₦airaland Forum

Slayer2:
QueenSekxy don't be too shy to ask me out, don't worry I won't bite, I might say yes if you do

Lionbite:
nope but i was familiar with the department during my service year at nsukka.

omooba969:
Might or WILL?

Slayer2:
might.

omooba969:
Are you taken already?

omooba969:
She will think twice though.

omooba969:
Has anyone seen ibkkk, 'been looking everywhere for that beautiful flower.

alexmaye:
Good for the guy sha, wish I was him but all the same am still waiting for that special person

ibkkk:
Sweet heart, I'm here!

Missed you all night

ItsTutsi:
pls ladies!! y'all gotta start given us a chance ,especially us with no beard

Mexyz:
seriously waiting for you beauty.

PrettySleek:
yes I am

MISTAICEY02288:
Yea theres nothing wrong in it.
In fact, that kinda relationship is very good in some ways because the lady loves the guy naturally not that the guy asked her out and she ends up loving him in the process of their relationship.
I am a proof of this. Theres this pretty lady who i happened to meet beginning of my NYSC days and shes been on my neck ever since then. I rejected her several times cos i never felt a thing with her and i wanted another lady after breaking up with my ex... I began givin this lady attitudes just to make her stay away. I stopped callin he, wasn't picking her calls frequently, ignored her chats and replied once in a while whenever i felt like. I later taveled to the states {USA} early this year thinking she would forget me, buh Hell No! She still kept calling from Naija and kept messagin me on Whatsapp. There was a time i even told her that jer boyfy should be the one callin her and not me when she asked why i wasn't calling her and how she loved hearing my voice than messages and chats. That statement i made really got her upset and felt so bad buh i never cares cos i felt nothin for her.

Fast forward to around late June, i returned to Naija and she still kept talking to me. So around July, i invited her over to my house for the 1st time and we discussed on lots of things. I asked her why shes so obsessed with me and cant just move on and let me go, the reply she gave was that even she doesn't know why she's still waiting and why shes so obsessed with me despite all ive put her thru...Mind you, she's got a whole lots of guys on her neck even guys far better than i am cos she is a very beautiful lady that you wouldn't see once and wouldn't wanna be with her..

To cut long story short, we entered a relationship around August and we together now. I don't have cause to regret it till now. She has been everything one could ever wish for in a relationship. Supportive, caring, prays for me, doesn't like seein me sad or angry and not demanding. This lady has offered me financial assistance like 3 different times i was in urgent need already since we began dating which I turned all down cos i aint that type of guy that collects money from his woman.

This is 21st century guys, it doesn't matter who asks who out first as long as the feelings are genuine and theres no deceit, you're good to go...

omooba969:
That's to say Mexyz is on a long thing.

scaramucci:
Is this how you guys auction dates online? I need one for myself too.

Teespice:
this is something I say.

if you like him, tell him how you feel. chances are he either feels the same way or the feeling isn't mutual.

whatever the outcome, life must go on.

what I find in high distaste is mocking a lady for baring out her feelings or taking advantage of her emotions.

kendrace:
Oya send me a pm

Lisaflex:
Y do i hv ds feeling dt dude's gna sit tight n still wait 4 aunty 2 propose? Hope shez ready tho

habsydiamond:
I love ladies with confidence...Na ego dey affect majority of them that make dem to give their food to cat....

omooba969:
Hey beautiful flower, how are you today?

mrdickhead:
she saw a future in you bro.

Lizzdeb:
I think am inspired

ibkkk:
I'm doing great!

Amarabae:
He should marry you First before we classify this as a success story.
In my opinion, she shouldn't have posted this now till he propose