morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Dyt:





Its OK for a man to cheat

krushdripper:
Gerrout you! gender bias nitwit, you have brain problem in understanding written narrations and for a couple other things i'm sure. mention me again if you want to die soon.

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Guyoo:
This is really a messy situation but it is not beyond redemption. Honestly bro this is not the right place to seek solution for your problem unless you just want to call her out here and shame her.

It requires wisdom and patience to handle things like things, unfortunately marriage this days lack the vital ingredient of success which is communication, if their is good communication between a husband and wife, the marriage will blossom with trust and love.

My advice. Step 1
1..Take this off Nairaland ( You don't take your marriage to the public, especially to unmarried men or women)
2..Call your wife and have serious heart to heart conversation to let her know how hurt you are (also stop your escapade with another woman, two wrongs don't make right)...
3. Both of you should seek marriage counseling
Step 2.....That depends on the outcome of step1

Oyindidi:
Just listen to yourself! From your story, your wife only chat with her ex inappropriately. You on the other hand is cheating on her but you are trying to justify it. You starved this woman of attention and she's getting it from her ex. Go and work on yourself.

Imagine his lame excuse

diuloaku:





trash!!!! No be mama born you abi you fall from sky?? why say marriage is a scam when you actually are in this world as a result of the scam? your opinion is baseless!!

morgan844:
i wanted her to feel the pain she caused me i have already pull down the picture. i never knew she will cry like a baby

anpipac:
CONFRONT THE MAN. WARNING HIM SERIOUSLY. IF POSSIBLE PLACE A CURSE ON HIM. SIMPLE. DNT DIVORCE YOUR WIFE. SHE IS JUST A STUPID FOOL.

morgan844:
i did not have a side chick i was angry then i hook up to one of those runs girls. as i am talking to you now she will take the oat and me will also take the oat I want to leave a decent life one
man one wife

1nigeriamyfoot:

starved her of attention while working in the foreign for the betterment of their family? remember that the woman started it first.

Oyindidi:
The story is one sided and he said he slept with a runs girl. It may not be what you're thinking

morgan844:
i wanted her to feel the pain she caused me i have already pull down the picture. i never knew she will cry like a baby

keepingmum:
She will take no oath. You think your house is heaven abi what?
You did not make her. You cannot make her. Your uncle is not the only employer in the country.
So because u paid her tuition you own her life?
Is it not ur mates that sponsor people to study abroad and even sponsor their weddings afterwards without asking for anything in return yet you and your arrogant cheating self entitled tiny dicck that cannot fit into a woman after 3kids is demanding what he isnt prepared to also swear to.
Let her leave, she has already found a man with a mandingo sized dicck that will fit into her vjayjay after multiple kids. A man that will buy her a home in her name. A man that will care for her every needs so she doesnt even have to work at all.
So abeg make the transition quick pls. Yeye man

J0hnTrevolt:
@morgan844 u r very childish, infantile and very stupiid. U r not yet matured for marriage.
I'm amazed a kid like u could open ur Wife's leg and harvest 3 kids of 2,4 and 6 and still act like one of ur kids.
U r a shame and disgrace.
Continue living in ur fool's paradise.





Who believes this concocted bullshiiit? Nobody.
Just engage the fool in his folly

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

junnyjake:
That's sad Bro.

She needs to know how bad her actions are hurting you.

If nothing changes, let me know. I'd assist you in teaching that Ex a lesson, nobody would tell him to not only lose her number but change his sim card and cut off every form of communication.

Sometimes, violence is the only way.

Cheers!

Newboss:
Why do these people still get involved in this scam called marriage?

You get married to her to tie her down legally, ba?

Funny people!

The heart wonders to where it pleases, my people!

Use your heads people! Some even send their people to get a wife for them. After getting the wife for you the way you get Condom from a Pharmacy, what's the sense in it when you start living like cat and dogs for the rest of your lives hoping for either a divorce or the death of your spouse in order to be free.

Come on, you could have kept your freedom and still live your life to the fullest while having him or her as a companion and mother or father of your kids.

If you think about marriage critically, you will see that there is no use. 5 years into marriage, it's well known that most couples hardly have regular sex. Why? Basic psychology!

But those 2 could have been dating for 15 years and having the best of moments. No, it's not about the right person! We've seen this stuff play out again and again.

Most are married and lonely and can't even divorce because that's not enough ground for divorce! You are practically messed up because there's no more love in the bucket! But you could have taken a walk away if that were to occur in a relationship.

Just separate from her and file for divorce before she poison you and elope with her love bird.

Dyt:
OK both of you are cheating


I am.waiting for insults landing on the woman leaving the cheating man behind

cococandy:
Was she actually sleeping with the guy or were they just chatting inappropriately?

While you have made the situation significantly worse by sleeping with someone else. What’s your complaint again?

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Seahawk:
You and your friend are disgusting prigs

Fkforyou:
What manner of fvckery is this?

And you come here to moan about it?

What tha hell do you want us to do? Beg her on your behalf?

I wish I could slap you right now.

morgan844:
i like to take revenge that was why i sleep with some one else and posted it on facebook. she is crying now and begging I plan to make her take out that she will not cheat again. but if she accept we will come back and i will love her but if she say no then i have no option than to continue with other women and not look in her direction

tomdon:



What is cheating??

Mine is the other way around

morgan844:
i am not a poor man i already buit my house before i married her, the car she use i bought it with my money if she can not take the oat she will leave my hose as simple as that

adontcare:
most reasonable so far