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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by tk4rd: 7:08am On Nov 20, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:There are.. Just that, they may not be the type you are fantasizing 1 Like |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Nobody: 7:12am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Toks2008: Mr. man, that can only happen abroad not in Nigeria. can you allow your own sister do that? 2 Likes |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by tivta(m): 7:18am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Toks2008: Guy. Nigerian women are not logical oh. Hence the reason the say it is better to cry in a range rover sport than laugh in a keke. 2 Likes |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Lomprico2: 7:21am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Toks2008: I agree 100% |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by komodapson(m): 7:26am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Toks2008:why the name "Ngozi"... avoid hate speech |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Nobody: 7:29am On Nov 20, 2017 |
I agree with you on this. Absolutely and I have addressed this on many threads. Africans, Nigerians most especially are found of having fantasies and living in delusion. Some do for a very long time before they wake to reality. The earlier people understand their person, take responsibility and understand you cant always have what you want but can always have what you need, the easier life gets! 1 Like |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Nobody: 7:40am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Toks2008: Then what's the point?!!! might as well wait till you get something tangible before getting married & just stay friends till the Hard work pays off, since you both gonna work you ass off plus no kids too |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Etfash(m): 7:53am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Good one there Toks2008. I believe when it comes to marriage, the curves, heights etc fade. Those features are very thrilling before marriage. When all is said and done, woman na woman. Whether or not my wife is slim, curvy or not is immaterial... I love her, not because she is "my spec" but because of the office she occupies. Every wife is a queen, trust me, no matter your status, if you treat them the best way, they will not look out. With respect to temptation outside, according to a poster, personally, I don't see the temptation outside! Your wife has everything.. The backside and front side are all accumulated fats and proteins, the "beautiful face" is just your idea and you cannot eat it.. Money that will be given to you by a sugar mummy? Why will you stoop so low to surrendering your today and tomorrow to a woman who cannot even be faithful to her own husband? For me, the issue of temptation doesn't even arise. As for getting married, well, we have seen people who had much do a low key wedding.. Bottom line, just know that whether or not your wedding is elaborate or not, people will remember it for a very brief moment. Your duty is to make it memorable for your woman since that is your gift to her. Making it memorable doesn't mean it has to be too expensive. Cut your cloth according to your material. Meanwhile, as for children, you can only do your best. Most times, you will always be in the middle. The son of Buhari may think he has the best, but let him wait till he sees the sons of the King of Saudi Arabia. If you cannot afford expensive schools, get them in a okay school and spend time with them. Eventually, they will make it to the highly coveted Federal Universities and be better than you. My views though.. 1 Like |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 8:15am On Nov 20, 2017 |
dingbang:lol! i also observed that and i wonder why.. |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 8:16am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Etfash: Quite impressive. |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Ubiquity: 8:26am On Nov 20, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:Fortunately, I've never understood the meaning of that word because my case is different... |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 8:26am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Jiang: That is where the problem lies...stay as friends then when the guy finally makes it,he may get someon e else to marry....dont start the "then they are not meant for each other talks" Go to the Government parastatals,schools,small companies and you will find eligible bachelors but most ladies dont look at these areas because they have a dream of marrying the p.squares,mikel obis,Anthony joshuas of this world forgetting that these guys were once a nobody but time and chance brought hem to where they are. Obama went to a restaurant with his wife and she introduced the owner of the restaurant as her ex then obama asked her..."If you had married your ex,what would have happened to your status?" and she replied "i will still be the first lady cos he would be the president?" A woman has the power to drive her man to be the best he can ever be so our ladies should go for the available guys who are just starting their lives and build a life with them cos true wealth is progressive. 3 Likes |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by EdoBoy90(m): 8:32am On Nov 20, 2017 |
ok |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 8:32am On Nov 20, 2017 |
komodapson: You better work on your mind cos i guess its full of hatred and bitterness. when i wrote that i cold as well put Titi or Zainab but i wrote what came to my head without any form of bitterness. Please work on yourself. 1 Like |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 8:37am On Nov 20, 2017 |
tk4rd: You nailed it. You will see many ladies praying and complaining as if they are not seeing any suitor but you will be surprised that they have countless guys and i mean real good guys wanting their hands in marriage but as long as the man in their dreams have not surfaced,its a No for every other guy and they forget that the dream they have is a common dream for many other ladies so at the end,they start draging that prince charming with other ladies and probably end up heart broken. And for us guys,we always want that trophy lady,that hot chic,that lady with that banging body and we try to impress her and spend really good on her just for her to still dump our ass cos she is for the highest bidder anyways meanwhile there is that unassuming lady who is willing to manage whatever you give her but we no go ever think go her side. 2 Likes |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by sweetkev(m): 8:49am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Toks2008:You make sense die |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by emmyN(m): 8:54am On Nov 20, 2017 |
You are right. But that should not be an excuse to style for less |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 8:55am On Nov 20, 2017 |
adeblow: But for fools,all words ought to be spoken in proverbs.Wherever you got that notion from is your cup of tea. Whatever i write is my business and the way you interpret it is your business. 1 Like |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by erico2k2(m): 9:01am On Nov 20, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU:DO you also realize getting |married gives you focus and opens doors you never ever knew existed? Getting married is not all about Money, dating is but marriage aint,If you can survive by yourself and she then both of you are good to go, The world functions on Combined Energy! 2 Likes |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by salesforce: 9:25am On Nov 20, 2017 |
If its good for you |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Nobody: 9:32am On Nov 20, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU: "Marry the single people from among you and the righteous slaves and slave-girls. If you are poor, Allah (SwT) will make you rich through His favour; and Allah (SwT) is Bountiful, All-Knowing." (Surah 24, Verse 32) Not that you will become a billionaire oO, but atleast you will be able to take care of yourself and the family? 1 Like |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Toks2008: Nawa o. Are you talking about Nigerian ladies ? |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by ruggish10: 9:50am On Nov 20, 2017 |
is it too much to want to marry a virgin girl? Toks2008: |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Nobody: 9:53am On Nov 20, 2017 |
dis one tie george and kente.... so i shld get married and have dose poor little tin grow up d way i did? odeshi....
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Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Nobody: 11:14am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Dwizeone: Like they say SHOE GET SIZE |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Blonchilli(m): 11:20am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Toks2008:Are you sure you're not a copy of me from another universe? You just hit the nail on the head. A made man who picks a wife after he's made only wants a trophy wife or someone who will be a advanced maid. A woman who will keep the house clean, cook food, take the D and reproduce his heir. Most men who married a woman that hustle with him their marriage benefits both parties. Look at the Obama's, Bill and Hillary Clinton I've even met some here in Nigeria. Ladies now wants to settle for being a trophy wife |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by newslifeop: 11:26am On Nov 20, 2017 |
Oh |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by lereinter(m): 12:57pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
RETIREDMUMU: when are u going to make the money that extinguish hunger |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by PrickGetSize(m): 1:17pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
It's not fear, it's choice. The society had succeeded in fooling young men in the past that they must get a wife in order to enjoy a happy family life, but now we know better. You don't need a wife to have a family and you don't need a wife to have kids and raise them properly. Over 70% of married men cheat and about 50% of married women, especially housewives, have a fuckboy who they think have the vitality to satisfy them better than oga. I still don't get the fascination of a man and a woman living together for a long time, probably forever, in the name of marriage when it's in our nature to explore our unlimited sexual variety. 1 Like |
Re: One Main Reason Why Many Will Remain Single For A Very Long Time. by Toks2008(m): 2:11pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Blonchilli: Hmmm! insightful i must say. 2 Likes |
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