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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 7:25pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
See epistle
What an epistle!grin
I did not say it was her reason's for cheating oo Remember!
But it those are the reason's that lead majority (women) to cheat!

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jan 07, 2018
Martin0:



See that girl is saying or suggesting some good for you!

You have to take her to your place for now and let her be at you watch talk to her and hear her reason's!

I am a man and my ex cheated on me but it was never never a problem!

That lady might just committ suicide!
She needs some kind of care right now,I mean mental care!

Call her,take her out or invite her infact don't invite her coz she might be scared! Meet her or talk to her...

I know what am saying oo!
Any normal and well matured human's should understand my point!

For the fact that someone cheat doesn't mean u can forgive them!

It possible she might change and it also possible it might continue! 50 50!
See guy this is just not about cheating but the gross disrespect and disregard. As in she received from my brother and still went ahead to receive from another guy still on that same day! That you are happy being cuckold doesn't mean others will.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 7:28pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
See guy this is just not about cheating but the gross disrespect and disregard. As in she received from my brother and still went ahead to receive from another guy still on that same day! That you are happy being cuckold doesn't mean others will.

Sorry if I may ask?

I doubt you will move on if it was you!

You human's fail to look out on positives and negative instead it alway's one sided!

See if I had done like you advice my ex would have committed suicide!

U ladies are not alway's straight forward I don't know why!

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Okoyeeboz: 7:30pm On Jan 07, 2018
biacan:
Carry her to your place permanently nah she will agree to that.... please don't let her enemies laugh at her now biko be a man she will change.....you don't know her story

cry
biacan:
You can't do this to her not at this point of time biko nna you know how important wedding is and you can't let this opportunity pass her by listen to her cries biko wisdomguy4u embarassed embarassed embarassed

May your brothers, your sons and all the male members of your family marry a lady like the OP's cheating girlfriend.

Hungry hoes everywhere.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 07, 2018
She wasn't meant to be your wife. See it that way, and move on.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by kenex4ever(m): 7:44pm On Jan 07, 2018
Oyenike01:
nawa o, I am so disappointed...
me too

So painful
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jan 07, 2018
Greatzeus:
She didn't love you period!! That other guy might be broke,but she loves him. Despite the fact that she hasn't seen you in months,yet you called her to meet you somewhere,she gave excuse,you went to her house,pick her up, lodge her in a hotel,yet she couldn't wait to leave,c'mon guys be wise now. It's obvious,she didn't love you,she just want a financially stable man to get married to.
You're right.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by kenex4ever(m): 7:51pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
never mind. Everyone is not as sensible as they ought to be.
some girls think they have sense to detect lies and they end up proving the the "hasty generalization" that "girls have fish brain" right

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:57pm On Jan 07, 2018
Martin0:


Mr man! If I ask you my question will u be able to answer?
. Master boy! go ahead with your question.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by udysweet(f): 8:02pm On Jan 07, 2018
This is really sad to read. The lady sef what sort of risk is that? She's wrong in all shades
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by jobonnairaland: 8:10pm On Jan 07, 2018
biacan:
No it's not like that I mean if you're having infidelity issues with her you should take her there cause she's a change woman she have learned her lesson trust me on this she will be forever submissive to you than before...... biko nna give a listening ear biko ehweyniwe nna biko orzugo
LOL! Are you related to this young lady? Is she a member of your family?

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 8:10pm On Jan 07, 2018
JONNYSPUTE:
. Master boy! go ahead with your question.


How old are you?

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by ProveT: 8:18pm On Jan 07, 2018
biacan:
Carry her to your place permanently nah she will agree to that.... please don't let her enemies laugh at her now biko be a man she will change.....you don't know her story
Whores of same feather beg for eachother.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:19pm On Jan 07, 2018
Martin0:



How old are you?
. Funny. This question should be addressed to you.If ladies here can condemn the act perpetrated by their fellow lady and ask the guy to thank his God for exposing her and move on with his life,you think you are the only sensible person in all this thread to spew trash. Ope you saw the person,a lady for that matter that called ur post epistle? Mr nice guy.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jan 07, 2018
kenex4ever:
some girls think they have sense to detect lies and they end up proving the the "hasty generalization" that "girls have fish brain" right
Baba swerve. Don't just jump into one's mention without assimilating first.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by kenex4ever(m): 8:23pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Baba swerve. Don't just jump into one's mention without assimilating first.
shift make I see road

Miss Thomas

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.


If she had cheated on you with a richer man we would say she did it for the money, she cheated on you with someome who couldn't afford a hotel.

Women!! You can't just understand them. One thing I know is never trust a woman fully, always be observant. Even if she is a prayer warrior in the church.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:25pm On Jan 07, 2018
ProveT:
Whores of same feather beg for eachother.
. Bros abeg where did you get this your quote? Hahahahah. Funny

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 8:25pm On Jan 07, 2018
JONNYSPUTE:
. Funny. This question should be addressed to you.If ladies here can condemn the act perpetrated by their fellow lady and ask the guy to thank his God for exposing her and move on with his life,you think you are the only sensible person in all this thread to spew trash. Ope you saw the person,a lady for that matter that called ur post epistle? Mr nice guy.


This is actually very simple to answer!

Chai a very very simple and easy question!

I asked before asking! Yet I got not even a good reply that qualifies you answerd my question!


#walahoha#
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by menwongo(m): 8:26pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This op think we are kids! So many unbelievable holes in this story
Like calling his girlfriend to inform her of the traffic congestion which will result for him to go back to the hotel



Abi them do d communicate?
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 07, 2018
Martin0:


Sorry if I may ask?

I doubt you will move on if it was you!

You human's fail to look out on positives and negative instead it alway's one sided!

See if I had done like you advice my ex would have committed suicide!

U ladies are not alway's straight forward I don't know why!
Martin you know best. I can't view reality from your window.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by jobonnairaland: 8:28pm On Jan 07, 2018
JONNYSPUTE:
. Funny. This question should be addressed to you.If ladies here can condemn the act perpetrated by their fellow lady and ask the guy to thank his God for exposing her and move on with his life,you think you are the only sensible person in all this thread to spew trash. Ope you saw the person,a lady for that matter that called ur post epistle? Mr nice guy.
LOL! The lady in context is deceptive and also a cheater.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jan 07, 2018
menwongo:

Like calling his girlfriend to inform her of the traffic congestion which will result for him to go back to the hotel



Abi them do d communicate?
The girl asking him to keep the key and later bringing another guy. I can't imagine.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jan 07, 2018
kenex4ever:
shift make I see road

Miss Thomas
Mr Brainiac. Pls swerve.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:31pm On Jan 07, 2018
jobonnairaland:
LOL! The lady in context is deceptive and also a cheater.
. No I think she was just been sarcastic.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Allwility: 8:32pm On Jan 07, 2018
edimolu:
lalasticlala, dominique, rocktation, mynd44!

could you please allow this thread grace FP!
Why should they? Go through the OPs topics and see how he makes up these kind of stories that touch. He sure has a very vivid imagination.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by jobonnairaland: 8:33pm On Jan 07, 2018
JONNYSPUTE:
. No I think she was just been sarcastic.
You think? LOL.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Martin0(m): 8:35pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Martin you know best. I can't view reality from your window.

Now you are making sense! Good opinion/expression!
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by edimolu(m): 8:41pm On Jan 07, 2018
Allwility:

Why should they? Go through the OPs topics and see how he makes up these kind of stories that touch. He sure has a very vivid imagination.
hmmmm...i just checked, you might have a point afterall! But i give it to him, he got me fooled, he's good!

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Burgerlomo: 8:54pm On Jan 07, 2018
Next2Bezee:
My brother. Many are whores and only few are loyal. If you visit her social media accounts now, you will probably see captions like 'god lover' or 'sister in christ'.

Just be thankful that God saved you from spending your life with a cheat. Don't let that stop you from seeking a partner, just make sure not to trust any woman 100%, always sleep with one eye open grin

Gbam! You just nailed it cool
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by duduade: 9:01pm On Jan 07, 2018
Lol.. So you wanted to marry the girl who likes to have rough sex Abi...?

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