NigerDeltan:
The day she will meet your new girlfriend that day she will stop coming

Just be calm and observe her mood and behaviour that day

Lalas247:


That’s only if the new girl friend is an upgrade

Nothing more dumb than dating a really dead bish ... to be spiteful or be insultive ... but then the ex is wayyyy hotter and way better
Who is doing who

Just take ur L and move on dear ...stop entertaining bs

Kolewerk

krak101:
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borisyeltskin:
OP OP... this is super story.... the story would have been more interesting had you broken it down into different volumes so we can come and read every week (thursday)..

I am not saying u are telling lies o but how come you know so much about the present relationship of your ex? I am sure u are still single

vicben27:
that's y I don't date girls that are close to where I reside, Inter state is preferable. I can't stand that shiit

borisyeltskin:
OP OP... this is super story.... the story would have been more interesting had you broken it down into different volumes so we can come and read every week (thursday)..

I am not saying u are telling lies o but how come you know so much about the present relationship of your ex? I am sure u are still single

Pope22:
The girl I dated and broke up with her has been visiting me for sometimes now with her new boy friend. I stay in same area with her new boy friend and this her new boy friend who is also in same class with her (now graduates) used to come to my place and watch match with friends. When I broke up with my ex, the guy stopped coming to watch match in my place and started going to viewing centre. I later found out that two of them have started dating. Whenever I see the guy he would be nervous to see me. One day I called him and told him that am not against his relationship with my ex, afterall I broke up with her, so she has every right to date anybody she wants. I told the guy that my ex is a nice girl and that I pray it will work out well for the two of them

Why We Broke Up:
My ex like I told his new boy friend is a very nice girl, she is always cheerful and always friendly with people. Nobody is perfect, so there is no way you expect to see all the good qualities you want in a person in your partner but there must be one or two you must wish that your partner should possess while every other qualities can be waved off. That particular qaulity that you want may not be what another person wants in his or her partner. My ex lacks that one quality I wish to see in my partner and am not sure I can cope with that. I don't date only for fun any more, I also date for future because my mates are getting married, so I plan for future too. All the years I have been dating her, I tried all I could to know if she can change or possess a little of it but no way, instead she was getting worse. Am not perfect either but am sure I was her choice and kind of guy, that was why I had to fight to make sure I made her see what I wanted but it was obvious she couldn't possess even 1% of that quality or change a bit.
Her attitude when she is broke is something am not sure any man can withstand unless you are a millionaire which I am not, so I think the kind of guy that will suit her is the type that will always be giving out money even when he is broke, am still a young growing guy or the type that she can be giving money who will allow her do whatever she can to get money.
When she gets angry here, you will be like; who is this please? Because it will be obvious that another spirit has possessed her and she cannot control herself at that moment. She can say or do anything that moment. So, I think the kind of guy she wants is someone that can tolerate any kind of negative words, slap, shouting, uncontollable mood whenever she is angry which I cannot. I heard she is now the one giving money to her new guy and in control which I don't know where she gets because I know her family background very well. She has chosen to be living life the way she wants it whether the boy friend likes it or not. The last time they came to my place, the new boy friend was complaining to me that she refuses telling him her phone password and that she doesn't like the guy going to her phone, I was like "hmmmmm"

Am not here to start talking about her bad qualities, the truth is; I could not withstand majority of her qualities even the least I desire most in a woman, so I had to quit.
Before we broke up, she started having problems with me over what she said she heard from my friends who do come to my place to watch match or charge their phones especially when there is no light. That one guy who always comes to my place to watch match whom she knows very well has been telling her that I cheat on her, that girls do come to my place all the time, etc. I was like, could it be that her classmate whom she later started dating that would be feeding her with all those lies then because I have never cheated on that girl for once. I hate double-dating and I hating cheating.

One day I got a call from her that I should visit her in her new place, it didn't go down well with me to pay her such visit, so I just said no problem but I never went.
One day, I had a knock on my door, it was my ex with her new boy friend. I was surprised. I welcomed them and she was like...she just wanted to surprise me. The boy friend was like..that the girl has been disturbing that she wants to go and visit me and he chose to come with her; am sure the guy could not stop her instead he has to come with her to avoid anything to happen. If you can't win them, you join them. This thing has happened like 3 times now both of them coming to see me. I would be expecting them to have serious thing to say that brings them but no way, the girl will just be changing dstv programme and be watching while I just discuss guys thing like soccer with the boy friend until she is ready to go. I have never seen this kind of thing before. She will be busy asking me about my girl friend and relationship, I will just be smilling.

I don't know if her visits are to mock me that she is comfortable with her new boy friend or to show me that she is incharge and in control of the guy because she bosses the guy around. Could it be that she wants something from me or what, am just confused because I have never seen this kind of thing before or imagine myself following my girl to her ex's place all the time. Please, who has anything to say about this? Thanks

Harry3:

This is how u pple fail exams..
Am sure if this post was a comprehension in utme and at the end a question was asked like this from this post:
Question: Does the OP stay in same place with the EX?
Am very much sure your answer would be YES and you would fail and blame the examinar.
Where did the OP say that he stays in same place with the EX here in this post? OP said and I quote "I stay in same area with her new boy friend and this her new boy friend who is also in same class with her (now graduates) used to come to my place and watch match with friends" or is the OP a witch to know that a guy he stays in same place would date his EX?

vicben27:

vicben27:
what's this reetard saying! fucck off did I specificically WROTE that am not aware of what the write up was all about, if shez not within his reach in terms of distance hw the fucck will she be rubing her new guy all up in his face? ur brain is probably wet(soo you lack reasoning)! you better becareful how you address people I'm not the the cause of ur misery in life. go and make yourself Useful idiiot.

Harry3:


It should be "WRITE" not "WROTE". Go back to secondary school.[b]

eponoloyin:
Guy you be mumu o..

Istead of you to move on and look for another girl to start something serious with, you're letting your ex and her new dic.k ruin your joy.

Pope22:

Insults are allowed but I think people should be civilized while talking in public especially when you fail to read and understand someone's post very well.
- I never said am single or hooked here, so I don't know where the issue of looking for someone came from.
- I never said I invited them or know when they come.
- I never said I still love or want my EX.
- I was the one who broke up with her because she was never and will never be my ideal girl or wife. She didn't break up with me, I did.
- Their visits are becoming very annoying and confusing to me and that's why I asked for an advice not insults.

Read and understand before you comment. Thanks.

eponoloyin:


Ok sorry, didn't mean it that way.

But I can confidently tell you that your Ex is doing that on purpose to monitor your life. There is a reason it's called Ex bro.

What happens when you start another relationship with a new girl? Will they still be coming to ckoke your life up?

Man up and put a stop to it.. you called it quit with her already.

krak101:
3some loading

OgaSirAde:
This is what we call 'o ya mi lenu'

rebirthforgoody:
This kind of love the weak me oooh

youngbelieve:
Op jus get yourself a new girlfriend nd return d favour,let us kw who it will pepper pass

Pope22:

I cannot stop laughing..

youngbelieve:



Lol eheh na,,sumbody cannor come nd be tormenting me anyhow for no just reason

Pope22:

Actually, I asked her to come over on saturday
that there was something I needed to discus
with her. She didn't hestate to come in the
morning, I sat her down and talked with her.
I held her hands and told her that we are friends
and that we have moved on and separated as
lovers, I told her that I still mean well for her and
wish her happiness in her new relationhip but I
need her to tell me something and be sincere
with it. I asked her to tell me why she always
comes to my place regularly; that I want it to
stop. She kept quite for sometimes and started
shading tears and left without a word. I don't
know if she felt offeneded or hurt. I invited her
new boy friend to my place on sunday and asked
him not to let the girl know. When the guy came,
I asked him why they always pay me uninivited
visits. He said the problem is with the girl not
him, that the girl is the one who always disturbs
that he wants to go, so he feels he should
accompany her just for her to be happy. I told
him that they should stop unless there is a
reason or an important reason for coming; that
am no longer comfortable with that. I also told
him some few things that make the girl happy,
some few things that make her angry. I told him
what she likes most. When the guy asked me
why telling him all these things, I said nothing
that I want them to have a happier relationship.

youngbelieve:



Lol eheh na,,sumbody cannor come nd be tormenting me anyhow for no just reason

Pope22:

Do you know why I laugh? I cannot imagine myself going to visit my ex with my new girl friend unless we want to invite her for our wedding or traditional marriage if I still know where she lives o. I even wonder how my girl friend will agree to follow me to visit my ex just for no reason. I also see it as two people displaying madness at same by going to visit my ex with my new girl friend because my ex visits with her new boy friend, its childish. But let me ask you, don't be offeneded....
Can you accompany your boy friend to visit his ex simply because her ex visits him with her new boy friend?

Pope22:

Please what language is this and what does it mean?

Pope22:

Actually, I asked her to come over on saturday
that there was something I needed to discus
with her. She didn't hestate to come in the
morning, I sat her down and talked with her.
I held her hands and told her that we are friends
and that we have moved on and separated as
lovers, I told her that I still mean well for her and
wish her happiness in her new relationhip but I
need her to tell me something and be sincere
with it. I asked her to tell me why she always
comes to my place regularly; that I want it to
stop. She kept quite for sometimes and started
shading tears and left without a word. I don't
know if she felt offeneded or hurt. I invited her
new boy friend to my place on sunday and asked
him not to let the girl know. When the guy came,
I asked him why they always pay me uninivited
visits. He said the problem is with the girl not
him, that the girl is the one who always disturbs
that he wants to go, so he feels he should
accompany her just for her to be happy. I told
him that they should stop unless there is a
reason or an important reason for coming; that
am no longer comfortable with that. I also told
him some few things that make the girl happy,
some few things that make her angry. I told him
what she likes most. When the guy asked me
why telling him all these things, I said nothing
that I want them to have a happier relationship.