oyinda1599:

Damiiii...!!!

Happy new year

cococandy:

My point is that you no longer have a leg to stand on now. You’re just as bad or maybe worse than she is (if she hadn’t slept with the guy at all).

Does she know you’ve cheated too? Maybe she won’t be begging you if she knows.

fool can't u hear what he said or cuz u are a woman that why u are saying this abi who cheat first woman or na get problem

op my advice to you confirm the kids are really yours just let your wife be no need to bother your head over what you cannot control you have your kids already and hence forth start having protected sex with her ,please dont divorce the kids suffer it the most sometimes these things appear the way they should not appear nothing serious might be happening with time things will go back to normal and stop looking at your partners phone if you want to live long

morgan844:
i am not a poor man i already buit my house before i married her, the car she use i bought it with my money if she can not take the oat she will leave my hose as simple as that

you bought a car for her and she still cheat on you bro she must leave your house oh but pls be carful she may do evil to you be very carful

Marriage is for better or worse..
Stay in that marriage...


If na me i go do my own x10 and she will see it....I will tell her it is a colleague of mine also.....that I am also joking with her.....


Or maybe u are ugly that wen u have no choice

keepingmum:
She will take no oath. You think your house is heaven abi what?
You did not make her. You cannot make her. Your uncle is not the only employer in the country.
So because u paid her tuition you own her life?
Is it not ur mates that sponsor people to study abroad and even sponsor their weddings afterwards without asking for anything in return yet you and your arrogant cheating self entitled tiny dicck that cannot fit into a woman after 3kids is demanding what he isnt prepared to also swear to.
Let her leave, she has already found a man with a mandingo sized dicck that will fit into her vjayjay after multiple kids. A man that will buy her a home in her name. A man that will care for her every needs so she doesnt even have to work at all.
So abeg make the transition quick pls. Yeye man

fool is this what u have to say woman cant u see the guy is hurt and u are here saying his house is heaven u didn't make her they guy brought car for her if u didn't know I know ur types and try this S+=hit am going kill u that my promse you h-+oe foolish girl no home traning

darlenese:



if what u posted here is true then u are a boy , u sound too immature abeg . how old are you

cuz the guy cheat his is now a boy abi what about the girl she is now a woman abi

grafixdon:


Stop asking dumb questions! That doesn't justify her action.

@op divorce that woman now. I mean right away. Your children will survive. Take my advice seriously, if you don't send her packing, you'll die very young, and she'll continue f'king that useless guy.

Wife without dignity.

that was what I said the girl may kill him because of that guy the op better send her back to her father house

morgan844:
we have been together all these years it was only this year that i travelled if not for the kids i will not even think of her any more

So basically you've lost interest in her....
And you probably have an eye on someone over there...

So why are you hurting badly that she's flirting with someone else, at least someone that would think about her, since you don't anymore?

cutieme:
Adontcare here is my fbk contact,meet me up there Martin iyke,thanks

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KanwuliaExtra:

Poor you! You have a lot to learn about marriage. Stop living in a fantasy world. 2 people may ATTEMPT to become one. You can NEVER be ONE.
After you warned her? She means you should do your worst.
The “ex” is sweeeeter than you.

hahahahahagahaha the ex is sweeter than u funny but that the truth

morgan844:
i wanted her to feel the pain she caused me i have already pull down the picture. i never knew she will cry like a baby

You sound so childish and after making her cry what next? just get ready for the worst.

Mr Morgan, you should please read "the rational male" by Rollo tomassi, the answer to what's happening to you now is all written in it. I have a soft copy if getting will be an issue. good luck

I tried to read the comments and had resisted commenting but with this your post, I need to comment.

1) Women's needs are NOT limited to material things.Your wife's emotional and sexual needs can NOT be met by money or material things.

2) Its very difficult for a married woman who is already used to male companionship and sex to suddenly stop enjoying these, especially for up to 9months (March-December).

3) Your absence for 9months, most probably is forcing her to look outside to meet her emotional and eventually sexual needs.


My recommendations

1) Forgive and forget; your wife is a good woman who only fell into temptation but she still respects you by crying and begging you (accept the apology fast before she gets 'into town')...modern, younger girls will never do such.

2) Do away with your side-chick, she will ruin your home by seduction and encourage you to divorce your wife but she CAN NEVER be like your wife.

3) Try to return home as soon as possible and reunite with your wife or let your wife join you.

4) Every marriage (especially in Nigeria) undergoes similar strain, divorce is NOT a better alternative.

morgan844:
i am not a poor man i already buit my house before i married her, the car she use i bought it with my money if she can not take the oat she will leave my hose as simple as that

I tried to read the comments and had resisted commenting but with this your post, I need to comment.

1) Women's needs are NOT limited to material things.Your wife's emotional and sexual needs can NOT be met by money or material things.

2) Its very difficult for s married woman who is already used to male companionship and sex to suddenly stop enjoying these, especially for up to 9months (March-December).

3) Your absence for 9months, most probably is forcing her to look outside to meet her emotional and eventually sexual needs.


My recommendations

1) Forgive and forget; your wife is a good who only fell into temptation but she still respect you by crying and begging you (accept the apology fast before she gets 'into town')...modern, younger girls will never do such.

2) Do away with your side-chick, she will ruin your home by seduction and encourage you to divorce your wife but she CAN NEVER be like your wife.

3) Try to return home as soon as possible and reunite with your wife or let your wife join you.

4) Every marriage (especially in Nigeria) undergoes similar strain, divorce is NOT a better alternative.

morgan844:
i am not a poor man i already buit my house before i married her, the car she use i bought it with my money if she can not take the oat she will leave my hose as simple as that

dordor4:
It is better to divorce her now to avoid story that touches the heart. Asin, domestic violence.

is this coming from a girl wow that nice you are the only girl who reason well in this forum pls I will to know u

mickeymimi:
It seems there are 3 of you in the relationship...........shes probably lonely and beginning to loose interest in you......she might be enjoying the attention from the other guy ...and NOT ......necessarily seeing him yet .....u wld be amazed at the number of married people pretending
to be single ......chatting with singles online.....to have a private date with them..


Is it possible for your family to move to Lagos with you ... If possible get a small apartment to start with ......for the sake of the children .
When she start seeing u everyday ... she will soon loose interest in the other guys she always chatting with.

people still have children without been married so get ur fact right

salmonkas178:
Are you for real? May God help us Person go marry no go get rest of mind again.. Me na baby mama things ooo...I no fit come give myself hypertension

na he sure pass brother

Wow so many advices.. Well I agree with few.. Dnt divorce ur wife.. I might not knw the full truth to judge properly.. But if there is a way u can plan it to invite both ur wife and the mad nd ask them wetin dey happen.

Hmm,bros dont b offended ooo, are you sure those kids are truly urs.

You went to hustle and your wife went cheating with another man and still trying to let you know she is smarter than you by lying.Lol.A lot of women become fickle minded and behave like whores when they see money.You don't know that man's medical history .She can easily get HIV from him,ruin all your lifetime struggles to become a man and render your children orphans because in their shallow mindedness to satisfy their selfish desire they don't think about anything else.Once a woman cheats and starts lying thinking she can outsmart you,she is no longer thinking of her family, be careful brother Protect your self from such a cheating person before you loose your life.I hardly advice people in the romance section but your story touched me

Fkforyou:


Damiiii...!!!

Happy new year

happy new year....may God grant u ur heart desires

Dyt:
OK both of you are cheating


I am.waiting for insults landing on the woman leaving the cheating man behind

A cheating man is no excuse for a woman to cheat. Take it or leave it, a Man is polygamous by nature. A woman that attempts polygamy, either legally or otherwise is a prostitute and shameless.

Mznaett:



Who calms himself down by hooking up with another woman? well, that's a question for another day.

Having a frivolous sex to calm yourself down is a fleeting phase... at the end, you'll be face with reality.

The way you handle a cheat can help you heal and recover...

Everyone deserves to be happy and healthy in their relationship.
I know the trust is no longer there, but I think it's left for both of you to reestablished it or not... although, it'll take time, communicate with each other. And if it's not working, don't force it to continue. End it...

A cheating man is no excuse for a woman to cheat. Take it or leave it, a Man is polygamous by nature. A woman that attempts polygamy, either legally or otherwise is a prostitute and shameless.

cococandy:
Was she actually sleeping with the guy or were they just chatting inappropriately?

While you have made the situation significantly worse by sleeping with someone else. What’s your complaint again?

A cheating man is no excuse for a woman to cheat. Take it or leave it, a Man is polygamous by nature. A woman that attempts polygamy, either legally or otherwise is a prostitute and shameless.

cococandy:

My point is that you no longer have a leg to stand on now. You’re just as bad or maybe worse than she is (if she hadn’t slept with the guy at all).

Does she know you’ve cheated too? Maybe she won’t be begging you if she knows.

A cheating man is no excuse for a woman to cheat. Take it or leave it, a Man is polygamous by nature. A woman that attempts polygamy, either legally or otherwise is a prostitute and shameless.

Newboss:
If you are reasonable, you will know that you don't need to be married to have kids! No, I am not in this world as a result of marriage, but as a result of sex!

Come on, how is that hard to get? There's no one in this world as a result of marriage!

leave that kid he those not know anything

oyinda1599:
happy new year....may God grant u ur heart desires

Amen, and you too

May we both find love....

Fkforyou:


Amen, and you too

May we both find love....

hmmm...like u read my mind,I need love in this year 2018 oooo.

Oyinda1599,hit me up I got stuff for yah!

divorce her ASAP!