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When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 1:02pm On Dec 30, 2017
All over the world,we have billions of ladies who are beautiful,single and ready to mingle yet it is quite baffling how difficult it is for a guy to easily find that lady that has what he desires in terms of physical beauty which is a paramount factor for men considering the fact that we are visual in nature meaning "whatever pleases our eyes will inadvertently please our minds"

In my school of thought,I believe a man has no excuse for settling with a lady that does not match his desire in terms of outward beauty.

Regardless of the fact that men with beautiful wives still cheat,i have seen guys cheat on their wives because according to them,their wives don't have the type of exterior dimension that matches their sexual desire so the question is "why marry a lady you are not physically or sexually attracted to

If you want a boorilicious lady or a busty lady,slim,big,fair,dark then why go for the opposite just to start living your matrimonial sexual life in perpetual fantasy of being with another lady?

Inasmuch as ladies have the right to be choosy too,in most part of the world it's saddening that cultural restraints do not afford them the freedom to walk up to a guy they want to ask him out.


But as a man I believe it is OK to be picky so that you can be with a lady you truly desire because there is nothing as sexually gratifying than getting turned on when you look at your wife.

Yes we know we can't always have all we want but at least we should be able to get something very close and we also know that b**bs sag and curves usually fade but I believe it still makes sense spending our early marital life with a woman that has the sexual features we desire.

I don't know if this makes sense.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Shayneward1: 1:08pm On Dec 30, 2017
Sometimes the bootilicious lady that you desire or lust for is an asshole in other aspects of life.

So you marry the decent but no so outwardly gifted individual and continue to knack the bootilicious lady

Win-win.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 1:09pm On Dec 30, 2017
O boy God go help us o. You fit get educated queens-english speaking girl as gf and she no go get booobs and butts. You fit come see d one weh get weh no dey enlightened at all...

I see busty and yanshy pepper sellers on d market near my street but how person go come go propose to such a person?

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 1:09pm On Dec 30, 2017
A banging body doesn't keep a man. Ask Jennifer Lopez, ask Beyonce. grin

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 1:10pm On Dec 30, 2017
Shayneward1:
Sometimes the bootilicious lady that you desire or lust for is an asshole in other aspects of life.

So you marry the decent but no so outwardly gifted individual and continue to knack the bootilicious lady

Win-win.

And this is exactly why cheating can never stop in anyway cos everyone wants to have their cake after eating it

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by RoyalBlak007: 1:11pm On Dec 30, 2017
Variety

is the ♡♡☆♡☆ ♡☆ ☆♡☆♡

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 1:14pm On Dec 30, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
O boy God go help us o. You fit get educated queens-english speaking girl as gf and she no go get booobs and butts. You fit come see d one weh get weh no dey enlightened at all...

I see busty and yanshy pepper sellers on d market of my street but how person go come go propose to such a person?

Honestly the thing tire me...

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by XavierBlue(m): 1:15pm On Dec 30, 2017
When The Desirable is Not Available, The Available Becomes Desirable! We are humans, we will always want to eat our cake and still have it..

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by DaddyKross: 1:16pm On Dec 30, 2017
Even me i don't know where the banana is
Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by torres89: 1:18pm On Dec 30, 2017
U can't have it all when it comes to a woman

Beauty without brains or no beauty with brains

Even if she's beautiful and as brains, something must still be lacking...

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 30, 2017
Toks2008:


Honestly the thing tire me...

I go come dey think am say "na just one man like me dey in charge of all these assets oh. What a lucky man"

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by coolestofall(m): 1:22pm On Dec 30, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
O boy God go help us o. You fit get educated queens-english speaking girl as gf and she no go get booobs and butts. You fit come see d one weh get weh no dey enlightened at all...

I see busty and yanshy pepper sellers on d market of my street but how person go come go propose to such a person?
I think say na only me notice am.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by ghostwritter(m): 1:23pm On Dec 30, 2017
Toks, I get ur point.
Most time, I wish God can just point out my wife to me. I don't want to marry another man's wife. Bad wife brings downfall.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 1:24pm On Dec 30, 2017
coolestofall:

I think say na only me notice am.
Lol. The thing get as e be.
Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Bibidear(f): 1:25pm On Dec 30, 2017
kimbraa:
A banging body doesn't keep a man. Ask Jennifer Lopez, ask Beyonce. grin
God bless u

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 1:26pm On Dec 30, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:

I go come dey think am say "na just one man like me dey in charge of all these assets oh. What a lucky man"

I went to visit a sister and I saw her maid ....I was like O.M.G yet I just commot face.It's just funny.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 1:28pm On Dec 30, 2017
Frankly there is no excuse for cheating. People cheat because they want to cheat.

Not all men prefer the sexy, figure eight type of ladies, We all have different appreciation/taste. Some might prefer skinny girls, others might prefer ladies with champagne bottle type of stature.

Either way, anyone looking for a spouse should always do away with a mistaken idea of perfection or the idea that anyone will/can fit into his/her own thought of perfection.

No one is perfect and we constantly have to compromise, otherwise the person will wait forever.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 1:29pm On Dec 30, 2017
Bibidear:

God bless u

We know all that but let no man deceive you ...everyman has a spec..AND EVERY LADY FITS INTO THE SPEC OF A GUY OUT THERE

So no matter the good brain or good manners,guys have a spec and if they marry a lady who is not their desired spec,they usually live in fantasy.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Bibidear(f): 1:31pm On Dec 30, 2017
Toks2008:


We know all that but let no man deceive you ...everyman has a spec..AND EVERY LADY FITS INTO THE SPEC OF A GUY OUT THERE

So no matter the good brain or good manners,guys have a spec and if they marry a lady who is not their desired spec,they usually live in fantasy.
those who dont have a banging body,who will marry them

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 30, 2017
Toks2008:


I went to visit a sister and I saw her maid ....I was like O.M.G yet I just commot face.It's just funny.
Yeah I can relate. I understand wella.

And its rare to see an enlightened babe with all d assets and good shape who's not taken or who's not proud..their yanga no be here.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 1:34pm On Dec 30, 2017
Mhen!!!! If only God didn’t create woman specially, I mean why give them assx that disturbs the peice in my boxer? If to say we all get flat yansh, believe you me, cheating for not be like this. Coz majority of we guys Dey follow big assx signals.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 1:35pm On Dec 30, 2017
kimbraa:
A banging body doesn't keep a man. Ask Jennifer Lopez, ask Beyonce. grin
Their husbands know d financial sufferings dat follows divorce. That's why
Bibidear:

God bless u

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 1:37pm On Dec 30, 2017
Bibidear:

those who dont have a banging body,who will marry them

No don't get it twisted...every lady is one man's dream....so there are always guys out there who will like a lady as she is.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Bibidear(f): 1:38pm On Dec 30, 2017
Toks2008:


No don't get it twisted...every lady is one man's dream....so there are always guys out there who will like a lady as she is.
so what if a lady says she wants a tall guy who has six packs and all that,what will u call her

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 1:39pm On Dec 30, 2017
stupidity:
Mhen!!!! If only God didn’t create woman specially, I mean why give them assx that disturbs the peice in my boxer? If to say we all get flat yansh, believe you me, cheating for not be like this. Coz majority of we guys Dey follow big assx signals.

But how come I prefer the front rather than the back? though I love a round backside but not the usual big ones guys love
Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 1:40pm On Dec 30, 2017
Bibidear:

so what if a lady says she wants a tall guy who has six packs and all that,what will u call her

Please read the write up again cos I addressed the issue.
Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by geesunge(m): 1:52pm On Dec 30, 2017
It's not possible to see a lady that has all the qualities an average man wants. Some ladies are beautiful and have good shapes, well educated and intelligent. But you get turned off when you engage them in a conversation for few minutes after realizing they lack good manners. I discovered many educated ladies are not always submissive. I feel, it's better one settles for a lady that has good characters. Though many ladies fake that when your level of commitment to the relationship is made known. They later reveal their true characters when they are finally hooked and married. Even if a lady is the most beautiful in the state, once she begins to frustrate the man, he gets tired and considers settling for an ugly lady that will give her peace of mind and respect her.
The fact is your woman's weakness is the strength of another man's wife. Therefore, make sure you always focus on your wife's strength.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by QuietHammer(m): 2:01pm On Dec 30, 2017
kimbraa:
A banging body doesn't keep a man. Ask Jennifer Lopez, ask Beyonce. grin
Neither does a "just there" body keep a man.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 2:02pm On Dec 30, 2017
lalasticlala I hope you are not too choosy.

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Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Nobody: 2:07pm On Dec 30, 2017
Toks2008 this fuel scarcity reach your side so?
Re: When A Guy Is Too Choosy. by Toks2008(m): 2:31pm On Dec 30, 2017
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Toks2008 this fuel scarcity reach your side so?

Where I am,they don't know what fuel scarcity means.

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