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Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Godsonkemz(m): 7:21pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
The last sentence damaged all you just said. But anyway, your case is similar to hormonal imbalance. You have hormonal defect. Consult the right medical personnel. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by stanliwise(m): 7:22pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
JESUSBOIY:See the hard truth is that you really believe that you behave like a girl and everyday you are trying to fight the thought. What a serious battle. Almost nothing you do will solve your problem because Your problem might be solved instantly if everyone that is saying you behave like a girl stop saying so or stop behaving in a way that pass that message but you and I know that might never happen, so you seem to be fighting a lost battle. But that is not my concern for now. But my contribution is this. You said you don't have alot of female friend because of this, Bro your girly behavior has nothing to do with this, trust me it is just you except there is something you are not saying. Stop believing you can't have a girlfriend because you don't behave manly, are you trying to be-friends a girl who are clique with your friends that mock you? If your answer is No then how would every girl have problem that you behave girly, bro from now onward start improving your skill on relating with female friends and put off that mindset of yours. Things might get difficult at first that is because you have not sharpen you skill on relating with female but with time and practice you go improve. Secondly, you have start to exhibit some anti-social attitude which is as a result of low self-esteem, see bro even if later on you start to behave manly you will still notice you are way back when it comes to socializing,Bro girly behavior is not only your problem now but have you seen someone that is a sissy of behave girly? If yes do you see any behavior that resemble yours and if no then your case might be a little different but trying to be like a boy without know why you behave like a girl and situation you behave like a girl would not erase the girly behavior. So from now on the attentive at which situation you behave like one. Lastly, I suspect that you have been buying to many cheap talk from people and you are filled with so many silly comment from your friends. Trust me, some friends are calling you whatever they feel like simple because they heard it from someone and not from their own judgment. From now on when someone says something about your girly character try interrogate them and if each time they don't come up with solution or good explanations, start ignoring or shunning them when next they try to do so(there are exceptional cases though). Now remember I haven't told you why a boy might behave like a girl. By the way I am a human psychologist(per time one though)and that does not mean my contribution fit your situation. I really don't know you in person. So my advice is perfect for my mind model and experiences I have had. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 7:23pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Are you really really sure you're straight?? Just kidding lol |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by imbless: 7:27pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
do u have any intimate relationship with dickks? if u don't then u are normal, but if u do , mehn I pity ur asssholee |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by omocalabar(m): 7:28pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Pls just be ur self ..do what u want to do and feel good about yourself...u only have one life to live |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 7:29pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
JESUSBOIY:Guy don't condemn yourself u are a man stop pleasing people,instead of u to think about making money at younger age,u are here seeking advice on appearance that don't last,get money get flex,buy good things of life and see how people flocks around u. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by leonard002(m): 7:37pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Medically, you're probably suffering from low levels of testosterone. Go to a specialist hospital and meet an endocrinologist |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by tonyimadu: 7:48pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Guy you need to change your whole outlook of life. You have to transform mentally and physically. First physically: build muscles, exercise, life weight. I recommend you enrole for martial arts and self defence so no one would bully you again This would give you a bolder and more serious look Then mentally; First research. Go online to find out about guys like you, what did they do to overcome their fears. Read books. develop your relents. Girls would notice the changes. guys would start to respect. Don't force it give it time. You would be fine |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by LoRdCaT(m): 7:50pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
olisehcom:Blessing |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by stilldoingokay(f): 7:56pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor:okay, just want to ask, how do you know if your hormone is imbalance. as a woman, cause am having unwanted hair, which am very sure nobody in my family has it, and I was told is, hormonal imbalance. thanks |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by harriet412(f): 8:01pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Oxster:Hehehe,don't mind them Ur cute like dat.. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by olisehcom(f): 8:05pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
LoRdCaT: You know me,do I know you? |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 8:07pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
JESUSBOIY: Join a gym and start working out. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Oxster(m): 8:11pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
harriet412: Thanks bae Lol..i can't change my self that y I normally wear long sleeve shirt |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by lawjjj: 8:11pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
JESUSBOIY:I am psychologist i can help, it is both cognitive and development problem, first love ursef more, let the closest pple around u knw u better, never hide, expres ursef freely in public...there is more send me msg...u also need terestorone boost |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by harriet412(f): 8:12pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
jamariwolf: madam calm down |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by jaychubi: 8:13pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
JESUSBOIY: U r a gay bastard |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by mrbionic: 8:16pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
@ op. I hardly comment on this forum, but you story got me reall good. Your story seems as if you wrote an autobiography of me. I will give u a practical advice. Hit the gym. Start doing exercises like never before; jogging, playing football, gyming etc. Bro I was a weakly before but a friend introduced me to exercise since then my life has never been the same, am now ladies man, well built guy admired by all, extrovert, social, bold and so on. Bro once more all u need to do is to work on your health by exercising and doing physically demanding chores. You are simply a weakly now cause u muscles and bones have not been worked on for long. Within 6months u will get the positive result and your life will turn around forever. Good luck to you bro. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by inereunwa1(m): 8:18pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
JESUSBOIY:first of all you claimed you are not religious but your monicker says otherwise now you are telling us that you are a BOY but behave like a GIRL so how do we now believe what you are saying is true |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by womenshealth(f): 8:20pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Search online for natural testosterone supplement or booster. You testosterone level may be low. Even there are certain ways a man should be physically, because of differences in both male and female hormones, i do not really think there is anything to worry about. You can continue boosting your hormone level with the supplements and exercises by building your muscles and physique. You need to be aware of your environment and the people around you what they feel and believe about you doesn't matter, do not let them weigh you down psychologically. Be positive about yourself and be comfortable with who you are. Good luck. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by tizzdi(m): 8:27pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
how do u knw u r straight |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 8:32pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Did @Op just say he can't play football?! Well hello there,NANCY! I might be able to help you there though: First thing,next saturday,look for the nearest street soccer game and join up. I'll advise you to join the last set,which from my of years of experience as a street football player is usually the worst set,and beg them to "help" them play "backman". From then on watch the other 'masculine' players and see how they play. After 6 attempts,come back and thank me. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Did @Op just say he can't play football?! Well hello there,NANCY! I might be able to help you there though: First thing,next saturday,look for the nearest street soccer game and join up. I'll advise you to join the last set,which from my years of experience as a street football player is usually the worst set,and beg them to "help" them play "backman". From then on watch the other 'masculine' players and see how they play. After 6 attempts,come back and thank me. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Nobody: 8:35pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
Oxster:pm that lady immediately, she is showing you green light. Don't dull ! |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by kokomilala(m): 8:41pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
You're simply effeminate! Stay in front of the mirror every morning and bellow :I am a man!!! 7 times. |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by NJPot(m): 8:52pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
JESUSBOIY: You talk like a typical Nigerian homosexual. They swear that they are not gay and bla bla bla. Stop trying to swear or proof or convince people that you are not gay. Every human being has a homosexual tendency. Those who deny this are those battling with this secret and trying so hard to prove to the world that they are straight. And I can categorically prove to you that majority of those males who call you gay because of your feminine look are sexually attracted to you. It is the homosexualism in them that made them think you are gay. My advice to you is to concentrate on your education and be a successful person in the society. Forget about girls and stupid advice from people who say you should start visiting ashawo. You owe no one any explanation about your sexuality. If you like afro, barb afro. It is no body's business. If you have pink clothes you like, wear them. I don't understand the relationship between colour and sexuality. Live your life and stop minding what people say. Only thing you should strive for is to be a successful person. Pursue money. I mean clean money. When you become rich, all other things shall be added unto you. But don't forget God. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by rajiraymond(m): 8:57pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)...... My good brother. I would have given you my candid advice but it has to do with belief and since you are not a believer, you will hardly believe it. In that case, I wish you good luck!! |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by OluwabuqqyYOLO(m): 8:58pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
And to think that this is a part of your Profile says a lot: Personal text: Jesusboiy---> ladies man |
Re: Please Help, I Am A Man But, I Behave Feminine! by Finstar: 9:01pm On Dec 24, 2017 |
jamariwolf:Look at this saddist, so you're here again to ruin another boy abi? Better go meet your gay friends and leave this innocent boy alone.. So you haven't change your gender to M? I'm coming for you.. She-male Imp. Just wait! |
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