RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that[b] she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to..... [/b]

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....

RichlyOBS:
oga shut up jare.... what are you saying? what do you want me to do? beat the girl? this is Italy bro... and the lady was wrong believe me am not that kind of person that look for trouble.... I couldn't do anything bro... my babe should have say something but no fighting and I wouldn't have allowed them to fight....

Lalas247:

Ahhh beni maybe she look the girl face and knew hmmm if it goes left it won’t be pretty .. before the lady rearranges her face

That may be her reason for keeping it mute ... but if it’s my husband ... blood go dey ground ..


Pls don’t judge me

ChiefPiiko:
You are a shame to the male folks and you are coming here to seek validations, sorry for you how can you let a woman embarrass you and look to a woman to salvage the situation. Maybe she should also start feeding and housing you. Stand up for yourself next time nobody should love you more than you love yourself

YoungDaNaval:
Shut up! You don't need to insult him

shimmer1:
No no no I saw some comments here and I'm like wtf. Why the hell can't she stand up for you., she may not necessarily need to fight back but she could have helped calm down the situation(like sister it's OK o). She was just looking like a fool? Please OP drop such a girl Abeg. Theres no use for a woman who can't back up her man. I have brothers that have girlfriends (not even married) but what affects one affects the other. You dare not talk about one, the other comes for your head. Girlfriend or married? And it's not only about boyfriend or girlfriend. Anybody should be able to stand up for their loved ones: friends, family and the likes.
What kind of lady is that?

Slayer2:
Odidi ja mo be e. Girl nor fit even open mouth talk to me to anyhow to begin with. Fear nor go let you hold snake. Them nor born you well be that.


Only few will understand this.

I can see my babe alexialin in the house. twuale for you big sis jawe..

alexialin:
RichlyOBS, do you expect your gf to start fighting the lady?

Then throw punches at eachother?

Cos ayam not understanding

That's how our security wife got into a fist fight with one crazy lady like that in our office building, because the lady insulted her husband and at the end of the scufffle and fight, the security guard wife's head was broken with a bottle and her arm torn with the same broken bottle by that crazy lady.
Lol

Honestly you will pity the wife, if u had seen her when it happened.

Everyone was like, why did she even butt into her husband's quarrel with the lady.

She explained with heavy breathes that she couldn't stand her husband bn insulted like that.
Lol

Anyways we all blamed her for butting in, instead of allowing her husband handled the mess, he placed himself on , all by himself.

She wouldn't have had her head broken and arm thorn by bottle.


Morale of this short story: don't go looking for trouble, cos no sensible woman will risk her life, fighting your battles for u.

Shikena.

Since I was born til date, have never exchanged words bitterly or quarrelled or even fought any one, cos I respect myself alot, and I ignore bickering and quarrelling when I see it coming. I don't face it head on. I would rather walk away than exchange words with a total stranger I met in a bus.
And perchance, am now dating a trouble maker then sorry Oyo Lo WA! I ain't lifting a finger or voice to fight a God knows what human being or animal in human form.

I can't come and kee myself because of boyfriend or even husband.
Life is that simple abeg.

tosyne2much:
Very funny I must say.. Can't stop laughing here

RichlyOBS:
how which my girl was not there, okay.... but she was there, she saw everything the lady was wrong and I still tried my best to calm her down but she didn't calm down because ladies have the upper hand here in Europe.... as in, my babe should have stop her if she wanted to but she just kept quiet because we're not married yet.... if she can't stand for me now, when?? not that I can't face my problem.

RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....

alexialin:
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@ d bolded.
Hmmmmmmmmmm

alexialin:





It's a pity, u are not seeing the big picture in this whole scenario, that happened to you today. Your ego is bruised and you are trying to lick your wounds and also looking for whom to shift the blame to. And viola! Your gf is the perfect candidate.

My dear in life, if a random lady from nowhere tries to take advantage of u in public followed by either shouting down at you or hurling an insult. Cos it takes one insult from such lady and your response immediately to open doors for more insults to fly free from her mouth without filter.

It's always one insult and the counter reply that brings out a whole army of words.

So the best u can do at that time., is walk away.

Yes, Just walk away and trust me the lady will be surprised and mumble some rubbish to herself, cos Thats the least counter behavior she expects from you.

Trying to calm such lady down, is a fatal mistake from your end. I repeat, Don't calm such lady down

You don't need to at all. Cos she will see it as a sign of weakness and drown you with sharp piercing insults. Women are very good when it comes to insulting one with their tongue. It's an inbuilt radio without battery and some women are Pro with such scenarios.

So do yourself and your gf a huge favour.

Just, Walk away.

It's that Simple.

Your gf did nothing wrong by not butting in.

Maybe your gf should have pulled u away and say honey it's OK, then both of u walk away.
Thereby the other lady hurling insults will automatically look like a crazy woman in public eyes.

And you? The Perfect gentleman with your ego intact and safe.

Trust me, handle situations this way and u won't regret it.

RichlyOBS:
blessed... we learn everyday

Slayer2:


Lol weiten? Na just normal hailing na no fear

alexialin:





Sighs am not used to been Hailed.
A guy at my office, likes to salute me like am a soldier or something, standing straight and firm then raising his hands in front of the main gate whenever he sees me about to walk out of the parking lot to the building and am like oh God! Please don't. And I will just be laughing with embarrassment while people walk past looking at us.
Am like you are embarrassing me please. Just stop, Pls and he will be like but ma, you be madam Nah..

I just shake my head and walk away.

Seriously, It's unnecessary.
I don't like bringing attention to myself in public , it transmits the wrong signals to passerby.

Makes me uncomfortable.

Very uncomfortable.

I like to quietly move around and talk unnoticed. Works perfectly well for me.

ScotFree:
I am sure you're not a baby. I wouldn't get myself into exchanging words with a woman. Bur if that happens because the woman is 'rabid' and uncouth. I wouldn't want my girlfriend involved. That will make her nothing better than the other woman

Uniqueness01:
I find this post so funny

But on a serious note,I won't watch some girl insult my BF .......but why will a lady just Insult and embarrassed you, what did you do?

SmellingAnus:
You should be happy she didn't insult the lady... What if as she insults the lady... The lady brings out her id card that she is a Soildier and her husband na Major General ... Lol... You are finished

RichlyOBS:
Ladies if another woman is being rude to your boyfriend in front of you,do you step in as his girlfriend or let him handle it himself??

the reason why I am asking this,, a lady just insulted and embarrassed me inside the bus in front of my girlfriend and she saw everything that the lady was wrong but kept quiet without saying anything....

we got home and I asked her why she didn't face the woman as a girl to girl thing, as far she's my girlfriend, she should have stand for me... she said the fight was for me alone that she can't fight because of a boy who she's not yet married to.....

this is a lesson, am not going to support any girl am not yet married to in my life again....