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Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by antysocial: 12:35pm On Nov 28, 2017
I don't want to go spiritual about this, so I wnt want anyone to quote Bible verses or Qur'an. I just need opinions based on experience, common sense..etc. I have always heard that sex is spiritual and whoever you have sex with may leave a trace in your life (a major reason I never been intimate with any girl till now). I only kiss and smooch. Now back to d topic, This topic came up as an argument in my room yesterday and I was surprised when guys were claiming it's true and they know buh rather dnt care. My question is , is this actually true; have u experienced some kind of ill luck for being intimate with a girl /guy (a friend of my claimed he never won bet naija throughout his 6months with a babe) but won 15k d day after breaking up. What's your take on this romancelanders. Share your experience(s). because I may be having sex soon, m tired o.

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Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by dingbang(m): 12:38pm On Nov 28, 2017
Well I got a job after I broke up with my ex...
Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by Lionbite(m): 12:47pm On Nov 28, 2017
Well i'm still a virgin and i plan on having sex on my wedding night so...

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Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by ArchangeLucifer: 12:47pm On Nov 28, 2017
antysocial:
I don't want to go spiritual about this, so I wnt want anyone to quote Bible verses or Qur'an. I just need opinions based on experience, common sense..etc. I have always heard that sex is spiritual and whoever you have sex with may leave a trace in your life (a major reason I never been intimate with any girl till now). I only kiss and smooch. Now back to d topic, This topic came up as an argument in my room yesterday and I was surprised when guys were claiming it's true and they know buh rather dnt care. My question is , is this actually true; have u experienced some kind of ill luck for being intimate with a girl /guy (a friend of my claimed he never won bet naija throughout his 6months with a babe) but won 15k d day after breaking up. What's your take on this romancelanders. Share your experience(s). because I may be having sex soon, m tired o.




"You don't want to be spiritual" but you "heard that sex is spiritual".

grin

I hereby deliver you from the spirit of confusion.

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Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by Evablizin(f): 12:49pm On Nov 28, 2017
cheesy

Where are they gentlemen of NL? The hour has come.
Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by Kufie(m): 12:51pm On Nov 28, 2017
smiley

No it's not spiritual. What really happens when you have sex regularly is the possible loss of focus in your day to day activities.

Note that I said POSSIBLE loss of focus. You can still have your life together while Bleep!ng on the daily.

Don't let no one fool you. These things are made up to "scare" people and sadly, it works on a lot of Africans.

Just like the times you hear that bullshit doctrine about ladies going to hell for wearing artificial hair and trousers.

You wanna have 5ex? go on and do it. At the same time, you might wanna suspend that decision and keep your virginity till whenever.
Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by Kimcutie: 12:53pm On Nov 28, 2017
#DuringWeddingNight! I will break fast grin

The choice is yours and yours only/alone to make dude. cheesy
Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by IAMSASHY(f): 1:59pm On Nov 28, 2017
undecided sex is more dan spiritual. U cnt sleep wt a gal dat hv a spirit husband and go Scott free,u must b punished in one way or d other. If u hv sex wt sumone dat a cause is placed upon, u will definitely share in d persons problems. Sex is nt child's play, it's more dan physical, alot of tins beyond human eye happens during sex

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Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by MzDeeb(f): 10:27pm On Nov 28, 2017
Yep
Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by tosyne2much(m): 10:33pm On Nov 28, 2017
So, the kissing and smooching you've been doing doesn't leave a trace in your life but will only leave traces the moment your joystick goes in there?

Continue deceiving yourself oooo

Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by Nobody: 5:14am On Nov 29, 2017
I left a girl that cheated on me although I disflower, and could not get a job until I beg and she was like U promise to marry me,after I got a job I wasn't even qualified for,since then,I have imprisoned my tin

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Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by Newbielearner(m): 7:50am On Nov 30, 2017
antysocial:
I don't want to go spiritual about this, so I wnt want anyone to quote Bible verses or Qur'an. I just need opinions based on experience, common sense..etc. I have always heard that sex is spiritual and whoever you have sex with may leave a trace in your life (a major reason I never been intimate with any girl till now). I only kiss and smooch. Now back to d topic, This topic came up as an argument in my room yesterday and I was surprised when guys were claiming it's true and they know buh rather dnt care. My question is , is this actually true; have u experienced some kind of ill luck for being intimate with a girl /guy (a friend of my claimed he never won bet naija throughout his 6months with a babe) but won 15k d day after breaking up. What's your take on this romancelanders. Share your experience(s). because I may be having sex soon, m tired o.

It is Spiritual, my guy. Anything that involves blood between two parties. Even if you use condom. The fact that there was a _perm and maybe a release from either of you, there's a union already.

I know some people will say this is trash, fanatic, not scientic or uncivilized, but you can always know that after sex something is added or taken away from you. It then manifests with time.

Have fun. But set boundaries. Many have fallen (even in white countries), trapped and lost so many things just because of this.

I'm not claiming holiness o. Just commenting based on my own level of understanding.

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Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by DaddyKross: 7:55am On Nov 30, 2017
Yes, sex is spiritual. Most of these girls out there are Karishikas.
Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by MzzTega(f): 9:37am On Nov 30, 2017
Newbielearner:


It is Spiritual, my guy. Anything that involves blood between two parties. Even if you use condom. The fact that there was a _perm and maybe a release from either of you, there's a union already.

I know some people will say this is trash, fanatic, not scientic or uncivilized, but you can always know that after sex something is added or taken away from you. It then manifests with time.

Have fun. But set boundaries. Many have fallen (even in white countries), trapped and lost so many things just because of this.

I'm not claiming holiness o. Just commenting based on my own level of understanding.

You are right brother.
Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by Nobody: 9:48am On Nov 30, 2017
tosyne2much:
So, the kissing and smooching you've been doing does leave a trace in your life but will only leave traces the moment your joystick goes in there?

Continue deceiving yourself oooo
Hehehe grin
Re: Why I Have Abstained From Sex All My Life Till Now by handsomeguy4kyf(m): 10:30am On Nov 30, 2017
hmm

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