Ve been dating my girl over a year now, when we started dating she told me she was a VIRGIN and she's my first virgin girlfriend( I runway from dem), I had my doubts but when ever I try to make a move or make love with her, she always says "stop am not ready" and she's hot tempered, and when I try to force myself in, she stands up and leave. I will still call her and apologise, I do all these because I love her. Now her birthday is next 2weeks ( on 20th may) I have plans to propose to her, ve already bought the ring buh first I ve to taste what I wanna buy ( YES I must).
So I had to persuade her for sex, It took days duo, buh we finally had sex, it was the worst sex experience ever, it was hard cuz she was just running around and shading tears, shouting I finally went in, I didn't see any BLOOD on my di*k or on d bed instead I saw a white looking faty stuff or konjied liquid.

Plz u guys should tell me if it's normal ,cuz am confused, my di*k is big enough ,she shuld at least get small tear for v*gina and her inside pu**y was kinda big, was she lien to Me all diz days or what?
Menh I had to tell n asked her dah I didn't see blood ,jst saw a whitish stuff all over my di*k, she said it's virgin stuffs and she saw some drop as she was bathing ( felt she was lien)
Since than still now we had sex like 4tyms, still no blood , am still not enjoying it, she always tired ( 20 mins she don tire) and I can go for hours.

plz I need ur advice (was she lien or is it normal not to see blood after disflowering ) I jst wanna know, so lemme know my next plans.

U c ur life, she gives u problem and she no give u problem. u have deflowered DAT girl. prior before now have u not been fingering her n gradually doing bad tinz dia before penetrating her? dude y concentrate on virgin wen ur not one.

#idontbeleiveit
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You must also be like #icanttakeit

Confront your bae face to face & ask her what relly happen
She may think you be fool .
My man wake-up there's no such virgin like that

Blood doesn't come on every occasion. Her hymen may have broken due to sporting activities.

onlyhandsome202:
U c ur life, she gives u problem and she no give u problem. u have deflowered DAT girl. prior before now have not been fingering her n gradually doing bad tinz dia before penetrating her. dude y concentrate on virgin wen ur not one.

Am not concentrating on that, I jst wanna kn if she lien, diz is why I dnt lyk virgins, der wahala is too much

Speechless

WhistleB:
Blood doesn't come on every occasion. Her hymen may have broken due to sporting activities.

She dnt like sports , maybe dancing buh noo noo to sports for her.

Baba she no be virgin. Maybe she lost it when she was much younger like the case of that 8month old baby that was raped. I feel she aint a virgin cos its expected for blood to flow when d hymen is burst open.

Crownadex:
#idontbeleiveit

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You must also be like #icanttakeit


Confront your bae face to face & ask her what relly happen

She may think you be fool .

My man wake-up there's no such virgin like that

Bro I no understand? I confronted her oo, she sha tell me one story, and she get vexed if I start asking her questions, she will be lyk so u don't trust me after giving u my virginity .

Princeboca12:
Baba she no be virgin. Maybe she lost it when she was much younger like the case of that 8month old baby that was raped. I feel she aint a virgin cos its expected for blood to flow when d hymen is burst open.

Bro, u jst made me feel bad ,

cerowo:
Speechless

Plz talk oo, ur advise is needed

Flexysweet:

Bro, u jst made me feel bad ,

Bro am sorry, didnt mean to. Best thing for u is to ask her, u need to put pressure on her. She must talk oo. She alone knows da truth

Guys, please stop with this ignorance.... Its not a must the blood flows when she's disvirgined.... Some girls have very thin hymens and therefore when disvirgined you don't see the blood immediately she's disvirgined sometimes girls dont bleed when disvirgined due to a lot of reasons

1. The hymen wasn't completely broken the first time
2. The hymen was already broken when you've been making out by fingering her esp if she has a thin hymen
3. The hymen night have been broken by using tampons
4. The hymen might be elastic therefore causing no breakage at all
5. or as someone already said it might have been broken during sport activities or playing too rough as a kid if she was a tomboy....

Some girls don't bleed immediately after penetration but end up bleeding for days after being disvirgined

I think you should be looking for other signs to prove her virginity like was she extremely tight, her actions during penetration, bla bla bla..... Don't just go about judging and innocent girl because of some old myth

I rest my case

Princeboca12:


Bro am sorry, didnt mean to. Best thing for u is to ask her, u need to put pressure on her. She must talk oo. She alone knows da truth

That's what I feel, buh she's too stubborn and smart, when i start asking questions, she ll start sayn I dnt trust her.

demiladegold:
Guys, please stop with this ignorance.... Its not a must the blood flows when she's disvirgined.... Some girls have very thin hymens and therefore when disvirgined you don't see the blood immediately she's disvirgined sometimes girls dont bleed when disvirgined due to a lot of reasons

1. The hymen wasn't completely broken the first time
2. The hymen was already broken when you've been making out by fingering her esp if she has a thin hymen
3. The hymen night have been broken by using tampons
4. The hymen might be elastic therefore causing no breakage at all
5. or as someone already said it might have been broken during sport activities or playing too rough as a kid if she was a tomboy....

Some girls don't bleed immediately after penetration but end up bleeding for days after being disvirgined

I think you should be looking for other signs to prove her virginity like was she extremely tight, her actions during penetration, bla bla bla..... Don't just go about judging and innocent girl because of some old myth

I rest my case

Bullshit, OP dont accept this.

All the above scenarious have less than 1% chance of happening.

If the girl is young blood must flow. She most likely has had sex. Am guessing one time .

10 times out of ten blood flows when u disvirgin a girl. Your cannot be different. The lady i quoted should tell us if she bled or not, when she was banged for the first time.

Flexysweet:

That's what I feel, buh she's too stubborn and smart, when i start asking questions, she ll start sayn I dnt trust her.

Nigga give her space. Shun her for a while cos deep down in her she knows she has disappointed ur trust and would find any little issh as an excuse to flame up

Flexysweet:

Plz talk oo, ur advise is needed

In africa we believe that when a girl deflowered there must b evidence of blood frm d vagina
dnt knw y urs was diff

TheCabal:


Bullshit, OP dont accept this.

All the above scenarious have less than 1% chance of happening.

If the girl is young blood must flow. She most likely has had sex. Am guessing one time .

10 times out of ten blood flows when u disvirgin a girl. Your cannot be different. The lady i quoted should tell us if she bled or not, when she was banged for the first time.

I've given my own piece of advice.... Its the op's choice to either take it or leave it....

And if you're indirectly asking if I'm a virgin or not, i'm telling you unapologetically its none of your business....

Yuh b!tch ain't a virgin,dats just what she calls herself,nigga blood must show,i repeat blood must show,n 4her 2v creamed dt much during yuh 1st encounter dt means it has bin a while since she was smashed v dated a true virgin once,so i know wat I'm saying....Buh don't leave her cos of DAT..

demiladegold:
Guys, please stop with this ignorance.... Its not a must the blood flows when she's disvirgined.... Some girls have very thin hymens and therefore when disvirgined you don't see the blood immediately she's disvirgined sometimes girls dont bleed when disvirgined due to a lot of reasons

1. The hymen wasn't completely broken the first time
2. The hymen was already broken when you've been making out by fingering her esp if she has a thin hymen
3. The hymen night have been broken by using tampons
4. The hymen might be elastic therefore causing no breakage at all
5. or as someone already said it might have been broken during sport activities or playing too rough as a kid if she was a tomboy....

Some girls don't bleed immediately after penetration but end up bleeding for days after being disvirgined

I think you should be looking for other signs to prove her virginity like was she extremely tight, her actions during penetration, bla bla bla..... Don't just go about judging and innocent girl because of some old myth

I rest my case

Yea at first she was extremely tight, and her reaction during penetration was lik something was choking her,.
Buh is it normal for her to enjoy her 2nd sex experience after she was dis virgined.
Tnkz for ur advise.

Just passing

Headlesschicken:
Yuh b!tch ain't a virgin,dats just what she calls herself,nigga blood must show,i repeat blood must show,n 4her 2v creamed dt much during yuh 1st encounter dt means it has bin a while since she was smashed v dated a true virgin once,so i know wat I'm saying....Buh don't leave her cos of DAT..

u crazy, buh tnkz for ur advise.
Ur kinda correct

Flexysweet:

Yea at first she was extremely tight, and her reaction during penetration was lik something was choking her,.
Buh is it normal for her to enjoy her 2nd sex experience after she was dis virgined.
Tnkz for ur advise.

She's supposed to still be very tight during the second experience but I don't know if its normal for her to enjoy it during the second experience but from my own POV I guess its OK for her to enjoy it since the barrier is gone

RB007:
when i disvirgined refiner..blood flowed

How u take do ur own

demiladegold:



I've given my own piece of advice.... Its the op's choice to either take it or leave it....

And if you're indirectly asking if I'm a virgin or not, i'm telling you unapologetically its none of your business....

No. I did not ask if you are virgin , I know you are NOT.

I asked, 'did u bleed when u got fuc|ked the first time ?'

All this irrelevant virqin tok tire state o,must qirls complain bein a virqin whenever they are in d room....Av nvr see where a quy complain thou

TheCabal:


No. I did not ask if you are virgin , I know you are NOT.

I asked, 'did u bleed when u got fuc|ked the first time.'

Lol.... Whatever you say and as I said before its none of your business......

demiladegold:



She's supposed to still be very tight during the second experience but I don't know if its normal for her to enjoy it during the second experience but from my own POV I guess its OK for her to enjoy it since the barrier is gone

Yea, that d problem, I was so shocked when she said "faster " during our 2nd sex , I felt that I ve been deceived

Some time red oil or groundnut oil do come out some time. Wht u saw was groundnut oil.

TheCabal:


Bullshit, OP dont accept this.

All the above scenarious have less than 1% chance of happening.

If the girl is young blood must flow. She most likely has had sex. Am guessing one time .

10 times out of ten blood flows when u disvirgin a girl. Your cannot be different. The lady i quoted should tell us if she bled or not, when she was banged for the first time.

Tnkz bro

Princeboca12:


Nigga give her space. Shun her for a while cos deep down in her she knows she has disappointed ur trust and would find any little issh as an excuse to flame up

Give her space ? Will that work.....