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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by obryneblaque: 10:49am On Dec 18, 2017
ghostfacekillar:
foool.it is called tradition.una get tradition white wanabe
Selling your daughter in the name of traditions! Giving all sort of list for traditions sake? Wise up! I just pity those ibo girls as they will remain single especially this time that Nigerians are crying

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by safarigirl(f): 10:49am On Dec 18, 2017
Proudgorgeousga:


the owner of that Twitter account is an African American troll not a white man.
SMH. It be your own niggas

Instead of the mumu to ask questions and help his culture less self, he is ranyinh on Social Media as if any sane African man would give his daughter to such a fellow

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by kitaatita: 10:50am On Dec 18, 2017
I blame the wife for allowing him to disrespect her identity and culture. How can he say that Africans are known for scamming and Africans sell their daughters. And the stupid girl is going into his home as a wife. There's dowry in India and it's not cheap. There's lobola in South Africa. Bride price is part of our culture and tradition; take it or leave it. You don't cherry-pick

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by rayobaba(m): 10:51am On Dec 18, 2017
which dignity
biacan:
Because we have dignity unlike some people
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by safarigirl(f): 10:51am On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:

Selling your daughter in the name of traditions! Giving all sort of list for traditions sake? Wise up! I just pity those ibo girls as they will remain single especially this time that Nigerians are crying
the Igbo girls are getting married everyday, save your pity bro.

The people marrying the girls are not complaining, Louis Vuitton is expensive, but their products still get sold out.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Gkemz: 10:52am On Dec 18, 2017
He's a bastard by comparing african women to stripper because we are trying to preserve our culture. The same African tradition he criticised is what is preventing the occurrence of divorce unlike America where divorce is at alarming rate. The money you're bringing is not as if you're paying because the same money will be used by the bride's family to acquire for their daughter the basic household need. And negotiations are allowed. I've never seen a responsible man who absconded because he couldn't fulfill wife's marital rites obligations.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by ghostfacekillar(m): 10:53am On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:

Selling your daughter in the name of traditions! Giving all sort of list for traditions sake? Wise up! I just pity those ibo girls as they will remain single especially this time that Nigerians are crying
for ur miind. Igbo girls are the best ..peeps around the worlld even ur tribesmen prefer an igboo gal than ur tribeswomen
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by obryneblaque: 10:54am On Dec 18, 2017
DesChyko:


Must foreigners buy our daughters?
Is it only foreigners that pay bride price? Even if Naija guy wanna marry an igbo girl na list go chase am. The purse of the white is not upto the demand that is why he cries out
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by DesChyko: 10:56am On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:

Is it only foreigners that pay bride price? Even if Naija guy wanna marry an igbo girl na list go chase am. The purse of the white is not upto the demand that is why he cries out

Any man that is alien to the customs is a foreigner. Bride price isn't the only thing that can stop a marriage from happening abeg.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Tydie0: 10:56am On Dec 18, 2017
thickminaj:
It's our tradition.... If it hurts him so much he can go back to wherever he came from.... angry
Hmmmm!! I can't agree with you more btw you have a nice username that complement your looks.
Whew!!!
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Lilkini(m): 10:56am On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:
You see your life, Igbos


whos this demented fellow pls? are u cursed or sumfin.... this country really need to get rid of ur type
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by talk2percy(m): 10:57am On Dec 18, 2017
Who asked u to come for our girls in the first place? Taaa gerrout...u be fake broke oyibo. Real oyibo no go give a poo about how much he was asked to pay for his girl. Una wey no get respect for marriage.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 10:57am On Dec 18, 2017
I have said it time again when I get married I ain't paying no bride price ..
If her parents don't want well no thank you

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by dont8(m): 10:58am On Dec 18, 2017
9jaDoc:
Oga white man, u meant to say "Nigerians are known for scamming" not Africans.
Gkemz:
He's a bastard by comparing african women to stripper because we are trying to preserve our culture. The same African tradition he criticised is what is preventing the occurrence of divorce unlike America where divorce is at alarming rate. The money you're bringing is not as if you're paying because the same money will be used by the bride's family to acquire for their daughter the basic household need. And negotiations are allowed. I've never seen a responsible man who absconded because he couldn't fulfill wife's marital rites obligations.
Kriskash:
mr. whiteman i agree with you to some certain extent..But i disagree with you saying africans are scammers,c'mon you guys tort us how to scam,history has it that you bought our treasures ,human being with slippers and mirror and you even subject our folks working in your country to black ceiling..So mr white anything we africans do to you,see it as if we are collecting part out of the numerous treasures collected from africans in pretence...I dont blame G-guys who scam your folk,why bcus you guys exploited us to the core..Can you imagine given you out to someone for just mirror or slippers!!...Anything that africans are doing to you people is just reciprocity and karma,just keep.calm and enjoy it...though to.marry from africa is not by force,you have so many indomie girls in your country and even continent you can go marry them...Mehn read history and you will know this guys deserve more than dis...
tunary:
The white guy make sence joor, we Nigerians use every slight opportunity to make money
safarigirl:
which Igbo's? Go and ask how much you have to pay for Lobola in SA make your eyes clear.

So because this one is white, er should take his words as anything? Where do these people get off thinking any semi-literatr Caucasian can slam the culture of others? Same people legalising gay marriage, killing random black men and all sorts of rubbish are slamming bride price as if their own cultures are any better
Bandwagon effect, @pastorgambit is not a white guy but black American, gosh!
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by obryneblaque: 10:58am On Dec 18, 2017
ghostfacekillar:
for ur miind. Igbo girls are the best ..peeps around the worlld even ur tribesmen prefer an igboo gal than ur tribeswomen
Who tell you that?
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by aristosoft(m): 10:58am On Dec 18, 2017
This looks like something written by an African just to trend. A typical white will write specifics. Shior cry cry
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by bigdot1759(m): 10:58am On Dec 18, 2017
to be sincere na igbo people. dey do dat thing how u go dey slam #1m as bride price for what
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by benzion72(m): 11:00am On Dec 18, 2017
Honestly i see it as encumbrance. Though I paid I never see reason for it. Nigerian make many things difficult for themselves. it is only in Nigeria you pay two years rent upfront for a house you have not stayed in enriching the landlord. it is only in Nigeria that wages are owed for 32 months why some people are paid every two week. Nigeria you they very tough.

Imagine no bride price and you pay your house rent at month end, imagine the number of young men who will marry their bride instantly

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by obryneblaque: 11:00am On Dec 18, 2017
safarigirl:
the Igbo girls are getting married everyday, save your pity bro.

The people marrying the girls are not complaining, Louis Vuitton is expensive, but their products still get sold out.
Truth is bitter tongue
don't let money chase you from true love biko
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by ghostfacekillar(m): 11:02am On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:

Who tell you that?
ur papa tell me dat and even ur ancestors can attesstt to datt
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by shalomm: 11:03am On Dec 18, 2017
But it wasn't a white dude that was doing the ranting na... make una dey look well joor.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by obryneblaque: 11:03am On Dec 18, 2017
benzion72:

Honestly i see it as encumbrance. Though I paid I never see reason for it. Nigerian make many things difficult for themselves. it is only in Nigeria you pay two years rent upfront for a house you have not stayed in enriching the landlord. it is only in Nigeria that wages are owed for 32 months why some people are paid every two week. Nigeria you they very tough.

Imagine no bride price and you pay your house rent at month end, imagine the number of young men who will marry their bride instantly
Thank you sir! God bless your brain. Let us make life easy for the less priviledge

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by iamrammy(m): 11:05am On Dec 18, 2017
african parents are trying to recover the bride price they paid their inlaws then from their own daughters now with compound interest.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by dont8(m): 11:05am On Dec 18, 2017
talk2percy:
Who asked u to come for our girls in the first place? Taaa gerrout...u be fake broke oyibo. Real oyibo no go give a poo about how much he was asked to pay for his girl. Una wey no get respect for marriage.
He's not oyinbo, he's your fellow black

aristosoft:
This looks like something written by an African just to trend. A typical white will write specifics. Shior cry cry
Don't mind them, they saw a whitemen pictures posted by an hungry blogger and they started mastubating on it meanwhile, the guy is an Africa American.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by obryneblaque: 11:05am On Dec 18, 2017
ghostfacekillar:
ur papa tell me dat and even ur ancestors can attesstt to datt
You don't even have any fact yet you are proving the shadow. Let us make life easy for the less priviledge
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by obryneblaque: 11:08am On Dec 18, 2017
Lilkini:


whos this demented fellow pls? are u cursed or sumfin.... this country really need to get rid of ur type
You can see yourself? Read what you type and pick out a sense out of it. Let us make life easier for the less priviledge
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by designVATExcel: 11:11am On Dec 18, 2017
Abegi, broke man talking.
If you don hammer regardless of the list, you go just play along.

I don't blame him sha, things are tight mehn, and some kind list fit reset brain.

Just pray to be rich, you wouldn't need to nag like this.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 11:11am On Dec 18, 2017
omaar12:
If He Is Not Comfortable With It, There Is A Lot Of White Ladies In Europe And America, He Should Go Back To His Continent And Get Married. African Men Are Not Complaining, Must Me Substitute All Our Culture And Norms Just To Please U Guy.
He Is Even Saying We Should Be Happy That He Is Even Getting Married To Our Ladies Wtf. These Kind Of Guys Are Those Kind That The In Laws Cannot Ask For Help When They Are In Dier Need Least He Calls Them A Scammer.
Exactly.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 11:12am On Dec 18, 2017
Adebowhales:
This one na afin, between I've never seen a hausa albino.
BTW=BY THE WAY
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by ghostfacekillar(m): 11:12am On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:

You don't even have any fact yet you are proving the shadow. Let us make life easy for the less priviledge
pls guy go hustle
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by safarigirl(f): 11:15am On Dec 18, 2017
dont8:
Bandwagon effect, @pastorgambit is not a white guy but black American, gosh!
the correction was made earlier. Thanks still

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