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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by AntiWailer: 11:55pm On Jan 07, 2018
I hope u dnt foolishly forgive her

You better be strong and dont allow any emotional blackmail.

That girl is a BASTARRD!

She will only get smarter. She will never repent.

Wait a minute. Let us assume she gets pregnant same day. She will give it to u wether na ur own or not

After some years she will still go back to fucking the guy

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2018
wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by biacan(f): 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2018
BluntBoy:


Which story of hers do I need to know again I hate cheats. Even if the OP decides to go on with the wedding, I will hire a truck and drive it straight into the church and destroy the cake. I will make sure no guest leaves there with their complete attires.
Bluntboy can't you give her a second chance embarassed

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by dingbang(m): 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2018
biacan:
Dingbang nor vest I just dey joke
taa... Make I piss for bed If I believe you

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by hanassholesolo: 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2018
Martin0:


Sorry if I may ask?

I doubt you will move on if it was you!

You human's fail to look out on positives and negative instead it alway's one sided!

See if I had done like you advice my ex would have committed suicide!

U ladies are not alway's straight forward I don't know why!

Then good riddance. One more faulty gene removed from the genepool

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2018
greypencils:
This is where the op is wrong. You haven't seen your girl in months and you expect her to keep her thighs together? Like your trousers were zipped up throughout those months of absence? Your own body no be firewood. Her own body no be firewood too. you expect a girl who has had sex a couple of times to stay without it? For months? I will only judge this girl if the Op himself has been faithful to her....WHICH I DOUBT
see your reasoning!!! Why use the hotel room paid by the boyfriend to fvck another man? Asking if the OP has remained faithful or not is so dumb in this matter. The said girl can fvck as she like in the fiancés absence. But not in a disrespectful manner.

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by yungrylex00(m): 11:57pm On Jan 07, 2018
very simple this girl's ain't loyal.. I got a gf I know she's not loyal but whts my business since I get my share of the cake.. Iv made it plain to her tho tht I cnt marry her.. What we guys need is prayer for God to give us a good and loyal girl (which is almost impossible to find) only God cn save us o

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 11:57pm On Jan 07, 2018
biacan:
Bluntboy you don't know her story let's beg the op embarassed
You have come again to this thread with this your hymn 101 of " you don't know her story"

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by berrystunn(m): 11:58pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, nothing is impossible. That ops fiancee takes d cake at stupidity.


Thank you please go and edit... The other write up.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 11:58pm On Jan 07, 2018
bionixs:
are you one of them
One of what?
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by biacan(f): 11:58pm On Jan 07, 2018
dingbang:
taa... Make I piss for bed If I believe you
You see nah one of your problem be this you too dey vest e Don do biko nah play i dey play
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jan 07, 2018
berrystunn:



Thank you please go and edit... The other write up.
Naaaa.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jan 07, 2018
Drlilprinz:
I mean from anambra state
Sure
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by dadabashua1(m): 11:59pm On Jan 07, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
If only there's another alternative... Unless you wanna love ur fellow man. On a more serious note, there are still faithful nice ladies out there.
not denying the fact you pointed out bro... but this species leaves me thinking a times what they really want in life... most time they come online and off line saying alot things about guys and how guys treats them bad... yet some will have a nice guy but still mess up... it's clear to me now,it's not about them been happy or not, the one that will cheat will cheat no matter what... but they made the cheating thing looks like a guy only thing.... bloody sick and unserious things.......with the exception of the good ones(extremely difficult to find)

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by berrystunn(m): 12:00am On Jan 08, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Naaaa.

How old are you ?
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 12:01am On Jan 08, 2018
Why marry mumu? The small boy knacking ya ex will enjoy her more than you ever will...stay single...nothing you want in marriage that you can't get better outside marriage...society don change...don't be a knuckle dragger...EVOLVE!

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by DedeNkem: 12:01am On Jan 08, 2018
wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.


When you mentioned "Anambra" I knew immediately how the story would end. Anambra girls are known cheaters!

Let me make myself very clear, not EVERY Anambra girl is a cheater, but most are. Most of their men and women don't believe in having one sex partner.

If you want an honest girl to marry, don't go to Anambra. Again, I'm not saying you can't find a good wife there, but when the good ones are few, seeking a wife there won't be a good idea because there's 85% chance that you'll fall for the wrong one.

I know someone in Europe who sponsored his Anambra fiancee through school. He planned to marry the girl after her graduation and take her to Europe with him.

When it was time for the girl to graduate from the university (that he fully paid for), she told the guy this, "I'm sorry, I'm in love with another man". Imagine how this guy felt. He was crying while telling us this.

Some men have good reasons to not trust women and the same applies to some women.

Even though you had a bad experience with this particular girl, don't let it influence how you will treat your potential future fiancee. There are still good women out there waiting to meet the right guy. Good luck!

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by BluntBoy(m): 12:02am On Jan 08, 2018
biacan:
Bluntboy can't you give her a second chance embarassed

No, Biacan. Even if the OP gives her a second chance, I will ruin it.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 12:03am On Jan 08, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Sure
hmmm first time I will be seeing someone close on nairaland
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by kense88: 12:05am On Jan 08, 2018
biacan:
You can't do this to her not at this point of time biko nna you know how important wedding is and you can't let this opportunity pass her by listen to her cries biko wisdomguy4u embarassed embarassed embarassed
shocked
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by DataMadam(f): 12:05am On Jan 08, 2018
If this is true then i'm glad that God saved you from a cheat.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 12:06am On Jan 08, 2018
berrystunn:


How old are you ?
What has that hot to do with anything!? Jeez
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by biacan(f): 12:07am On Jan 08, 2018
BluntBoy:


No, Biacan. Even if the OP gives her a second chance, I will ruin it.
Please nah be respectful for once biko
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 12:07am On Jan 08, 2018
Drlilprinz:
hmmm first time I will be seeing someone close on nairaland
The op claims to b from my town. You can reach out to him. smiley
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by berrystunn(m): 12:08am On Jan 08, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
What has that hot to do with anything!? Jeez

Your response... Sounds like your age..
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by YelloweWest: 12:08am On Jan 08, 2018
Nairaland and super story be like 5&6.

Interesting read sharr.

Op this is new year.u seem to have too much time on ur hads

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 12:09am On Jan 08, 2018
A woman will stay with a broke useless abusive guy that makes her orgasm as she wishes but leave the perfect man that can't do same- know fact!. There are a few reasons this may have happened:
You are not hitting it well, she pretends to be satisfied to pleas your ego
She has just got the "cougar" gene... there are a few ladies like that.
I said it before... many of those slay queens forming hard to get and the ones many of these men spend heavily on. Have one rif raff somewhere that has got full access and control to the cake anytime.
You are a wise man as I see you are not ready to waste your time neither are you asking for advices on what to do.
Prov 31 : 3

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Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 12:09am On Jan 08, 2018
dadabashua1:
not denying the fact you pointed out bro... but this species leaves me thinking a times what they really want in life... most time they come online and off line saying alot things about guys and how guys treats them bad... yet some will have a nice guy but still mess up... it's clear to me now,it's not about them been happy or not, the one that will cheat will cheat no matter what... but they made the cheating thing looks like a guy only thing.... bloody sick and unserious things.......with the exception of the good ones(extremely difficult to find)
Ok
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 12:09am On Jan 08, 2018
Chineke!

Come see grade 1 olosho.
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by eruchboy(m): 12:09am On Jan 08, 2018
EgunMogaji:


It might not be his fault though. She could be lying to him as well.
I dont think so,the guy knew of her fiancé but was content being the 2nd side guy
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Stanyvic(m): 12:10am On Jan 08, 2018
Evablizin:
shocked
She is not a wife material.
she's not up to 1 quarter length of a wife material grin
Re: How I Caught My Cheating Fiancee During The Christmas Holiday by Nobody: 12:11am On Jan 08, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The op claims to b from my town. You can reach out to him. smiley
ok, but what's wrong with me reaching out to u

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