I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

Your own no be first naa,so no big deal.

Prettythicksmee:
Your own no be first naa,so no big deal.

i don't understand ma?

I'm not gonn ask you to pray because i don't know if it's inherent

People must always have something to say though but i think you should try and do less of what girls do

If you walk like a girl..talk like a girl...sit like a girl..then i think you have to make all efforts to stop it
Hit the gym too....Very necessary

You are what you believe you are, people on nairaland will only comment whatever they feel is right to them and that is what your friends and peers are just doing, they just say whatever they feel they see... In the end, it is you that have to make the decision, are you feminine or masculine because no matter what people say, it is the decision you make that matters.

So how can I look more masculine?

You said you wanted to look more masculine and you don't have enough physical strength, in other words, you don't exercise daily and you don't take your health seriously. If you are really serious about looking more masculine then I suggest you hit the gym and get those muscles and six packs working. Workout your muscles, get a six pack and you will feel more confident about yourself, you will also be surprised of how girls will flock around you.

It seems you don't have a beard, but don't worry a good hairstyle and your toned body should make your look more masculine.

Stay healthy, Stay Wise

cc: JESUSBOIY

MhizzAJ:
Na wa oo

I don't mean to be prying, but can't you comment something really helpful?

Imagine you are in a tight situation and you need answers and someone just said na wa and left you hanging. how would you feel?

Go and sin no more,if it really painx u dat u behave like a sissy then u shouldn't b here whining bout it,u should be on Yuh own working hard towards changing it n praying 4strength cos u wld nid it...

MhizzAJ:
I'm not gonn ask you to pray because i don't know if it's inherent

People must always have something to say though but i think you should try and do less of what girls do

If you walk like a girl..talk like a girl...sit like a girl..then i think you have to make all efforts to stop it
Hit the gym too....Very necessary

There is no need for prayer na,he is not sick.

That's how he is born,his body does not produce enough testosterone,there are many boys like that so if he can learn how to use it to his advantage,good for him but don't make him feel like as if there is something wrong with him.

Go and meet bobrisky for help.

Bobrisky is puttin in extra effort to look and act the way you do naturally. But here u are, 'blessed' beyond measures with these gifts in quantum, and u are complaining. Indeed it is said that those with shoes do not know how to wear dem, and those who knw how to wear, do not have shoes... I think u need to visit bobrisky for coaching on how to use ur #Godgiventalent#

FitnessDoctor:


I don't mean to be prying, but can't you comment something really helpful?

Imagine you are in a tight situation and you need answers and someone just said na wa and left you hanging. how would you feel?

Oga sharrap!
Wetin u sef see comment?

consultancy:
Bobrisky is puttin in extra effort to look and act the way you do naturally. But here u are, 'blessed' beyond measures with these gifts in quantum, and u are complaining. Indeed it is said that those with shoes do not know how to wear dem, and those who knw how to wear, do not have shoes... I think u need to visit bobrisky for coaching on how to use ur #Godgiventalent#

thanks

MhizzAJ:
I'm not gonn ask you to pray because i don't know if it's inherent

People must always have something to say though but i think you should try and do less of what girls do

If you walk like a girl..talk like a girl...sit like a girl..then i think you have to make all efforts to stop it
Hit the gym too....Very necessary

what if he also gym like a girl nko?

hmmmmm....wait a min let IFA priest tell us y u are like that.........

I have seen a lot of guys like that who are not gay but behave like ladies ..the way they talk, the way they walk and so on...I don't think u have anything to fear..don't let ur peer's behaviours frustrate u.....if u believe in ursef u will overcome this ...keep believing bro.

Yo... You don't need no one's opinion to affirm you are a guy!

Just that your traits are often stereotyped as gay. Still you are not irredeemable.

You have to believe and accept yourself first. It's a mind thing. After you've conquered your convictions, give no hoot about what anyone thinks of you.

Use your spare time to do what you love or learn a skill (very important) be it fashion designing, coding, graphic design, web design, reading and writing, light work outs , etc.

See eehn when you make money so many things will fall in place. All those girls you wanna have will start finding you naturally attractive.

Believe!

ure losing confidence in urself..be you..have the paper and the ladies will come both the lovers and gold diggers


germainediva why u still up

JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

My guy. Listen to me very carefully, a man is one st heart. Though there are traits generally said to be manly, but none of them categorically defines a man.

A man is what you are. Your external body posture or movement doesn't mean you are less a man. No.

To help you more, go to wikihow and read some articles on what defines a man. You can also log in to jw.org to read some articles about body appearance.

Start FUCKING and the fuckin Characters will fuckling Bleep OFF
















WOMEN OHHH,,NOT MALE BIKO

you have to be honest with your own damn self, and answer the following question....
- are you attracted to women?
- no really, are you attracted to women?

if the answer is yes, then i am sorry to say that you are just a transgender man

I feel ur pains boy,just hit the gym

You are not the first, I know this particular one that has a female voice .

Hit the gym to get muscular and accept your self the way you see it.

You can also grow beard or dreadlocks.

Just that u dont know who u are, and u have been living in denia all this while, bro embrace the truth, u are a member of LGBt, and thats the facts, welcum to the rainbow family

JESUSBOIY:
I am a guy in my early 20s, a student.
Since my childhood, i have always had complains that i behave and act like a female. I can't jog,run or play soccer cos my friends will make fun of me and say i run like a girl.

i am quite shy/timid too and and i have long discovered that i don't have much physical strength, people have bullied me because of this.


Girls don't take me serious. Cos i don't possess a manly persona so i have never really been in their good books.

Please this is coming from a bleeding heart , I have tried as much as possible to be manly but, its like trying to grow tall overnight. I am tired of my family asking if i am gay. I stay mostly indoors, and i can't even hang out with my peers because of embarrassment.


I am not a believer, so don't tell me to pray. I am only pouring my heart out, i need help(advice)......

note: i am a straight guy!

Are you sure you're straight??, ever thought of being gay? forget the criticism






Just Kidding

MrBrownJay1:
you have to be honest with your own damn self, and answer the following question....
- are you attracted to women?
- no really, are you attracted to women?

if the answer is yes, then i am sorry to say that you are just a transgender man

ofcourse am attracted to women and i watch straight porn, if you see the folders in my laptop, you will believe.

Tho my effort to hook up with ladies i like has been futile, i have always had sexual fantasies about them. I swear i am straight

olisehcom:



Are you sure you're straight??, ever thought of being gay? forget the criticism






Just Kidding

i have never thought about that before ooo, i am NOT gay


btw, you are pretty and i like your boobs.

Nay! U Cant Be A Gay. Bobrisky Is Giving Us A Strong Headache Why Do U Wanna Add Anoda?
This Got Nufin To Do With Prayers.
Get To Gym N Have More Adrenaline.
Get A Female Bleeping Mate.
Hang Out With Ur Guys N Take Their Negative Comment As A Complement.
You Are A True Guy N Nt A She-male.

Bro abeg no hit any gym,,,

All ds niqqas telling u,,hit gym hit gym no mind them

Like them Wey gt muscle pass Wiz khalifa

Me,,am slim but it doesn't matter,,what matters is your behaviour,even those with muscles don't try to get my way cos m HoT and I dont tolerate any kind of shit!

If your friends wanna insult you,like de way they do,,,enter inside them,, scold at Dem in Cult/gangster way

That's the only tin I do to protect myself from insult cos of my slimness ,,till now @lot tink am a cultist but am not cos of my gingering

Don't 4gt to start fucking gals like mad,Share de experience and evidence with those pals of yours,,trust me....

Stop your porn watching,If you ain't too religious,start going to brothel and drink,Watch naked ND Semi Naked Gals,if you think you wanna pick one,you pick or DON'T PICK...But try to visit there since you said you find it hard to DO or attract Woman

Also try to get a club,know few histories and things about the club,DON'T HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM OR FEEL INFERIOR

THEY GONNA START RESPECTING YOU

COME AND THANK ME LATER DUDE

McBrooklyn:
gay!!

this is exactly why i don't talk to my people about this.

Look, i have started barbing skull, because an uncle of mind said that only gay people keep afro.

I am now careful about the colours of cloth i wear, cos some one said pink and yellow etc are for homosexuals .

When i walk or run, i try to raise my shoulders up to look more manly.

Its frustrating that i am trying hard to behave and act most of the things that comes to men naturally .

I can't walk infront of guys cos they will make fun, i can't even sweep or wash cloths around them cos of their mockery.

But please am straight, i am sexually attracted to only women. Thanks lalasticlala

JESUSBOIY:
this is exactly why i don't talk to my people about this.

Look, i have started barbing skull, because an uncle of mind said that only gay people keep afro.

I am now careful about the colours of cloth i wear, cos some one said pink and yellow etc are for homosexuals .

When i walk or run, i try to raise my shoulders up to look more manly.

Its frustrating that i am trying hard to behave and act most of the things that comes to men naturally .

I can't walk infront of guys cos they will make fun, i can't even sweep or wash cloths around them cos of their mockery.

But please am straight, i am sexually attracted to only women. Thanks lalasticlala

Chk my advice dude it will help u