov 15, 2017
vchykp:
YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED as am going crazy now, i met this very pretty girl 2 weeks ago and the relationship is growing very fast, she really loves me and i do too, within the space of this 2 weeks, she has visited me 3 times, no sex yet as she is a virgin, she promised to let go off her virginity today which was why she came around, aftrt much fore play, she was still scared so i had to leave her in the room while i went to prepare noodles for us.

To my suprice when i came back, she was the one telling me to come and have her just to make me happy, as a guy i actually wanted to jump straight to proceed, my instinct told me to check the money i kept close to the wardrobe draw, i scatter money a lot actually, but no matter how scattered i keep my money, i know howmuch i keep everywhere in the house, the money was supposed to be 32k, on getting thier i discovered 5k was missing.

I could no believe it, she was too beautiful to do this, i had to confront her.. after long questions, she agreed she took it to test me, to test if i will notice, that she never meant to take it.

Am so confused at this point, should i continue with the relationship or should i just let her go, she is still here , crying and telling me she can never steal from me, please guy i need matured advice

If she's whom she claimed to be test her again with valuable items because you maybe wrong or right sometimes temptation can lead you to do what you don't intend to
Pls don't take advantage of her because of what that happened if you do you may end up regretting them....

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by Elioandrew: 8:10am On Nov 15, 2017
Idiot. She stole ur money and u brought it here for us to do what? If u no get wetin to talk jes get out.
Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by brizzybrizzz(m): 8:14am On Nov 15, 2017
she a thief and they are several things you might discover if you continue with the relationship � Which kind test be that how e take relate to knack or love guy look sharp o!!

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by CadetFrancis: 8:15am On Nov 15, 2017
How is dis a news? Nairaland should PLEASE STOP posting onnecesiry things here. This is not 2go advice Room.

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Re: Advice Needed.. Should I Quit Or Remain In This Kind Of Relationship by nellyelitz(m): 8:18am On Nov 15, 2017
Hope u've not had sex with her...

If no, leave her!

My opinion sha undecided

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