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sirBLUNT:
but if you can commit for 10years then why not make it a habit? yea i fear marriage alot too but once am married there's no divorce in my dictionary

don't you know that men would say everything to have their way? Linda ikeji issa role model and marriage aint an achievement, oya look for another girl and pester

Blackhawk03:
And the kids?

mhisbliss:
don't you know that men would say everything to have their way? Linda ikeji issa role model and marriage aint an achievement, oya look for another girl and pester

sirBLUNT:
lol why not just remain single forever instead of even thinking of contract marriage and yes i agree with you marriage is never an achievement...and not everyone is destined to marry sef

mhisbliss:
I know what I want and urging me to do it isn't gonna change anything, marriage or no marriage my goals remains the same

sirBLUNT:
am not urging you dear there is no point doing that...am just been pragmatic

mhisbliss:
doesn't look pragmatic to me but ok

sirBLUNT:
how does it look to you?

mhisbliss:
like you're urging me, I said it earlier

sirBLUNT:
far from it..why will i even do that when i don't even see myself getting married in the nxt 15years..i was just thinking loud about the contract marriage concept and how feasible it can be on the long run

mhisbliss:
I just cringe at the thought of going into marriage like that, contract gives me leverage and confidence, not being pessimistic but sh!t happens

sirBLUNT:
yea shit happens and to be candid i personally think of adopting kid in the future instead of the marriage thing...the fear of the unknown is deep

miracool946:
Staying with one person for the rest of your life looks scary these days and also high rate of divorce also. But just like they do in football and other Union. I think couple should sign contract of 5 or 10years in marriage then after the time expires if they still love each other they can renew the contract and if not they go separate ways. This is lot easier to venture in than the usual marriage of lifetime. My people shey I dey make sense or this just another product of kwale weed.

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Mynd 44

mhisbliss:
you think adopting a kid is better than having one from a baby mama? Atleast a kid from a baby mama is your kid and you can always pay her off if procreation is your sole aim, an adopted child could become something else in future since you don't know its parents

sirBLUNT:
well procreation is not my sole aim actually even though am the only male i just love kids alot i want to have them arround me...baby mama i just thought about the emotional strings and drama the kid asking questions about mummy and all that unlike adopting...but you have a point though about your own blood

mhisbliss:
ya and the drama can't be compared to the aftermath of an adopted kid acting up because of the accumulation of several bad characters from other kids at a foster home and the abscence of a mother

sirBLUNT:
yea but you know it aint easy to get a baby mam except you're some kind of celebrity no lady will like to give birth to you just like that without any emotional attachment thats the problem of the baby mama

mhisbliss:
lol they're girls who would accept that if you pay them, I can't believe you aren't aware of that

sirBLUNT:
i'm aware its just some of them even with the money they want that celebrity tap...let me start looking for my sophia too

mhisbliss:
lol just work on making money everything will fall in place

sirBLUNT:
that money must be made i dont have an option i can NEVER be poor i dont ever believe that i will be poor in life....it's too late to fail amen!

mhisbliss:
lol good to know

sirBLUNT:
dont tell me you're thinking of baby mama oo me and you go fight

mhisbliss:
don't misquote me o, I never implied I wanted to be a baby mama

sirBLUNT:
lol yea i know just looking for your trouble...

you know nairalanders, before they'll go and dig it and post it claiming I was begging to be a baby mama zero chills

mhisbliss:
you know nairalanders, before they'll go and dig it and post it claiming I was begging to be a baby mama zero chills

sirBLUNT:
hahaha you're though its better to keep the record straight does monitoring spirit aint smilling..btw whats your discipline?

mhisbliss:
I think it should be a life contract, in case of divorce, properties and liquid cash should be shared equally, and custody of the kids should be amicably agreed upon by both parties, that way, ladies don't get to be at the loosing side when it happens, its easier for a man to remarry after breakup, most ladies even prefer married men, but its harder for ladies, many guys won't gladly get married to a divorcee especially if she has kids

mhisbliss:
nursing

sirBLUNT:
now i have a clear and vivid picture of the career woman that i thought...i love career and independent women not because of the financial aspect but because i dont like women that gossip and even pple that believe in gossip so wen a woman is a working class she wont have that time to gossip arround with neighbours

office gossip nko

mhisbliss:
office gossip nko